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Sissy Maid Cherry roleplay and humiliation.

A new maid was due for an interview/session and in the sissy boudoir out lay her new uniform, stockings, dress, and black satin bloomers along with a cute frothy lace edged pinny.

The doorbell rang and Mistress Helen Ryder greeted the new maid who had no name at this stage and took her up to the sissy boudoir room.  Chatting away about past experiences and what would be expected of her today the maid looked quite nervously excited.

“I must confess Mistress Helen that I just want to be a ladies maid and wait upon her”

“Take off those manly clothes, and dress in these” Mistress Helen indicated the clothing pile and helped the maid ease on her stockings.  Not being sure if the bloomers would fit but they were in fact a perfect fit for the maid’s cockette.

“What size shoes are you sweetie?

“I’m an 11 Mistress Helen”  How very fortunate for the maid as a size 11 in low heeled patent court shoes was produced from a rack of shoes and slipped on nicely.

Mistress Helen expertly applied full make-up and then selected a cute wig with a gorgeous shade of strawberry blonde and little flicks and curls.  Placing the wig upon the maid’s head an Alice band was added, it finished off the look perfectly.

“Now stand up and give me a twirl and a curtsy” demanded Mistress Helen.

The maid did exactly as she was told executing a perfect curtsy too!

“Now look in the mirror my dear and look hard and I want you to think whether you might be a Joanna or a Cherry as your new name”

“I really don’t know Mistress” the maid said with her eyes downcast.

“I think you will be known as Maid Cherry from now on, it’s time for basic household duties so follow me”

Maid Cherry followed her new Mistress down to the kitchen where she was instructed to make the perfect cup of tea.  “I like my tea a deep golden, not weak, not strong and not too much milk so you had best get it correct”

Mistress Helen sat down on a chair and maid Cherry made the tea.

“Mmm a bit weak, pop the teabag back in for a while and if no improvement then you will start again” Mistress Helen Ryder was a hard task Mistress at times!

The tea was taken away and modified to Mistress’s liking and maid Cherry was instructed to carry out some shoe cleaning on the very shoes that Mistress had on.  “Plenty of licking and huffing on them before you buff them to a high shine, come on I want to see my reflection in them”

After the shoes were polished Mistress Helen indicated a high heeled pair of patent leather boots were to also be shined as they were required for a session the next day.

“Whilst you are busy cleaning I will choose a nice neutral colour for my nails, as you will be giving me a mini manicure maid Cherry”

“Yes Miss, I might not be very good though, but promise to try my best”

Mistress Helen returned with a bottle of polish, some pads and a bottle of acetone (just in case) and demonstrated how to paint nails.  Very shakily the new maid painted her Mistress’s nails, they didn’t look too bad but clearly the maid needed more practice so she was instructed to paint her own nails.

“Getting slightly better maid Cherry, ok now time to take it off” maid Cherry was given acetone and pads but made a mess of the removal with squeezing too hard and making a mess with drips of liquid falling to the floor.

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“You have earned yourself a spanking young lady” Mistress Helen indicated for maid Cherry to follow her upstairs and to bring a feather duster for dusting all corners of every room on her way and upstairs too.

“I’ve decided to allow you to pamper me some more first, you will wash my feet after I have removed my stockings and massage my feet and legs with this lovely massage balm.  Then brush my hair and massage my head with this special device and then brush my hair again”

Maid Cherry was kept very busy for some time with being on Mistress pamper duties and was clearly enjoying her new role, she hoped that Mistress Helen might forget the tea not being to her liking straight away and the droplets of nail polish remover.

“Mmmm that was very nice maid, now curtsey six times each becoming lower” and then over my spanking bench”

The maid lay across the bench and Mistress Helen pulled her new uniform up over her waist exposing the black satin bloomers.

“20 spanks on each cheek for making mistakes”

“Ouch, ouch” maid cherry wriggled on the bench with her little cockette rubbing against the satin bloomers she was becoming very aroused.

“Well what do we have here?  Is your little cockette growing in those bloomers you naughty girl?!” Mistress Helen picked up her vibration wand and teased maid cherry with it, teasing and teasing some more that oh dear too late what a sticky mess in the bloomers!  Oh dear the humiliation!

Maid cherry was instructed to wash them by hand in the bathroom sink, make-up removed and boring manly clothes returned she was sent on her way with instructions to return another day.

Maid cherry had an embarrassed little smile on her face and her little cheeks were glowing with pleasure.

