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I was going to post a blog back in October when I had been to The Femdom Ball and then got very busy indeed so time for a catch up!

My loyal collared sissy maid came over from Norway and stayed the weekend of the ball and we travelled to London to attend My other very loyal slaves house for drinks/nibbles pre ball and to get ready to go out in style. I wore a gorgeous floor length black fitted dress with ruffles around the top and rhinestones on the waistband, My maid wore a 1950’s black and white maids dress with white gloves and slave wore a black tux and they both had collars/leashes on.

The Femdom Ball is at a secret location so no details other than to say it is a beautiful space and we were all so lucky to attend such an event. I had another outfit to change into at the ball, which was custom made for Me and designed by the amazing Iris of House of Harlot. I had attended the showroom/design studio a couple of weeks back and have a chat about ideas. I was blown away by what she made and it was such a pleasure and honour to model it in the fashion show. I am looking forward to seeing the photos from that night online when they are released. I highly recommend House of Harlot!

Between 9th to 16th I was away being spoilt in Tenerife by My BBF, we had a fantastic time and lots of fun. I even got a bit of a tan, which I’m trying to hold onto with the occasional sunbed and it’s lovely laying there for 6 mins imagining I’m relaxing by the pool or on a beautiful beach.

Apart from some great sessions in October the other fun stuff was filming with Miss Kitty Bliss at a dungeon in Brighton. This was the day after I flew back. The actual filming was fun, location wasn’t very suited to filming due to noise levels etc so we won’t be returning to it. We got some great actions shots, all will be uploaded onto clips4sale in due course (I still need to set this up) both our playmates were great fun, we even went back to mine for a two hour needle session with one of them and then all of us went out to dinner. It was a brilliant day and super evening.

I also had the pleasure of filming at The Hoxton Dungeon with Mistress Clarrisa and Sarah The Invader, with our most delightful hostess Madame Caramel conducting interviews and giving some great direction for our action. Some super slaves and sissies to play with and I’ve just received a load of promo pics today from our cameraman.

Up and coming events are:
Club Sanctum 16th November I would like to attend but unsure at present, as I have a kitten and I can not leave her overnight without a cat carer in place. It has to be one of My dear friends or family who I can 100% trust!

Double Domination days with Miss Kitty Bliss 27th and 28th November in Burgess Hill, there is a blog on this so look for it and have a read.

Possibly attend Club Pedestal on 29th with Miss Kitty Bliss and big Sis Joanna Armstrong.

I have availability throughout November and December up to 23rd, I will be in Yorkshire eve of 23rd through to 26th and travel back to Sussex on 27th December.

A few pics from events mentioned above 😘

Roll up roll up and apply for the time of your life!

Our last double domination event until next year!

From CP, Caning party, Solo sessions both days, Medical, Electrics of EStim, ElectraStim, The Zapper and Violet Wand, Bondage, Pegging, Rope work, needle performance art, Venus 2000, hot wax, BDSM Hypnosis (email ahead for deposit/script created by Miss KB) Cross dressing, sissy maid, worship My peachy bottom whilst Miss Kitty Bliss canes or gives you a lovely warm rosy glow with hand spankings and much much more deviant BDSM fun.  Don’t miss out!!!

I am situated in Burgess Hill RH15, this is just 20 mins from Gatwick Airport (yes people fly in for sessions) It is only 20 mins from Brighton without the stress of extortionate parking fees and trying to find a space.

All sessions are bespoke to your interests and limits, email to arrange a time to chat and discuss your double domme dose of deviant delights.

Hypno enqs via Miss Kitty Bliss https://www.misskittybliss.co.uk/

 

For those who have asked what the difference is between having a double domination with My friend Miss Kitty Bliss and Miss Ruby Vixen.
My friend Miss Kitty Bliss is a lifestyle background established very well renowned Professional Dominatrix, she has her own website and has been in the industry for over 10 years and is fully fledged in many areas of expertise, Shibari needles/medical and hardcore pursuits are a real passion.  MKB excels in hard CP too, she also has a clips website page with many movies to view.  Up until September 2019 MKB was the proprietor of The Barnet Bastille in London.  We have worked together and filmed together for quite some time now, we gel very well together and have a lot of fun double domming.  Your experience will be a fully interactive BDSM kink session with both of us actively pegging you, carrying out intimate examinations and bouncing off each other with ideas, and we both excel in roleplays.  We have events throughout the year together at various locations for filming as well as My base in Burgess Hill West Sussex, so always look out for our blogs.

