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I was on holiday in Thailand a couple of weeks ago, staying at 2 beautiful beach/island locations before a short stay in Bangkok.  During My holiday I was screened by thermo scan approx 6/7 times at airports and shopping centres.  I wore a mask when out in busy places such as metro, skyline, airport and shopping centre.  Every time I visited the loo I washed and then used alcohol gel on my hands, same after touching lift buttons, handrails etc.  I wore a mask on the 13 hour flight home, changing it a few times, the cabin was sprayed with disinfectant  with everyone on board (sprayed up into the aircon/cabin)

On entering the UK we were held back and then given clearance to disembark by health  authorities. I wore a mask and didn’t remove it until I was in the car.  Entering the UK I didn’t see a single bottle of hand sanitiser anywhere in the airport.  I carry it with Me everywhere and its hanging on My bag ready to use.

Taking into consideration I’ve been home a couple of weeks and that every session I conduct here then has a deep clean in the play space with disinfectant (hospital grade) along with light switches, handrail on the stairs, doorknobs etc and the option to wear a mask for us both in session, shows I am taking My health and yours seriously.

If you are booking in for a session or have booked ahead by a week or so and have paid a deposit, if as it gets closer to your session that you feel unwell with any symptoms of cough, temperature, sore throat then let Me know by email ASAP so that we can reschedule once you have been checked out and given the all clear.

You can give your hands a wash/alcohol them when you arrive if you have been touching things on your journey here.

Lets play safe and still have lots of fun, life is for living and not being locked up in a cupboard whilst the rest of the world does its thing.  So many people fall very ill to other types of flu and this also has very serious consequences for some!

 

Mistress Helen

I’m back from a fantastic holiday, after being up 23 hours and travelling I got home, stayed up for another 15 mins and went to bed!  Then up 5am as body clock wasn’t allowing any more sleep.

I spent yesterday catching up on admin, washed all the holiday clothing, collected my kitten from the cattery who gave her lots of cuddles and sat in her enclosure during the storm reading a book with her cuddling up under a fleece (bless them)  I did a food shop and then got back and tackled the dungeon room play space.

I do plan to redecorate in the near future as I fancy a change of colour, meanwhile I did a deep clean and moved the furniture around to free up central floor space.  This enables the vacbed to be used on the floor now and made the room feel more spacious and far easier to wield a whip/cane!  Oh I spoil you all!

Having spent the last 2 weeks in the company and being around some of the most loveliest polite, friendly, smiling people it came as a bit of a culture shock to be back in the UK with so many a misery gogs, I know the weather is foul, what I would really like to see is everyone making the effort to simply be nicer to each other!

I realise I was away over Valentines, if you have no one special in your life then don’t forget to show your Mistress how much she means to you and spoil her rotten 😉 it’s never too late!

 

Don’t forget I am off on holiday 1st Feb to 16th Feb, may or may not be able to look at emails whilst away so don’t expect any replies until 17/18th Feb now and My work phone is switched off and being left in the UK.

Moi and My best mate Miss Kitty Bliss had two fantastic days of double domination, we are filming together on 4th March £100 tribute from 1:30pm that day till late!  Either in Burgess Hill or possibly a private house in Hove.

I could tell you about all the fun stuff we got up to but I think it’s best to come and experience it for yourself! 🙂

We are next doing double domination play on 25th/26th March and we are taking bookings from when I return from My holiday. One hour double domme is basic £220 and any sundries, enema, excess needles, vet wrap on top if requested/pre agreed.  Solo sessions are £160 for one hour.  Longer play times can be arranged.

See you soon kinksters/subs/slaves/sissies and all!

Mistress Helen xXx

I am available right up to 31st January and then I am jetting off on holiday somewhere hot and tropical 🙂

On My return I will take a couple of days to recover from travel and be offering play times from 18th Feb

During the above dates My work phone will be left in the UK and emails will be replied to if/when I am able to or on My return on 16th/17th Feb.

If you have been lurking in the shadows wanting to come and play then do so ASAP! It’s best to book a play time into My book of fun before I go away!

For those that attend regularly, you will know that I add all sorts of kinky toys back into My playrooms and this year I would love to add some more London Tanners implements to My collection.  I also want to purchase some more hardcore steel CBT equipment with internal spikes and suchlike.  All the more to make My bois squirm 😉 If you happen to see a new shiny that you think you would enjoy and would like to gift to Me then bring it along with you!

I want! https://www.thelondontanners.com/shop/french-martinet/

and a few others too, CP strap Lochgelly Tawse etc, email to ask Me.

The CP Ruler Strap

I am planning to do some photo shoots to give My website an overhaul with up to date images on the homepage and scrolling bar, watch this space over the coming months.

For those who wish to continue to support Me financially whilst I’m away and not making money here is the bank info: Sort: 20-92-54 Account number:  70468665, Name: Ms Rogers, paying in ref: Holiday fund.

Don’t forget I have a profile on Adult Work, My private gallery and mini clips have plenty to see so do go along and check them out!  https://www.adultwork.com/1248241

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen

 

 

I am introducing a tax for stupid questions.