 

One of my favourite tea manufacturers is http://www.twinings.co.uk/  and if anyone buys me that Red Velvet Easter egg on their front page I will be very happy!

This is useful for all things sissy related http://www.thesissystore.com/

 

Come along and treat yourself to double the fun and double the pain if you enjoy CP sessions, perhaps some spit roasting with two very experienced ladies wielding their Mistress cocks for you to feast upon!

  • BDSM – Double Domination
  • Spit roast
  • Four hands alternate massage
  • Role Play
  • Electrics, Estim & Violet wand
  • and much more, read my activities list for more ideas!

The Date: Monday 29th Feb 2016

Or for something more relaxing, a treat to the sense’s a four hands alternate massage booking.

Bookings already being taken so grab this date and secure it with a deposit ASAP! Deposits paid direct into a bank account either via transfer or on foot at a branch, email for details.

 

Pricing is one hour £180

1.5hours £260
2 hours £320
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What is an alternate massage?

Despite having a tab which explains some of this and stating I offer bespoke sessions based on the open lines of communication after a session is firmly booked I am still asked “what does it entail” So here is some further information to guide you.

Alternate massage can be a one to one or two practitioners for four hands on.  If two ladies then pricing will vary due to it being a one off appointment or a special advertised (on my blog page) as a double day so keep your eyes on my blogs for updates.

Alternate massage is a style of booking which bridges the gap between a full on BDSM style session and a not so vanilla massage.  It is carried out in my special play room on a comfortable massage couch.  The session can consist of light flogging, teasing, using different mediums of touch from feathers, cat claws, satin gloves etc.  Perhaps an introduction of the Violet Wand, some light electrics, prostrate play, vibrating wands/toys and candle play with special soya based candles which massage on http://www.massagecandles.co.uk/ or other candles I use which are a mix of soya and Crayola to make beautiful patterns on you.  I have just stocked up on a full set of these http://www.etsy.com/shop/FetandFun

Being as all my sessions are bespoke we will have discussed what aspects of play appeal and what kind of sensations are enjoyed, what is pleasure and what is pain as everyone varies.  Sensual massage, sensation play and maybe much more.

There will also be aspects of different styles of massage used from long soothing strokes to deeper movements perhaps working out some knots if needed.  My heated Bamboo will also come out to play as a massage aid, don’t worry I will only whack you across the bottoms with the sticks if it’s been discussed and agreed.

If candles sound a little too messy then rest assured I always use Therapy quality massage wax which is simply a balm which melts with the heat of my hands on your skin and won’t leave you feeling all greasy.  If you are at all worried of smelling different to usual or skin being moisturised a hot shower is always offered after all sessions and a cold shower to those who are true masochists 😉 and want one!

Wearing a blindfold will heighten all of the special touches and assist in you feeling total bliss from such a session.  Alternate massage sessions are very popular and some clients simply stick to them and others decide to go on to the more traditional domination sessions when they feel more confident.

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Thank you to all those I have had the pleasure of playing with over the last year, and to those who I haven’t yet had the pleasure…..DON’T be shy take the plunge and write to me with an introduction of what you seek and I’m sure between us some dreams can be fulfilled for 2016.

From light introduction to BDSM with sensual alternate massage, role play to hard CP sessions, Strap-on/pegging, 4 hands massage, double domination, Foot worship, Medical play, sissy make-overs, sissy shopping trips, dinner socials after sessions, Fetish Club trips, extended sessions as well as shorter visits to explore your kink in a safe environment, something for everyone 😉

Happy blessed 2016

Mistress Helen XxX

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Mistress Dita is looking forward to 26th AND 27th November (due to popular demand the extra date added) for 4 handed sensual massage and domination, I’m really looking forward to our special day together too!  Ms Dita has written this introduction.  Book Now!

Ms Dita I am a lifestyle BDSM practitioner, it’s something that I live and work in and have done for a very long time. A natural sadist, CP is something I really enjoy I particularly adore the artistry of the whip. It’s not for the faint of heart, but the safety of the submissive is always paramount to me.

To have an unblemished canvass before me is a true joy. To see you quiver as I draw back my whip, to see you jump as it cracks , bare millimetres from your skin, then to observe your reaction as the white Hot burn of the lash, fills your senses. Dare you ask to feel the kiss of my whip? I love all aspects of play, it’s a journey of discovery for Domme and sub. A good scene is dependent on good communication, and I always ensure that I listen to and respect the boundaries of everyone I play with, whilst ensuring their safety, but not overlooking their needs. It is such a privilege to be asked to work with Mistress Helen.   I also enjoy many other aspects of BDSM especially strap-on play.

