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What is an alternate massage?

Despite having a tab which explains some of this and stating I offer bespoke sessions based on the open lines of communication after a session is firmly booked I am still asked “what does it entail” So here is some further information to guide you.

Alternate massage can be a one to one or two practitioners for four hands on.  If two ladies then pricing will vary due to it being a one off appointment or a special advertised (on my blog page) as a double day so keep your eyes on my blogs for updates.

Alternate massage is a style of booking which bridges the gap between a full on BDSM style session and a not so vanilla massage.  It is carried out in my special play room on a comfortable massage couch.  The session can consist of light flogging, teasing, using different mediums of touch from feathers, cat claws, satin gloves etc.  Perhaps an introduction of the Violet Wand, some light electrics, prostrate play, vibrating wands/toys and candle play with special soya based candles which massage on http://www.massagecandles.co.uk/ or other candles I use which are a mix of soya and Crayola to make beautiful patterns on you.  I have just stocked up on a full set of these http://www.etsy.com/shop/FetandFun

Being as all my sessions are bespoke we will have discussed what aspects of play appeal and what kind of sensations are enjoyed, what is pleasure and what is pain as everyone varies.  Sensual massage, sensation play and maybe much more.

There will also be aspects of different styles of massage used from long soothing strokes to deeper movements perhaps working out some knots if needed.  My heated Bamboo will also come out to play as a massage aid, don’t worry I will only whack you across the bottoms with the sticks if it’s been discussed and agreed.

If candles sound a little too messy then rest assured I always use Therapy quality massage wax which is simply a balm which melts with the heat of my hands on your skin and won’t leave you feeling all greasy.  If you are at all worried of smelling different to usual or skin being moisturised a hot shower is always offered after all sessions and a cold shower to those who are true masochists 😉 and want one!

Wearing a blindfold will heighten all of the special touches and assist in you feeling total bliss from such a session.  Alternate massage sessions are very popular and some clients simply stick to them and others decide to go on to the more traditional domination sessions when they feel more confident.

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Thank you to all those I have had the pleasure of playing with over the last year, and to those who I haven’t yet had the pleasure…..DON’T be shy take the plunge and write to me with an introduction of what you seek and I’m sure between us some dreams can be fulfilled for 2016.

From light introduction to BDSM with sensual alternate massage, role play to hard CP sessions, Strap-on/pegging, 4 hands massage, double domination, Foot worship, Medical play, sissy make-overs, sissy shopping trips, dinner socials after sessions, Fetish Club trips, extended sessions as well as shorter visits to explore your kink in a safe environment, something for everyone 😉

Happy blessed 2016

Mistress Helen XxX

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Mistress Dita is looking forward to 26th AND 27th November (due to popular demand the extra date added) for 4 handed sensual massage and domination, I’m really looking forward to our special day together too!  Ms Dita has written this introduction.  Book Now!

Ms Dita I am a lifestyle BDSM practitioner, it’s something that I live and work in and have done for a very long time. A natural sadist, CP is something I really enjoy I particularly adore the artistry of the whip. It’s not for the faint of heart, but the safety of the submissive is always paramount to me.

To have an unblemished canvass before me is a true joy. To see you quiver as I draw back my whip, to see you jump as it cracks , bare millimetres from your skin, then to observe your reaction as the white Hot burn of the lash, fills your senses. Dare you ask to feel the kiss of my whip? I love all aspects of play, it’s a journey of discovery for Domme and sub. A good scene is dependent on good communication, and I always ensure that I listen to and respect the boundaries of everyone I play with, whilst ensuring their safety, but not overlooking their needs. It is such a privilege to be asked to work with Mistress Helen.   I also enjoy many other aspects of BDSM especially strap-on play.

We have been friends for a very long time and have played together on numerous occasions, you will see the chemistry between us, and may be treated to the sight of us flirting and enjoying each other. It is very important for a four handed massage, that we work in harmony, mirroring each other, giving you the ultimate in sensation, whilst giving the visual stimulation of our playfulness and flirtation. You will be relaxed, stimulated and aroused as our hands sweep warm oils over you. Lay back and enjoy as two very sensual ladies give you all of their attentions. Spoil yourself!

About me I am a busty and curvy, tattooed lady, who enjoys MANY aspects of BDSM play. I have a wicked sense of humour and genuinely enjoy what I do. I firmly believe that pain and pleasure are two sides of the same coin, spin the coin and the edges blur together.

