Blog

I’m heading up North on 22nd July until Monday 26th July, sessions back in West Sussex from 27th July.

The 25th July is set aside for Our Double Domme event “Sunday Sinners”

I am teaming up with My gorgeous friend Mistress Helena in Huddersfield,  she is just 26 mins train travel from Leeds with a 6 min cab journey or by car from Leeds just over half an hour drive with easy on street parking, sessions are in a beautiful fully equipped dungeon.  Which is scrupulously clean  using hospital grade products, all toys are covered with condoms where possible or sterilised before/after use.  There is plenty of “proper” sterile & insertable lube too!  No cooking fat or motorcycle grease haha.  Two consummate professionals who care about your wellbeing and only use the best equipment.

Two strict blonde alpha females to take control over you, Our fetish interests are immense and we are passionate about what we do, please take a look around Our fetish interests on Our websites to see what makes you salivate and yearn to book a visit for an amazing double domination experience.

Huddersfield Mistresses – Huddersfield Mistresses

Just a few ideas to wet your appetites

Pegging/Spit roasting

CP Judicial, straight up or Roleplay from moderate to very hard!

Sissy transformations

Medical play

Sensory deprivation with EStim/Wand teasing sensual or take the pain if you are a masochist, your limits/boundaries are always respected

Bondage, leather, straps, encasement, mummification and/or time in the cell

Foot worship, maid or slave duties

Contact Mistress Helena to book in and a 50% deposit is mandatory and non refundable (bank transfer info on My online domination/tribute page) Please provide an outline of your interests and any medical conditions we need to be aware of.  ALL sessions are totally bespoke to your interests,  we do listen to your kinks and create the best unique experience.  We are lifestyle Mistress’s with years of experience and deviant tricks up Our sleeves 😉 so lets get together and enjoy some fetish play, it really doesn’t get better than this!

We look forward to “having you” visit us soon.

Contact Mistress Helena on 07557 516183 call or polite text to book in

 

Hi folks, lots of enquiries asking if I am working…..

YES I am taking sessions now in My domestic setting fully equipped play space in Burgess Hill, just 20 mins from Brighton and 15 mins from Gatwick.

Yes I will see new people if you have read this website, we have mutual interests in common and you write a respectful email before arranging to speak.  Anything crude/lewd and no dates/times and outline will be considered to be a dubious message.  Think before you write & cover the 10 minute £20 phone call/email fee, which is reimbursable against a real time booking when you attend..  My bank info is on the online domination page.  If you wish to chat longer then I charge £2.00 per minute, anything over the 10 mins won’t come off the session rate.

Due to working in close proximity I will only see those unmasked who have been double vaccinated with card to prove so, over 21yrs and mask worn though all of your session if you haven’t had the covid vaccination.

I also welcome a lifestyle submissive who is looking to serve a dominatrix from afar if you are abroad, weekly contact and life style coaching, perhaps leading to domination sessions.  If you are a generous loyal submissive then do apply, create the right first impression.  I am only interested in those who can enhance and enrich My lifestyle with regular payments, useful tradesman ship (I require a new driveway and new rear patio) financial domination and to include plenty of promo support on Twitter & any other platforms.

I will be offering double domination with Lady Amber at The Peacock Parlour in North London on 24th June.  It is best to pre book and pay your deposit to secure a play time with us.  If the London chaps don’t book up quickly then the location will revert to Kent where we are always busy with Our regular subs/slaves.

I will also be conducting filming with Miss Kitty Bliss on 19th July with one already booked sub, this is at The Fallen Angel Studio in Milton Keynes.  Another date with Miss Kitty is Tuesday 17th August near Brighton at a rural location, inside filming and possibility of outside filming, weather etc dependent.  Email Miss Kitty Bliss on her filming slaves link on her website.  Anyone known to Me may apply direct.

It’s not often that I work out of My area unless it’s an advertised double domme.  If you want Me to travel to you in a local dungeon to your area, the tribute needs to cover travel as well as other fees.

You can hire Gatwick or Brighton Dungeon as an alternative venue, as both are fairly local for Me.

 

 

To save any confusion with the newbs here are your instructions for contacting Me & booking a session.

I ask that ALL new clients pay £20 by bank transfer (bank info on the online domination page) or Amazon gift code to email of helen-ryder@hotmail.com

Any first contact by phone or email will result in referring you to this £20 payment and no further discussion at all until I have received it.