My location is on my website along with all other basic info, receiving so many silly questions at certain times of the year is relentless!

Recent stupid question was asking how far I am from where the person was staying/lives, use Google maps or AA route planner and put location A to location B and there you have it!  So simple when you engage the big brain up top!

If you are going to email questions and ask Me anything fully covered on My website then send over a buffer payment first to appease Me.

Minimum Amazon voucher of £30 accepted to helen-ryder@hotmail.com

or bank payment to: sort 20-92-54 Acc 70468665 use ref questions

What treats we have in store for you!

A double domination of delights from soft spanking (haha, snigger) ok limits respected to hard CP (we excel at this) and all manner of kinky BDSM play

Medical roleplay and various procedures

Kidnap scenario (see tribute Page for this)

Sissy sluts/maid

Bondage

Pegging and Spit Roasting

Venus 2000

EStim and Violet Wand

Sensory dep/Hypnosis (made clear when booking in advance)

Just a few ideas to wet your appetite and not a comprehensive list by any means!

Get in touch via email first and follow up with a nice little chat to book your play time!

 

Thank you to everyone that has been to visit Me over the course of this year, I have now placed My canes, ropes, Venus2000 and other wonderful props and gadgets aside until 27th December.  It has been lots of fun to get know you and play.  I won’t be answering My phone unless I have the time or inclination to log into the Adult Work phone chat system.  I look forward to more fun times in 2020.

I attended Sanctum Fetish Club last night with My super mate Jo Armstrong, fondly known as Big Sis, we saw lots of Our fet friends there and danced, spanked and played the night away.

I will have availability on 27th 28th 30th and 31st Dec during the hours of 11am to 5pm.

2nd Jan 10am to 7pm

3rd Jan 12 midday to 7pm

4th Jan 10am to 7pm

unavailable 5th as travelling

Working in Huddersfield 6th Jan with Mistress Helena  https://www.manchestermistresshelena.co.uk/

Unavailable 7th Jan as travelling

Available in Sussex from 8th Jan and back to advertised hours

Other news

My kitten had a second operation  at the beginning of this week as she went lame overnight and wouldn’t bear weight at all, emergency vet visit and xray, sedation and then operation to remove all the metal work as the surgeon felt it must be the pins holding her leg and the growth at her age was starting to cause pain.

Anyone who hasn’t sent Me a Christmas gift as yet and would like to then please contribute to the ongoing expense of everything to do with her care. I have to drive quite a distance to see a different orthopaedic specialist surgeon and will be taking her for physio very soon (also some distance)  sort code 20-92-54 Account 704568665 Name: Ms Rogers Ref: of Vet gift

Keep an eye on My Twitter for general daily news, tweets and up to date pics.

Thank you for the lovely gifts I’ve received, especially the vintage bottle of Tom Ford Violet Blonde.

Mistress Helena Huddersfield & Mistress Helen Ryder

Goddess Asha London Mistress & Mistress Helen Ryder

Mistress Helen Ryder

Goddess Amani London Mistress and Mistress Helen Ryder

Mistress Helen Ryder

 

Jo Armstrong and Mistress Helen Ryder

It’s been a fantastic whirlwind months of sessions, socialising, double domme with My amazing bestie Miss Kitty Bliss, we had such a scream with our boi and gurl toys together and carried out quite a sissy make over on our evening booking, who travelled over from Ireland, landing at Gatwick and getting the train to Burgess Hill (easy journey he says) he is also a repeat visitor.  i have a few chaps who travel from abroad for sessions, yet over the years EVERY enq from Chichester West Sussex has rang asking questions and then states Burgess Hill is too far! Laughing My head off!

Other news: I’ve also been settling in a new kitten (whom has recently broken her leg) will come back to this!

Attending the Femdom Ball 2019 with My collared maid and slave, modelling for the fabulous House of Harlot and finally looking at the pics and saving them to post here for you all to enjoy.  This event is something I greatly look forward to each year, meeting up with Mistress friends and meeting other ladies from afar.

I am very fortunate to have My own fully equipped premises at home, this enables Me to offer sessions at rates the average person can afford.  The ambiance here is amazing and every possible luxury is included, My premises are not a vast giant dungeon space, hence My fees reflect this and it’s not to undercut anyone else  Obviously if I were hiring dungeons then My fees would also reflect hire charges and travel. I can at certain times of the year also put on little offers like any other business.  It doesn’t devalue My status as a Professional Dominatrix and I do it to suit Me.

If all is well I will be away in Yorkshire for a few days from 23rd to 26th December and then back here, this depends on My little lady and the care she will require ongoing until her leg mends.

Back to working from home/kitten, so My eyes were off her for 10 mins and I walked in to find her with her leg at a raised angle and crying, thankful to have Miss Kitty Bliss with Me that day so emergency dash to vets and she was examined, kept in for observation and pain relief.  They wanted to X-ray but had to schedule her for the next day as had other even more serious emergency surgery in.  A very sleepless night and the next morning I took her for X-rays, diagnosed with a broken Femur right near her growth plate that it would require pinning by a specialist orthopaedic surgeon in Hove the very next day.

