West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder


DOMINATION & ROLE PLAY with Professional Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

  • 30 mins £100  CP session or foot worship ONLY I do NOT conduct sessions of less duration in time/tribute
  • 1 hour special on dates advertised for limited activities/kinks http://www.mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk/25th-and-26th-september-100-one-hour-special-sessions/
  • 1 Hour £130
  • 90 Minutes £180
  • 2 Hours £220
  • 3 Hours £320
  • 4 Hours £470
  • 1 hour double domination with visiting established Mistress Miss Kitty Bliss from £220
  • 1 hour double domination with TGirl Ms Joanna Armstrong https://twitter.com/JoannaArmstro18 or Tiffany Aching £200
  • 1 hour BDSM cuckhold session with my friend Lily £400 I domiante her whilst you’re tied up
  • 1 Hour food splosh sessions £220 inclusive of sweet food/goo items in the bathroom deposit £100 NR
  • 1 Hour with voyeur present £180 (1 person male or female watching only) please state which sex and I will surprise you with whom watches
  • Make up lesson for TGirls, teaching  glam/pretty make up not drag queen style £100

Any Extra fee’s?

  • Enema £10
  • Golden Shower £20

** I do not profit from other adult providers, we are simply playing together and helping each other out in sessions**

My ethos is to keep session rates as affordable treats for you all and to build a great rapport with repeat visits from clients, thus building working relationships and professional friendships.  Great sessions thrive from repeat visits, building trust and getting to know exactly what buttons to press!

Extended Sessions

A 50% deposit non returnable deposit will secure the longer sessions below.

  • £400 Special 4 hour package of maid/butler for the day or extended sessions to include confinement bondage etc this session includes full professional make-up and basic chores if and waiting upon Me as a maid/butler.  Otherwise confinement bondage or cage time/seclusion for a period of time.  Full interaction over four hours is at my FULL regular rate above (not this special rate)  There will be a short refreshment/comfort break as required
  • Overnight caging £450 to include 2 hours play on arrival, refreshments, overnight caging, depart by 9am. Available to existing clients.
  • £750 Overnight package starts at either 6pm/7pm (time to be agreed) to include a two hour session, light meal, some down time together chatting/social only, then retire at 11pm (you sleep in the playroom on the padded suspension bondage bed)  Up at 7:30/8am  a refreshing morning shower, light breakfast/tea/coffee and then a 2  hour session, time to unwind with a beverage and finishing by midday (time pre agreed) ONLY available to known existing clients.
  • Weekend Special consists of two overnights in the bondage room either on top of the bed or in the cage, 2.5 hours of full play each day, out to have lunch or dinner (expenses covered by you) Fri eve through to Sunday lunch from £800.

Phone & Cam Sessions

I direct you to my Adult Work profile, when I am logged in for phone or cam you will see a little green icon lit up.  http://www.adultwork.com/1248241

Social Events, advice and travel companion

Social events are available to slaves/subs who are very well behaved in public, good manners, generous nature and if at a Femdom event understand that you will speak when allowed to, not monopolise conversation or become jealous if I am interacting with others at events.  you are here to make My life enjoyable, fun and enhance it without ANY negativity!  A happy Mistress means a very happy slave.

I have amended My social rates to POA, this is because there is a sliding scale of tributes based on your regular attendance and each social event will be based on those merits.