When you pay in or send a voucher then send over a more detailed email with your likes/dislikes/ideas of what sort of session you would like to book, along with some flexi dates for Gatwick dungeon (from current till 17th May or Burgess Hill domestic play rooms from 17th May when it is legal to go into someone’s home.

  • Note Gatwick rates are more due to hiring the premises and on parr with other ladies who hire it.  I have included this on My website.

I will check payment in/voucher received and suggest some flexi times for you to give Me a call, we will have a nice chat in detail and book you in.  Secure play time with a deposit, the £20 payment then comes off your final tribute when you attend.

Just too many Covid 2020/2021 time wasters who have no real intention of booking and get some warped fun out of wasting time.

Paying £20 and being adjusted on the final tribute doesn’t then penalise the genuine people that do wish to book.

Genuine new clients/players have done their research and read a site through and know they’ve found a Mistress they wish to book. They do not require silly levels of spoon feeding basic information.

The genuine are welcome to get in touch.

Mistress Helen X

 

Double Domination Sessions in Kent with Lady Amber

Our next dates advertised for double domination sessions in Kent is 20th/21st April, we can also work together in Kent on other dates subject to 48hrs notice with a deposit to secure.

(4) LadyAmber (@LadyAmber2017) / Twitter

We will be working together for impact play, heavy CP sessions

Bondage sessions and extended bondage special sessions

Breath Play with or without intox

Tickle sessions (on you of course) we DO NOT receive!

Leather sessions, leather cross dressing available

Sensory Deprivation

Boot/Shoe and Foot Worship

Some wrestle holds NOT wrestling

Please note there will be NO sexual play in sessions, these sessions are for serious fetish players, your excitement can be contained and taken away with you for later reflection and relief.

Please book via ladyamber2017@hotmail.com Mobile Calls NOT texting to 07775 276054

12th April till 17th May I will be taking bookings at The Gatwick Dungeon in Horley, this is due to My domestic premises coming into a grey area of Covid rules and I would rather not take the risk of a £10K fine.  I am also available to double domme with Lady Leather Amber aka The Bondage Mistress in Kent, 48 hours notice is required to book.

My domestic dungeon will open on 17th May provided the goal posts haven’t been moved!

I can do social meets in Burgess Hill and cash point meets as well as the online domination that is advertised on that page.

My phone is on for all polite enquiries, do NOT send text messages as I will ignore them, same goes for WhatsAPP.

It is vital we have a brief chat followed up by you sending an email with an outline and dates/times you can commit.  Those who approach me this way are usually the ones that book, the texters don’t.  If by one email reply to you, you haven’t provided the basic info above or paid £20 to cover a detailed call I will see that you are simply wasting time and have no intention of booking.

I’m looking forward to tormenting & playing again, can’t wait!

For bookings from 17th May, send over a 50% bank transfer deposit if you are engaging Me in conversation now, in order to take you seriously.  If emailing put some effort in with an outline of the type of session and the dates you can commit. One liner emails are pointless.

 

Mistress Helen XX

 

Lola is looking for a new partner in her life, she was gifted to me and starred in 3 naughty little film clips, all with protection being used.

She is a TPE WM doll with fully articulated metal skeleton and fully posable for different positions, Manufacturer believed to be from a different company to this link (purely for guidance, as they do not ship dolls below 140cm to the UK)  WM Doll Sex Doll Head #264 | 108 cm L cup – Ava Love Doll (ava-love-doll.com) 110cms when her head is attached, weight 21 to 26 kg (stated on full box packaging) I do not have scales to confirm exact weight Lola comes with a variety of wigs, a few outfits, a USB warming rod.  a cleaning bulb and other little bits.  Her eyes do not open, her face is a state of bliss.  She has Chinese writing on the box and the enclosed leaflet and was shipped from Germany, she is a silent doll and doesn’t make any noises.

another supplier selling this model is Poupée naine Martha 108cm bonnet L WMdolls – Dolls France

The reason I was gifted such a petite doll was purely for storage space so that she could live out of harms way in the box she came in.  I am told the more petite dolls are rare and she cost just over £800 new so I am looking for £495 UPDATED 15/07/2021 NOW £300  with a £50 non returnable deposit via bank transfer and cash  on collection .  I am only interested in a serious collector/buyer.  She is an absolute bargain.

