West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder


DOMINATION & ROLE PLAY with Professional Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

  • 30 mins £100  CP session or foot worship ONLY I do NOT conduct sessions of less duration in time/tribute
  • 1 Hour £120
  • 90 Minutes £170
  • 2 Hours £200
  • 3 Hours £300
  • 4 Hours £450
  • 1 hour double domination with visiting established Mistress Miss Kitty Bliss from £220
  • 1 hour double domination with TGirl Tiffany Aching £200
  • 1 hour domination lesbian cuckhold session with my friend Lily £400
  • 1 Hour food splosh sessions £200 inclusive of sweet food/goo items in the bathroom deposit £100 NR
  • 1 Hour with voyeur present £170 (1 person male or female watching only) please state which sex and I will surprise you with whom watches
  • My assistant Miss Katie Wynters has moved out of the area so is currently unavailable
  • Make up lesson for TGirls, teaching  glam/pretty make up not drag queen style £80

Any Extra fee’s?

  • Enema £10
  • Golden Shower £20

** I do not profit from other adult providers, we are simply playing together and helping each other out in sessions**

My ethos is to keep session rates as affordable treats for you all and to build a great rapport with repeat visits from clients, thus building working relationships and professional friendships.  Great sessions thrive from repeat visits, building trust and getting to know exactly what buttons to press!

Extended Sessions

A 50% deposit non returnable deposit will secure the longer sessions below.

  • £400 Special 4 hour package of maid/butler for the day or extended sessions to include confinement bondage etc this session includes full professional make-up and basic chores if and waiting upon Me as a maid/butler.  Otherwise confinement bondage or cage time/seclusion for a period of time.  Full interaction over four hours is at my FULL regular rate above (not this special rate)  There will be a short refreshment/comfort break as required
  • Overnight caging £450 to include 2 hours play on arrival, refreshments, overnight caging, depart by 9am. Available to existing clients.
  • £750 Overnight package starts at either 6pm/7pm (time to be agreed) to include a two hour session, light meal, some down time together chatting/social only, then retire at 11pm (you sleep in the playroom on the padded suspension bondage bed)  Up at 7:30/8am  a refreshing morning shower, light breakfast/tea/coffee and then a 2  hour session, time to unwind with a beverage and finishing by midday (time pre agreed) ONLY available to known existing clients.

Phone & Cam Sessions

For ease of the above services I direct you to my Adult Work profile, when I am logged in for phone or cam you will see a little green icon lit up.  http://www.adultwork.com/1248241

Social Events, advice and travel companion

Social events are available to slaves/subs who are very well behaved in public, good manners, generous nature and if at a Femdom event understand that you will speak when allowed to, not monopolise conversation or become jealous if I am speaking or possibly playing with others at events.  you are here to make My life enjoyable, fun and enhance it without ANY negativity!  A happy Mistress means a happy slave.

I have amended My social rates to POA, this is because there is a sliding scale of tributes based on your regular attendance and each social event will be based on those merits.

  • Attendance to fetish events/munches this is only available to those who have attended sessions with Me.
  • Dinner social dates available to those who have just had a session of two hours+ , the expenses of food etc covered by you.
  • Dinner date without a session £150 and all expenses covered (travel/parking/food/drink)
  • New to BDSM and want advice, My time needs to be covered POA basis depending on duration and meeting place.
  • Shopping trips £60 per hour with 2 hour min booking. £80min spend from you on My items. Lets go shopping for new frilly’s/stockings etc for you and Me.
  • Travel companion** available to known existing clients with travel/accommodation and all hospitality covered by you with an agreed set tribute for a  weekend/week to 10 days max away on a first time abroad together.  Separate bedrooms and NO sex ALWAYS apply.  Longer duration’s to far away places after a short getting to know each other holiday.  VIP Travel rates start from £700

** When booking for holidays be aware this is not a 24/7 domination arrangement so play will be agreed within perimeters of the booking.  We will both have down time to catch up on our own pursuits and I will need to attend to my administration.  I DO expect to be treated VERY well and food/beverages all covered by you whilst away.

Gatwick Dungeon

On occasions I session in a larger play space, sessions at the Gatwick Dungeon start from £180 for one hour, any other duration POA basis. 48 hours notice is required to book this location and pay a 50% non returnable bank deposit upfront.

Hotel Visit

With minimum of three hours notice and a 50% deposit I will visit you in your hotel within East/West Sussex. The latest appointment time will be 7pm. My kit will consist of sensory play, tie and tease, alternative massage, pegging, impact play/CP/Spanking, breath play, CBT equipment.  Trample and foot worship sessions also suitable.

  • 1 hour £250
  • 1.5hrs £300
  • 2 hrs £350 this is the max time unless you wish to book Me for dinner before/after the domination session depending on timings.

Alternate Massage

60 minute  £120

Contact Details

Mobile: 07510 698761        I ignore ALL text messages, a conversation is essential
Email: helen-ryder@hotmail.com


My availability is:

Monday to Friday 10am to 9:00pm finish

Saturday 11am to 8pm best to book in advance

Sunday is my usual day off but I may consider sessions if I do not have social plans.

Same day appointments are sometimes available to existing clientele or those who have an open holding deposit already paid.  New clients are requested to pay a deposit 24 hours ahead. I am a well established, well respected and a very competent Dominatrix with many regular attendees so it’s best to book ahead where possible.


ALL first time appointments or future bookings in excess of 1.5hrs.

My preferred method is an online bank transfer and details will be provided once we have set up a session. If you do not have online banking you can attend your OWN bank with details I give you to pay across to mine **I may consider other methods for the deposit such as an Amazon gift voucher of £30 against a one hour session newbie or one other alternate method that will be explained only if I feel it will work after we have spoken on the phone**

Booking Procedures blog: click here


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Or treat me to any of the suggestions below.

Suitable Gifts:

Monetary Tip of £10 + in a nice handwritten note or card.

A Tribute GIFT direct to my bank Sort: 20-92-54 Account number: 70468665 Acc name Ms Rogers, this is simply a gift from you and does not pay for any services or entitle you to anything.  I do like to thank people so ref of your initials then gift will identify you when you email.  Sessions for real time ALWAYS require prior contact and an agreement by phone and followed up by email and then payments into the account will have a unique code to identify as income for sessions.

Tom Ford Perfume:Private Blend Vanille Fatale, Velvet Orchid or Black Orchid

OR Honey Oud by Floris London

Wolford or Falke hosiery size L

What Katie Did seamed stockings size M/L

Lush bubble bars or bath bombs (no other brand) or a Lush gift voucher (even better)

Amazon gift vouchers

Alcohol free spirit: Seedlip Spice 94

Gin: Bombay Sapphire, Brighton Gin, Silent Pool, Gin Mare, Jinzu, Bloom or Bathtub, along with Fever Tree naturally light tonic.

Anything from my Amazon wishlist: Mistress Gifts

Unsuitable Gifts: Alcohol of your own choice (note above only or from my wishlist) chocolates or any other food items of your choice, take a look at my Amazon list for ideas, No flowers or indoor plants.