West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder


Massage with a twist

Many of you are aware of the benefits of massage from pure relaxation to easing aches and pains as well as increasing blood flow and increasing the happy hormone Dopamine.  Many of you have high profile stressful jobs or stressful lives and need a form of escapism and simply taking time out for yourself.

If you have been thinking about visiting a Dominatrix for some time and find it all rather daunting then try a more gentle introduction with a massage to include some light tie and tease, prostrate massage if desired, a light flogging, feathers, sensory pin wheel, metal tip claws gently stroking over your skin and perhaps some warm Bamboo as well as my very skilled hands.  Relief at the end if desired via my wonderful boy toys when booking the alternate massage.

I use various massage mediums such as warm melted massage candles, specialist therapy grade massage wax, soya based oils, grape seed and  other quality therapy grade oils.  It is imperative that you let me know if you have any allergies and any medical/health conditions, even if currently undiagnosed.

I am a qualified level three therapist I have Anatomy/Physiology and many massage “diplomas” and training in different styles, my training took years with many case studies and hard work.  It was not a one day massage course with certificate like many other providers out there, as you can tell I am passionate about massage:

  • Swedish
  • Aromatherapy
  • Lomi Lomi
  • Thai Leg/Foot Massage
  • Hot Bamboo
  • Pregnancy massage*
  • Massage for Dementia patients*  (*purely for info)

A one hour massage with a twist/sensual massage with relief via my wonderful toys is £110, if a longer duration to escape is desired then refer to my rates page as same price structure as domination.

Vanilla massage

Full body massage with NO kinks or extra’s one hour treatment £75 for NEW clients

As above one hour treatment to gents I have had the pleasure of a BDSM session £55

Body scrub before your treatment £10

It is important you do not have any contraindications to massage, a chat about any medical issues is important prior to booking. Some medical conditions will require a letter from your GP and conditions I will not entertain are: Epilepsy, uncontrolled high blood pressure and any contagious conditions.  Please ensure you inform me of any health conditions, allergies and medications when we speak.

Fresh fluffy towels or silky sarongs, a refreshing shower available both before and after, tranquillity and soothing music await and welcome you.

  • There is NO relief included in the straight vanilla massage!