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A recent role play that I won’t divulge ALL the details on this occasion, I was in 1950’s style attire with a full circle dress, petticoats and pinny and my “victim” William as the naughty school boy being spanked for his errant ways. His constant complaints of being made to wear shorts instead of trousers like the other boys (Oh the humiliation haha) and his flirtations with the girls. I do love a good role play when the other player is also fully engrossed.

Lots of over the knee spanking, then on to the punishment bench and strapped down for more severe spanking, tawse and then the cane.

One punished and very excitable boy later made a very sticky mess indeed when confessing to his naughty thoughts!

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Mistress Dita is looking forward to 26th AND 27th November (due to popular demand the extra date added) for 4 handed sensual massage and domination, I’m really looking forward to our special day together too!  Ms Dita has written this introduction.  Book Now!

Ms Dita I am a lifestyle BDSM practitioner, it’s something that I live and work in and have done for a very long time. A natural sadist, CP is something I really enjoy I particularly adore the artistry of the whip. It’s not for the faint of heart, but the safety of the submissive is always paramount to me.

To have an unblemished canvass before me is a true joy. To see you quiver as I draw back my whip, to see you jump as it cracks , bare millimetres from your skin, then to observe your reaction as the white Hot burn of the lash, fills your senses. Dare you ask to feel the kiss of my whip? I love all aspects of play, it’s a journey of discovery for Domme and sub. A good scene is dependent on good communication, and I always ensure that I listen to and respect the boundaries of everyone I play with, whilst ensuring their safety, but not overlooking their needs. It is such a privilege to be asked to work with Mistress Helen.   I also enjoy many other aspects of BDSM especially strap-on play.

We have been friends for a very long time and have played together on numerous occasions, you will see the chemistry between us, and may be treated to the sight of us flirting and enjoying each other. It is very important for a four handed massage, that we work in harmony, mirroring each other, giving you the ultimate in sensation, whilst giving the visual stimulation of our playfulness and flirtation. You will be relaxed, stimulated and aroused as our hands sweep warm oils over you. Lay back and enjoy as two very sensual ladies give you all of their attentions. Spoil yourself!

About me I am a busty and curvy, tattooed lady, who enjoys MANY aspects of BDSM play. I have a wicked sense of humour and genuinely enjoy what I do. I firmly believe that pain and pleasure are two sides of the same coin, spin the coin and the edges blur together.

I’m not available today (Friday 13th Nov) and out of contact much of the day as I am networking and lending a hand on my friends stall at Sexpo.

In response to several people wanting short notice and same day bookings without having ever seen me before NEW clients MUST pay a deposit 24 hours in advance to secure an appointment.

Due to too many previous no shows/wasted time so I am strict over this and it works.  People that are not prepared to FOLLOW booking procedures are clearly time wasters!

http://www.mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk/how-to-book-a-session/

On a more positive note I give thanks to the lovely genuine players out there who follow my procedures and repeat custom, you are appreciated and valued, and fun to session with thank you.

Best regards

Mistress Helen Xx

Mistress Helen Ryder greeted G otherwise known as “sissy Sandra” “come in she beckoned and just to confirm you know exactly why you are here!  SS smiled nervously and replied “Yes Mistress, I’m a satin panty sniffer & sissy slut and I am here for aversion therapy and to be punished””

Mistress & sissy sat side by side on the sofa, ss was trembling and shaking as she confessed to all the underwear drawers she had been rifling through and not just sniffing them but masturbating into them and leaving them all wet and sticky.  This had all started in her younger years living at home with Mother “Filthy little panty sniffer aren’t you sissy Sandra, and wanking that tiny little sissy clit”  Shaking her head and showing her dismay Mistress Helen stood up and instructed ss to attend the punishment room, where she would be given some special aversion therapy.

“Remove all of your clothing slut and you are to wear these” pointing at a pile of feminine items.

Sissy Sandra started dressing with Mistress’s help, rolling each of the luxurious lace top stockings onto ss’s legs and attach them to a frilly frothy Agent Provocateur suspender belt and then sliding up a pair of panties over the top.  “easy access for that slut hole of yours a little later” Mistress Helen smiled mischievously as she spoke.

