West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder


DOMINATION & ROLE PLAY with Professional Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

  • 30 mins £100  CP session or foot worship ONLY I do NOT conduct sessions of less duration in time/tribute
  • 1 hour special on dates advertised for limited activities/kinks http://www.mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk/25th-and-26th-september-100-one-hour-special-sessions/
  • 1 Hour £130
  • 90 Minutes £180
  • 2 Hours £220
  • 4 Hours £470
  • 1 hour double domination with visiting established Mistress Miss Kitty Bliss from £220
  • 1 hour double domination with TGirl Ms Joanna Armstrong https://twitter.com/JoannaArmstro18
  • 1 Hour with voyeur present £180 (1 person male or female watching only) please state which sex and I will surprise you with whom watches
  • Couples 1 hour £200, each additional hour after that £150 50% deposit taken at time of booking


  • Enema £10
  • Golden Shower £20
  • Splosh sessions POA depending on items and duration of play

** I do not profit from other adult providers, we are simply playing together and helping each other out in sessions**

My ethos is to keep session rates as affordable treats for you all and to build a great rapport with repeat visits from clients, thus building working relationships and professional friendships.  Great sessions thrive from repeat visits, building trust and getting to know exactly what buttons to press!

Trial of NO deposits on ONE hour sessions:

From November 2018 I am giving newbies the chance to book a ONE hour session without taking a deposit, this is soley dependant on how you come across, please read this blog for details http://www.mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk/deposit-for-bookings-over-1-5-hours/

Extended Sessions

A 50% deposit non returnable deposit will secure the longer sessions below.

  • £400 Special 4 hour package of maid/butler for the day or extended sessions to include confinement bondage etc this session includes full professional make-up and basic chores if and waiting upon Me as a maid/butler.  Otherwise confinement bondage or cage time/seclusion for a period of time.  Full interaction over four hours is at my FULL regular rate above (not this special rate)  There will be a short refreshment/comfort break as required
  • Overnight caging £450 to include 2 hours play on arrival, refreshments, overnight caging, depart by 9am. Available to existing clients.
  • £750 Overnight package starts at either 6pm/7pm (time to be agreed) to include a two hour session, light meal, some down time together chatting/social only, then retire at 11pm (you sleep in the playroom on the padded suspension bondage bed)  Up at 7:30/8am  a refreshing morning shower, light breakfast/tea/coffee and then a 2  hour session, time to unwind with a beverage and finishing by midday (time pre agreed) ONLY available to known existing clients.
  • Weekend Special consists of two overnights in the bondage room either on top of the bed or in the cage, 2.5 hours of full play each day, out to have lunch or dinner (expenses covered by you) Fri eve through to Sunday lunch from £900.

Phone & Cam Sessions

I direct you to my Adult Work profile, when I am logged in for phone or cam you will see a little green icon lit up.  http://www.adultwork.com/1248241

Social Events, advice and travel companion

Social events are available to slaves/subs who are very well behaved in public, good manners, generous nature and if at a Femdom event understand that you will speak when allowed to, not monopolise conversation or become jealous if I am interacting with others at events.  you are here to make My life enjoyable, fun and enhance it without ANY negativity!  A happy Mistress means a very happy slave.

I have amended My social rates to POA, this is because there is a sliding scale of tributes based on your regular attendance and each social event will be based on those merits.

  • Attendance to fetish events/munches this is only available to those who have attended sessions with Me.
  • Dinner social dates available to those who have just had a session of two hours+ , the expenses of food etc covered by you, along with a £50 tip presented in a nice card before we go out.
  • Dinner event without a session £150 and all expenses covered (travel/parking/food/drink)
  • New to BDSM and want advice, whilst I love to share My knowledge, My time needs to be covered POA basis depending on duration and meeting place.
  • Shopping trips £60 per hour with 2 hour min booking. £100 min spend from you on My items. Lets go shopping for new frilly’s/stockings etc for you and Me.


Gatwick, Brighton or Hoxton Dungeon

On occasions I session in a larger play space, sessions at either the Brighton or Gatwick Dungeon start from £250 for one hour,this is inclusive of dungeon hire and my time/travel.  Longer sessions are available on a POA basis. 48 hours notice is required to book this location and pay a 50% non returnable bank deposit upfront.

The Hoxton dungeon requires 4 days notice to book with 50% deposit one hour session is £350 to cover all hire/train travel & cabs/My time.  Longer play times are possible and a scale of fees are provided on application.

Hotel Visit

With minimum of three hours notice and a 50% deposit I may visit you in your QUALITY 4* hotel within East/West Sussex. The latest appointment time will be 7pm. My kit will consist of sensory play, tie and tease, alternative massage, pegging, impact play/CP/Spanking, breath play, CBT equipment.  Trample and foot worship sessions also suitable.

  • 1 hour £250
  • 1.5hrs £300
  • 2 hrs £350 this is the max time unless you wish to book Me for dinner with My approval before/after the domination session depending on timings.
  • London hotels are £250 per hour with travel/subsistence , 2 hours min booking.

Alternate Massage

60 minute  £130

Contact Details

Mobile: 07510 698761   Best times to call is between 11:30am to 9:30pm     

I will NOT reply to text messages, a conversation is essential
Email: helen-ryder@hotmail.com I reply to all polite well constructed emails within 24 to 48 hours, emails that are lewd are deleted


My availability is:

Monday to Friday 11:30am to 9:00pm finish

Saturday and Sunday 11am to 9pm best to book in advance

Same day appointments are sometimes available to existing clientele or those who have an open holding deposit already paid.  New clients are requested to pay a deposit 24 hours ahead. I am a well established, well respected and  very competent Dominatrix with many regular attendees so it’s best to book ahead where possible if you have time constraints.


ALL first time appointments or future bookings in excess of 1.5hrs.

My preferred method is an online bank transfer and details will be provided once we have set up a session. If you do not have online banking you can attend your OWN bank with details I give you to pay across to mine **I may consider other methods for the deposit such as an Amazon gift voucher of £40 against a one hour session newbie or one other alternate method that will be explained only if I feel it will work after we have spoken on the phone**

Booking Procedures blog: click here


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Some clients enjoying bringing a gift or sending gifts for special occasions, I really love receiving gifts and it makes a great impression.

Suitable Gifts:

Monetary Tip in a nice handwritten note or card.

Tom Ford Perfume: I’m currently low on Private Blend Tabacco Vanille and Sole Di Positano and I regularly wear Black Orchid and Velvet Orchid

Honey Oud by Floris London

Gift card for Selfridges or Havery Nichols, Mistress loves being treated to luxury items

Wolford or Falke hosiery size L

What Katie Did seamed stockings size M/L

Lush bubble bars Rose Jam (not bath bombs) Rose Jam and Plum Rain Body spray, Cinders, Sleepy, Rose Jam shower gels or a Lush gift voucher (most welcomed)

Amazon gift vouchers, very useful and great for spending as I see fit

Gin: Bombay Sapphire, Brighton Gin, Silent Pool, Gin Mare, Jinzu, Bloom or Bathtub, small batch quality Gin, along with Fever Tree naturally light tonic.

Anything from my Amazon gift list: Mistress Gifts

Unsuitable Gifts: Alcohol of your own choice (note above only or from my wishlist) chocolates or any other food items of your choice, take a look at my Amazon list for ideas, No flowers or indoor plants.