31Aug 2018

My super friend Miss Joanna Armstrong aka “Big Sis” will be back in Sussex from 17th to 22nd September, she already has some photo shoots lined up with some professional Mistress’s and we have decided to collaborate again and team up for double domination Femdom fun!

Sessions start from one hour at £200 and longer play times may be possible, send over your enquiry to My email helen-ryder@hotmail.com with an outline of the type of session that interests you with dates/times you can commit.  We can then arrange a brief chat on the phone to follow up and arrange the finer details.

Just some of what’s available:

Sissy maid training

Domestic Discipline: Spanking, Caning, Tawse, Slipper etc

Feminisation and make overs

Role Plays and more …………………………………….

I am also available for solo sessions during the above dates for those who are not quite ready for seeing two strict ladies!


27Aug 2018

Thank you to some of My special bitches, subs/sluts and playthings for remembering Moi Mistress Helen Ryder on My Birthday 24th August.  Presents are still very welcome for those who wish to bring something to session or post via My gift list.

On the 22nd August I had my super slavva rodda CP fave slave take Me out into Arundel for a day out, we had a superb lunch at The Parsons Table. Then a walk around to visit all the antique shops, then back to base for birthday beatings (Me giving of course)

My personal bitch was here for the weekend waiting upon Me (after being picked up from the train station Friday) We had some yummy food in to go with the Rose Champagne and  a fantastic day out in London on Saturday. We visited The Tate Modern and although interesting we did laugh at some of the “ART” A pile of bricks that reminded Me of the stepping stones I am giving to a friend in My back garden! After that we travelled up to see what deviant things we could buy in Regulation.  I have some new evil nipple clamps and a Stinger!

***********Book a session soon to experience both********************

We went on to The National Gallery for some more culture and the nipple clamps and stinger set off the archway metal detector alarm, which I merrily waved at the security staff who laughed and said “Go on through you are so honest!   Wanting to quench My thirst a nice G&T in a nice pub in Covent Garden and then on to a superb French Restaurant for a nice glass of Champagne, followed by French Tapas all very delicious and a superb wine to go with them.

Back to Burgess Hill for a nice relaxing evening, the next day a visit to the gym to burn off the naughty treats and then home to play 😉 I treated My personal bitch to a hot bamboo massage before zipping My bitch into the leather sleep sack with electric butt plug inserted and making good use of all the naughty exposed bits!  You have My permission to fill in the blanks with your minds!!

I have sessions available from now right up to 4th September and then I am at the BDSM Villa in Malaga for a 2 day private party, I have TWO exclusive play times available on 6th and 7th September at the well equipped Villa.  Book your fun in the sun ASAP!  You will need to arrange this by email and the follow up with a phone call before I fly out.  You have until 3rd September the latest to book for this.

Sessions are then available back in Burgess Hill from Sunday 9th September.

I have some dates available in Leeds in October as well as double domme with the gorgeous Miss Kitty Bliss in Burgess Hill in October, keep your eyes peeled for further future blogs.

See you soon

Mistress Helen Ryder

Play Time

French Tapas

The Tate Modern

My art in back garden!

The National Gallery

Painting In NG

04Aug 2018

First of all if you haven’t heard already I am so very sorry to be the bearer of very sad news!

I received some shocking news yesterday from my dear friend Miss Kitty Bliss who had seen a tweet go out from a mutual friend and very dear friend of Mistress Dometria’s the lovely Domina V.  https://twitter.com/Dominatrix_V  I couldn’t believe it as only the day before she was out enjoying life and shopping having fun and with so much to look forward to.  So many plans in motion and it’s just horrible news!  https://twitter.com/BrightonDungeon

I have had my friend Joanna Armstrong staying over the last week, popping off to do photo shoots and some double domme work.  Both moi and Miss Kitty Bliss had new photos taken.  It was nice to have the company last night and we raised a glass to Mistress Dometria, seeing all the messages on Twitter and mutual friends getting in touch, there wasn’t a dry eye in the house.

Mistress Dometria is a true legend and not just as a Dominatrix, as others have mentioned she was very much part of the tattoo industry as well as body building.  She touched many hearts and there will be a massive gap in the various industries she was very much part of and so many peoples lives without her.  A much loved larger than life character who will be very greatly missed.

