West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

Tribute and contact

Email: helen-ryder@hotmail.com as first contact please, I love meeting new people and will reply to all polite, respectful well constructed emails within 48 hours, emails that are lewd and crude are deleted.

Mobile: 07510 698761   Call between 9:00am to 8:00pm  No phone texting replied to!

DOMINATION & ROLE PLAY with Professional Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

I have My OWN well equipped domestic dungeon

All play times are secured with a non refundable 50% deposit, if you need to reschedule then your deposit will be moved to one new date.  The booking blog gives full details of what is expected from you.

Some gentleman like to bring  a lovely gift or tip along with their tribute, this is always appreciated, see further below for My suggestions.  I love being spoilt!

CP/Spanking/Impact Play Only

  • SHORT SHARP SHOCK! Enter, drop your trousers & bend over for 6/12 of the best or a good spanking max of 30 mins £70
  • One hour £120 or £150 to include the slubb or wand or Venus2000 at the end
  • 90 mins £160 or £190 to include the gadgets above
  • Two hours £220 or £240 as above


  • 60 mins £150 this is basic BDSM (pick 3 interests)
  • 90 Minutes £190 this allows lots more play items and best for Medical play bookings too, which an hour is not long enough
  • 2 Hours £250
  • 3 Hours £360 then £140 each additional hour
  • 1 hour double domination with visiting established Mistress Miss Kitty Bliss or Mistress Leather Amber £250 longer sessions available POA Please note this is West Sussex rates for doubles, touring will incur different rates
  • 1 hour double domination/kinky play time with TGirl Ms Joanna Armstrong from £250 https://twitter.com/JoannaArmstro18
  • Solo, double, triple, quadruple or more possible, you need to be flexi on dates/times and a very large budget to play with!  This will only take place at either The Gatwick or Brighton Dungeon.
  • Couples at My discretion in Burgess Hill 90 mins £220, each additional hour after that £150 each additional hour, both of you to call Me when able to chat together, no surprise bookings for another party as it’s not consenting!   This is BDSM play not sex at My premises.  Otherwise it’s at a commercial dungeon and rates are below.

Gatwick or Brighton Dungeon

On occasions I session in a larger play space, sessions are available at either the Gatwick or Brighton Dungeon

90 mins £300 Gatwick, Brighton £330 Couples £360

Two hours £350 Gatwick, Brighton £400 Couples £460

This tribute is inclusive of dungeon hire  A full 24 to 48 hours notice is required to book this location.  I am not passing on My time/Travel just My fee and dungeon hire.  This is on par with other Mistress’s there.


  • Enema £5.00 for disposable bulb £10 for fleet, applicable on all tribute scales
  • Caging only as per details on session page £80 per hour (play not included) Only at Burgess Hill minimum  TWO hour booking unless you have booked a BDSM session with time added on to be caged
  • Catheter £20
  • Scrotal saline infusions £30
  • Vet wrap £35
  • Multiple play piercings from £10 to cover 20  (POA for anything over 20)

** I do not profit from other adult providers, we are simply playing together and helping each other out in sessions**


My preferred method is a bank transfer and details will be provided once we have set up a session.  I do NOT use Paypal.  In some cases I may accept an Amazon gift code.  Cash drop off as per blog info incurs a higher fee for meet/greet, Always check with Me first.




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Booking Procedures blog: click here


My availability for play times:

Monday to Friday 9am to 8pm finish

Saturday and Sunday 10am to 6pm

I am a well established, highly respected and  very competent Dominatrix with regular attendees so it’s best to book ahead where possible if you have limited time constraints.  I do take on new clients provided you follow My booking procedures blog.  I run a fun but tight ship.

Extended Sessions

  • Extended bondage ONLY sessions 3 hours £240 involves a variety of positions and time alone
  • 4 Hours £350 to include a light refreshment break
  • POA basis on overnights and anything not advertised

Social Events

Coffee Meets: £100 either a coffee shop or at My premises

Lunch/Dinner £150

Out of pocket expenses, food/drink covered by you.

Alternate Massage

90 minute  £190 at My premises in Burgess Hill

Filming Slaves

On occasions I advertise on Twitter for specific dates, you will need to bring photo/age I.D and sign a model release form.  The activities will be which ever I choose to do on the day, a mask can be worn.  Tribute is £120 and you will be here for 2 to 3 hours.  Filming isn’t a way to get a cheap session, it’s a different type of fun way to serve and be useful.  There will be camera setting up and breaks between scenes, so this doesn’t flow like a dedicated session would.  I would not advise this to the inexperienced player, especially NOT a first session.


Gifts, spoil ME

I really love receiving gifts and it makes a great impression, and you can show your appreciation of a great session by leaving a review using the link below.

Review http://mistressreview.com/Mistress-Reviews/Mistress-Helen-Ryder~54804.html  

Follow Me on Twitter and re-tweet my events and almost daily uploads https://twitter.com/MsHelenRyder

Suitable Gifts that I would love:

Money, it’s simple and the best, send your hard earnt money to My account.  I LOVE being spoilt!!!

Beautiful clothing from All Saints, send Me vouchers (perfect, thank you) ALLSAINTS UK: Gift cards and vouchers, shop now.

Equipment from Quality Control, The London Tanners, Ouch UK,  McHurt & other good quality fetish suppliers, please ask Me what I require.

I love receiving perfume and it’s wonderful smelling divine! Ask Me which one I’m running low on, many of My favourites are by Creed, Tom Ford or Penhaligons.

AMAZON GIFT CODES, very useful and great for spending as I see fit, bought online or buy from a shop & scratch off to reveal and email Me the code along with a message.

John Lewis or Selfridges vouchers.

Unsuitable Gifts: Alcohol of your own choice, chocolates or any other food items of your choice, NO flowers or indoor plants due to allergies/poisons.  No monogram or name gifts as this is pointless.