Two strict Nurses

Miss Kitty Bliss ready for your medical inspection

My other friend Miss Ruby Vixen is new to the world of BDSM and she purely assists Me in session with some spanking, trampling, guided use of electrics and as a voyeur.   She is most happy assisting and flexing her new found dominance alongside Me, she doesn’t switch and doesn’t do anything of  a sexual nature, so do not ask!  I guide and instruct Ruby throughout your session. She doesn’t wish to become a fully fledged full time Dominatrix and enjoys the fun and ease of working as an assistant alongside Me or also helping out on Double Domination events with MKB, two’s company and three’s a party!

Miss Ruby Vixen

Q. Can I cum at any point in the session?

A. Yes if it is appropriate to our session, there are plenty of wonderful gadgets to assist in this (Venus 2000, wand with attachments, powerful massager) and JOI (jerk off instructions if that’s your interest)  during a bit of tie/tease or end of session.  Note I do touch My playmates but I’m not here to wank you off something silly.  Service providers/escorts provide wanks!

Q. How long will it take to get to you?

A. Use Google maps from your location to Burgess Hill West Sussex.  I recently had someone ask how long it would take for him to get to me in October, I’ve no idea if he was planning to miniaturise himself and ride on a snails back, walk, cycle, get a train or drive…..

Q. Can I douche/have an enema?

A. Yes it is £10 extra and you need to book a 90 min session to give enough time to cover this and include your play.

Q. Do you supply all latex clothing for me to wear?

A. No I do not, simply due to lack of storage in My beautiful home with TWO very well equipped rooms for play.  I have a struggle fitting all My own clothing and fetish wear into My wardrobes, as well as all the sissy satin/maids outfits that I do provide, you are most welcome to bring your own along.

Q. Can I have a double domme or assistant join in?

A. With enough notice, this can be arranged and does require a 50% deposit of the full double tribute.

Q. Will you do a surprise domination for my partner?

A. Not without speaking with them first, it is about consent.  All couples bookings require the lady to get in touch and both be available on speaker phone to chat with Me at an arranged time.

Q. Will you force feed me drugs?

A. No and do not bring drugs to My premises.  I only allow poppers, which you have to purchase yourself and bring them to the session due to legality.

Q. Can I arrive fully cross dressed ready to play.

A. Only if you are going to leave in the same manner, it will look odd if anyone see’s a lady arriving and man driving off.  It also depends on if you can pass easily and are wearing something very normal and not looking outrageous or a total trollop.

Q. Do you require filming slaves?

A. Yes, these dates are usually advertised on a blog, it is worth getting in touch to express your interest.  A tribute of £100 is expected for filming and you also need to bring photo I.D and sign a model release form.  Filming is usually from a couple of hours to longer, there might be others present, the scenes are always sorted on the day depending on peoples boundaries and activities.

Q. Can I wear a mask for filming or full make up?

A. Yes you may, make-up application by Me is an extra fee of £40 and takes about an hour.

Q. Can I be your personal slave?

A.No, I have lovely bitch boyfriend for this.

Q. Are you a lifestyle dominatrix?

A.Yes I am, this is way more than a business, however that doesn’t mean I give free sessions out!

Q. Can I send you a script of exactly what I want you to do to me, in a very specific order with 6 of these and 8 of those etc etc

A. No, that is Not Me dominating you.  This is being a Fetish actress and I would have to let go of My Dominatrix integrity and be a Fetish actress for you.  This fee starts at £1,000 for an hour instead of the very reasonable £120.

Q. Can I email or ring you to ask lots of questions that are already covered on your website, but I am too lazy to read?

A. No, all genuine visitors to My establishment did their research, sent a polite email, we had a really lovey chat and they paid their deposit and attended.  It’s ever so simple.

Q. Can you cane me, do ABCD etc and not leave marks?

A. I will take your boundaries into account when we session, very light caning usually doesn’t leave any marks but everyone’s skin/body is different.  If you enjoy pain I can easily inflict some using various techniques and gadgets that will not leave marks.

Q. Can I meet you first for coffee/lunch or dinner?

A. Yes, this requires an email/chat and full payment of My social rates via bank transfer for this meeting so I am not taking money in public (although I do some cash point meets with a deposit in place)

Q. I want to try a domination session but I don’t like pain, does it have to be about pain?

A. No, although I love to inflict it I can introduce you gently into the world of Femdom, kink and light BDSM.

Q. Do I have to be a submissive in order to session?

A. About 70% of My playmates are submissive and the others consider themselves to be kinksters, as long as you have a respectful approach and the right attitude and enjoy the activities I have listed then that is perfectly ok to come along and have some fun.

