Q. Can I cum at any point in the session?
A. Yes if it is appropriate to our session, there are plenty of wonderful gadgets to assist in this (Venus 2000, wand with attachments, powerful massager) and JOI (jerk off instructions if that’s your interest) during a bit of tie/tease or end of session. Note I do touch My playmates but I’m not here to wank you off something silly. Service providers/escorts provide wanks!
Q. How long will it take to get to you?
A. Use Google maps from your location to Burgess Hill West Sussex. I recently had someone ask how long it would take for him to get to me in October, I’ve no idea if he was planning to miniaturise himself and ride on a snails back, walk, cycle, get a train or drive…..
Q. Can I douche/have an enema?
A. Yes it is £10 extra and you need to book a 90 min session to give enough time to cover this and include your play.
Q. Do you supply all latex clothing for me to wear?
A. No I do not, simply due to lack of storage in My beautiful home with TWO very well equipped rooms for play. I have a struggle fitting all My own clothing and fetish wear into My wardrobes, as well as all the sissy satin/maids outfits that I do provide, you are most welcome to bring your own along.
Q. Can I have a double domme or assistant join in?
A. With enough notice, this can be arranged and does require a 50% deposit of the full double tribute.
Q. Will you do a surprise domination for my partner?
A. Not without speaking with them first, it is about consent. All couples bookings require the lady to get in touch and both be available on speaker phone to chat with Me at an arranged time.
Q. Will you force feed me drugs?
A. No and do not bring drugs to My premises. I only allow poppers, which you have to purchase yourself and bring them to the session due to legality.
Q. Can I arrive fully cross dressed ready to play.
A. Only if you are going to leave in the same manner, it will look odd if anyone see’s a lady arriving and man driving off. It also depends on if you can pass easily and are wearing something very normal and not looking outrageous or a total trollop.
Q. Do you require filming slaves?
A. Yes, these dates are usually advertised on a blog, it is worth getting in touch to express your interest. A tribute of £100 is expected for filming and you also need to bring photo I.D and sign a model release form. Filming is usually from a couple of hours to longer, there might be others present, the scenes are always sorted on the day depending on peoples boundaries and activities.
Q. Can I wear a mask for filming or full make up?
A. Yes you may, make-up application by Me is an extra fee of £40 and takes about an hour.
Q. Can I be your personal slave?
A.No, I have lovely bitch boyfriend for this.
Q. Are you a lifestyle dominatrix?
A.Yes I am, this is way more than a business, however that doesn’t mean I give free sessions out!
Q. Can I send you a script of exactly what I want you to do to me, in a very specific order with 6 of these and 8 of those etc etc
A. No, that is Not Me dominating you. This is being a Fetish actress and I would have to let go of My Dominatrix integrity and be a Fetish actress for you. This fee starts at £1,000 for an hour instead of the very reasonable £120.
Q. Can I email or ring you to ask lots of questions that are already covered on your website, but I am too lazy to read?
A. No, all genuine visitors to My establishment did their research, sent a polite email, we had a really lovey chat and they paid their deposit and attended. It’s ever so simple.
Q. Can you cane me, do ABCD etc and not leave marks?
A. I will take your boundaries into account when we session, very light caning usually doesn’t leave any marks but everyone’s skin/body is different. If you enjoy pain I can easily inflict some using various techniques and gadgets that will not leave marks.
Q. Can I meet you first for coffee/lunch or dinner?
A. Yes, this requires an email/chat and full payment of My social rates via bank transfer for this meeting so I am not taking money in public (although I do some cash point meets with a deposit in place)
Q. I want to try a domination session but I don’t like pain, does it have to be about pain?
A. No, although I love to inflict it I can introduce you gently into the world of Femdom, kink and light BDSM.
Q. Do I have to be a submissive in order to session?
A. About 70% of My playmates are submissive and the others consider themselves to be kinksters, as long as you have a respectful approach and the right attitude and enjoy the activities I have listed then that is perfectly ok to come along and have some fun.
Q. Do you have an upper age limit?
A. No, as long as you are well and healthy and can walk or wiggle up a flight of stairs with ease, are not likely to croak on My premises then you are welcome to get in touch. I love older gentleman! I always need to be aware of any medical conditions, be honest!
Q. I’m under 21 will you see me?
A. No I feel youngsters haven’t had enough normal kink in their private personal life and regular life experience as yet, this feels too creepy for Me with such an age gap.
Q. Will you travel to visit me abroad?
A. Not on a first time session, come to the UK and session with Me in My premises first. If I travel to you all expenses such as travel, My own hotel room/travel and out of pocket expenses will be pre paid by you so that I book My own flights etc.
Q. Can I come clean your house/dungeon/garden etc?
A. No, this doesn’t work for Me as I find it still panders to your time and Not My own. I would rather do the tasks Myself very well or simply pay a professional to do it.
Q. Can I buy you a gift?
A. Yes gifts are lovely, there is a list of suitable suggestions on My tribute page
Q. Can I see you without paying a deposit?
A. No, all first time visitors or longer repeat bookings have to pay one.
I will add more questions and answers here in due course, depending on My thoughts and what comes up.