I have one play time available Monday 1st April from 4:30pm and two during the day time on Tuesday 2nd.

I will then be away on 3rd April through to 8th April inclusive in Yorkshire, whilst I am visiting Yorkshire I will be meeting up with Miss V

This is with a view to offer both solo and domination domination seasons in the future when I am visiting the area.  I also plan to meet up with some other Yorkshire Mistress’s to work with.

I am available for play times in Sussex in My superb well equipped play rooms from 9th April, emails will be checked daily whilst away and deposits for new clients and long sessions as per usual methods will be possible to secure your fun on My return.

See you soon

Mistress Helen XX



On the 27th and 28th March I will have my wicked lil sis Miss Kitty Bliss coming to join Me for sessions, she is also available for one to one hypno sessions.  We only offer limited play times so it is best to book in ASAP, occasionally we have availability close to the date so it’s worth getting in touch.

Two gorgeous demanding Mistress’s to tease and torment you, can you handle it?!

Book now!

My suitcase is packed, My last availability to come & play is tomorrow 4th Feb from 5pm up to 8pm finish or 5th Feb at 12 midday or from 4pm to 6pm finish. I return on 17th and My phone will be back on for calls on 18th Feb and then I’m back to sessions on 19th Feb 🏖️🍾☀️

Book in ASAP if you desire a session very soon as otherwise it’s from 19th Feb.  I will be checking emails over couple of days whilst away where it is possible to do so.

27th/28th March is the next double domme day with Miss Kitty Bliss, this is TWO very experienced Mistress’s dominating you!  We had a great couple of days teaming up on the Sussex and London boys.  We will also be attending Club Pedestal again as we had such a great time there last week.

My assistant Miss Ruby Vixen came along on one of the double domme days to participate in some smothering and trampling play, she took to it like a Duck to water and is looking forward to joining in on more play times! Miss RV is mainly a voyeur assistant with emphasis on assisting with light play as the above or spanking.  She will not be doing strap-on play for pegging or caning and more extreme BDSM activities.  Miss Kitty Bliss works with Me several times through the year and can come along by special arrangement for the harder BDSM play.

I also have My dear TS friend Miss Joanne Armstrong, a mature TS who is very playful as well as strict, she visits Sussex usually once a month and we often collaborate on make-over photo shoots as well as TS/Double domme.  I fondly refer to Jo as big sis and Miss Kitty Bliss as little sis.  I am not looking for any further assistants as the people I work with are very reliable and have the same ethos and ethics as Me! 😍

However I am happy to work with other established ladies who have their own website and ethics.

I will be tweeting on occasions whilst I am away so do keep your eyes on My Twitter stream.

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen 👌🤗❤️

I took ownership of a lovely new CBT Pillory yesterday, lovingly made by one of My special bois.  Naturally it needed to be road tested so as soon as it was installed in the dungeon I ordered slave to strip and then I took control of his balls slipping them into place and his cock following through.  Tied down tightly by his balls to an attachment, wrists and ankles cuffed in sturdy leather cuffs attached to the pillory and that’s when the fun began!

Attaching EStim pads to his erect cock and one on his sac area, cranking up the electrics that he was doubling over and shrieking to My amusement.  Then out came the magic wand for some teasing, alternating between pain and pleasure.  EStim is very versatile as it can be used on a low setting for a super sexy stimulation time or I can be a real bitch and crank it up and enjoy being sadistic.  Not to worry Mistress is always aware of each individuals personal boundaries and can read each slave like a book.

Well the Pillory was truly baptized and is a great new addition to My dungeon! Book a session if you fancy some CBT or come along for all My other delightful strict, sometimes very sensual domination.

I am always adding to My kit, investing back into My kinky business with the best toys and essentials. I never run out of lube in My dungeon (thank Goddess hahaha)I’m  highly organised and very passionate in this wonderful chosen industry.

Yesterday after the CBT Pillory was used and My boi had left. I did a deep clean of My dungeon, a stock take and restock in the clinic of needles, sterile lube for sounds, checking I have enough Perasafe and Selgiene Ultra for hospital grade cleaning as well as Clinell wipes etc a jolly good tidy up and some new organisation.

I have a super busy weekend of long extended sessions so it’s either tomorrow (Friday 25th day time) or from Tuesday 29th Jan that I can see anyone else.

Due to a cancellation there is space for a playtime with Miss Kitty Bliss and Myself on 31st and 1st Feb.  Don’t put off that double domme fantasy any longer, come and live it!

I am no longer associated with The Sissy Retreat and will continue doing My own thing in regards sissies and maids in Burgess Hill, just as I have previously over the last ten years  It’s not feasible to turn work away & plan My life around an event that doesn’t happen.