Q. Do you have an upper age limit?

A. No, as long as you are well and healthy and can walk or wiggle up a flight of stairs with ease, are not likely to croak on My premises then you are welcome to get in touch.  I love older gentleman! I always need to be aware of any medical conditions, be honest!

Q. I’m under 21 will you see me?

A. No I feel youngsters haven’t had enough normal kink in their private personal life and regular life experience as yet, this feels too creepy for Me with such an age gap.

Q. Will you travel to visit me abroad?

A. Not on a first time session, come to the UK and session with Me in My premises first.  If I travel to you all expenses such as travel, My own hotel room/travel and out of pocket expenses will be pre paid by you so that I book My own flights etc.

Q. Can I come clean your house/dungeon/garden etc?

A. No, this doesn’t work for Me as I find it still panders to your time and Not My own.  I would rather do the tasks Myself very well or simply pay a professional to do it.

Q. Can I buy you a gift?

A. Yes gifts are lovely, there is a list of suitable suggestions on My tribute page

Q. Can I see you without paying a deposit?

A. No, all first time visitors or longer repeat bookings have to pay one.

I will add more questions and answers here in due course, depending on My thoughts and what comes up.

 

 

I’ve just had the most wonderful birthday (which was Saturday) and no it’s never too late to buy Mistress a gift from My Amazon wish list or sending over money so I can spend it on something special! I am good for fragrance at the moment as I received two different Tom Ford fragrances (I love TF perfumes) lucky Me!

I was whisked away Thursday and taken to a beautiful hotel and stayed in a tree house, the most luxurious tree house with a bathroom the size of my sitting room, as well as a private outside hot tub.  We had champagne and delicious food in one of the restaurants.  They delivered a luxury hamper of goodies for breakfast, which was superb and enabled us to have another relaxing time in the hot tub before a walk down to the beach, on such a beautiful day too.

Then on to Portsmouth to visit The Mary Rose exhibition, which was fantastic, I really want to visit HMS Victory next time! We had a delicious meal up in one of the restaurants, a little shopping/browsing and then back to Sussex.

I was out with My BBF, very special close friends and family for a meal on the Saturday in Brighton and Sunday it was to the gym and burn of some of that delicious food, then relaxing in the garden after My BBF mowed the lawn (such a good bitch boyfriend) I am back in the swing of things today and have one of My regs booked in for some foot massage, easing Myself back in gently haha…..

I only see regs or pre booked people on bank holidays.  I do have availability this week, a polite email introduction and include the last three digits of your phone number of in full (I won’t call you) and I will reply with best time to give Me a call and briefly discuss session along with dates/times along with sorting the deposit to commit to a great play time.

Upcoming dates for filming and double domme ALL with Miss Kitty Bliss:

2nd September we return to the farm (in Sussex) for a day of fun/filth filming both inside and out (weather permitting) express your interests ASAP as spaces are filling up fast!

25th September Caning party running from 1:30pm to 4:30pm and double domme available this day up to 10pm

Just imagine standing in line waiting in anticipation to go across My knee or Miss Kitty’s, then over the school desk or strapped down to the bench and hear the swish of a cane before it strikes!  All bois will be thoroughly warmed up with various implements and we will take into account your limits/boundaries.

26th September Double Domme up to 10pm Come and explore all manner of BDSM delights.

17th October Filming at The Brighton Dungeon as well as double domme sessions for those who don’t wish to be filmed. 11am to 6pm.

 

 

Today I made the decision to not answer my phone in future for a good while unless I am expecting a call from someone who has sent over a polite email introduction or it is a number I recognise from having seen that person before, be aware sometimes numbers are not saved on My work phone so if you are trying to get through and it keeps going to voicemail then pop over a short email with the last 4 digits or your full number so that I will answer if able to, or suggest a time to call.

Despite having written a very comprehensive informative website that covers every base possible I receive calls that will never come to any fruition and I am a great believer in elimination of stress  and not having to deal with toxic people,  ignoring My phone will be a great tonic to My continued success as a multi talented, very experienced and successful professional Mistress that isn’t willing to put up with the  bullshit!

No more silly questions such as today “do I smoke? No and that is covered on my don’t list.

“Do I still offer circumcision and castration fantasy?  also covered on My website!  BTW this is acting it out, going through the motions and using a safe but realistic tool but NOT to cause actual harm or removal, that would be illegal and downright stupid.

We have a saying in this game: There isn’t anyone quite like a time waster that isn’t gonna spend any money that asks a lot of questions.

Genuine new clients have spent time reading My website, they have researched Me thoroughly, they do not ring up asking pointless questions already covered.