We have been friends for a very long time and have played together on numerous occasions, you will see the chemistry between us, and may be treated to the sight of us flirting and enjoying each other. It is very important for a four handed massage, that we work in harmony, mirroring each other, giving you the ultimate in sensation, whilst giving the visual stimulation of our playfulness and flirtation. You will be relaxed, stimulated and aroused as our hands sweep warm oils over you. Lay back and enjoy as two very sensual ladies give you all of their attentions. Spoil yourself!

About me I am a busty and curvy, tattooed lady, who enjoys MANY aspects of BDSM play. I have a wicked sense of humour and genuinely enjoy what I do. I firmly believe that pain and pleasure are two sides of the same coin, spin the coin and the edges blur together.

I’m not available today (Friday 13th Nov) and out of contact much of the day as I am networking and lending a hand on my friends stall at Sexpo.

In response to several people wanting short notice and same day bookings without having ever seen me before NEW clients MUST pay a deposit 24 hours in advance to secure an appointment.

Due to too many previous no shows/wasted time so I am strict over this and it works.  People that are not prepared to FOLLOW booking procedures are clearly time wasters!

http://www.mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk/how-to-book-a-session/

On a more positive note I give thanks to the lovely genuine players out there who follow my procedures and repeat custom, you are appreciated and valued, and fun to session with thank you.

Best regards

Mistress Helen Xx

 

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Slave C had experienced a very CP based session previously and was keen to see Mistress Helen again but having been away up north and visiting another Dominatrix who had left some very visible bruises and welts that he asked for a much softer option of an alternate massage to include some teasing and nipple tweaking.  Yes a sensual massage was exactly what he needed today!

He arrived and was welcomed up to the room all set out with the massage couch set up and candles flickering, feeling hot and sticky from his journey he first had a shower and then went back into the room and saw Mistress Helen dressed in a skimpy chemise, stockings and high heels.

He was instructed to get up onto the couch and then lay face down, he felt a series of pressures along his back and instructions to breathe in deeply and to exhale again and then be aware of each breath taking him into a state of relaxation.

Warm oiled hands gliding over his skin and then working out the knots and tension he relaxed onto the couch and started to feel the benefits of a very sexy dominant therapist.  Chatting occasionally about what he had been up to and then simply relaxing further and further into the treatment becoming aware of warmed bamboo canes (which Mistress Helen had mentioned) the feeling of heat working deep into his muscles felt so good and then hands again on his skin soothing and stroking and gliding.  The touches becoming very teasing in his upper thighs and gently kneading his bruised buttocks.

Time to turn over and the request of some nipple tweaking produced a shiny pair of clover clamps fastened onto his nipples and tied to a ribbon inserted into his mouth.  “Pull on those slave whilst I work on your arms” His arms being expertly massaged and Mistress Helen placing them in such ways that he occasionally swept over her exquisite breasts.   The ribbon was then removed from his mouth and a soft red satin ribbon tied around his cock and balls and then attached to the nipples with just the right amount of tension.  A blindfold was placed over his eyes so now he wouldn’t see his beautiful Mistress and simply enjoy the sensations.

Mistress Helen massaged his arms, legs, torso and chest with having placed a blind fold on him he couldn’t see what was being lowered onto his face.  “Guess the body part slave and get the answer correct, well there might be a prize” Smelling Mistress’s perfume and being the most obvious of choices he guessed breasts.  “Correct answer slave” feeling the weight coming away from his face and drawing a breath and just in time Mistress Helen eased a hand under his head and smothered him once more counting down from 10.  Excitement taking over he ached to be touched and teased and it’s as if Mistress had read his mind, feeling her hands stroking and gliding all down the length of his torso…………….

Well sorry to leave you in suspense but you will have to guess the rest of the session, maybe try such a session out for yourself.

Slave C left refreshed, relaxed and also invigorated.

Alternate massages are great for beginner sessions and can incorporate some very gentle flogging, prostrate massage, melted wax candle massage oil and as much and little as you wish outside of a regular massage if you are starting to step your toes into the world of BDSM or simply fancy something a little more relaxing.

