I am currently away at BDSM Villa in Malaga from 5th June to 10th June inclusive and I am available for sessions from 11th June in West Sussex in my privately owned fully equipped play spaces. Emails will be checked periodically and my phone will be switched back on in the evening of 10th June. I look forward to seeing all my favourite kinksters and meeting new ones on my return.

Wicked thoughts
Mistress Helen

Hi everyone

A reminder that if you want a bank holiday booking to come and play and have some fun then you need to be getting in touch by tomorrow Friday the latest and deposits in by 7pm, any emails sent after that will be looked at late Monday afternoon from 4pm.

My phone will be ignored and I will only possibly answer calls from established clients over the bank holiday weekend to book in from Tuesday.

This is due to the EIGHT time wasting enqs over the last bank holiday, I’m not dealing with this again.  If no one makes a confirmed booking by tomorrow eve I am taking the bank holiday off, like many other Mistress’s.

I have some availability next week and as mentioned it’s double domination 29th/30th with Miss Kitty Bliss (see other blog for info)

Keep it kinky

Mistress Helen XX


Not long to go until My amazing friend Miss Kitty Bliss is here to team up for all manner of fun on our willing victims, just SIX more sleeps in fact from today! 29th and 30th MAY

We always receive lots of interest and have people book in quite early and then closer to the time sadly not able to commit so space has become available, book now to reserve your wonderful play time, come serve TWO feisty Alpha females!

Although our promo poster is a medical theme, we are offering all styles of sessions and NOT purely medical.  Pegging, sensory deprivation, CP, Spanking, Sissies, maid duties, EStim, Venus 2000, Bondage, Shibari and much more!!

Miss Kitty Bliss is also available for hypnosis sessions solo, you can email Me and I will direct you to contact Mistress Kitty to discuss a hypno session and script.

We are also offering short sharp shock sessions of CP for £100 for 30 minutes!

Foot worship solo £60 for 30 mins or double feet fix at £100 for 30 mins!

We are also considering a maid to assist us for the day, making our refreshments, some tidying up and at our beck and call for either a half day or full day, tribute will be from £150 depending on hours.  Email or call Me to discuss, you will also be starring in some photos and can have the option of your face being omitted or wear a mask.  A maids uniform will be supplied.

Double Domination with Miss Kitty Bliss in May

Someone to paint my lounge: who is experienced at painting walls, a job well done with attention to detail.  No mess, no patchy walls, no paint on light switches etc, using white matt paint over existing pale colour, no filling required first, just a wash over with sugar soap.  It will take 2 days max.
Refs required from other Mistress’s preferred.
27th/28th June, 28th/29th June OR 29th/30th June are the date options, ONLY over TWO consecutive days!
I require £100 deposit from you, if you turn up and do the work you receive it back on completion.  If you cancel with less than 4 days notice I will keep it and no reschedule or refunds given.  If you fail to complete the work over two consecutive days, you also forfeit the deposit, due to previous time wasting and the time spent in correspondence.
I will give you an amazing TWO hour BDSM session consisting of the likes listed on My website with your boundaries and favourite play taken into account.  This is a solo session with ME.
ONLY apply if you fully meet the above and agree to the conditions.
Whilst I will be present I do expect you to work unsupervised and crack on with the job.
I will supply the paint, dust sheets, paint rollers and brush to cut in, as well as light refreshments and snacks.
Anyone who feels the above is unfair or not achievable need NOT apply or bother to comment on Twitter!  Stay away Trolls.
I painted this room Myself 3 1/2 years ago in two days on My own to a very high standard so I know it can be done.
Email Me to apply and follow up with a phone call, looking forward to hearing from someone who knows what they are doing!

A reminder that I am working in Yorkshire on 10th/11th May as per other blog info With Mistress V and Mistress Helena, so looking forward to these events with such lovely ladies!

