West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder


How did I get into this? I am an experienced Mistress from simply being a pure Lifestyle hobbyist for many years before embarking on offering professional sessions.  I started my training alongside Mistress Lubyanka as her assistant (using the name Serenity) and worked with several other Professional Mistress before taking flight solo.

I am friendly and approachable but do not wrongly assume this makes me any less “Dominant” ALL scenes are “Safe Sane and Consensual” and also “Risk Aware Consensual Kink” It is your responsibility to make me fully aware of any possible contraindications to a session with allergies, phobias and any health conditions that I can adjust the session or refuse certain aspects if harmful to you.  All sessions are bespoke to your particular interests.

I enjoy a vast range of activities from sensual tie and tease, pegging, EStim, many gadgets for edging, sissy make overs, spanking & hard CP I’m quite the domestic disciplinarian!

*** There is a list of activities I do NOT provide at the bottom of this page.  Ensure you read them!***

Booking Procedures blog:   click here   Please read these before you call.

Activities I enjoy available for sessions:

  • Adult Baby: Intro level: Disposable diaper, plastic pants and bottle feeding, wet nappy change only. For FULL AB services visit a Mistress specialising in this field.
  • Anal Training : Stretching, Strapon, Fisting – this happens to be my favourite hobby, cater to the newbie and the experienced
  • Aunty nephew role play or other family RP, aunty catches you in her underwear drawer or looking at naughty magazines
  • Ball busting: not extreme play
  • Bastinado
  • Bottom Worship: Clothed – I have a firm peachy bottom for you to kiss over my latex or hosiery
  • Bondage: Ropes – Leather Straps, Cling Film/Pallet Wrap
  • Cash Point meets, £50 non return deposit to meet you in Burgess Hill or Haywards Heath, min withdrawal £100 from machine.
  • Castration & Circumcision “fantasy” roleplay, not actual harm or removal!
  • Couples: I will see NEW couples away from my domestic premises (lady MUST get in touch NOT the man and by phone only) £300 for 1.5 hour booking, £350 for two hours, only at a dungeon close to Gatwick.  If we have met before session/social then
  • CP: Corporal Punishment , Caning, Spanking, Flogging, Spanking Bench. A good old fashioned over the knee OTK your very own Sussex based Disciplinarian.
  • CBT: Cock and Ball play, Teasing, Torture, Wax, Electrics, Weights, Sounds, Pump, Bondage, Clamps, Crushed with hands and fingernails digging in
  • Chastity : You provide your own device for key holding at £60 per month basis, further interaction then POA
  • Confinement: Pallet wrapping on the suspension bench or in the cage
  • Cross Dressing: Sissy’s – tv’s – Tarts – Maids
  • Depilation: Removal of pubes and/or body hair by shaving, chemical (veet if not allergic) or plucking, nothing like a nice smooth puckered hole for my Mistress cock to slide into
  • Domestic servitude: Come for maid/butler training and wait upon Me
  • Double Domination: This will be advertised on my blog page so keep an eye on it
  • Electro Stimulation:  E-stim Plus an array of accessories for internal & external, subject to particular metal implants in your body
  • Enema: Available in sessions from one hour, small surcharge £10 added to cover disposable sterile one use kits
  • Face sitting: In my smother box or on the suspension bench and I will be wearing underwear
  • Face Slapping/Spitting
  • FinDom: Financial Domination, make regular monthly tributes to support my lifestyle, gift me generously
  • Fisting
  • Foot and Shoe/Boot Worship My naked or nylon encased feet or shiny shoes or boots to polish with your tongue.  My feet are a UK size 7, in very high heels I take an 8
  • Hair cut humiliation, hair shaving no 1 or 2, pudding bowl cut.  I’m NOT a qualified hairdresser so at your peril.
  • Humiliation, from pudding bowl haircuts to panty wearing the world is your oyster with your Sussex Humiliatrix
  • Leather body bag for total body bondage encasement