My little kitty has had her op and will have to have another to remove the pins as otherwise it will effect her growth (poor sweetheart) now thankfully being a responsible pet mummy I have her on the Vets VIP plan as well as insured so a lot of the expense will be reimbursed in a few weeks.  The excess on the policy is about £150 and also 20% of ALL treatment.  I’ve also had to purchase dog crates and others bits and bobs to aid her recovery.  So far it’s totted up to just under £3K with the vets and bits n bobs around £120.  She also has to have physio appointments at £75 a pop in Worthing, so more expense, fuel/travel/time. The excess/fees will still be in the hundreds.

The reason I’m stating the above is that it’s still a massive dent to the pocket, rather than any perfume/Gin/gift presents I would be so appreciative of donations to her surgery and ongoing physiotherapy.   Thank you in advance to those who would love to help support a good cause.  I think it’s far more important than some others wanting silly loub shoes, furs (fur belongs on the animal) jewels, handbags etc  I am often asked how you can support Me and show appreciation for the wonderful play I provide, so this is it.

Also if you have been thinking of booking in for play, don’t wait! I am available for session in real time and phone chats and you can support Me with purchases of mini movie clips and photos from My Adult Work profile too.  If you just wish to donate then please email Me for My bank account info. https://www.adultwork.com/1248241

I wish you all a very Merry Christmas and I’m sure I will be blogging again in a week or two with updates.

Check out My Twitter for all latest updates and news on a daily/weekly basis https://twitter.com/MsHelenRyder

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen Ryder

I was going to post a blog back in October when I had been to The Femdom Ball and then got very busy indeed so time for a catch up!

My loyal collared sissy maid came over from Norway and stayed the weekend of the ball and we travelled to London to attend My other very loyal slaves house for drinks/nibbles pre ball and to get ready to go out in style. I wore a gorgeous floor length black fitted dress with ruffles around the top and rhinestones on the waistband, My maid wore a 1950’s black and white maids dress with white gloves and slave wore a black tux and they both had collars/leashes on.

The Femdom Ball is at a secret location so no details other than to say it is a beautiful space and we were all so lucky to attend such an event. I had another outfit to change into at the ball, which was custom made for Me and designed by the amazing Iris of House of Harlot. I had attended the showroom/design studio a couple of weeks back and have a chat about ideas. I was blown away by what she made and it was such a pleasure and honour to model it in the fashion show. I am looking forward to seeing the photos from that night online when they are released. I highly recommend House of Harlot!

Between 9th to 16th I was away being spoilt in Tenerife by My BBF, we had a fantastic time and lots of fun. I even got a bit of a tan, which I’m trying to hold onto with the occasional sunbed and it’s lovely laying there for 6 mins imagining I’m relaxing by the pool or on a beautiful beach.

Apart from some great sessions in October the other fun stuff was filming with Miss Kitty Bliss at a dungeon in Brighton. This was the day after I flew back. The actual filming was fun, location wasn’t very suited to filming due to noise levels etc so we won’t be returning to it. We got some great actions shots, all will be uploaded onto clips4sale in due course (I still need to set this up) both our playmates were great fun, we even went back to mine for a two hour needle session with one of them and then all of us went out to dinner. It was a brilliant day and super evening.

I also had the pleasure of filming at The Hoxton Dungeon with Mistress Clarrisa and Sarah The Invader, with our most delightful hostess Madame Caramel conducting interviews and giving some great direction for our action. Some super slaves and sissies to play with and I’ve just received a load of promo pics today from our cameraman.

Up and coming events are:
Club Sanctum 16th November I would like to attend but unsure at present, as I have a kitten and I can not leave her overnight without a cat carer in place. It has to be one of My dear friends or family who I can 100% trust!

Double Domination days with Miss Kitty Bliss 27th and 28th November in Burgess Hill, there is a blog on this so look for it and have a read.

Possibly attend Club Pedestal on 29th with Miss Kitty Bliss and big Sis Joanna Armstrong.

I have availability throughout November and December up to 23rd, I will be in Yorkshire eve of 23rd through to 26th and travel back to Sussex on 27th December.

A few pics from events mentioned above 😘

Roll up roll up and apply for the time of your life!

Our last double domination event until next year!

From CP, Caning party, Solo sessions both days, Medical, Electrics of EStim, ElectraStim, The Zapper and Violet Wand, Bondage, Pegging, Rope work, needle performance art, Venus 2000, hot wax, BDSM Hypnosis (email ahead for deposit/script created by Miss KB) Cross dressing, sissy maid, worship My peachy bottom whilst Miss Kitty Bliss canes or gives you a lovely warm rosy glow with hand spankings and much much more deviant BDSM fun.  Don’t miss out!!!

I am situated in Burgess Hill RH15, this is just 20 mins from Gatwick Airport (yes people fly in for sessions) It is only 20 mins from Brighton without the stress of extortionate parking fees and trying to find a space.

All sessions are bespoke to your interests and limits, email to arrange a time to chat and discuss your double domme dose of deviant delights.

Hypno enqs via Miss Kitty Bliss https://www.misskittybliss.co.uk/