See you soon slaves, subs, sissies and kinksters

Mistress Helen xXx


My gorgeous friend Miss Ruby Vixen has had an interest in BDSM for a while, she sells some of her hot used heels on a website already and loves to tease and torment men that she is now taking it to the next level.  Miss RV will be coming along on request to sessions as a voyeur as well as assisting with spankings, wearing a strap-on for spit roasting and general assisting.  Very useful to have an extra pair of tormenting hands to turn the electrics up in the dungeon!  She is really looking forward to coming along and watching you writhe, wriggle and moan whilst we do delightfully wicked evil things to you!

It’s just an extra £50 for the first hour she joins a session and then £40 every hour thereafter.  Deposits will apply due to her travel to Burgess Hill.  There will not be solo sessions with Miss RV and certainly no sexual services so do not make a complete pillock of yourself by asking!

Miss Ruby Vixen is available with advance notice and usually Thursday’s

Miss Ruby Vixen

Miss Ruby Vixen

Good news that I have had My operation and both lens replaced in eyes and I am healing well.  I am actually back in sessions today onwards with My regulars and seeing new play mates from Friday 11th Jan when back in full glamour mode of wearing make-up.  If you are new and want to come play before Friday just be aware I will be the kinky strict girl next door look!

Up and coming events are 12th Femdom Tea Party

25th Queen Bee’s with the gorgeous Miss Kim in London

31st Jan Miss Kitty Bliss here for sessions and Pedestal that night so we are pondering on if to go along for a few hours.

1st Feb Miss Kitty Bliss here for doubles from 12 midday as we will need some sleep if we attend Pedestal.

I’m teaming up with Joanna Armstrong for The Burgess Hill Sissy Academy Days, make-overs/photos and play at various dates throughout the year and also by special request.

One of My friends is very interested in coming to assist and be a voyeur on sessions, some extra pocket money for her and lots of fun.  She is 28, slim, totally gorgeous and a lovely lady, watch this space for an announcement!

I have one place available for Malaga, send an email if you would love to come and have lots of fun in the sun.  It’s more reasonable for the 3 nights fully inclusive bed/board/food that you would have thought with a tribute to Moi and your flight on top for you to book/pay. Transfers from the airport to the villa can be arranged.  We haven’t set the dates yet but it will be late May/June/July/August for a THREE night stay.  I will need to have met you and played a couple of times between now and going away.

Happy healthy 2019 everyone

Mistress Helen xXx

In 2019 I will hold My multi slave events as well as attending Malaga with THREE slaves in tow for fun in the sun. I have THREE slaves/subs attending now.  It will be 3 nights away with board/food/all beverages included in your booking for the villa and you are responsible for booking your flights, pick up from the airport can be arranged. Serious enquiry’s are welcomed and we need to have met and played together a couple of times before the Malaga mini fetish holiday. There will be a set daily rate for Moi divided up equally between the THREE slaves. POA with 50% deposit at time of booking and balance in full 48 hours before we depart.


This blog was updated 12th March 2019 to reflect the 3 attending, another trip to BDSM Villa will be arranged in the near future. 

The multi slave event will take place on Monday 4th March from 11:30am to 2:30pm with time set aside afterwards to wind down, have some light food and refreshments.  £230 with 50% deposit taken at time of booking, balance on the day.

The nature of play will include some small periods of confinement, sensory dep, interaction with other slaves if desired. Spanking, CP, EStim, Venus2000 and much more! All boundaries and interests discussed in advance.


I won’t be available 2-12th Jan as I will be having eye surgery, book now if you’ve been thinking of coming to see Me! I should be all seeing again & ready and raring to kick arse from 12th Jan and the double domination date of 31st Jan and 1st Feb with Miss Kitty Bliss is 100% happening in regards My eyes!  In fact if things are still blurry by then Miss KB will be My eyes and it will be a bit like pin the tail on the donkey!  Mwhahahahaha just joking 🤣 🤣 🤣 I will honestly be fine and available again from 12th Jan if not before!


It may well be the end of any prescription specs, I will have some plain glass ones for specs fetish.

One of My chaps was asking what/why so an edit here and further edit for the FULL story:

I have the early stages of a slightly more rare type of cataract in My right eye (caused by trauma) and with a high prescription for long distance and now reading I need a multifocial lens and both eyes having lens replacement cost £6,836.00 and that is with 10% discount given, Ouch………………………

Rather than join the NHS waiting list and (possibly go blind in one eye whilst waiting) and not get the full treatment required for My eyes I have booked this private. 

The NHS will only do My right eye and then only cut My eye open, remove My lens and replace with a monofocial lens. Which will not 100% correct My vision and then I will still need reading specs for close work.  Going private also covers any top up laser treatment.  The NHS won’t do this.  My left eye is also a very high prescription of -7 so it’s not feasible to wear lop sided specs with one heavy prescription and a plain lens with reading varifocial one side or wearing only one contact lens.  The level of My prescription and other complications is making it more complex.  At the end of the day I am having MY eye cut open and lens taken out and replaced so I want it done once only and have the best treatment possible!