SS was instructed to sit on the edge of the bed whilst she was fully feminised in full heavy and very slutty make-up.  Lots of strong eye shadow, heaps of eye liner and mascara, then blusher and finally glossy red giant cock sucking lips.

Mistress Helen selected a wig and placed it on ss’s head brushing and teasing out curls and then fixing a little black bow to match the slutty satin short nightie “There that’s better, what a transformation slut, you can now look in the mirror”

SS could not believe her eyes “OMG I look just like my Mother” Mistress Helen laughed and said “Well that serves you right for sneaking into her underwear drawer and wearing her French knickers”

“Come here SS & get over my knee it’s time you were spanked”

SS was wriggling and squirming as each satin spank was felt against her bottom, her little clitty starting to stiffen and leave a sticky damp patch in her panties.  Mistress Helen spanking her bottom over and over until SS could feel a rosy glow.

“Get on the bed and lie on your stomach, time to hogtie you as the Damsel in Distress and take some photos of you looking like a slut”

Mistress Helen was snapping away taking photos and laughing at ss being so helpless “Wow I’m working up quite a sweat, time to change my outfit” Mistress Helen removed her satin pussy bow blouse and placed it over ss’s head so that she could see Mistress stripping off, only know Mistress was peeling off her clothing just inches away and selecting another outfit.

SS was in heaven and exclaimed so under the satin over her

“Oh Mistress I’m in heaven”

“This is aversion therapy SS, I think you are enjoying this a bit too much”

“I think it’s time to get that little sissy hole all wet and juicy and some pussy hole training for you little slut” Sissy Sandra felt a lubed up gloved finger easing into her and then a little vibrating toy inserted.  It felt rather good!

Mistress Helen picked up a paddle and started bring it down on each of ss’s buttocks in turn until they were nice and redder than before.  Adjustments were made on the ropes and SS was tied tighter into the hog tie before Mistress Helen walked around the front and removed the satin blouse of SS’s face and showed her the new outfit, a 1950’s style swing dress with frothy net petticoats underneath and a strap-on cock hidden away under the layers.

“Time to start using those cock sucking lips, open wide and show me how you suck cock”  In fact roll this condom onto my cock like  prozzie, the condom was pushed a little way into sluts mouth.

Sissy Sandra meekly complied with rolling the condom on and sucking and slurping on Mistress’s veiny real looking cock, secretly wishing she would soon be impaled upon it and used like the true slut that was emerging, but that’s another story……….

(photos always taken with express approval)

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Slave C had experienced a very CP based session previously and was keen to see Mistress Helen again but having been away up north and visiting another Dominatrix who had left some very visible bruises and welts that he asked for a much softer option of an alternate massage to include some teasing and nipple tweaking.  Yes a sensual massage was exactly what he needed today!

He arrived and was welcomed up to the room all set out with the massage couch set up and candles flickering, feeling hot and sticky from his journey he first had a shower and then went back into the room and saw Mistress Helen dressed in a skimpy chemise, stockings and high heels.

He was instructed to get up onto the couch and then lay face down, he felt a series of pressures along his back and instructions to breathe in deeply and to exhale again and then be aware of each breath taking him into a state of relaxation.

Warm oiled hands gliding over his skin and then working out the knots and tension he relaxed onto the couch and started to feel the benefits of a very sexy dominant therapist.  Chatting occasionally about what he had been up to and then simply relaxing further and further into the treatment becoming aware of warmed bamboo canes (which Mistress Helen had mentioned) the feeling of heat working deep into his muscles felt so good and then hands again on his skin soothing and stroking and gliding.  The touches becoming very teasing in his upper thighs and gently kneading his bruised buttocks.

Time to turn over and the request of some nipple tweaking produced a shiny pair of clover clamps fastened onto his nipples and tied to a ribbon inserted into his mouth.  “Pull on those slave whilst I work on your arms” His arms being expertly massaged and Mistress Helen placing them in such ways that he occasionally swept over her exquisite breasts.   The ribbon was then removed from his mouth and a soft red satin ribbon tied around his cock and balls and then attached to the nipples with just the right amount of tension.  A blindfold was placed over his eyes so now he wouldn’t see his beautiful Mistress and simply enjoy the sensations.

