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06Oct 2023

Domestic Disciplinarian and More

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Have you been thinking of booking for a session and don’t quite know what style of play you might be into?

I often receive emails from new people who have no idea what they wish to experience, where as others have a deep seated fetish going back years.  It’s often the mature gents who are into domestic discipline from their school days of receiving the cane or slipper.  Thankfully the new generation are also very curious about this, so it’s not dying out!

I have a diverse range of fetish interests so whilst I do not cater to every fetish, there is a great scope of range for those who wish to explore several kinks.

One kink that I do not get to live out as often as I would like is “Tickle Torture” Just recently I received some calls from a gent in the US who is very into it, he has the most amazing profile on Fetlife dedicated to it and has shared lots of the images with me where I narrate the pics on our NF chats.  It’s absolutely hilarious and I would dearly love to have him mummified and just his soles exposed to tickle!

I had a visit from my sissy maid recently and decided that as well as the usual discipline and body that they could assist in some tickle clips to go onto my Adult Work profile.  We also did a short “maid gets her revenge on Mistress” mini clip, where maid anna started off with light feather pampering on my feet, then turned into tickling.  Oh how I shrieked!  I did cane her after as punishment 🙂 we also took some up to date pics, which I will include just a couple here, enjoy 😉

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen

 

29Sep 2023

October is Locktober for some!

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Those who wish to be kept under strict lock and key should do so asap for #Locktober

Supply your own chastity, send £250 tribute for the month Bank info on My website Non refundable Then meet to lock up or post a key after payment and arranging via My email: helen-ryder@hotmail.com

You will receive some WhatsApp comms to tease/torment or spur you on throughout the month!  Maybe even a couple of video calls at a mutually arranged time.

For those not wishing to participate in Locktober that prefer a playtime with release included (if desired and appropriate) then book your October session.

I am logged in every day on #Phonechats in between/around any real time sessions.  I am usually on chat in the evenings.  This is perfect for those who want a top up of interaction outside of playtimes, to stay in touch with Mistress or want to build a rapport before perhaps booking in a session.  Some just need a release on the phone and I am in the top 6% on #Dommeline

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I also have profiles for chat on Adult Work and NiteFlirt

 

On Adult Work there is plenty of more racy images and short clips to view, whilst I’m fast asleep please ensure I wake up to sales and tributes.  You can also send via Wishtender  whether it’s a smaller gift of coffee/cake or a big generous tip.  It’s all appreciated and for some of you, it’s better off in my account to spend then have you waste it on beer etc…..

What a fantastic way to start the day seeing all the lovely tributes and sales, put a beaming smile upon my face!

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen XX

11Sep 2023

Consent and Safe Words

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Please be aware that I will NOT play with anyone who asks for me to play without a safe word in place!  I work on body language in sessions so I can 99.9% tell when I am playing with someone that I’m within their safe area of play.  BDSM play is 110% about consent on both sides, but especially the submissive.

 

LEGAL NOTE: ALL play is with your FULL consent given, safe words/0r safe action in place & they MUST be used if you want an activity or session to completely stop.  I will then stop the session, check if you wish to continue in ANY aspect.  ANY play that took place before you used a safe word or action such as tapping/ringing a tiny bell (pre agreed upon) was legal with your full consent, not coerced in any way!

 

The sub can withdraw consent at any time in a session, just as in vanilla life with sexual interaction.  If someone express’s the top to stop an activity then it stops.  I’ve heard of quite a few people recently who have had an ex state that they have been coerced in order to cause trouble.

I have never partaken in blackmail style play, where you give access to various accounts etc.  I am very clear on this on my do/don’ts on this website. I try my best to keep my business within the law.

I do not take or post extreme images My X feed (previously known as Twitter) or with filming or other places on the web.

I am well aware that other dommes have far more extreme images out there and I sincerely hope that they do not fall foul of the law.

Phone related: When calling me on the phone lines, please ensure you have read the phone guidance and rules as some play topics or discussions are against the rules!  I am not allowed to encourage you to use any form of intox over the phone, if you wish to use aromas then that is purely on you.  Regarding silent calls, you have to express in the first few seconds of connection your fetish/silent call request and preferably say bye when you hang up.   This is so you can’t say you pocket dialled!

It is also illegal for me to actually blackmail you on the phone, do not ask!  I can weave a fantasy chat along the lines of  “imagine if I were to take pictures of you dressed like a sissy slut & post them”  Not the actual doing of it.

The brain is the biggest sexual organ, which effects the little organ.  Lets engage our brains in a safe sane and consenting manner, without breaking laws!

Over and out for now

Mistress Helen

14Aug 2023

Birthday Ideas

Availability, News

Wishtender        https://www.wishtender.com/helenryder

Good day everyone

My birthday is 24th August, I’m popping down some ideas for those who would like to send a gift.

Bank transfer or cash in person to go towards some further ink to finish colouring my arm, see above Wishtender link (another way to send funds so I can purchase)

All Saints clothing vouchers

Amazon gift codes

I am working on my birthday so any gent who books a playtime and then wishes to whisk me out for a birthday lunch or an evening meal is most welcome to treat me and it will not incur an extra social fee on this occasion!

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen

Phone Chats available every day on Dommeline, Adult Work and Nite Flirt for all manner of kinks:

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08Aug 2023

Same day appointments available with some notice

Appointments, Availability, News

On occasions I can take a same day appointment and will require a minimum 90 mins notice from the point of calling/email and the deposit being paid within 5 mins of contact/agreement.

My preference is a non refundable bank transfer deposit or an Amazon GC if agreed, let me know when you contact me which one.

