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  • West Sussex Mistress

West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

Tribute and contact

Email: helen-ryder@hotmail.com as first contact please, I love meeting new people and will reply to all polite, respectful well constructed emails within 72 hours, emails that are lewd and crude/disrespectful are deleted.

Mobile: 07510 698761   Call between 9:00am to 8:00pm  No phone texting replied to!

DOMINATION & ROLE PLAY with Professional Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

I have My OWN well equipped domestic playroom/mini dungeon

All play times are secured with a non refundable 50% deposit, if you need to reschedule then your deposit will be moved to one new date.  The booking blog gives full details of what is expected from you.

Some gentleman like to bring  a lovely gift or tip along with their tribute, this is always appreciated, see further below for My suggestions.  I love being spoilt!  All sessions start with a friendly chat so that you feel in the right zone and ready to play, unless you have asked otherwise.




  • SHORT SHARP SHOCK! Enter, drop your trousers & bend over for 6/12 of the best or a good spanking MAX of 30 mins £130


  • ONE HOUR £160 this is basic BDSM (pick 3 interests)
  • 90 MINUTES £240
  • TWO HOURS £300
  • 3 HOURS £440 then £140 each additional hour
  • ONE HOUR double domination with visiting established Mistress Miss Kitty Bliss or Mistress Leather Amber £320 longer sessions available POA Please note this is West Sussex rates for doubles, touring will incur higher/different rate
  • Couples at My discretion in Burgess Hill 90 MINUTES £400,  TWO HOURS £480


ALL dungeon hire fee’s are binding/final and non refundable, with 72hrs notice to reschedule on ONE occasion only.






Hotel Visit

A visit to your own hotel room starting FROM £250 for one hour if within 15 miles, additional hrs £140ph. POA depending on time of evening and the distance (I sometimes require a driver if available)   Provide all the details for an informed quote.

Sessions additions & Medical

Medical sessions start from a duration of TWO hours plus the sundries below if applicable

  • Enema £5.00 for disposable bulb £12 for fleet, applicable on all tribute scales
  • Caging/Tied and left alone: only as per details on session page £90 per hour (play not included) Only at Burgess Hill minimum TWO hour booking unless you have booked a BDSM session with time added on to be caged
  • Vet wrap £55
  • Multiple play piercings from £10 to cover 20  (POA for anything over 20)

** I do not profit from other adult providers, we are simply playing together and helping each other out in sessions**


My preferred method is a bank transfer and details will be provided once we have set up a session.  I do NOT use Paypal.  In some cases I may accept an Amazon gift code.  Cash drop off as per blog info incurs a £50 fee sent first (Amazon GC)  for meet/greet, always check with Me first in your first contact, which method you would prefer to use.




Name Ms S Rogers


IBAN GB15 BUKB 2092 5470 4686 65


Booking Procedures blog: click here


My availability for play times:

Monday to Friday 9am to 9:30pm finish

Saturday and Sunday 10am to 9pm

I am a well established, highly respected and  very competent Dominatrix on the Brighton/Sussex scene, as well as London and afar! I have regular attendees so it’s best to book ahead where possible if you have limited time constraints.  I do take on new clients provided you follow My booking procedures blog.  I run a fun but tight ship!


  • THREE HOURS £370 involves a variety of positions and time alone
  • FOUR HOURS £450 to include a light refreshment break and extra hours at £150 per hour after
  • POA basis on overnights and anything not advertised, I require 7.5 hours uninterrupted sleep on overnights


Coffee, kink chat & cake Meets: £140 either a coffee shop or at My premises

Lunch/Dinner £170

Night out at a fetish or adult club £650

Out of pocket expenses, food/drink covered by you


All flights/accommodation fee to be covered by you and I book it myself.  A set tribute agreed and paid in advance by bank transfer, starting from £1,500.  POA.


Do you crave to have a simple proper girls day or night in?


11am – 5pm without play £650

£750 to include BDSM play

Dress/Make-up, photos taken if desired, enjoy a light lunch.  Peruse some online shopping sites and receive guidance for shopping, girly time/chat.


7/7:30pm – 8:30/9am without play £650

With BDSM play £750

Dress up/Make-Up, photos taken if desired, enjoy some nibbles/Prosecco We can have a proper girly gossip talking make-up & dressing tips, peruse some online shopping for lovely new lingerie, Have a great playtime OR enjoy a chick flick and then retire to your own room for the night wearing a lovely satin night dress, light breakfast of cereal/toast, tea/coffee the next day, hot shower and make the transformation back into male mode feeling elated from your special girly time.

It’s advisable to do any full body shaving/depilation prior to your arrival.



On occasions I advertise on Twitter for specific dates, you will need to bring photo/age I.D and sign a model release form.  This will be within my clip sites for ever or until I look to retire, not taken down on request as the model release gives me all rights. The activities will be which ever I choose to do on the day, a mask can be worn.  Tribute is £300 and you will be here for 3 to 4 hours.  Filming isn’t a way to get a cheap session, it’s a different type of fun way to serve and be useful.  There will be camera setting up and breaks between scenes, so this doesn’t flow like a dedicated session would.  I would not advise this to the inexperienced player, especially NOT a first session.

* Please be aware that once the model release is signed and filming agreed to it is a contract that the footage/images are owned by Me for distribution on any sites I choose and you waiver any rights to ask/demand they are removed from circulation at any future date.



I really love receiving gifts and it makes a great impression that you’ve put some effort and thoughts into the dynamics of coming to see Me!

Follow Me on Twitter and re-tweet my events and almost daily uploads https://twitter.com/MsHelenRyder

Suitable Gifts that I would love:

Money, it’s simple and I can spend as I see fit

You can send via this site if not able to do a direct bank transfer to my account Wishtender

I love Gin and Fever Tree LIGHT tonic, small batch Gin and I always require the mini cans in a box of LIGHT tonic water.

Beautiful clothing from All Saints, send Me vouchers (perfect, thank you) ALLSAINTS UK: Gift cards and vouchers, shop now.

I love receiving perfume and it’s wonderful smelling divine! Ask Me which one I’m running low on, many of My favourites are by Tom Ford and Shay & Blue (a vegan perfume brand)

AMAZON GIFT CODES very useful, bought online or buy from a shop & scratch off to reveal and email Me the code along with a message

Gift Vouchers for Botanquie restaurant in Brighton from £25 Gift Vouchers — Botanique. Vegan Fine Dining Restaurant in Brighton (botaniquebrighton.com)

John Lewis or Selfridges vouchers

I love wearing exquisite high end lingerie and typically sets are £250+ having received GC’s for very low amounts in the past (sadly pointless) so ask Me only if you wish to dress me in a full set!

Equipment from Quality Control, The London Tanners, Ouch UK,  McHurt & other good quality fetish suppliers, please ask Me what I require.  Although I have plenty and no longer feel there is much I should be adding much more to my vast collection.

Unsuitable Gifts: Alcohol of your own choice, chocolates or any other food items of your choice, NO flowers or indoor plants due to allergies/poison risk to Cat.  No monogram or name gifts as this is pointless