Whilst I’m a real time Dominatrix rather than online Findom, kind donations would be greatly appreciated with the high cost of this operation.  Please email if you would like to contribute to My eyes and help Me pay back the finance loan and deposit which are hitting My pockets extremely hard!  Especially with the loss of income whilst I am unable to work.  Another 1K hit to My self employment!

It is after all something very essential to living/My wellbeing and not some daft high end pair of shoes or handbag!

New eyes for 2019 All the better for seeing you with! 😘😘

Mistress Helen xXx

The Lowdown of the person behind it, updated 2020!

I am not usually one to air laundry in public but there are still little rumors floating about so here goes.

The woman who caused it was an utter idiot and got confused in a basic exercise at the gym threw a weighted ball in my face instead of simply passing it.  I had been in a laying down position to sitting up so didn’t stand a chance!  My nose was split open on the upper right hand side bridge and I have a scar!  My specs which were only a few months old and cost over £600 were badly damaged.  The eyesight test I had at the time of new specs showed my eyes to be healthy and normal, 6 months after the gym accident showed the damage that had been done. I carried on working on occasions with said person but later on I broke away due to the gaslighting and other weirdness such as ignoring my visits to Yorkshire on social media, doing nothing to promote my visits.  Putting up spiteful posts on Twitter aimed at me stating things like boring and high protocol can play elsewhere.  High protocol because I queried the basic provision of lube or any sterile lube in her premises, she used cooking fat (Trex for sounding) both irresponsible and dangerous. 

She even suggested I wait to get my eyes done on the NHS having rang my partner on return from the clinic the very day of just returning from an assessment! No offer of chipping in at all as she caused it!  My partner was still paying some of her bills at that time as that’s what she does!  Only interested in him for his money.

I tried to be the bigger person and forgive simply for my partners sake as he had been friends with her for many years (she had manipulated him well) but after much shit stirring, general two faced bitching to a friend I introduced her to.  Then waiting outside the loo for me to come out on a group night out to have a word, my patience by then was pretty thin!   She stated my partner thought the air needed to be cleared (this was in fact a lie) as I asked him afterwards.

Another time I’ve had her slag off someone I had admired for her style and hard work in this industry and hoped to maybe work with one day.  In front of other slaves at a BBQ how the Mistress’s photos were all photo shopped and bathroom tiles are not that size.  I’ve now worked with this amazing lady and she is stunning and her tiles are the size in the pics in real life.  Imagine being so jealous bitter and twisted that you have to make stuff up about others…..

Back to bonkers she has no real respect for me or my personal relationship.  Earlier on she had been very friendly and I saw a really nice side of her, but not for long!  She then went on to involve my partner in keeping secrets about something very trivial and told the rest of the word her business.  The other Mistress I was friends with knew it all and slipped up by spilling the beans at an event the other one wasn’t attending. She even sent my partner text messages whilst we were away on holiday being really off to him and disrespectful to me regarding the info being passed on to me. 

I had my friend Jo visiting and bonkers rang to have a go at us because we were doing a photo shoot involving dress’s that actually belong to my friend and trying to tell me how to run my business!  I stood up to her, so did my friend and then she throws a fake wobbly.

Attending a Femdom event, which bonkers came along to just a couple of weeks after surgery and blanked me at first, then chatted briefly.  Was downright rude to one of my friends for something naughty one of her slaves did.  We were all involved in writing up punishments (all in good humour and jest) and she wasn’t having any of it. Ruined the group photo by acting like a fool.  She was really off towards me, to the point of actually giving me some sort of odd Paddington Bear stare across the room, later admitting she had done so because she thought I was giving her funny looks and this other Mistress pointing out I had just recently had eye surgery.  Even at this point I was being polite for my partners sake and knew any friendship was over.  Seriously you can’t make this utterly childish rubbish up!

The other Mistress I was friends with seems to be passing back n forth info so earlier this year Jan 2020 whilst out at a Femdom event in London.  I told her in reply to her offer of visiting her new place that I wouldn’t be able to maintain a friendship built on any foundation of trust.  That the two of them could stick with each other and leave me out of their drama and bitching.  I was sick to death of the interference and negativity and don’t want people like that in my life. 

The funny thing is they have both lied about what each other have said to me, the lady in London felt so bad on her return from a visit there and stated she had joined in on the laughing over Me and had seen a really nasty side to bonkers! That she wasn’t sure if she wanted to go back again (but has) so that proves she is flaky and untrustworthy. The London lady  felt the need to meet with me for lunch and apologise and clear the air.  We did meet and discussed various things that had gone on after that second visit but I was on my guard after that.  I was told how they were all in a group with a slave included laughing about me behind my back, with him admitting I was the brunt of the toxicity at present and it would be someone else’s turn next!  Hmmmmmm well good luck with that friendship as I’m well out of it!

I’ve seen bonkers tear a slave a new arsehole for something she should have taken responsibility for herself.  Having profiled people in the police I see right through her where others are taken in.  Suckers!

They do say keep your friends close and enemies closer but I prefer to keep people I can’t trust well away, many miles away and there they can stay!