I am not prepared to ship her so it will be pick up from Burgess Hill or personal delivery within 30 miles of Burgess Hill.  Further afield there will be a fuel charge, pre agreed. I am on occasions in Maidstone Kent and over in West Yorkshire.  This would need to be within my timescale if Kent/Yorkshire.

The only minor damage is that she is missing her little toenail on her left foot, which is included for you to glue back on.  I haven’t done this myself as I was being overly cautious with what type of glue to use on TPE.  I have just joined a forum called UKLDF and my user name is Helen-Ryder I will be adding Lola in the sale section when my profile is approved by the admin team.

March Lockdown Restrictions changing, a little light at the end of what’s been a VERY long tunnel!

all subject to data not rigid dates so do bear this in mind:
March 8th coffee outside and meet up with one person, I will offer coffee meets and going for walks with slaves/subs etc and this will be at social rates and will depend on duration and distance.  If it’s local around 3 miles walking and an hour ish then it will be £80, otherwise POA
Cash point meets too for finsubs, it has been a very long time since I met someone and had them draw out money for me, how I miss the thrill.  This is still subject to a deposit beforehand.
March 29th 2 households or subject to rule of 6 can meet up outside.
12th April Shops open, nail salons, hairdressers, pubs/restaurants serve outside, if The Gatwick Dungeon is open I will hold sessions there until 17th May!  I am taking open holding deposits to prioritise your bookings now, otherwise get in touch when sessions are taking place.  Keep an eye on My blogs and Twitter for further info.
17th May pubs/bars etc can serve inside, hotels, cinema, concert halls/theatres.  This is when you can have someone come into your house, my domestic place will hopefully be open for some sessions as well as Gatwick dungeon or Brighton dungeon.
21st June lifting restrictions all round where possible.
I look forward to meeting up with some of you soon as well as all the online availability (read the online page) I have on offer.  Zoom meeting online 121 or with another dominatrix, WhatsApp messaging/video calls, sending kinky messages to you.
Keep kink alive
Mistress Helen xXx
P.S Due to the rule of other households mixing on 17th May if the Gatwick dungeon opens its doors for hire on 12th April then I will be holding all My sessions there. This will incur a slightly higher tribute to cover the hire/My travel on par with the other Mistress’s who hire it.  Due to the ease of parking at the venue I will be able to bring along some of My own equipment too!
One hour is £180
90 mins is £280 and 2 hours is £350 this higher tribute includes the hire of the dungeon.  I am not passing on extra expense such as my travel time as I will rather be having fun and seeing My chaps than stuck at home!

Hi folks

Like many of you I’ve had enough of all the lockdown and I’m chomping at the bit to get back into sessions!  With moral obligations and a 10K fine I am not conducting sessions in the flesh right now, people are still asking every week!

Whilst it’s been fun staying in touch with some of you online as well as meeting some potential new players in video chats, it just isn’t quite the same as meeting someone face to face, manipulating your mind and flesh.  Hearing you whimper, plead, your breath quicken, your pulse race…. Oh how I miss sessions!

Many of you are aware of My charge for ALL phone calls, this simply came about to the high volume of people asking to discuss a session in the first lockdown and then when I was able to open My playrooms again not one of them ever booked.

Being a wise bird and learning from that experience, I started charging for every single call and if it’s a one off call then it comes off the final tribute of a real time session.  If the phone call is simply to have a bit of a jolly with Mistress then these calls are ALL covered by you.  Right now online work is My only income and doesn’t make up much shortfall of the grants I receive for being a self employed tax payer.  The boring bit is that yes I do have bills to pay.

I very much welcome the paid online sessions, phone chats, video chats when possible, selling items to you, some custom clips if they fit My remit.  So please do keep these coming, it’s My only source of fetish entertainment (other when I see My bubble) and we need to keep the kink alive!

I am also very much missing working alongside some of My fab Mistress friends and look forward to double domme again one day.

Our next date for DD webcam is 3rd March with Miss Kitty Bliss, she will join up online via an app and it will be a cam conference session.  The last one was lots of fun.

Fingers and toes crossed and those into CBT, tie a knot in it for good news next week from BJ to state if any business’s can open.

It’s unfortunate that they can’t state Mistress’s can open their doors, most people in high pressure jobs look for some control/release, so you would think it would be in the list 😉 I am basing Myself on beauty/hair salons opening up.