Mistress Helen massaged his arms, legs, torso and chest with having placed a blind fold on him he couldn’t see what was being lowered onto his face.  “Guess the body part slave and get the answer correct, well there might be a prize” Smelling Mistress’s perfume and being the most obvious of choices he guessed breasts.  “Correct answer slave” feeling the weight coming away from his face and drawing a breath and just in time Mistress Helen eased a hand under his head and smothered him once more counting down from 10.  Excitement taking over he ached to be touched and teased and it’s as if Mistress had read his mind, feeling her hands stroking and gliding all down the length of his torso…………….

Well sorry to leave you in suspense but you will have to guess the rest of the session, maybe try such a session out for yourself.

Slave C left refreshed, relaxed and also invigorated.

Alternate massages are great for beginner sessions and can incorporate some very gentle flogging, prostrate massage, melted wax candle massage oil and as much and little as you wish outside of a regular massage if you are starting to step your toes into the world of BDSM or simply fancy something a little more relaxing.

 

Duo Domination with Berkshire’s Mistress Jane & Sussex’s own, Mistress Helen Ryder…

I’m teaming up with my dynamic Mistress mate so don’t miss out, off on my tour to Berksire soon!

Not ONE but TWO powerful and demanding Dominatrix’s will be joining forces for two days of Duo Domination on Monday 26th and Tuesday 27th of October.

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This will be our 10th get together and as a special celebratory offer sessions on the Tuesday will be £160 for the hour instead of the usual tribute of £200.

Come and enjoy an hour or more of your favourite BDSM activities with not only one but two Mistresses. Your punishment will be our pleasure…Spoil yourself and be indulgent, we intend to!

Novices & Newbies are welcome so don’t be scared off by the thought of two Mistresses, sessions are tailored to your specific needs and requirements. Sensual teasing or taking you strap-on cherry…we promise to be gentle! its twice the pleasure!  With BOTH Mistress’s being qualified in massage we also offer a 4 hands erotic massage to incorporate any light BDSM activities.

Bi….Mistress Janes pet slut T-Girl Gigi may be in the area on Monday 26th so if you’d like her to assist during your session let Mistress Jane know in advance.

Note: We will keep a few spaces available on both days for ‘Same day’ bookings for those of you who are unable to pre book for our Duo Domination event.

BOOKINGS NOW BEING TAKEN for Duo Domination event.

Haha bless 🙂 I think some one is in trouble re next session!

Dear Mistress Helen

Hi. This is Pansy Penny. I have just enjoyed reading your blog about our session last week. Thank you very much for posting it. You made it sound very exciting and lots of fun, which of course is exactly what it was.
It was lovely to meet you; and I really appreciated you dressing up. You looked gorgeous. I was nervous about the start (I did it mainly so you would be more severe with me), but loved the play-acting and the spanking more than I expected. I also loved the way you humiliated and teased me and got me into more and more trouble.
MJ is awesome, and you two together were great. I hope we’ll be able to do a similar session before too long.
By the way, I didn’t spill any water because I braced the tray against the cupboard. At least I got away with something!
Thank you again.
best wishes
Pansy Penny

I was bent over dusting busily away in Madams bedroom and thinking that I had a very busy day ahead of and thank god that pervert handyman has left me alone for a while!  I was suddenly aware of breath on the back of my neck and oh heck guess who!

“Hello Helen, having a fine morning I see dusting away & bending over showing off those lovely legs of yours”

“Huh, you shouldn’t be looking!  What are you doing in madams room, haven’t you any of your own work to be getting on with?”

“I’m only being friendly Helen”

“A bit too friendly for my liking with perving up my skirts when I’m bending down and trying to brush past me rubbing yourself over me as you do, you’re just a pervert!”

