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To save any confusion with the newbs here are your instructions for contacting Me & booking a session.

I ask that ALL new clients pay £20 by bank transfer (bank info on the online domination page) or Amazon gift code to email of helen-ryder@hotmail.com

Any first contact by phone or email will result in referring you to this £20 payment and no further discussion at all until I have received it.

When you pay in or send a voucher then send over a more detailed email with your likes/dislikes/ideas of what sort of session you would like to book, along with some flexi dates for Gatwick dungeon (from current till 17th May or Burgess Hill domestic play rooms from 17th May when it is legal to go into someone’s home.

  • Note Gatwick rates are more due to hiring the premises and on parr with other ladies who hire it.  I have included this on My website.

I will check payment in/voucher received and suggest some flexi times for you to give Me a call, we will have a nice chat in detail and book you in.  Secure play time with a deposit, the £20 payment then comes off your final tribute when you attend.

Just too many Covid 2020/2021 time wasters who have no real intention of booking and get some warped fun out of wasting time.

Paying £20 and being adjusted on the final tribute doesn’t then penalise the genuine people that do wish to book.

Genuine new clients/players have done their research and read a site through and know they’ve found a Mistress they wish to book. They do not require silly levels of spoon feeding basic information.

The genuine are welcome to get in touch.

Mistress Helen X

 

Double Domination Sessions in Kent with Lady Amber

Our next dates advertised for double domination sessions in Kent is 20th/21st April, we can also work together in Kent on other dates subject to 48hrs notice with a deposit to secure.

(4) LadyAmber (@LadyAmber2017) / Twitter

We will be working together for impact play, heavy CP sessions

Bondage sessions and extended bondage special sessions

Breath Play with or without intox

Tickle sessions (on you of course) we DO NOT receive!

Leather sessions, leather cross dressing available

Sensory Deprivation

Boot/Shoe and Foot Worship

Some wrestle holds NOT wrestling

Please note there will be NO sexual play in sessions, these sessions are for serious fetish players, your excitement can be contained and taken away with you for later reflection and relief.

Please book via ladyamber2017@hotmail.com Mobile Calls NOT texting to 07775 276054

12th April till 17th May I will be taking bookings at The Gatwick Dungeon in Horley, this is due to My domestic premises coming into a grey area of Covid rules and I would rather not take the risk of a £10K fine.  I am also available to double domme with Lady Leather Amber aka The Bondage Mistress in Kent, 48 hours notice is required to book.

My domestic dungeon will open on 17th May provided the goal posts haven’t been moved!

I can do social meets in Burgess Hill and cash point meets as well as the online domination that is advertised on that page.

My phone is on for all polite enquiries, do NOT send text messages as I will ignore them, same goes for WhatsAPP.

It is vital we have a brief chat followed up by you sending an email with an outline and dates/times you can commit.  Those who approach me this way are usually the ones that book, the texters don’t.  If by one email reply to you, you haven’t provided the basic info above or paid £20 to cover a detailed call I will see that you are simply wasting time and have no intention of booking.

I’m looking forward to tormenting & playing again, can’t wait!

For bookings from 17th May, send over a 50% bank transfer deposit if you are engaging Me in conversation now, in order to take you seriously.  If emailing put some effort in with an outline of the type of session and the dates you can commit. One liner emails are pointless.

 

Mistress Helen XX

 

Lola is looking for a new partner in her life, she was gifted to me and starred in 3 naughty little film clips, all with protection being used.

She is a TPE WM doll with fully articulated metal skeleton and fully posable for different positions, Manufacturer believed to be from a different company to this link (purely for guidance, as they do not ship dolls below 140cm to the UK)  WM Doll Sex Doll Head #264 | 108 cm L cup – Ava Love Doll (ava-love-doll.com) 110cms when her head is attached, weight 21 to 26 kg (stated on full box packaging) I do not have scales to confirm exact weight Lola comes with a variety of wigs, a few outfits, a USB warming rod.  a cleaning bulb and other little bits.  Her eyes do not open, her face is a state of bliss.  She has Chinese writing on the box and the enclosed leaflet and was shipped from Germany, she is a silent doll and doesn’t make any noises.

another supplier selling this model is Poupée naine Martha 108cm bonnet L WMdolls – Dolls France

The reason I was gifted such a petite doll was purely for storage space so that she could live out of harms way in the box she came in.  I am told the more petite dolls are rare and she cost just over £800 new so I am looking for £495  with a £50 to £100 non returnable deposit via bank transfer and cash  on collection.  I am only interested in a serious collector/buyer.  She is an absolute bargain.