 

Duo Domination with Berkshire’s Mistress Jane & Sussex’s own, Mistress Helen Ryder…

I’m teaming up with my dynamic Mistress mate so don’t miss out, off on my tour to Berksire soon!

Not ONE but TWO powerful and demanding Dominatrix’s will be joining forces for two days of Duo Domination on Monday 26th and Tuesday 27th of October.

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This will be our 10th get together and as a special celebratory offer sessions on the Tuesday will be £160 for the hour instead of the usual tribute of £200.

Come and enjoy an hour or more of your favourite BDSM activities with not only one but two Mistresses. Your punishment will be our pleasure…Spoil yourself and be indulgent, we intend to!

Novices & Newbies are welcome so don’t be scared off by the thought of two Mistresses, sessions are tailored to your specific needs and requirements. Sensual teasing or taking you strap-on cherry…we promise to be gentle! its twice the pleasure!  With BOTH Mistress’s being qualified in massage we also offer a 4 hands erotic massage to incorporate any light BDSM activities.

Bi….Mistress Janes pet slut T-Girl Gigi may be in the area on Monday 26th so if you’d like her to assist during your session let Mistress Jane know in advance.

Note: We will keep a few spaces available on both days for ‘Same day’ bookings for those of you who are unable to pre book for our Duo Domination event.

BOOKINGS NOW BEING TAKEN for Duo Domination event.

Haha bless 🙂 I think some one is in trouble re next session!

Dear Mistress Helen

Hi. This is Pansy Penny. I have just enjoyed reading your blog about our session last week. Thank you very much for posting it. You made it sound very exciting and lots of fun, which of course is exactly what it was.
It was lovely to meet you; and I really appreciated you dressing up. You looked gorgeous. I was nervous about the start (I did it mainly so you would be more severe with me), but loved the play-acting and the spanking more than I expected. I also loved the way you humiliated and teased me and got me into more and more trouble.
MJ is awesome, and you two together were great. I hope we’ll be able to do a similar session before too long.
By the way, I didn’t spill any water because I braced the tray against the cupboard. At least I got away with something!
Thank you again.
best wishes
Pansy Penny

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I’ve had several of My recent bookings state I am too cheap! (you are always welcome to tip or bring a gift) Smiling at that comment and I have reassured them that they really mean very reasonable compared to many other professional Mistress’s.  I have set my rates for the reason that I know many of you NEED and DESIRE sessions on a more regular basis and setting my rates as they are makes it achievable for you to fulfil those urges and build a better rapport with Me your Mistress over time.

I invest in My equipment and have spent many thousands on high quality toys/furniture/website/photos/clothing/advertising as well as the usual sundries of good quality lube, gloves, enemas, medical grade cleaners etc.  I care about my clients and there well being.  If I were running my sessions from another location I would of course have to increase my fee to cover renting industrial premises or buy another property.  I work from my own establishment legally.

I have turned over two dedicated rooms for play and feel this reflects in my tribute fairly.

I do not see more than 2 to 3 clients max on any one day and being as I get booked for longer sessions of 2 to 3 hours this also would not be possible.  Some days I do not see anyone so it is not high volume traffic at my premises and is very discreet.

I offer affordable quality/experienced domination sessions with a lifestyle background going back to 1996 when I first starting attending fetish events.  I have  also worked alongside several other Mistress’s who have the same ethos of BDSM being available for the average gentleman and not just those with deep pockets.  Reasonable rates does not indicate a poor quality Mistress and it is down to the individual to charge what she likes and feels happy charging based on her establishment/session interests after setting aside her tax/outgoings that the individual is still making a wage.

I can be available to session at the Gatwick Dungeon location in Horley but again keeping my rates REAL it will be a higher tribute then what I ask for staying at my base due to hire charges and travel costs/time.  A one hour booking in the dungeon will be from £180!

So what does the average week bring me in my world I am often asked, looking back over the last week it has been #FootWorship #Pegging #StrapOn #Humiliation #UrethalSounds #RolePlay #Hogtie and #Bondage #MedicalPlay #Nettles #CBT #CP #Electrics not ALL in one session as some people may only have one particular activity that they enjoy and it’s perfectly fine to have as many activities as you like or as little with time permitting of course.

The more complex the session the more time is required, otherwise the session is too rushed and if it’s a very intense session you may need time to unwind at the end. A hot shower, cuppa and a biscuit a little unwinding is sometimes what’s needed after an intense experience.

See you soon

Mistress Helen X