Myself and many other Mistress’s roll our eyes when someone ask if they can just ask a question, usually followed by another question and another whilst that person’s other hand is usually wanking away.

I don’t provide free wank fodder at all, you want professional Mistress services then pay like all My other valued treasured good clients, whom I love coming along to play!

ALL My clients were new to Me once, they had the right attitude, the right approach, they emailed Me and we then had a lovely chat, they paid their deposit and came for their session and many continue to re-book time and time again.

Hello subs, slaves, kinksters, sissies and all that read My blogs

On Monday 2nd September it is back to the farm part two!  We are filming that day from 11am to late afternoon/early eve and the tribute is £100 My own known players can book through Me and all new enquiries then please contact Miss Kitty Bliss misskittybliss.co.uk

25th September we are holding a caning party from 1:30pm to 4:30pm for £150 tribute, we plan to have around 3 to 5 max attendees.  It will be lots of fun, some great banter and you will all be leaving with warm rosey or striped bottoms, depending on the level you like to play.

Also on 25th September after the party is double domination sessions and double domme on 26th September before heading out to Club Pedestal.  Double Domme tribute starts at £220 for one hour.

We will require a driver to pick up from Burgess Hill to Vauxhall, you may attend with us, return us safely back to Burgess Hill, apply via My contact details.  If you are not already known to us then we will of course vet you, take a deposit so that you do not let us down on the night.  On completion of your mission your deposit will be returned but if you cancel then we keep it to pay for our transport.

So many wonderful opportunities to come and play and serve, looking forward to seeing you soon.