“Now now Helen I think you need to do as your told, you’ve got me into trouble enough times with that bitch and if you don’t do as I say I’m going to get you into trouble”

The handy man raised his voice “Get over against that wall and hands on your head”

I had heard madam’s car coming back on the drive and thought yes play long as hopefully madam would overhear whatever was going on and I wondered what the perv had in mind.

I gasped as I felt my maids uniform being pulled up at the back and my panties (small silky black pair) and my stockings and suspender belt were all on show, then suddenly whack down came the handy mans hand on my bottom spanking me again and again.

“Take that you little trouble maker, telling tales on me and running to madam every 5 mins just because I’m being friendly”  “Anyway all you are good for is a lowly housemaid, women’s work & women belong in the kitchen”

I scoffed at that remark and it was the wrong thing to do as he spanked me more and more!

“I got caned the other day because of you and then had my night ruined because that bitch put me in chastity!  She ruined my evening as I had a date and knew I would be getting into her knickers”

I laughed and then received another wallop “No way!  Madam wouldn’t do that”

“Oh yes she does all the time, it’s alright for you, you haven’t been working here long and she seems to like you Helen.  Jane the Cane they call her”

Just as I was being spanked some more Madam appeared in the doorway (haha that old goat would be in a lot of trouble now) I thought with madam seeing me pressed up against the wall and my knickers all exposed and I’m sure she saw the last spanking.

“What’s going on here?”

The handyman started spluttering pathetic excuses for why he was spanking me and I spoke up “madam he has been calling you a right bitch and complaining about me running to you and telling tales and he said all I’m good for is housework”

“So you think being a housemaid is a lowly position, you best come downstairs and you too Helen”

I wondered what madam was going to do and followed her down to the parlour

“How would you like the day off Helen and have the handyman do all your chores and serve tea and cake to us both?”

Wow I couldn’t believe it and thought haha serves that old goat for being such a pervert and trying to put me down.  “I would love that madam”

“Right better had you dress the part, c’mon get those clothes off”

He stripped off looking down rather ashamed and embarrassed and I relished in his uncomfortable predicament and had a big smile on my face, especially when I saw he was wearing a chastity device on his little cock.  Haha I wasn’t in any real danger then from what I could see and obviously madam kept a very tight rein on him (what an unusual household and not like my previous employers) I could see working here could me a real eye opener.

Madam produced a maid’s outfit with stockings, a girdle that was crotchless, frilly panties and little pinny and hat and even a wig and asked me to help dress the handyman.  She then gave me some nipple clamps and told me to pin them onto PP’s niplles over the dress. I had the giggles at first but then felt very powerful and superior watching him squirm and his humiliation of being turned into a maid.

Madam then linked up chains to ankle and wrist cuffs and stuffed a pair of panties in his mouth with some sort of head harness to hold it in place.  I couldn’t stop laughing and poked my tongue out when madam wasn’t looking and whispering “haha just look at you now Mr pervert”

Madam instructed PP to get down on the floor and polish her very shiny skirt, madam always dressed in very sexy clothing like corsets and leather too, no Laura Ashley like my last household!

“Now stay on your knees and kneel up facing me” Madam had a sign and camera in her hand.

Madam stuffed the sign in his hands and it read: Pansy Penny frilly panted pervert please punish me severely.  She told me to stand next to him and to call him Pansy Penny for the rest of the day and that the photos were to ensure he didn’t try to put a complaint in about his employment so madam would have them to blackmail him with for the future.

“Get over here and bend over” Madam had a cane in her hand and she started caning PP’s bottom and I couldn’t help but grin.  “Watch me closely Helen as it’s your turn next, want to get your own back on your spanking earlier”

“Hell yes I do madam” I was given the cane and I started hitting PP’s bottom ignoring the cries of pain and laughing as I did it.

Madam looked at the clock and announced it was afternoon tea time and that PP should do my tea errands and not forget to curtsey.

PP did a half curtsey in my direction and madam made him do it again I laughed and poked my tongue out doing a proper curtsey back and taking the mickey.