Duo Domination with Berkshire’s Mistress Jane & Sussex’s own, Mistress Helen Ryder…

I’m teaming up with my dynamic Mistress mate so don’t miss out, off on my tour to Berksire soon!

Not ONE but TWO powerful and demanding Dominatrix’s will be joining forces for two days of Duo Domination on Monday 26th and Tuesday 27th of October.

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This will be our 10th get together and as a special celebratory offer sessions on the Tuesday will be £160 for the hour instead of the usual tribute of £200.

Come and enjoy an hour or more of your favourite BDSM activities with not only one but two Mistresses. Your punishment will be our pleasure…Spoil yourself and be indulgent, we intend to!

Novices & Newbies are welcome so don’t be scared off by the thought of two Mistresses, sessions are tailored to your specific needs and requirements. Sensual teasing or taking you strap-on cherry…we promise to be gentle! its twice the pleasure!  With BOTH Mistress’s being qualified in massage we also offer a 4 hands erotic massage to incorporate any light BDSM activities.

Bi….Mistress Janes pet slut T-Girl Gigi may be in the area on Monday 26th so if you’d like her to assist during your session let Mistress Jane know in advance.

Note: We will keep a few spaces available on both days for ‘Same day’ bookings for those of you who are unable to pre book for our Duo Domination event.

BOOKINGS NOW BEING TAKEN for Duo Domination event.

I was bent over dusting busily away in Madams bedroom and thinking that I had a very busy day ahead of and thank god that pervert handyman has left me alone for a while!  I was suddenly aware of breath on the back of my neck and oh heck guess who!

“Hello Helen, having a fine morning I see dusting away & bending over showing off those lovely legs of yours”

“Huh, you shouldn’t be looking!  What are you doing in madams room, haven’t you any of your own work to be getting on with?”

“I’m only being friendly Helen”

“A bit too friendly for my liking with perving up my skirts when I’m bending down and trying to brush past me rubbing yourself over me as you do, you’re just a pervert!”

“Now now Helen I think you need to do as your told, you’ve got me into trouble enough times with that bitch and if you don’t do as I say I’m going to get you into trouble”

The handy man raised his voice “Get over against that wall and hands on your head”

I had heard madam’s car coming back on the drive and thought yes play long as hopefully madam would overhear whatever was going on and I wondered what the perv had in mind.

I gasped as I felt my maids uniform being pulled up at the back and my panties (small silky black pair) and my stockings and suspender belt were all on show, then suddenly whack down came the handy mans hand on my bottom spanking me again and again.

“Take that you little trouble maker, telling tales on me and running to madam every 5 mins just because I’m being friendly”  “Anyway all you are good for is a lowly housemaid, women’s work & women belong in the kitchen”

I scoffed at that remark and it was the wrong thing to do as he spanked me more and more!

“I got caned the other day because of you and then had my night ruined because that bitch put me in chastity!  She ruined my evening as I had a date and knew I would be getting into her knickers”

I laughed and then received another wallop “No way!  Madam wouldn’t do that”

“Oh yes she does all the time, it’s alright for you, you haven’t been working here long and she seems to like you Helen.  Jane the Cane they call her”

Just as I was being spanked some more Madam appeared in the doorway (haha that old goat would be in a lot of trouble now) I thought with madam seeing me pressed up against the wall and my knickers all exposed and I’m sure she saw the last spanking.

“What’s going on here?”

The handyman started spluttering pathetic excuses for why he was spanking me and I spoke up “madam he has been calling you a right bitch and complaining about me running to you and telling tales and he said all I’m good for is housework”

“So you think being a housemaid is a lowly position, you best come downstairs and you too Helen”

I wondered what madam was going to do and followed her down to the parlour

“How would you like the day off Helen and have the handyman do all your chores and serve tea and cake to us both?”

Wow I couldn’t believe it and thought haha serves that old goat for being such a pervert and trying to put me down.  “I would love that madam”

“Right better had you dress the part, c’mon get those clothes off”

He stripped off looking down rather ashamed and embarrassed and I relished in his uncomfortable predicament and had a big smile on my face, especially when I saw he was wearing a chastity device on his little cock.  Haha I wasn’t in any real danger then from what I could see and obviously madam kept a very tight rein on him (what an unusual household and not like my previous employers) I could see working here could me a real eye opener.