It was a hot day in the clinic and Chief Consultant Helen Ryder had Miss Kitty Bliss an expert in her field of hypnosis as well as fully fledged in other medical areas in for a second opinion on a particularly difficult patient we shall refer to as Mr Brown.
On approaching the clinic Ms Ryder could hear voices and listened for a few minutes, she could hear Mr Brown not only providing his full medical history but talking about his deviant perversions very openly with absolute glee and on entering the room she saw a big smirk on his face.
“Mr Brown, your deviance is nothing to be proud of, wipe that smirk off your face”
“sorry miss”  he looked down but seemed to be rather proud of himself
“Where is your urine sample? Ms Ryder raised an eyebrow at Mr Brown and looked very stern
“I forgot it miss”
“Well that’s simply not good enough, come with me”
Mr Brown was taken to the toilet and Ms Ryder stood over him with a plastic jug ready to take his sample.
“I can’t seem to go” he looked very embarrassed.
“Back into the room then Mr Brown, we shall continue with your treatments”
“Thank you Ms Bliss for coming along today to give a second opinion on Mr Browns condition, I do believe you really are the best in your field and I think some future hypnosis sessions might get him back on the straight and narrow”
Ms Bliss agreed and between them they came up with a series of tests known as “attitude adjusters” and “Perversion Therapy” also known as PT but not as you might know it at the gym!
Between them a series of nipple clamping took place, being attached for a while and then removed, adjusted, pulled off and reattached at regular intervals as Mr Brown gave every single account of his perverted ways.  They did indeed become very sensitive and sore and rather took the wind out of his sails as time went by and his enthusiasm about his perverted ways became far less.
Mr Brown wasn’t very blessed with his manhood and hasn’t had sexual intercourse for a very long time, we strongly suspect that Mrs Brown simply finds him very perverse and disappointing in the bedroom department and most likely has a lover.  He is known to get an erection at the very sign of a bit of ankle display (how Victorian)  and yet he can not maintain it for very long and also suffers from premature ejaculation, oh dear!
It was discussed that Br Brown might be best off having full gender reassignment to become female and be a much more useful member of society, this would also give Mrs Brown some lovely female companionship.  Mr Brown would become Ms Brown over time but meanwhile could enrol in some training to initially become a cuckold and then fluffer to Mrs Browns lovers.  Meanwhile Mr Brown could also be put into chastity and his cock would be known as a clitty cock, being as it wouldn’t be able to get an erection caged!
An experimental injection of feminisation fluid was then injected into Mr Browns glans, he shrieked as it went in and complained, tut tut, the next procedure would have to be very painful indeed.  Any sign of an erection quickly went away!
Just to be certain Ms Bliss and Ms Ryder each took up a rubber cock whipper and thoroughly administered a series of hits on the glans, shaft and testes, he had to be gagged in order to proceed further.
The whole of the penile/groin area was fully prepared with antiseptic, clinnel wipes, Iodine swabs for the Esim sound to be administered.  Electrodes were attached to his perineum and Ms Bliss expertly inserted the sound into his well lubricated  urethral tract explaining to Mr Brown that this would be the only form of fucking he gets to receive as she pulled the sound up and let it sink down again.  Meanwhile the control box was gradually turned up.
“Tell us about your first panty experience”  Mr Brown gave a full account in graphic detail, which gave him an erection as he conveyed the story across.  The electrics were intensified, as well as the nipples repeatedly tortured to give him the pain/pleasure aversion therapy.  It was a good job he was tightly restrained as he would have been leaping up in the air.
It was essential to also take a sample from him to check for live swimmers in his semen (most unlikely with the injection) the wand was bought out and the shaft of his penis stimulated, this would normally take some time in a healthy virile male but on this occasion after barely being stimulated he cried out that he was coming, no time to catch the sample in the petri dish that it splashed onto the bench and the sample was ruined.
Mr Brown will be attending the Kink clinic again in the near future no doubt!
As Mr Brown was dressing he expressed that he didn’t find Ms Helen Ryder quite as daunting as her red head twin sister Helen Ann Ryder who will be attending his next medical most likely with Ms Bliss, these men never learn!  Ms Bliss shook her head and asked if he wanted to leave fully intact!
Thank you for a great session on Friday.
I booked a session with Mistress Helen and was asked if it would be OK to have another slave caged in the room during our session. That’s fine by me as I do like voyeurs present to witness my pain and add to my humiliation.
On arriving I was greeted by Mistress Helen who is an absolute beauty and a very powerful strong Mistress not to be underestimated.
As I had requested anal training, Mistress administered an enema on my arrival to clean me out ready for what was to come.  On entering Mistresses play room I saw the caged slave bound and wearing a nappy and nothing else.
Mistress informed me that he would be in the cage for quite some time without release hence the nappy.  Mistress proceeded to strap me down over her bench with my legs spread and my arse in a very vulnerable position.  Two or three firms slaps were then administer to by arse.
On went a blind fold before Mistress squeezed my cock and balls with a hand full of nettles that did make me yelp.  She then rubbed the nettles up through my butt cheeks ensuring that my hole was well stung and boy was it.  Mistress instructed me to take her strap on deep into my dirty mouth and worship it like a real cock. I do love cock in my mouth, just a shame it wasn’t a real one this time.
Mistress proceeded to lube up my arsehole, again intensifying the stings.  I could feel Mistress finger my hole gradually adding other fingers as my hole relaxed.  Mistress then gave my arse a real good fucking with her beautifully sized strap on and removed my mask so I could watch in a mirror.  The cage slave was quiet, so I taunted him with the thought that he might well be on the receiving end of Mistresses strap on later in the day.  Mistress then applied some heat cream around the inside of my arse causing me to moan a little before a further hard fucking of my sore hole.
It was a great mixture of pain and pleasure, before Mistress released me and moved me to the top of her cage containing the other slave.  My legs were hoisted wide and high again leaving my arse fully exposed.  Once strapped down Mistress applied more nettles to my cock and balls as well as rubbing nettles hard into my nipples and arsehole.  Clamps were then attached to my very sore nipples, before the chain was hoisted up above me drawing the clamp tight.
The cage slave lying beneath me was still quite and I suggested that maybe he should have some nettles placed in his nappy and Mistress through that was a good idea!
He did moan and groan and Mistress duck taped his nappy tightly back in place.
I did get a buzz from hearing him, quite clearly in discomfort. After all he had seen me in enough.  Mistress proceeded to stretch my hole forcing me to take four fingers up to her knuckles. Work in progress to accepting Mistresses fist.  Mistress did feel that I should book a Bi session as she would love to see both my holes filled as I was spit roasted, sounds amazing and will be happening real soon.  A further hard fucking by Mistress followed before she inserted nettles into my very sore swollen hole. It was very uncomfortable and the stinging remained with all areas of my body for at least 24 hours.  Mistress allowed me to orgasm whilst tugging on me nipple clamp and then told me to open wide as she dropped my spunk into my greedy mouth.
Cage slave was offered some but declined!!
Thank you Mistress Helen and I need to start planning my next session

For the whole month of August the alternate massage will be £100 for an hour.

Book an alternate massage session as a change of play and a form of escapism. It can also be a gentle introduction to BDSM if you are new and a tad nervous!

A gorgeous feast for the senses!  Either tied with soft rope or silky scarves (or left unbound) whilst I tease, stroke and manipulate your body including some very light flogging and massage techniques etc.  We will sit and chat about what can be incorporated into your bespoke massage session and leave out anything that you do not wish to experience.

This will be very popular so book now