How to book a session with West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder.

So you’ve decided to take the plunge and make a booking with a “Dominatrix” jolly well done

To ring or email?  Well you are always welcome to call but being “New” I am not going to go into graphic detail in a phone call over what may or may not happen in a booking.  A phone call is essential to act as an “ice breaker” at an early stage and I ask for a token payment of £20, which comes off the final tribute when you attend in person for your session. The best form of contact is a polite friendly email such as:

Hello my name is ………….. I’ve not done this before/don’t have much experience/or I’ve seen other Mistress’s etc and I am looking to make an appointment for date/time for X duration.  I’m interested/curious in the following….. Pegging, Strap-on, Butt Plugs, Cross Dressing, Spanking, Sensual Domination, Tie and Tease etc.  I do NOT require a step by step guide of how the session will go, I decide that!

  • Let me know how long a session you would like to book for
  • Provide an idea of dates and times that you can commit to a session
  • Do not attach photos or any other files unless after speaking I ask you for anything myself

I will ask you to send over a token £20 to cover a phone call & email, which will be adjusted on the final tribute.  Please be aware that 50% deposits are also mandatory to secure the session time.

If you desire longer time chatting and wish to get to know Me better on the phone then please note I charge £2.00 a minute, payable first.  This is separate to the chat fee above and doesn’t count towards the session.

Deposits are non-refundable, if you cancel with more than 48 hours notice it can be transferred to one new date within 12 weeks.  Cancellations with less than 48hrs notice forfeit the deposit and a new deposit will be required to rebook.  Bookings cancelled on the day you are due will incur 100% of the agreed fee.  It’s decent human nature to respect the time I set aside for you and will not replace your booking at short notice.

If you are unable to send a bank transfer cash drop offs can be arranged, it will incur an additional fee of £50 to cover the meet/greet.

Good things come to those who wait (and plan ahead) and you will get the very best from your Mistress by showing your respect for her time and her booking procedures.

The account information for deposits is:

Sort 20-92-54

Acc 70468665

Name S Rogers

Ref MHR your initial’s and date if session if arranged.  Or MHR PC (phone call)

  • Please note I do not offer same day short notice appointments to anyone new, if you are an established regular then with 2 to 3 hours’ notice there may be a slim chance that it is possible.  It is always best to book ahead and 24hrs notice is preferred.