Madam produced a maid’s outfit with stockings, a girdle that was crotchless, frilly panties and little pinny and hat and even a wig and asked me to help dress the handyman.  She then gave me some nipple clamps and told me to pin them onto PP’s niplles over the dress. I had the giggles at first but then felt very powerful and superior watching him squirm and his humiliation of being turned into a maid.

Madam then linked up chains to ankle and wrist cuffs and stuffed a pair of panties in his mouth with some sort of head harness to hold it in place.  I couldn’t stop laughing and poked my tongue out when madam wasn’t looking and whispering “haha just look at you now Mr pervert”

Madam instructed PP to get down on the floor and polish her very shiny skirt, madam always dressed in very sexy clothing like corsets and leather too, no Laura Ashley like my last household!

“Now stay on your knees and kneel up facing me” Madam had a sign and camera in her hand.

Madam stuffed the sign in his hands and it read: Pansy Penny frilly panted pervert please punish me severely.  She told me to stand next to him and to call him Pansy Penny for the rest of the day and that the photos were to ensure he didn’t try to put a complaint in about his employment so madam would have them to blackmail him with for the future.

“Get over here and bend over” Madam had a cane in her hand and she started caning PP’s bottom and I couldn’t help but grin.  “Watch me closely Helen as it’s your turn next, want to get your own back on your spanking earlier”

“Hell yes I do madam” I was given the cane and I started hitting PP’s bottom ignoring the cries of pain and laughing as I did it.

Madam looked at the clock and announced it was afternoon tea time and that PP should do my tea errands and not forget to curtsey.

PP did a half curtsey in my direction and madam made him do it again I laughed and poked my tongue out doing a proper curtsey back and taking the mickey.

“Go and sit down Helen and put your feet up”

Well I didn’t need to be told that twice, laying back on madams comfy sofa and flashing my stockings at PP poking my tongue out again.  “PP hissed just you wait you little bitch it will be pay back at some point”

“What did you mutter” asked madam

“PP called you a bitch madam” Madam pulled him by the chains into the kitchen and fastened a tea tray with two slices of fresh cream Victoria sponge (the very cake that the handyman was going to take around to his new fancy piece later) haha that spoilt those plans!

“I’m just popping upstairs Helen so keep an eye on Pansy Penny and make sure she makes tea to your liking”

“Yes madam”

PP carried on making the tea and I thought to myself right time to get him/her into more trouble!

“I liked what you did earlier, that spanking made me a bit horny, want to do it again?”

I bent over the kitchen sink and raised my satin uniform and even pulled my panties up some more so my bottom was exposed.  Well PP was over like a flash and started spanking me again and I was encouraging more spanking with telling PP to spank me more in the middle right over both cheeks.

Madam walked back into the kitchen “I leave you alone for a few minutes and this happens, what’s going on?”

“As soon as you went upstairs PP pushed me against the sink and lifted my dress up madam and said I need punishing for getting him into trouble”

“Pansy Penny you are to continue making tea and afterwards it’s time for the cane, Helen go and sit down and have your tea and cake with me”

Mmmm I bit into the slice of cake looking right at PP with a cheeky glint in my eye as I suggestively licked the cream off my fingers and lips and drank my tea.

After we had finished and PP had to curtsy lots and made to stand in the corner whilst madam and I were chatting about my new role working for her household (I don’t think I could be happier elsewhere) she said if PP was muttering that I had to count them and that would be how many he would get……….well I might have miscounted and made a few up!   Madam  announced it was time to cane PP.

I had to choose two different canes and to pose with them so that PP could be blackmailed by me to do anything I asked of him in the future!  But I couldn’t believe it that when madam told me to crush his head between my thighs whilst she caned him he only started trying to feel my legs up.

“The dirty pervert is feeling my legs up”

Madam made PP get up and go to the kitchen, she stood a full to the brim glass of water on the tea tray. “If you spill one single drop then we start from the very beginning”

Madam caned PP and then it was my turn, I was a tad disappointed that Pansy Penny hadn’t spilt any water and had received all the 70 strokes of the cane.

“A lesson learnt I think and time to go and do Helens chores off you go” PP was dismissed giving me a withering stare as he/she departed.  Rubbing a very sore welted red bottom.