I am not prepared to ship her so it will be pick up from Burgess Hill or personal delivery within 30 miles of Burgess Hill.  Further afield there will be a fuel charge, pre agreed. I am on occasions in Maidstone Kent and over in West Yorkshire.  This would need to be within my timescale if Kent/Yorkshire.

The only minor damage is that she is missing her little toenail on her left foot, which is included for you to glue back on.  I haven’t done this myself as I was being overly cautious with what type of glue to use on TPE.  I have just joined a forum called UKLDF and my user name is Helen-Ryder I will be adding Lola in the sale section when my profile is approved by the admin team.

March Lockdown Restrictions changing, a little light at the end of what’s been a VERY long tunnel!

all subject to data not rigid dates so do bear this in mind:
March 8th coffee outside and meet up with one person, I will offer coffee meets and going for walks with slaves/subs etc and this will be at social rates and will depend on duration and distance.  If it’s local around 3 miles walking and an hour ish then it will be £80, otherwise POA
Cash point meets too for finsubs, it has been a very long time since I met someone and had them draw out money for me, how I miss the thrill.  This is still subject to a deposit beforehand.
March 29th 2 households or subject to rule of 6 can meet up outside.
12th April Shops open, nail salons, hairdressers, pubs/restaurants serve outside, if The Gatwick Dungeon is open I will hold sessions there until 17th May!  I am taking open holding deposits to prioritise your bookings now, otherwise get in touch when sessions are taking place.  Keep an eye on My blogs and Twitter for further info.
17th May pubs/bars etc can serve inside, hotels, cinema, concert halls/theatres.  This is when you can have someone come into your house, my domestic place will hopefully be open for some sessions as well as Gatwick dungeon or Brighton dungeon.
21st June lifting restrictions all round where possible.
I look forward to meeting up with some of you soon as well as all the online availability (read the online page) I have on offer.  Zoom meeting online 121 or with another dominatrix, WhatsApp messaging/video calls, sending kinky messages to you.
Keep kink alive
Mistress Helen xXx
P.S Due to the rule of other households mixing on 17th May if the Gatwick dungeon opens its doors for hire on 12th April then I will be holding all My sessions there. This will incur a slightly higher tribute to cover the hire/My travel on par with the other Mistress’s who hire it.  Due to the ease of parking at the venue I will be able to bring along some of My own equipment too!
One hour is £180
90 mins is £280 and 2 hours is £350 this higher tribute includes the hire of the dungeon.  I am not passing on extra expense such as my travel time as I will rather be having fun and seeing My chaps than stuck at home!

Hi folks

Like many of you I’ve had enough of all the lockdown and I’m chomping at the bit to get back into sessions!  With moral obligations and a 10K fine I am not conducting sessions in the flesh right now, people are still asking every week!

Whilst it’s been fun staying in touch with some of you online as well as meeting some potential new players in video chats, it just isn’t quite the same as meeting someone face to face, manipulating your mind and flesh.  Hearing you whimper, plead, your breath quicken, your pulse race…. Oh how I miss sessions!

Many of you are aware of My charge for ALL phone calls, this simply came about to the high volume of people asking to discuss a session in the first lockdown and then when I was able to open My playrooms again not one of them ever booked.

Being a wise bird and learning from that experience, I started charging for every single call and if it’s a one off call then it comes off the final tribute of a real time session.  If the phone call is simply to have a bit of a jolly with Mistress then these calls are ALL covered by you.  Right now online work is My only income and doesn’t make up much shortfall of the grants I receive for being a self employed tax payer.  The boring bit is that yes I do have bills to pay.

I very much welcome the paid online sessions, phone chats, video chats when possible, selling items to you, some custom clips if they fit My remit.  So please do keep these coming, it’s My only source of fetish entertainment (other when I see My bubble) and we need to keep the kink alive!