I am actually away from real time sessions with My travel re above from 9th to 13th Inclusive!  See below *** Other news

Bank Holidays: Having received EIGHT enqs all wanting a short notice appointment at a very specific time with NO flexibility what so ever, I will ONLY be taking bookings for bank holidays if pre booked a day or two ahead with deposit in the bank.  I will be IGNORING My phone and NOT replying to ANY new emails over a bank holiday from this moment on.  Bank holidays bring out the worst in people that are bored, have too much time on their hands and nothing better to do than contact a hard working Professional Mistress and waste her time.

Expecting Me to drop any plans I have and not show any respect for that or be at all flexible makes Me question if those enqs were at all genuine in the first place.

I suggest to those who have no intention of ever coming to see Me or other Ladies to contact the Samaritans if you need to talk with someone.  Volunteer for a charity or homeless shelter/soup kitchen during the holidays.  Be a worthwhile member of society rather than a leach and utter nuisance on a hard working tax payer!  Remember the Devil makes work for Idle hands.

If you have seen Me before I still require some notice as I do have a busy life outside the dungeon too, when I do not have appointments booked in during the holidays I obviously make other plans!

*** Other news: I will be helping out Madame C in Hampshire on 14th May for a Birthday party for one of her lovely sissies.

I’m available in Sussex from 15th May, I do have some availability today 7th May and this evening and tomorrow.  Thursday 9th May morning is very limited as I then travel to Yorkshire that day.

I look forward to seeing my regular and new play things very soon

Wicked thoughts

Mistress Helen XX



Two very strict ladies teaming up for “STRICTLY DISCIPLINE” sessions on 17th June in Kent at Lady Amber’s chambers and then 18th June in Burgess Hill at My premises.

TWO days of very red hot bottoms!  I am looking forward to this immensely

** Note this is CP, Spanking, Caning, Tawse, Flogging, all “Impact Play”

Good boys may be given permission to worship leather respectfully if agreed!

Will there be “Happy Endings” Hmmmm yes when you depart from our wonderful company, take it away with you boys.  Lady Amber is a non sexual Mistress and any relief is on your own time NOT ours.

We find CP enthusiasts are not looking for a H/E and the endorphins released in CP sessions leaves you on a happy high.

**Note to My boys, I will be administering My usual skills with My wonderful gadgets/machinery outside of the above events as I see fit!

Double Domination with Lady Amber


I will be teaming up with my evil lil sis Miss Kitty Bliss for double domination in Burgess Hill West Sussex on the above dates.  We love ALL manner of BDSM play and kink, from hard strict severe CP to roleplay and medical roleplay scenarios, each session unique and bespoke to your particular interests.  See My sessions tab for FULL list of interests.

Here is a link to visit Miss Kitty Bliss own website 

Located in Burgess Hill just 20 mins from Brighton as well as Gatwick, free parking, local train station, it’s a great venue that’s easy to plan your journey.

Concise courteous emails to Me, Mistress Helen Ryder followed up with a polite call from your mobile phone.  Lets discuss what mischief, fun and games we can make!

Double Domination with Miss Kitty Bliss in May

On the above date I will be teaming up with the gorgeous Mistress Helena for play times between 11am to 4pm.   To book your fun & games send all polite respectful enqs  to 07557 516183 and visit the website for details of services that We enjoy!

Two Alpha females who will take full control of your mind and body, from CP, Pegging, Spanking, Humiliation, full cross dress service, Prison cells, Confinement/Lock down and much more! Sadistic and twisted as well as sensual teasing domination, your limits respected.


I have My lovely TGirl sis coming to play on the above dates, we offer limited exclusive play times and book up quickly, get in touch to secure your deviant naughty double domme fun with us!  This is at My private fully equipped premises in Burgess Hill.

After a very long journey today as trains were up the spout!  I am safely installed back in Sussex and raring to see My Sussex play mates, having some play times already secure in My diary this coming week, however I do have availability at various times so book ASAP!