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West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

Massage with a twist for ALL genders/sexuality welcome


Many of you are aware of the benefits of massage from pure relaxation to easing aches and pains as well as increasing blood flow and increasing the happy hormone Dopamine.  Many of you have high profile stressful jobs or stressful lives and need a form of escapism and simply taking time out for yourself.

If you are new to BDSM then your journey can start here, have you been thinking about visiting a Dominatrix for some time and find it all rather daunting then try a more gentle introduction with a massage to include some light tie and tease, silky scarves, soft fur, a feast for your senses of light, sound, smell & touch. Prostrate massage or a small vibration toy can be included if desired, a light flogging, feathers, sensory pin wheel, metal tip claws gently stroking over your skin and perhaps some warm Bamboo as well as my very skilled hands.  Relief at the end if desired via my wonderful boy or girl toys.

I use various mediums such as warm melted massage candles, specialist therapy grade wax, soya based oils, grape seed and  other quality therapy grade oils.  It is imperative that you let me know if you have any allergies and any medical/health conditions, even if currently un-diagnosed.

I am a qualified level three therapist I have Anatomy/Physiology and many massage “diplomas” and training in different styles, my training took years with many case studies and hard work.  It was not a one day massage course with a simple certificate like many other providers out there, as you can tell I am passionate about massage:

  • Swedish
  • Aromatherapy
  • Lomi Lomi
  • Thai Leg/Foot
  • Hot Bamboo
  • Pregnancy*
  • Dementia patients*  (*purely for info)

Burgess Hill Tributes


90 minutes £240

My booking procedures apply,  strictly by appointment with a deposit for new clients https://www.mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk/booking-procedures/

It is important you do not have any contraindications to massage, a chat about any medical issues is essential prior to booking. Some medical conditions will require a letter from your GP and conditions I will not see are: Epilepsy, uncontrolled high blood pressure and any contagious conditions.  Please ensure you inform me of any health conditions, allergies and medications when we speak.