  • Massage: I am fully trained in the art of various forms of massage, using aromatherapy or unscented massage wax with my soothing hands and hot bamboo.  Showering is available both before and after.
  • Medical Play: Urethral sounds, surgical staples, needles, injectable sterile saline, bed bath, shaving
  • Mouth Soaping: Been swearing & using dirty words then it’s time to soap that filthy mouth out by your wicked step mother role-play or nanny/aunty/teacher etc
  • Nipple Torture : Cat Claws (metal)  Clover Clamps, Wax, Suction, Fingers & Nails, Deep Heat, Freeze Gel, Ice, Needles, Bamboo Sticks & Cupping
  • Nettles: When they are in season and available
  • Orgasm control: Denial, Post Orgasm Torture, Edging, Happy Ending or Ruined Orgasm
  • Poppers (bring your own) under controlled conditions with your health permitting! NO Blue lips!
  • Rev 1000 Rotating Male Masturbator
  • Role Play: Strict bitch boss and you’re due an appraisal, will you do anything to keep your job? Caught stealing panties (PC Ryder will arrest you) and many others
  • Sissy Play/Training – Satin – Frilly
  • Smothering:  Using my body weight to pin you down!
  • Spanking: On the bench or over my knee, enjoy wriggling and squirming over my lap whilst I pin you down with one leg firmly over yours and give your bottom the full attention it deserves.  Or over the bench, there are strong sturdy leather straps to keep you in place as well as plenty of extra rope and ties for those who enjoy full restraint
  • Spit Roasting: Filled both ends, available on double dommes days
  • Sploshing session on you in the bathroom, SWEET food massage a wonderful gooey time (extra on tribute,see page)
  • Strap-On Worship: On your knees and suck my Mistress cock
  • Straight Jacket: Strapped in so tight and utterly helpless, there is NO escape until I release you
  • Tease & Denial & Post Orgasm Torment
  • Tenga egg £6.00 for your own personal Tenga egg masturbation device
  • Tickle Torture: Tormented by my finger nails, cat claws, bumble bee glove, feathers and anything else that I can tickle you with
  • Trampling: Walking all over you and crushing you under my weight
  • Transexual Doubles with my friend Tiffany Aching (advertised on my blog page)
  • TV makeover Wigs, Full Make-up, a selection of wigs and accessories and full make-up with a selection of underwear and some clothing, you may bring your own clean clothing to sessions.  semi pro Photos taken on request with my Nikon DC3200
  • Verbal Domination
  • Venus 2000 Milking machine (the gold standard from USA) Between 8 to 300 strokes per minute will keep you right on the edge until I’m ready to release you!
  • Violet Wand: Electro sensation play with my beautiful Fluvita fully reconditioned vintage medical device, subject to any metal implants in your body and depending on what they are
  • Water Sports: There is an extra charge of £20 on top of usual fee
  • Wax Play:  A variety of plain wax or coloured as well as soya candles to massage in

 

Activities I do NOT offer:

  • Blackmail, this simply does not interest me in the slightest
  • Drugs, do not take illegal substances or drink vast amounts of alcohol prior to your visit
  • Nitrox or any gases
  • Oral/Rimming. Nude Face sitting
  • Sex/Escorting, kissing, intimate body worship
  • No naked sessions, I WILL be dressed in an outfit of My choice
  • Cuddling sessions
  • Scat, vomit or Flatulence fetish
  • NO Sweaty feet,dirty bottom, panties worn for several days.  I’m a clean sweet smelling gorgeous Lady not a Tramp!
  • Balloon Popping
  • I do NOT provide any sub services as I do NOT switch
  • Smoking fetish, I am a non-smoker and enjoy a smoke free zone, this means you can NOT smoke at all in your time here
  • Crushing insects, small mammals, fish etc.  Any harm to living creatures other than You!
  • Lift and carry sessions
  • Wrestling
  • I do NOT see clients under the age of 25yrs, NO exceptions!
  • Texting, ALL texting is IGNORED! Ring or email to make contact. Texting indicates you are a time waster & haven’t read my site.
  • I am NOT looking for any personal slaves, I only offer “Professional” sessions