West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

Tribute and contact

Email: helen-ryder@hotmail.com as first contact please, I reply to all polite, respectful well constructed emails within  48 hours, emails that are lewd are deleted.

Mobile: 07510 698761   Call between 10:00am to 8:00pm  No texting replied to!

DOMINATION & ROLE PLAY with Professional Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

I have My OWN well equipped domestic dungeon

All new clients to pay a 50% deposit (non refundable, movable to one new date with 24hrs notice) repeat bookings of 90 mins+ to pay a 50% deposit.  No exceptions!

Some gentleman like to bring  a lovely gift along with their tribute, this is always  appreciated, see further below for My suggestions.

I only offer short sessions for established clients, first timers 90 mins is best!

  •  30 mins £100  CP session or foot worship ONLY
  • CP special One hour £120 or 90 mins £150 2hrs £230 This is CP/Impact Play ONLY!
  • BDSM activities 1 hour £140
  • 90 Minutes £180
  • 2 Hours £250
  • 3 Hours £350 then £100 each additional hour
  • 1 hour double domination with visiting established Mistress Miss Kitty Bliss or Mistress Leather Amber £220 longer sessions available POA
  • 1 hour double domination/kinky play time with TGirl Ms Joanna Armstrong from £250 https://twitter.com/JoannaArmstro18
  • Solo, double, triple, quadruple or more possible, you need to be flexi on dates/times and a very large budget to play with!  This will only take place at either The Gatwick or Brighton Dungeon.
  • Couples 1 hour £200, each additional hour after that £150 both of you to call Me when able to chat together, no surprise bookings for another party as it’s not consenting!   This is BDSM play not sex at My premises.
  • Email exchange, a session is arranged within 2 to 3 emails, with deposit by 2nd one, after that I charge for high volume emails, they must be paid for in advance

If you struggle to save money for play then you can enter a saving contract with me where you send over an agreed amount each week or each month until you have paid enough to come and play.

Gatwick or Brighton Dungeon

On occasions I session in a larger play space, sessions are available at either the Gatwick or Brighton Dungeon

One hour £180

90 mins £280

Two hours £350

This tribute is inclusive of dungeon hire  A full 24 to 48 hours notice is required to book this location.  I am not passing on My time/Travel just My fee and dungeon hire.  This is on par with other Mistress’s there.


  • Enema £5.00 for disposable bulb £10 for fleet, applicable on all tribute scales
  • Caging only as per details on session page £60 per hour (play not included) Only at Burgess Hill
  • Vet wrap £20
  • Multiple play piercings POA

** I do not profit from other adult providers, we are simply playing together and helping each other out in sessions**


My preferred method is a bank transfer and details will be provided once we have set up a session.  I do not use Paypal and in some cases I take Amazon gift codes.

Booking Procedures blog: click here


My availability for play times:

Monday to Friday 10am to 8pm finish

Saturday and Sunday 11am to 6pm

I am a well established, well respected and  very competent Dominatrix with regular attendees so it’s best to book ahead where possible if you have limited time constraints.

I will always insist on a deposit if you haven’t been 100% reliable!

Extended Sessions

  • Extended bondage sessions 3 hours from £250
  • POA basis on overnights and anything not advertised

Social Events

Coffee Meets: £80 either a coffee shop or at My premises

Lunch £120

Dinner £145

Out of pocket expenses, food/drink covered by you.

Alternate Massage

60 minute  £120 at My premises in Burgess Hill

Gifts, spoil ME

I really love receiving gifts and it makes a great impression, and you can show your appreciation of a great session by leaving a review using the link below.

Review http://mistressreview.com/Mistress-Reviews/Mistress-Helen-Ryder~54804.html  

Follow Me on Twitter and re-tweet my events and almost daily uploads https://twitter.com/MsHelenRyder

Suitable Gifts:

Equipment from Quality Control, The London Tanners, McHurt & other good quality fetish suppliers, please ask Me what I require.

I love receiving perfume and it’s wonderful smelling divine! Ask Me which one I’m running low on, many of My faves are by Tom Ford or Penhaligons.

AMAZON GIFT CODES, very useful and great for spending as I see fit, bought online or buy from a shop & scratch off to reveal and email Me the code along with a message.

Money is very useful and I can put it towards items I want.

Unsuitable Gifts: Alcohol of your own choice, chocolates or any other food items of your choice, NO flowers or indoor plants due to allergies/poisons.  No monogram or name gifts as this is pointless.