West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

Tribute and contact

Email: helen-ryder@hotmail.com as first contact please, I reply to all polite, respectful well constructed emails within  48 hours, emails that are lewd are deleted.

Mobile: 07510 698761   Call between 10:00am to 8:00pm  No texting replied to!

DOMINATION & ROLE PLAY with Professional Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

I have My OWN well equipped domestic dungeon

All new clients to pay a 50% deposit (non refundable, movable to one new date with 24hrs notice) repeat bookings of 90 mins+ to pay a 50% deposit.  No exceptions!

Some gentleman like to bring  a lovely gift along with their tribute, this is always  appreciated, see further below for My suggestions.

I only offer short sessions for established clients, first timers 90 mins is best!

  •  30 mins £100  CP session or foot worship ONLY
  • CP special One hour £120 or 90 mins £150 2hrs £230 This is CP/Impact Play ONLY!
  • BDSM activities 1 hour £140
  • 90 Minutes £180
  • 2 Hours £250
  • 3 Hours £350 then £100 each additional hour
  • 1 hour double domination with visiting established Mistress Miss Kitty Bliss £250 longer sessions available POA
  • 1 hour double domination/kinky play time with TGirl Ms Joanna Armstrong from £250 https://twitter.com/JoannaArmstro18
  • Solo, double, triple, quadruple or more possible, you need to be flexi on dates/times and a very large budget to play with!  This will only take place at either The Gatwick or Brighton Dungeon.
  • Lola My new lifelike sex doll on bookings is an extra £30
  • Couples 1 hour £200, each additional hour after that £150 both of you to call Me when able to chat together, no surprise bookings for another party as it’s not consenting!   This is NON sexual!
  • Email exchange, a session is arranged within 2 to 3 emails, with deposit by 2nd one, after that I charge for high volume emails, they must be paid for in advance

If you struggle to save money for play then you can enter a saving contract with me where you send over an agreed amount each week or each month until you have paid enough to come and play.


  • Enema £5.00 for disposable bulb £10 for fleet, applicable on all tribute scales
  • Caging only as per details on session page £60 per hour (play not included)
  • Vet wrap £20
  • Multiple play piercings POA

** I do not profit from other adult providers, we are simply playing together and helping each other out in sessions**


My preferred method is a bank transfer and details will be provided once we have set up a session.  I do not use Paypal and in some cases I take Amazon gift codes.

Booking Procedures blog: click here


My availability for play times:

Monday to Friday 10am to 8pm finish

Saturday and Sunday 11am to 6pm

I am a well established, well respected and  very competent Dominatrix with regular attendees so it’s best to book ahead where possible if you have limited time constraints.

I will always insist on a deposit if you haven’t been 100% reliable!

Extended Sessions

  • Extended bondage sessions 3 hours from £250
  • POA basis on overnights and anything not advertised

Social Events

Coffee Meets: £80 either a coffee shop or at My premises

Lunch £120

Dinner £145

Out of pocket expenses, food/drink covered by you.

Gatwick or Brighton Dungeon

On occasions I session in a larger play space, sessions at either the Brighton or Gatwick Dungeon start from £250 for one hour,this is inclusive of dungeon hire and my time/travel.  Longer sessions are available on a POA basis. 48 hours notice is required to book this location.

Alternate Massage

60 minute  £120 at My premises in Burgess Hill

Gifts, spoil ME

I really love receiving gifts and it makes a great impression, and you can show your appreciation of a great session by leaving a review using the link below.

Review http://mistressreview.com/Mistress-Reviews/Mistress-Helen-Ryder~54804.html  

Follow Me on Twitter and re-tweet my events and almost daily uploads https://twitter.com/MsHelenRyder

Suitable Gifts:

Equipment from Quality Control, please ask Me what I require.

I love receiving perfume and it’s wonderful smelling divine! Ask Me which one I’m running low on!

AMAZON GIFT CODES, very useful and great for spending as I see fit, bought online or buy from a shop & scratch off to reveal and email Me the code along with a message.

Money is very useful and I can put it towards items I want.

Unsuitable Gifts: Alcohol of your own choice, chocolates or any other food items of your choice, NO flowers or indoor plants due to allergies/poisons.  No monogram or name gifts as this is pointless.