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Booking Procedures

Please email first with required outline/dates and then we will arrange to follow up with a brief chat.

I do not always My phone to new comers unless you have emailed and included your mobile number in full or the last 4 digits so I have an idea of who is calling.

My time is most productive plotting/planning sessions so that we both get the best experience, genuine sincere clients NEVER quibble about paying a non returnable deposit and understand the reasons.  It’s only ever the people who have no intention of attending that don’t want to pay a deposit!

  • I insist that ALL My new clients pay a deposit 24 hours in advance, NO exceptions!
  • The more complex the session the more time is required to book, think about what you wish to experience.  Lets be realistic as I keep receiving moon on a stick requests to take place in ONE hour!
  • A 50% non returnable deposit is required for ALL first time appointments and sessions from 90 mins hours for repeat visitors.   I will create a unique ref number for when you pay into my account once we have agreed to session. You can make on-line transfer or attend your own bank with My details and ask them to send the deposit over, cash payments into other peoples accounts changed on 24th Jan 2018 to prevent money laundering.  In some cases I am happy to take an Amazon gift voucher.
  • Deposits are a vetting & security process as you are a stranger coming to my well equipped play space in my home.
  • Deposits enable Me to set up the play space to the style of the booking and have essential kit required ready for your unique play time.  The multi functional bondage bed has various attachments that are bolted on, some need removing for massage bookings etc………
  • Provided 24 hours notice given to reschedule your session, the deposit will be moved on one occasion only, after that you deposit again.
  • If you cancel on the day the balance of your tribute is expected as the time has been allocated for you and I won’t be taking another booking at short notice.  If you refuse to compensate My time you will be banned.
  • With the deposit in place we can have a good chat in much more detail and start building on a great rapport.
  • Other deposit method is an Amazon voucher code sent to my Mistress Helen email.  Amazon vouchers can be purchased online and also from some retailers/super markets.  I require the code off the card a full 24 hours+ before you are due for your session.  The code is revealed when you scratch off the panel.
  • If you have My bank info & haven’t sent a deposit and keep sending emails be aware this is a time waster tactic so I will ignore you until you send over a 50% deposit of the full tribute.

The location will only be given after the booking/deposit is all confirmed. There is free parking close by, come and go discreetly and quietly.  I do not have an open door or revolving door policy here.

On the day of your session please ensure you call at the time of your appointment and not 30 mins etc earlier. Deposits were put in place so that I am attracting lovely genuine playthings to torment and control, domination starts at the very point of contact with Me!

The other good thing about you paying a deposit is that your none of the following ever seems to happen on the day of your session and spoil the fun for us both!  Car’s wheel came off on the A23, car crash, fell off a horse/donkey/elephant mother/granny/other family member died, including dog/cat/budgie etc, got run over on a pavement, slipped on a banana skin & twisted ankle etc.  The deposit does indeed appear to be full of positives and a life saver at times!

Having spent thousands on fetish furniture/ equipment, clothing, My website and advertising etc I won’t be skipping town with your “deposit” I also hold a high regard for My reputation in this industry.  Many of My repeat visitors even happily pay in full on their future appointments to save bringing cash along, this is down to their personal choice and mutual trust built between us.

I look forward to speaking with you and meeting you soon.

Mistress Helen

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Attention time wasters only***If after engaging in a phone call, an email, agreement to session after being sent this booking blog link and taking my bank details I do not receive a deposit.  I will circulate your details on the Time Waster forums to warn others of you! If you get cold feet & state this but wish to be considered for a future appointment once you are over your nerves then PAY a minimum £60 Goodwill gesture “gift” IMMEDIATELY this will enable you to have one opportunity to contact Me and commit in the future and have your email, phone number and name kept off the naughty list!

** I never use Paypal as it’s a breach of their terms and far too easy for the TW’s to raise a dispute or get a refund!  So don’t ask.

Hello all

27th and 28th August I will be heading off to Berkshire to spend some time with my fab friend Mistress Jane, we met quite a few years ago on the Fetish scene and stayed in touch over the years so we often reminisce on the good ole days as well as going out for nice country walks and our love of veggy food, red wine and vintage fashion.

There will be limited space so it’s best to book soon, priority given to those we have double dommed with previously, as well as existing clients previously seen with either of us on a 121 booking, new bookings are welcome and a deposit may be asked for in advance due to the limited availability depending on time and duration of an appointment. You are most welcome to get in touch with either me or Mistress Jane.

Due to the warm spell we have been enjoying I have been buying some new latex, consisting of short tight form fitting bodies, knickers and bras and corselettes as well as some What Katie did and Kiss Me Deadly vintage style lingerie to show off my ample curves to tease you in sessions so I will be packing a selection for my Berkshire visit.

Fancy being spit roasted, electrics, strap-on, humiliation, role plays, sissy wear, TV/Cross Dressing, make-overs, Corporal Punishment, Edge play, Medical play, foot worship, Fetish Nurse, 4 hands massage with 2 dominant therapists! Alternative massage and much more…….

See you soon!

Mistress Helen X

 

 

How time flies, it was only last week that I was visiting my friend Mistress Jane to catch up on all the news and go out for a nice walk in the area and in between help assist with some very errant boys!

I always have great fun lending a helping hand and received this email from Mr Groper afterwards:

Dear Head Teacher and School Inspector

Thank you both for an enjoyable session Saturday am. For limp-wristed females, you certainly made your mark. I was not scared of you to begin with, but soon learnt my lesson.
Until the next time.
Mr Groper

You can read all about it here at http://mistressjane.co.uk/category/my-blog/sessions/

Watch this space for more of my own news and stories very soon and I’m in West Sussex for all your spanking desires, bondage, alternative massage, CBT, Role play, Corporal Punishment, Strap-on play, Electrics, Violet Wand, Estim, Anal inspections, Foot worship, foot fetish fun etc

Mistress Helen XX

 

 

 

 

 

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Duo Domination day in Berkshire with Mistress Jane

I am off to visit my friend Mistress Jane to catch up on all the news, take in some country walks, some good wine etc and gang up together on you naughty boys whilst I am there.

Duo Domination is £200 for the hour.

You can email your date/time of preference and outline of previous experience and the style of session that interests you.

Deposits being taken now for ALL new first timers, refunds are not offered if you cancel but will be held for another date.  If for any reason myself or Mistress Jane have to reschedule then you would be offered a refund of the deposit or offered an alternate date (which ever you prefer) contact me for details.

If you have seen either myself or Mistress Jane before then a deposit may not be necessary.

Duo Domination for double the fun and great scope for all sorts of role plays!

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Always so gratifying to receive a thank you message after a session and know that the sub/slave enjoyed his caning as much as I did, thank you dd……….any time 😉
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Wonderful Mistress Helen,
A big thank you for our time together this afternoon. You really are a very clever lady. I am looking forward to continuing my training in the near future.
As you instructed I bought Lady Julia some flowers on the way home. She say they are very nice but I shouldn’t have needed to be told to get them. She says that next time I see you I must beg for twelve nice stingers with the cane for not doing it off my own bat.
I can see I am going to need lots of training and more caning before I reach an acceptable standard.
Your eager and adoring novice
dd
Well I certainly enjoy giving a good caning to all your naughty boys, are you ready to bend over my bench to receive the cane?

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I work within a domestic setting with all manner of instruments and equipment for various scenarios.

I am an experienced Mistress from being a pure hobbyist for many years before embarking on offering professional sessions.  I am friendly caring and approachable but do not wrongly assume this makes me any less “Dominant” ALL scenes are “Safe Sane and Consensual” and also “Risk Aware Consensual Kink”

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