“Go and sit down Helen and put your feet up”

Well I didn’t need to be told that twice, laying back on madams comfy sofa and flashing my stockings at PP poking my tongue out again.  “PP hissed just you wait you little bitch it will be pay back at some point”

“What did you mutter” asked madam

“PP called you a bitch madam” Madam pulled him by the chains into the kitchen and fastened a tea tray with two slices of fresh cream Victoria sponge (the very cake that the handyman was going to take around to his new fancy piece later) haha that spoilt those plans!

“I’m just popping upstairs Helen so keep an eye on Pansy Penny and make sure she makes tea to your liking”

“Yes madam”

PP carried on making the tea and I thought to myself right time to get him/her into more trouble!

“I liked what you did earlier, that spanking made me a bit horny, want to do it again?”

I bent over the kitchen sink and raised my satin uniform and even pulled my panties up some more so my bottom was exposed.  Well PP was over like a flash and started spanking me again and I was encouraging more spanking with telling PP to spank me more in the middle right over both cheeks.

Madam walked back into the kitchen “I leave you alone for a few minutes and this happens, what’s going on?”

“As soon as you went upstairs PP pushed me against the sink and lifted my dress up madam and said I need punishing for getting him into trouble”

“Pansy Penny you are to continue making tea and afterwards it’s time for the cane, Helen go and sit down and have your tea and cake with me”

Mmmm I bit into the slice of cake looking right at PP with a cheeky glint in my eye as I suggestively licked the cream off my fingers and lips and drank my tea.

After we had finished and PP had to curtsy lots and made to stand in the corner whilst madam and I were chatting about my new role working for her household (I don’t think I could be happier elsewhere) she said if PP was muttering that I had to count them and that would be how many he would get……….well I might have miscounted and made a few up!   Madam  announced it was time to cane PP.

I had to choose two different canes and to pose with them so that PP could be blackmailed by me to do anything I asked of him in the future!  But I couldn’t believe it that when madam told me to crush his head between my thighs whilst she caned him he only started trying to feel my legs up.

“The dirty pervert is feeling my legs up”

Madam made PP get up and go to the kitchen, she stood a full to the brim glass of water on the tea tray. “If you spill one single drop then we start from the very beginning”

Madam caned PP and then it was my turn, I was a tad disappointed that Pansy Penny hadn’t spilt any water and had received all the 70 strokes of the cane.

“A lesson learnt I think and time to go and do Helens chores off you go” PP was dismissed giving me a withering stare as he/she departed.  Rubbing a very sore welted red bottom.

What would tomorrow bring in this unusual household I thought to myself as I skipped off to go and have a nosey around madams potting shed, I had heard some strange noises coming from there the other day and wondered what might be inside……………………….

 

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I’ve had several of My recent bookings state I am too cheap! (you are always welcome to tip or bring a gift) Smiling at that comment and I have reassured them that they really mean very reasonable compared to many other professional Mistress’s.  I have set my rates for the reason that I know many of you NEED and DESIRE sessions on a more regular basis and setting my rates as they are makes it achievable for you to fulfil those urges and build a better rapport with Me your Mistress over time.

I invest in My equipment and have spent many thousands on high quality toys/furniture/website/photos/clothing/advertising as well as the usual sundries of good quality lube, gloves, enemas, medical grade cleaners etc.  I care about my clients and there well being.  If I were running my sessions from another location I would of course have to increase my fee to cover renting industrial premises or buy another property.  I work from my own establishment legally.

I have turned over two dedicated rooms for play and feel this reflects in my tribute fairly.

I do not see more than 2 to 3 clients max on any one day and being as I get booked for longer sessions of 2 to 3 hours this also would not be possible.  Some days I do not see anyone so it is not high volume traffic at my premises and is very discreet.

I offer affordable quality/experienced domination sessions with a lifestyle background going back to 1996 when I first starting attending fetish events.  I have  also worked alongside several other Mistress’s who have the same ethos of BDSM being available for the average gentleman and not just those with deep pockets.  Reasonable rates does not indicate a poor quality Mistress and it is down to the individual to charge what she likes and feels happy charging based on her establishment/session interests after setting aside her tax/outgoings that the individual is still making a wage.

