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19Sep 2018

Today myself and Miss Joanna Armstrong had a new sissy attend for maid training to check out her skills in shoe worship, bottom worship, serving and to see if she had the qualities of being a ladies maid.

Well the little strumpet known as maid Lucy managed to ladder my Wolford stockings! I was very cross so over my lap she went for a good firm spanking. As she wiggled and wriggled she got all flustered and her clitty got very swollen in her satin panties that I had to carry out an inspection.

Maid Lucy couldn’t possibly continue her maids work with such an over excitable clitty, time to have some relief. Down on the floor, she was sat on and the wand came out to tease her.  Pulling her panties to one side, lubing her up and masturbating over a lovely china saucer until she spurted out lots of sticky gooey sissy cream and then she had to lick it all up!

Solo/double domme and sissy training in Burgess Hill can sometimes be rather cheeky and naughty!

We will next be carrying out maid training along with Mistress Firefly at The Sissy Retreat in North Yorkshire on Thursday 11th October.  A whole days event of make-overs, dressing up, afternoon tea and sissy fun.  Visit the website for more information http://sissyretreat.co.uk/

13Sep 2018

Hello subs/slaves/kinksters

Every month over 2 days I will be holding one hour specials at £100

The type of play will be:

Spanking & all impact play

Caning

Pegging

Foot Worship

Massage with vibration wand as a finale

Maid duties to clean my home, some spankings.

What isn’t included in the above is everything else on My website, all other sessions with electrics such as EStim/Violet Wand, confinement,  leather straight jacket or sleep sack, Venus 2000, medical play etc.  Sessions which include more complex activities, sterilisation of equipment and wear and tear on very expensive items are at the usual rate of £130 an hour.

Dates for your diary:

25th/26th September

30th/31st October

20th/21st November

18th December just one date.

2019 dates will be released in December.

See you soon my kinky play things

Mistress Helen xx

 

31Aug 2018

My super friend Miss Joanna Armstrong aka “Big Sis” will be back in Sussex from 17th to 22nd September, she already has some photo shoots lined up with some professional Mistress’s and we have decided to collaborate again and team up for double domination Femdom fun!

Sessions start from one hour at £200 and longer play times may be possible, send over your enquiry to My email helen-ryder@hotmail.com with an outline of the type of session that interests you with dates/times you can commit.  We can then arrange a brief chat on the phone to follow up and arrange the finer details.

Just some of what’s available:

Sissy maid training

Domestic Discipline: Spanking, Caning, Tawse, Slipper etc

Feminisation and make overs

Role Plays and more …………………………………….

I am also available for solo sessions during the above dates for those who are not quite ready for seeing two strict ladies!

 

27Aug 2018

Thank you to some of My special bitches, subs/sluts and playthings for remembering Moi Mistress Helen Ryder on My Birthday 24th August.  Presents are still very welcome for those who wish to bring something to session or post via My gift list.

On the 22nd August I had my super slavva rodda CP fave slave take Me out into Arundel for a day out, we had a superb lunch at The Parsons Table. Then a walk around to visit all the antique shops, then back to base for birthday beatings (Me giving of course)

My personal bitch was here for the weekend waiting upon Me (after being picked up from the train station Friday) We had some yummy food in to go with the Rose Champagne and  a fantastic day out in London on Saturday. We visited The Tate Modern and although interesting we did laugh at some of the “ART” A pile of bricks that reminded Me of the stepping stones I am giving to a friend in My back garden! After that we travelled up to see what deviant things we could buy in Regulation.  I have some new evil nipple clamps and a Stinger!

***********Book a session soon to experience both********************

We went on to The National Gallery for some more culture and the nipple clamps and stinger set off the archway metal detector alarm, which I merrily waved at the security staff who laughed and said “Go on through you are so honest!   Wanting to quench My thirst a nice G&T in a nice pub in Covent Garden and then on to a superb French Restaurant for a nice glass of Champagne, followed by French Tapas all very delicious and a superb wine to go with them.