What would tomorrow bring in this unusual household I thought to myself as I skipped off to go and have a nosey around madams potting shed, I had heard some strange noises coming from there the other day and wondered what might be inside……………………….

 

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Hello all

27th and 28th August I will be heading off to Berkshire to spend some time with my fab friend Mistress Jane, we met quite a few years ago on the Fetish scene and stayed in touch over the years so we often reminisce on the good ole days as well as going out for nice country walks and our love of veggy food, red wine and vintage fashion.

There will be limited space so it’s best to book soon, priority given to those we have double dommed with previously, as well as existing clients previously seen with either of us on a 121 booking, new bookings are welcome and a deposit may be asked for in advance due to the limited availability depending on time and duration of an appointment. You are most welcome to get in touch with either me or Mistress Jane.

Due to the warm spell we have been enjoying I have been buying some new latex, consisting of short tight form fitting bodies, knickers and bras and corselettes as well as some What Katie did and Kiss Me Deadly vintage style lingerie to show off my ample curves to tease you in sessions so I will be packing a selection for my Berkshire visit.

Fancy being spit roasted, electrics, strap-on, humiliation, role plays, sissy wear, TV/Cross Dressing, make-overs, Corporal Punishment, Edge play, Medical play, foot worship, Fetish Nurse, 4 hands massage with 2 dominant therapists! Alternative massage and much more…….

See you soon!

Mistress Helen X

 

 

Humiliated and forced into panties by Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

A very recent role play session which was lots of fun, bear in mind I am very versatile and don’t only do role plays!

The background story line: C was one of those rather boisterous types a proper “jack the lad” at work always fooling around and thinking he had women wrapped around his finger.  Since the introduction of new gym at work and onsite showers he had been taking advantage of leering at the ladies working out in the gym.  Watching them perspire as they ran on the treadmill, watching that sheen of sweat trickle down into their breasts.  It made him rock hard and angry at some of them being a bit stuck up and not falling for his charms.

He was on his fifth visit over the last two weeks into the ladies changing room and spotted a pair of black knickers that looked expensive to add to his little growing collection of worn used knickers he had been selling online, “haha” that will teach those bitches he sniggered to himself as he lifted the black panties and stuffed them into his pocket.  Not before holding them up to his nose and having a good lingering sniff of them.  Some of the ladies working at the firm had got very well paid jobs and they wore very expansive lingerie and Agent Provocateur was a very popular label.

Meanwhile……Ms Ryder was sitting in the security CCTV lounge in a big leather chair casually observing the new security system which had been installed recently.  Lots of the female employees had reported items going astray namely very personal items.

Ms Ryder observed C entering the ladies changing rooms and then sneak out looking rather shifty with something protruding from his pocket.  She panned the camera and watched him enter the foyer to the car park and remove an item from his trousers and panning in for a close view she spotted it was black knickers!

Hmmmmm C had his uses to a degree in the company and had clinched some great deals recently as one of the head sales team.  Ms Ryder had a choice or reporting him to the police and C ending up with a criminal record and a police caution or using the situation to her advantage.  Being high up in the company and overseeing the new security procedures she decided it would be more beneficial to keep matters in house ……… and also a whole lot of fun for her!

Looking up C’s mobile phone she rang him just before he got into his car giving very specific instructions to pay a security deposit into the following account and to report the next day to a specific location and time, to phone and receive further instructions or the police would be involved.  Just  before hanging up she said and wear those black panties you have just stolen or their will be very serious consequences.

On the day C text 18 mins early, Ms Ryder read the text and smiled as she applied glossy red lipstick and took one last glance over the room with everything in plce that she would need and left the room slipping her shiny patent heels on.  Time passed and the phone rang “Hello Ms Ryder it’s me I’m where you told me to be”

Ms Ryder replied “You’re early, ring me back at exactly 12:30”

12:30 ring ring ring ring Ms Ryder answered “come to the following address”

A car pulled up outside and Ms Ryder answered the door “come in C”

C entered the room and looked rather apprehensive.  Ms Ryder walked over just inches from C and pulled his trousers forward looking him directly in the face and stating “excellent the underwear thief did as he was told” C nodded and looked down at his feet rather ashamed.