I can be available to session at the Gatwick Dungeon location in Horley but again keeping my rates REAL it will be a higher tribute then what I ask for staying at my base due to hire charges and travel costs/time.  A one hour booking in the dungeon will be from £180!

So what does the average week bring me in my world I am often asked, looking back over the last week it has been #FootWorship #Pegging #StrapOn #Humiliation #UrethalSounds #RolePlay #Hogtie and #Bondage #MedicalPlay #Nettles #CBT #CP #Electrics not ALL in one session as some people may only have one particular activity that they enjoy and it’s perfectly fine to have as many activities as you like or as little with time permitting of course.

The more complex the session the more time is required, otherwise the session is too rushed and if it’s a very intense session you may need time to unwind at the end. A hot shower, cuppa and a biscuit a little unwinding is sometimes what’s needed after an intense experience.

See you soon

Mistress Helen X

I recently had a lovely couple approach me for a session where I was invited to take the females strap-on cherry, after several phone calls to become at ease with each other we arranged the date and it was really a very special occasion which I will treasure in my memory 🙂 and certainly would love to explore more with this amazing lovely couple.  The session was to be about sensation and the senses a very sensual experience before leading on to more carnal pleasures of the flesh!

The lady wrote up a beautiful piece of erotic lit which I have approval to share with you the reader, please enjoy 🙂

I am surrounded by thick, velvety blackness.
The mask blocks my vision in totality, not even the slightest silver of light penetrates the dark.
I am lightly restrained. Just enough to keep me in place. It is enough.
I hear voices, muted discussions. The sound of toys being moved, arranged. I pay surprisingly little heed to the distractions. In the words of Doris Day, what will be, will be. I am under no illusion, but wait with nervous anticipation nonetheless.

My senses are drawn to my back, as hands move lightly over my skin, swiftly joined by another pair.
My skin is caressed, explored like never before. No part of me is sacred, nor would I wish it to be.

The light touches give way to gentle scratching. I hear the unmistakable sound of my twin blades being drawn against each other and shiver with pleasure.
Cold hard steel against my skin is something that can thrust me into subspace surprisingly quickly.

Claws and knives. My senses are aflame, my arousal growing with every passing moment.
Fingers graze my inner thighs, taunting me with the promise of more.
I squirm, wanting the fingers to touch me far more intimately. I am teased for what seems like hours. My frustration and my arousal increasing to epic proportions.
My mind knows no logic. I am caught entirely in the moment, a moment of promise that the pleasures to follow will be of levels never previously experienced.

I feel a sudden coldness on my clit, as a lubricant is liberally applied. Fingers explore me, teasing, bringing me to the edge, over and over. Each time I reach the edge of the precipice, I am cruelly denied.
I beg, plead, just allow me this release.
But Master knows me too well. One would be a drop in the ocean of my capacity and desire, and to allow it too soon , would curtail a significantly bigger orgasm.

They toyed with me for what felt an age. My body wracked with desire. Shaking with need. I slip deep into my head to try to gain some focus, some control, but even this escape is denied when my torment takes the forming of a wand.

When the orgasm finally breaks from me, all control is gone. My body bucks against the restraints, and a tsunami erupts from me.
This is the start of many hours of play.

I am on a wave of pleasure.
Hands constantly touching, stroking, probing, pinching, spanking, caressing.
My senses in joyful confusion as they become overloaded with input.

My Master and my beautiful tormentor take it in turns to use me then they both use me together, simultaneously entering me. I am there to be used and enjoyed, yet i know my enjoyment is also paramount.
I strain to see their faces, gauge their expressions, but alas this is impossible when they are behind me.
My joy is to see Masters face during play. It allows me to read his desires and to see his pleasure.
I take reassurance that the sounds I hear are those of pleasure.

By the time I reach my final, massive, orgasm. I have been fucked by fingers and hands, cocks and dildos. I have soaked the floor more times than I could possibly remember. I have been swept away on a tidal wave of emotion and sensation.
The experience surpassing my wildest imagination.
My gratitude to Master and Mistress for something that has completely changed my perspective.

 

Credits to D a very special lady and her Master who gave me the privilege to share her and this wonderful experience.