This blog was simply going to be about My love of perfume and receiving a beautiful gift today, it then diverted to “stuff” I need to express and get off My Mistress chest!  So here goes……………..

Perfume evokes memories, creates new ones and when you pick the right one it makes Me feel special as well as smelling gorgeous.

I’m not one of these faithful to one signature scent ladies, I adore so many different perfumes and love the collection I have to pick/choose how I wish to smell and feel that day.  Did anyone see the episode of Killing Eve when Villanelle goes into an exclusive perfumers and states she wants to smell powerful?  That’s Me when I spray one of My Tom Ford scents.

One of My bois loves scents and we were recently chatting about Jo Loves, Jo Malone MBE created this range after selling Jo Malone to Estee Lauder.  With finding it difficult to get into London at present as it’s a whole day out of work and not wanting to be in crowds at weekends I mentioned the discovery set by Jo Loves and I was thrilled today to receive this wonderful gift arrive by DPD!

He said how much he loves catching My scent as he is strapped down over a bench or across My lap for a good spanking or other fun pass times here.

I have 10 different samples to try out and then a code to order a 50ml bottle of the one I really love.  I can’t wait to get testing.

One of the many pleasurable aspects of being a Professional Mistress is receiving thoughtful gifts, not just on My Birthday or Christmas but in between throughout the year.  Some bois will bring a lovely gift to the session or send something afterwards, some pop a money gift into My account, others send gift codes for Amazon.

I will slightly divert here, not a rant but it needs to be addressed!  As a Professional Mistress I give out a lot of energy and invest a lot of thought and My time into your play times, often new clients will run over time a little.  Quite often the good ones realise this and compensate, sadly some don’t despite saying what a wonderful time they’ve had and will be back, nope nothing, not even an email after, which happened recently.   This has made Me decide that I won’t do one-hour sessions for new chaps and they must book 90 mins, this is because they love to chat with Me whilst here and yes, I love a good chat too.  However, time is money and this is My livelihood and extra time given here and there not being compensated ALL adds up.  Stop with the self entitlement of expecting any of My time for free!  I do look after those who look after Me, prove yourself and enhance My life not hinder it.

The great bois I see that become My favourites are those who show their appreciation and show their reverence to Me, not treat Me as some commodity, picking Me up for a short notice booking because they feel horny and the wife’s not in the mood to play and the bit on the side is in lockdown so let’s see if Mistress Helen is about.  Then not commit to anything and it’s the third time they’ve called since actually visiting and refuse to book one or two days ahead and want to put Me on the spot and trust they will turn up despite letting Me down previously and won’t pay a deposit into My account, despite it not identifying Me as male or female or what it is for! Offering to pay cash to My address and not posting it or popping through the letterbox (having been here several times previously) NO no it doesn’t work like that!  This is how they get on the blocked list!  Sometimes clients that start out good, get comfy and then turn bad, becoming very unreliable!

The kind of people I usually attract and want to stay seeing as those who appreciate and respect Me and the fantastic safe space I have here, it’s fully equipped, I have invested thousands into the business for your pleasure.


One of My super special bois has been greatly supportive through the last 8 months especially and has bought lots of fantastic new bum toys for the playroom and we’ve been doing lots of film clips together.

I realise not all of My bois are in a position to give lavish gifts

Some will bring along a gift voucher, pop a tip into My account after a session with a thank you email, bring a lovely bottle of wine for Me to enjoy, I prefer gutsy reds like Malbec.  Some have bought homemade chilli jam from chilli plants they have grown in the greenhouse.  Someone saw some cat socks in White Stuff and bought those.  It’s the thoughtful gestures, the respect when booking, the deposits sent in a timely manner and ALL the positives things they do that enhance the time we spend together.

Being self-employed right now is harder than usual, Covid19 has shown Me some truly outstanding kind people as well as some really nasty time-wasting energy vampires.  I won’t tolerate them!

To stay in favour, be a good boi, book ahead a day or to, pay your deposit, respect My time both in session and around the session, it’s so simple.

To be an uber wonderful boi then tip or bring a gift and put a smile on My face.