I am also very much missing working alongside some of My fab Mistress friends and look forward to double domme again one day.

Our next date for DD webcam is 3rd March with Miss Kitty Bliss, she will join up online via an app and it will be a cam conference session.  The last one was lots of fun.

Fingers and toes crossed and those into CBT, tie a knot in it for good news next week from BJ to state if any business’s can open.

It’s unfortunate that they can’t state Mistress’s can open their doors, most people in high pressure jobs look for some control/release, so you would think it would be in the list 😉 I am basing Myself on beauty/hair salons opening up.

KEEP THE KINK ALIVE!

We have such a treat instore, get your Mistress Helen & Miss Kitty fix with Us both online together/remotely as per guidance, see Us both on cam, discuss your kinks, future sessions, online domination/instructions, bring any toys to cam.  Lets be clear that I am in Sussex and Miss Kitty in Kent, meeting up remotely online via an encrypted app.

Taking your advance bookings now to secure your time with Us on webcam

When you have booked/paid we will send you the link to click on and join Us.

11th Feb 2021 7pm to 11pm

 

Hello My lovelies, I expect lack of Fet and play sessions are becoming harder to deal with as time goes by, if I don’t get to whack or peg some bottoms I can be quite the wicked witch of the South East!

I do have to adhere to the lockdown so I am only offering online sessions via email, telephone chats, Whatsapp packages to chat or video call.  Custom clips only when the requests are possible as I’ve had some very odd requests recently.

I do have plenty of mini clips on Adult Work and Clips4Sale, your support in purchasing these is appreciated.

Mistress Helen Ryder (clips4sale.com)

https://www.adultwork.com/1248241

Please only email if you are paying the initial  £20 fee to cover My time for email/Chat to discuss any aspects of future sessions or filming.

I won’t be replying to any new enqs on Adult Work as so many of you that I’ve never seen or heard from before are currently asking for sessions, even same day sessions.  This would be a £10K fine if I had you here and got reported!  If you want some chat chat then please do the above with a tribute  direct or actually use the AW or Dommeline platforms for chat when I am logged in.

Mistress Helen Ryder | Dommeline

Twitter seem to be having a purge on Mistress’s etc so I had locked My account for a while, whilst I worked on removing quite a lot of posts.  I’ve gone from over 18K posts down to 10K and did try and remove the whole history using a programme but it left 10K behind ??  I’ve also had to stop AW and Clips4Sale tweeting when I sell a clip or go online so My business is being hit hard from ALL angles.

Sadly if/when My Twitter is locked you won’t be able to retweet any of My posts at present, just like or comment on them.  If I am not following you back then you won’t be able to see anything on Twitter that I post!

Some of My chaps have sent emails offering to send funds, gift codes, deposit for future sessions and then not sent anything.  Please do not send empty offers.  I would rather not hear from you if you can’t afford to send or follow through with some commitment.  If you are finding lockdown hard and yet have full pay or your full pension then imagine just for one moment h0w emails of this nature don’t make me want to dance for joy!  It’s fine to not get in touch until I am open for business again if you have no intention or simply can not afford to pay for My time right now,

I am self employed and have received the SEISS grants at 80% and 70% of My last three years tax history.  However one tax year was lower than usual due to essential eye saving surgery from the stupid reckless accident caused by an utter idiot woman in the gym in Leeds when I was away working with the person.  It involved over a month off work, that around £3K of lost income!

I can’t wait for the day that I can open My dungeon/playroom doors and welcome you all back as well as meet some nice genuine new players.  I really want to build up My base of good loyal bois having lost some to old age, new partners or crossing over the bridge (RIP)

When you visit you will see that Mistress has been keeping herself very busy indeed with DIY and a rejiggle again in both playrooms, opening up the space for a better swing of My floggers/canes etc and for the other activities we All enjoy here 😉

Keep yourselves out of mischief but if you get the urge for some mischief then book Me for online/phone sessions.  I welcome your bookings XX

Bank info sort: 20-92-54 Acc: 70468665 Name Ms Rogers, Paying in ref your initials.

Over and out for now…

Mistress Helen xXx