If you have a live Adult Work profile with immaculate good feedback from current working ladies then contact me via AW so I can view you and may accept a booking form.

I know many of you get the urge and have limited availability to come out to play.

I will be dressed in an outfit suitable for the playtime, no specific complex outfit requests thank you.

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen

If you have lots of questions then please ONLY call Me via any of the following platforms, please read/accept call rates first:

 

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01Aug 2023

Double Domme Date With Miss Kitty Bliss 6th September 2023

Appointments, Double Domme, Events, Uncategorized

Taking Bookings now for this Double Domme playdate, book/deposit to have your playtime firmly in your grasp and in Our diaries!

One hour from £250

To book

helen-ryder@hotmail.com

Miss Kitty Bliss (@Miss_KittyBliss) / X (twitter.com)

Any questions or discussion then please call Mistress Helen via her Dommeline when showing available, otherwise just send the deposit first or a call cover fee of £20 for discussion.

Call rates are £2 a min & connection fee on Dommeline:

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Or Nite Flirt, call rates apply
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West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder (mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk)

Please do not use the Loyal Fans messaging platform to discuss real time meets as it is against the T.O.S on there.

For daily updates, little snippets of my Femdom life it is free to follow and my lingerie pics and other sauce you need to subscribe

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Keep it kinky

Mistress Helen XX

 

20Jul 2023

My Loyal Fans Update & Other News

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Hi peeps

What a great couple of weeks it has been creating and uploading new content onto My Loyal Fans page https://www.loyalfans.com/misshelenryder

Some Femdom and some raunchy saucy stuff to cater to many tastes, most importantly I’m having lots of fun making it!  So far theres some Spanking/Impact play, foot worship etc amongst the sauce 😉

Yes it’s a different avenue to My website and that’s perfectly ok, no one is forcing you to head over there, unless you are booking Me for domination and I’m telling you to do it mwhahaha 🙂  There will be some saying, “A Mistress shouldn’t be wearing/doing ABC” A Mistress, especially this Mistress does as she damn well pleases so zip it!

Being self employed often involves wearing several hats and Loyal Fans is My saucy spicy hat

Please bear in mind my income is based at 80% over there, which is great compared to other platforms, but if you want a particular type of lingerie and wish to send tips for it then make sure you over cover the amount so I receive enough tribute to cover the item you wish Me to create content in, thank you.

I’ve mentioned it previously but there will be less pics appearing on Twitter or within My blogs here or My website, having given away many images over the years for free and receiving little in tipping etc it makes sense to make revenue from it all and actually make a better living for Myself!

 

You can text chat with me via Loyal Fans or Finmessage

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https://www.finmessage.com/?ref=MPLQUB Affiliate link for ladies to sign up

One free image from My very recent Lingerie set below (taken 19th July 2023)  others are split between Loyal Fans and Adult Work.

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen xx

 

 

03Jul 2023

Loyal Fans

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I have an exciting announcement!!!

I have created a Loyal Fans account and you can now subscribe for photo shoots, clips, see snippets from my daily life etc, which is far more saucy than you get to see in sessions!

Miss Helen Ryder’s Official Social Fan Page | LoyalFans

You will get to see exclusive photo sets not uploaded to My website and be able to support Me in My online venture by liking, following, make positive comments, subscribing and tipping.

Tipping shows greatly the appreciation for My work and efforts and helps to fund new exciting latex outfits and sexy lingerie from high end brands such as Honey Birdette or Agent Provocateur etc   Thank you!

Head on over to My Loyal Fans and subscribe

 

Mwahhhs

Mistress Helen xXx

20Jun 2023

12th July Double Domme with Miss Kitty Bliss

Events, News

Blog updated: Miss Helen Ryder’s Official Social Fan Page | LoyalFanshttps://www.loyalfans.com/misshelenryder

Double Domme 12th July with Miss Kitty Bliss, set at a special lower rate for this occasion, so don’t miss out and snap it up whilst you can!

If you pay your non refundable deposit and can not attend closer to the date then the 50% paid will go towards a new date (within three months) solo or DD but at the new DD rate on Our next event or towards my usual solo rate not this DD special.  Our next event for a full DD day will be £260 for one hour!

Less than 24hrs notice to cancel you will forfeit your deposit and the full balance will be required, thank you.

Sessions in Burgess Hill

Email Me helen-ryder@hotmail,com to apply

One hour £210

90 mins £350

Two hours £420

30May 2023

Festival Break June 2023

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Blog updated

Miss Helen Ryder’s Official Social Fan Page | LoyalFans

 

Hi kinksters and all

Just to update you that I’m away from 7th June to 12th Inclusive at a music festival and due to the high volume of people there, the internet will probably be very hit no miss!  I will not be able to reply to emails during that time frame so please be patient.  I also won’t be able to do #PhoneChats during the time away due to lack of internet logging in, noise levels and not encroaching pervy chats onto the general public!

I will check emails from 8pm on 12th June, those who send non refundable deposits with deposit within subject heading will get priority!

I’ve been having lots of great fun with my regular players and I do see new people too.  When you email me and I’ve replied with booking/deposit information, please ensure you follow them and then you can be booked in at the earliest opportunity to come and play.

All my latest pictures/information is always updated on My Twitter on a regular basis, as well as Adult Work.

I’m popping up several new pics taken this past week, enjoy 😉  When I return from the festival I will be joining Loyal Fans and ALL of my saucy content will be only available behind a paywall!  Sign up when I go live for more explicit content and other surprises.

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen Ryder of West Sussex

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