  • Attendance to fetish events/munches this is only available to those who have attended sessions with Me.
  • Dinner social dates available to those who have just had a session of two hours+ , the expenses of food etc covered by you, along with a £50 tip presented in a nice card before we go out.
  • Dinner event without a session £150 and all expenses covered (travel/parking/food/drink)
  • New to BDSM and want advice, whilst I love to share My knowledge, My time needs to be covered POA basis depending on duration and meeting place.
  • Shopping trips £60 per hour with 2 hour min booking. £100 min spend from you on My items. Lets go shopping for new frilly’s/stockings etc for you and Me.
  • Travel companion** available to known existing clients with travel/accommodation and all hospitality covered by you with an agreed set tribute for a  weekend/week to 10 days max away on a first time abroad together.  Separate bedrooms and NO sex ALWAYS apply.  Longer duration’s to far away places after a short getting to know each other holiday.  VIP Travel rates start from £800

** When booking for holidays be aware this is not a 24/7 domination arrangement so play will be agreed within perimeters of the booking.  We will both have down time to catch up on our own pursuits and I will need to attend to my administration.  I DO expect to be treated VERY well and food/beverages all covered by you whilst away.

Gatwick, Brighton or Hoxton Dungeon

On occasions I session in a larger play space, sessions at either the Brighton or Gatwick Dungeon start from £250 for one hour,this is inclusive of dungeon hire and my time/travel.  Longer sessions are available on a POA basis. 48 hours notice is required to book this location and pay a 50% non returnable bank deposit upfront.

The Hoxton dungeon requires 4 days notice to book with 50% deposit one hour session is £350 to cover all hire/train travel & cabs/My time.  Longer play times are possible and a scale of fees are provided on application.

Hotel Visit

With minimum of three hours notice and a 50% deposit I may visit you in your QUALITY 4* hotel within East/West Sussex. The latest appointment time will be 7pm. My kit will consist of sensory play, tie and tease, alternative massage, pegging, impact play/CP/Spanking, breath play, CBT equipment.  Trample and foot worship sessions also suitable.

  • 1 hour £250
  • 1.5hrs £300
  • 2 hrs £350 this is the max time unless you wish to book Me for dinner with My approval before/after the domination session depending on timings.
  • London hotels are £250 per hour with travel/subsistence , 2 hours min booking.

Alternate Massage

60 minute  £130

Contact Details

Mobile: 07510 698761        I WILL not reply to text messages, a conversation is essential
Email: helen-ryder@hotmail.com I reply to all polite well constructed emails within 24 to 48 hours


My availability is:

Monday to Friday 10am to 9:00pm finish

Saturday and Sunday 11am to 8pm best to book in advance

Same day appointments are sometimes available to existing clientele or those who have an open holding deposit already paid.  New clients are requested to pay a deposit 24 hours ahead. I am a well established, well respected and  very competent Dominatrix with many regular attendees so it’s best to book ahead where possible if you have time constraints.


ALL first time appointments or future bookings in excess of 1.5hrs.

My preferred method is an online bank transfer and details will be provided once we have set up a session. If you do not have online banking you can attend your OWN bank with details I give you to pay across to mine **I may consider other methods for the deposit such as an Amazon gift voucher of £40 against a one hour session newbie or one other alternate method that will be explained only if I feel it will work after we have spoken on the phone**

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Some clients enjoying bringing a gift or sending gifts for special occasions, I love receiving gifts.

Suitable Gifts:

Monetary Tip in a nice handwritten note or card.

Tom Ford Perfume: I’m currently low on Private Blend Tabacco Vanille and Sole Di Positano and I regularly wear Black Orchid and Velvet Orchid

Woman Ralph Lauren

Honey Oud by Floris London

Acqua di Parma Peonia Nobile

Gift card for Selfridges or Havery Nichols bear in mind Mistress likes luxury items

Wolford or Falke hosiery size L

What Katie Did seamed stockings size M/L

Lush bubble bars (not bath bombs) or a Lush gift voucher (preferred)

Amazon gift vouchers

Gin: Bombay Sapphire, Brighton Gin, Silent Pool, Gin Mare, Jinzu, Bloom or Bathtub, small batch quality Gin, along with Fever Tree naturally light tonic.

Anything from my Amazon gift list: Mistress Gifts

Unsuitable Gifts: Alcohol of your own choice (note above only or from my wishlist) chocolates or any other food items of your choice, take a look at my Amazon list for ideas, No flowers or indoor plants.