Back to Burgess Hill for a nice relaxing evening, the next day a visit to the gym to burn off the naughty treats and then home to play 😉 I treated My personal bitch to a hot bamboo massage before zipping My bitch into the leather sleep sack with electric butt plug inserted and making good use of all the naughty exposed bits!  You have My permission to fill in the blanks with your minds!!

I have sessions available from now right up to 4th September and then I am at the BDSM Villa in Malaga for a 2 day private party, I have TWO exclusive play times available on 6th and 7th September at the well equipped Villa.  Book your fun in the sun ASAP!  You will need to arrange this by email and the follow up with a phone call before I fly out.  You have until 3rd September the latest to book for this.

Sessions are then available back in Burgess Hill from Sunday 9th September.

I have some dates available in Leeds in October as well as double domme with the gorgeous Miss Kitty Bliss in Burgess Hill in October, keep your eyes peeled for further future blogs.

See you soon

Mistress Helen Ryder

Play Time

French Tapas

The Tate Modern

My art in back garden!

The National Gallery

Painting In NG

04Aug 2018

First of all if you haven’t heard already I am so very sorry to be the bearer of very sad news!

I received some shocking news yesterday from my dear friend Miss Kitty Bliss who had seen a tweet go out from a mutual friend and very dear friend of Mistress Dometria’s the lovely Domina V.  https://twitter.com/Dominatrix_V  I couldn’t believe it as only the day before she was out enjoying life and shopping having fun and with so much to look forward to.  So many plans in motion and it’s just horrible news!  https://twitter.com/BrightonDungeon

I have had my friend Joanna Armstrong staying over the last week, popping off to do photo shoots and some double domme work.  Both moi and Miss Kitty Bliss had new photos taken.  It was nice to have the company last night and we raised a glass to Mistress Dometria, seeing all the messages on Twitter and mutual friends getting in touch, there wasn’t a dry eye in the house.

Mistress Dometria is a true legend and not just as a Dominatrix, as others have mentioned she was very much part of the tattoo industry as well as body building.  She touched many hearts and there will be a massive gap in the various industries she was very much part of and so many peoples lives without her.  A much loved larger than life character who will be very greatly missed.

I feel for her family, close friends, devotees and all that knew her, sending much love and strength to you all.

RIP dearest lady and please smile down on all our silly antics, you won’t ever be forgotten.

14Jul 2018

First of all it’s NOT forced bi at all is it, because you want to do it! 🙂 In your head you do, you crave the thought of being made to suck cock by a Mistress, because it then becomes guilt free and that’s perfectly ok.

In MY ten years experience of “Professional Domination”  I’ve not had one genuine booking follow through from a new client asking for forced bi, despite having someone I could work with both in male mode or trans.  I’ve gone to the effort of booking in, contacting My friend and then for the person to never commit or pay the deposit for My friends long distance travel.

However My regular clients that do come along and quite often they have been new to the world of BDSM, they have started off with some light bondage, tie and tease or alternate massage and then many visits down the line they have booked, turned up and tried out a double domination booking with My fantastic friend Tiffany Aching a lovely TGirl or another male friend.

I’ve decided that FB is only ever going to be available for those who have come for sessions here with ME.  The loyal cock hungry whores will be the ones that can come for “forced bi” (coughs)

Anyone ringing up and asking for FB will be told to book Me solo first.  Come and prove yourself!

My gorgeous friend Tiffany is available for the genuine slaves/kinksters whom I’ve had the pleasure of a session with.

10Jul 2018

Double Domination with Miss Kitty Bliss on Tuesday 31st July and Weds 1st August in Burgess Hill.

We have a lot of fun teaming up and playing with our boi toys, we take a limited number of appointments and we have a couple of spaces left, book now to secure your playtime and come serve two formidable feisty Alpha females!