“Hand over the £70 balance C that you have received from selling expensive lingerie on-line you filthy pervert” C handed a small wad of cash over.  Ms Ryder took it and said “well that will do for starters, you will be reporting here regularly with more cash or I’m reporting you and you don’t want a criminal record”

“No miss” stammered C, “its Mistress to you, my new little sissy slut in training” and being as you have such a low opinion of woman and treat most of the ladies you see like sluts then I’m going to make you into My personal slut!

“Strip down to just those black knickers”, C did as he was told!

“I have decided you look rather fetching in ladies knickers and I see you have the white tennis skirt that Mrs Andrews reported as missing too”!  “Get down on the floor and start showing whose boss around here and who owns your balls C, worship these shiny patent heels”

C dropped to the floor and looking up Mistress Ryders long shapely legs he shuddered inwardly as he used his tongue on the shiny patent leather and heels.  Feeling his cock stiffen in the black knickers he felt elated that he was being punished on such a personal level.

Mistress Ryder stated “that’s enough of that, get up and walk ahead of me up those stairs” In her hands was a leather riding crop which she bought down on each of his cheeks encouraging him up the stairs.

Once they were in the room Mistress Ryder sat on the edge of her bed, “worship these some more little slut” pointing down at her shiny heels with the riding crop, but it didn’t please her “Get up across my knee you little whore thief” C was given a very sound spanking which left his bottom with a fetching red rosy glow.

Mistress Ryder stood up and reached for a harness and jutting out was a large pink cock, she stepped into it and taking a condom expertly rolled it on to her Mistress cock, “Get on your knees slut and worship my cock, she walked backwards slowly with C licking and sucking on the cock until they were in front of the fall length mirrors.  “Just look at yourself C, what a cock sucking whore you have become, your new name is Clarrisa the cock sucking whore cum bucket”

C thanked Mistress and carried on sucking the cock jutting out from the harness strapped securely between Mistress’s string thighs and shapely bottom.

“Get across that bed slut and raise that arse in the air, show me that sissy hole I’m going to violate and abuse it”  Mistress Ryder snapped on a glove and lubed her fingers up.  Clarrisa moaned in a mixture of desire, appreciation and humiliation as the sissy slut hole was stretched around Mistress’s fingers, easing one then two fingers in before Mistress said I’m going to just slip the head of my cock into you today Clarissa and when you leave later you are going to wish I had just pinned you down and buggered you hard”

Clarissa was face down and arse up as she felt the head of the cock just slipping in and feeling so full she moaned as Mistress turned the vibration unit on.  Writhing and wriggling and bucking like a whore so desperate to get more Mistress cock stuffed into her tight little hole (C was not feeling at all alpha male or manly any more, all power had been relinquished and he knew Mistress was in charge, she owned his balls and every part of him)  “Tell me your name” Mistress laughed out as she was thrusting gently into the sissy hole “Clarissa the cum slut knicker thief whore” C cried out with pleasure.

After a while Mistress eased her cock out, “Oh poor little sissy whore, is your bottom sore?” It wasn’t actually a question of course as Clarissa dare not reply, “Get on your back, I’m going to pop some special soothing cream and baby powder on you and a soft soothing nappy for a while”

Clarissa was totally humiliated and begged and pleaded for Mistress not to, Mistress just laughed and eased a nappy under Clarissa bottom and popped on a glove easing some cold cream into the abused hole, sprinkling some baby powder into the very full sissy balls and gently soothing and rubbing it in, Clarissa was almost ready to explode and Mistress Helen could sense this.

“Being as you love ladies knickers so much you can kiss my shapely bottom” Ms H lowered her bottom over Clarissa’s face and lent forward remarking at what a very stiff clitty cock Clarissa had and how it was rubbing across the nappy “fuck that nappy slut, thrust that cock upwards”  Clarissa bucked and fucked the nappy enjoying the very stimulating rubbing sensation of the diaper against her clitty cock.  Mistress Helen moved her rubber gloved hand faster up and down the clitty cocks shaft massaging lots of juicy gooey lube into it, Clarissas breath becoming more and more ragged before she cried out and spurted hot sticky cum all over herself.

Mistress Helen smiled “Oh Clarissa, what a fine sticky mess you got yourself into”

To be continued…………………………………

Written for C (thank you) also for my own memoirs, and to share with you the reader, thank you for reading my blogs and I trust they stir something deep inside you!

**copyright Mistress Helen Ryder**