West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder


DOMINATION & ROLE PLAY with Professional Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

  • 30 mins £80 CP session or foot worship ONLY
  • 1 Hour £110
  • 90 Minutes £170
  • 2 Hours £200
  • 3 Hours £300
  • 4 Hours £450
  • 1 hour double domination (with visiting established Mistress Miss Kitty Bliss) from £200
  • 1 hour double domination with TGirl Tiffany Aching £190
  • 1 Hour food splosh sessions £170 inclusive of sweet food/goo items in the bathroom deposit £50 NR.

Any Extra fee’s?

  • Enema £10
  • Golden Shower £20

** I do not profit from other adult providers, we are simply playing and helping each other out in sessions**

My ethos is to keep session rates as affordable treats for you all and to build a great rapport with repeat visits from clients, thus building working relationships and professional friendships.  Great sessions thrive from repeat visits, building trust and getting to know exactly what buttons to press!

Extended Sessions

  • £400 Special 4 hour package of maid/butler for the day or extended sessions to include confinement bondage etc this session includes full professional make-up and basic chores if and waiting upon Me as a maid/butler.  Otherwise confinement bondage or cage time/seclusion for a period of time.  Full interaction over four hours is at my FULL regular rate above (not this special rate) a non refundable £150 deposit to secure the session.
  • Overnight caging £400 to include 2 hours play on arrival, refreshments, overnight caging, depart by 9am. Available to existing clients with a non refundable £150 deposit to secure the session.
  • £680 Overnight package starts at either 6pm/7pm (time to be agreed) to include a two hour session, light meal, some down time together chatting/social only, then retire at 11pm (you sleep in the playroom on the padded suspension bondage bed)  Up at 7:30/8am  a refreshing morning shower, light breakfast/tea/coffee and then a 2  hour session, time to unwind with a coffee and finishing by midday (time pre agreed) ONLY available to known existing clients.  Non refundable deposit of £250 payable in advance.


Phone & Skype Sessions

ALL phone sessions and Skype cam sessions must be arranged 24 hours in advance minimum with cleared cash payment to my Barclays account.

  • £15 for ten minutes telephone domination
  • £40 for 10 mins Skype webcam
  • £60 for 20 mins Skype webcam
  • £80 for 30 min Skype webcam

Webcam sessions are via Skype only, you must be on time for your session and cam to cam only.  If your internet breaks down or if there are any disruptions your end a refund/reschedule will NOT be given.  Any internet outage my end then a reschedule of time owing will be offered.  Ensure you have the latest updates for Skype and fast internet connection.

Social Events

  • Attendance to fetish events/munches  POA, only available to those I have sessioned with.
  • Dinner social dates available to those who have just sessioned at £60 per hour straight after a TWO hour session.  Otherwise POA basis.

Gatwick Dungeon

On occasions I session in a larger play space, sessions at the Gatwick Dungeon start from £160 for one hour, any other duration POA basis. 48 hours notice is required to book this location and pay a 50% non returnable deposit upfront.

Alternate Massage

60 minute  £110

Contact Details

Mobile: 07510 698761
Email: helen-ryder@hotmail.com


My availability is :

Monday to Thursday 10am to 9:30pm

Friday 10am to 7pm

Saturday 11am to 2pm book in advance

Sunday is my day off

Same day appointments are only available to existing clientele or those who have an open holding deposit already paid.  I do of course schedule occasional days off, usually some weekends so it’s best to book ahead where possible.


Cash payment into a bank (any branch of Barclays) directly into my account or an online bank transfer for ALL first time appointments or future bookings in excess of 1.5hrs.  £30 per each FULL hour booked, add half the deposit rate for extra half hours.  Details given once we have set up a session.  **I do not use ANY other methods for the deposit**

Booking Procedures blog: click here


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Or treat me to any of the suggestions below.

Suitable Gifts:

Monetary Tip in a nice handwritten note or card.

Eau de Perfum: Chanel Gabrielle http://www.boots.com/chanel-gabrielle-chanel-eau-de-parfum-spray-50ml-10235212

Tom Ford Velvet Orchid http://www.boots.com/tom-ford-velvet-orchid-eau-de-parfum-spray-30ml-10223366

or http://www.allbeauty.com/gb/en/1180551-tom-ford-velvet-orchid-lumiere-eau-de-parfum-spray-50ml

Mugler Angel http://www.boots.com/mugler-angel-eau-de-parfum-refillable-spray-50ml-10014169


What Katie Did seamed stockings size M/L

Lush bath bombs (no other brand) or a Lush gift voucher

Gin: Bombay Sapphire, Bulldog, Brighton Gin, Silent Pool, Gin Mare, Warner Edwards Rhubarb, Jinzu, Bloom or Bathtub.


Anything from my Amazon wishlist: Mistress Gifts

Unsuitable Gifts: Alcohol of your own choice (note above only or from my wishlist) chocolates or any other food items, flowers or indoor plants.