I feel for her family, close friends, devotees and all that knew her, sending much love and strength to you all.

RIP dearest lady and please smile down on all our silly antics, you won’t ever be forgotten.

14Jul 2018

First of all it’s NOT forced bi at all is it, because you want to do it! 🙂 In your head you do, you crave the thought of being made to suck cock by a Mistress, because it then becomes guilt free and that’s perfectly ok.

In MY ten years experience of “Professional Domination”  I’ve not had one genuine booking follow through from a new client asking for forced bi, despite having someone I could work with both in male mode or trans.  I’ve gone to the effort of booking in, contacting My friend and then for the person to never commit or pay the deposit for My friends long distance travel.

However My regular clients that do come along and quite often they have been new to the world of BDSM, they have started off with some light bondage, tie and tease or alternate massage and then many visits down the line they have booked, turned up and tried out a double domination booking with My fantastic friend Tiffany Aching a lovely TGirl or another male friend.

I’ve decided that FB is only ever going to be available for those who have come for sessions here with ME.  The loyal cock hungry whores will be the ones that can come for “forced bi” (coughs)

Anyone ringing up and asking for FB will be told to book Me solo first.  Come and prove yourself!

My gorgeous friend Tiffany is available for the genuine slaves/kinksters whom I’ve had the pleasure of a session with.

10Jul 2018

Double Domination with Miss Kitty Bliss on Tuesday 31st July and Weds 1st August in Burgess Hill.

We have a lot of fun teaming up and playing with our boi toys, we take a limited number of appointments and we have a couple of spaces left, book now to secure your playtime and come serve two formidable feisty Alpha females!


20Jun 2018


I have a couple of rescue cats that I love dearly and one has just had vaccinations today and a health check and I’ve been informed that dental treatment is required under a general for a full scale/polish and maybe an extraction or two (poor puss)

Monetary donations for treatment would be greatly appreciated, either to Me or direct to My vets (email for info)

The other who just had a 12th birthday also had a 6 month health check up and has gone from 7kg in Dec, 6.3kg March and now 5.3kg so puss needs full blood screening to check for thyroid, heart disease etc in case puss has to go on meds.  It’s great that she has lost weight as she was overweight when I homed her but it’s a lot for a cat to lose in small time frame!  The insurance plan does not cover routine type treatments such as this.

UPDATE: I’ve just popped in to the vets to settle my small bill for today and both sets of treatment above will come to just under £700.  I’m booking the boy in for dental work for next month in order to get him on a course of Zylkene capsules first.  Please give generously.

Further Update: One is booked in for full blood tests 28th June, and other puss has operation booked for 23rd July (no sessions available that day)  Plenty of time to raise funds for July bill of approx £486.23 it could be more when the vet is able to fully examine his mouth but this is the goal I aim to raise.

Bank donations as per account details on My website, please ensure you put cat donation as a reference.  A phone call a day after you have done so or an email so that I can personally say thank you.

Thank you so much from Mistress Helen and the kitties XxX

18Jun 2018

Hello all slaves/subs/Kinsters/Sissy’s and all

My lovely mystery holiday treat was superb and it was lovely being spoilt and treated like a Queen whilst away.  Beautiful scenery, some super adventures, lovely company and delicious food/drink.

I’m back at My base fighting fit and starting to get busy in sessions later this week and next.  I do have space so if you have been thinking of booking, get in touch!  Many of you may be aware that I have a fantastic new bondage chair to tie you to, so much teasing and torment and this was a wonderful gift from Madame C that one of her dear slaves dropped off a few days before I went away.

See you soon My dear play things……

Mistress Helen Xx

01Jun 2018

I am away between 6th to 16th June inclusive

Book now for sessions available before I go and right up to/on 5th June

and then from Monday 18th June for BDSM sessions, book your play time ASAP I will periodically check My emails whilst away BUT I am leaving the work phone back in the UK.

From domestic discipline sessions for all levels of CP to medical play and everything in between that I have listed on My website!

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19May 2018

I’m making the most of a weekend visit to Leeds next bank holiday and holding double domination sessions with Mistress Firefly in her private well equipped playroom in Leeds on Sunday 27th during the day.

Contact Mistress Firefly to book, play times are limited so ensure you book now!

One hour double domme is £200 for the pleasure of TWO feisty blonde Mistress’s lucky you!