Appointments

Check out My Twitter feed for all advertised double domination dates and general news, this link is My ONLY Twitter, there have been several fakes recently, stealing My images and creating Twitter accounts to scam people, they have been reported numerous times but still exist!  Mistress Helen Ryder The Ultimate Sussex Mistress (@MsHelenRyder) / Twitter  The one and only!!!

I’m teaming up with my friend Mistress Amber in Gravesend Kent on Thursday 24th Feb 2022 we will be offering CP/All impact play, bondage, NT, sensory dep & many more BDSM Delights.  Pegging, medical play and HE is not available for this DD date, pop your enq into an email to apply.  StrictLeatherLadyAmber (@StrictLadyAmber) / Twitter

Thursday 24th March 2022 My friend Miss Kitty Bliss will be working with Me in Burgess Hill for a full BDSM experience to include pegging, medical play, CP, bondage, sissy make overs and much more!

The sooner you book and pay your deposit the more likely you are to get the time that works well for you, we are taking bookings now.  Sometimes there are places closer to the date so it’s always worth asking.  Miss Kitty Bliss (@Miss_KittyBliss) / Twitter

 

 

I’m always adding to My ever growing collection of kink and thought the grid wall was looking a bit cluttered and it was becoming hard to see where I had hung ALL My wonderful things up.  My lovely friend Joanna Armstrong came to stay Saturday night and whilst I was cooking a Sunday roast Jo was putting up hanging rails for Me and repositioning a mirror, everyone’s a winner 🙂

See pics, this is how the room looks when I’m not conducting a play session, as you can see it also doubles as a guest room for when one of My kink friendly mates visit or if a slave books an overnight and doesn’t want to be in the cage!  All the bedding/mattress comes off for sessions, leaving a wipeable leatherette surface to lie on.  All the atmospheric lighting goes on, curtains closed to keep the outside world away and help you get into subspace.  This is just one room I use for sessions, there is also a medical white room with lots more goodies and the parlour for domestic discipline.

New items are many to include impact play, shibari rope and enfettered aroma play and much more.  Best book a session!

A reminder as usual re new bookings, please send £20 cover charge for a call and email, this is adjusted off the final tribute.  If you’ve been before then send an email as I’m not often answering My phone since Covid came along (it increased TW’s tenfold) I’m only answering to arranged calls, thank you (for My sanity) I also conduct sessions from either Brighton Dungeon or Gatwick dungeon for those looking at a slightly larger commercial play space.  I do require 2 yo 3 days notice to book elsewhere, otherwise it’s 24hrs notice for new people to visit My own play space.

One of My long serving subs has bought a fantastic new toy!

It’s called the Slubb, it has very powerful vibrations, how long can you handle it?!  Book a session and find out!

Who doesn’t love a power tool!

Please note I am seeing both established regulars and new clients for play times with a risk assessment in a phone call and PPE in place. keeping Us safe whilst still having a lot of fun here.

I am a highly skilled multifaceted Domme with a wealth of experience, your boundaries are taken into consideration.  My Fetish interests are vast and listed on this site.  I excel in domestic discipline, EStim play, Pegging and much more.  I also love a good roleplay when it’s called for and certainly do not require or want a script.

I wish I could include photos of the beautiful needle art I did yesterday on the boi who bought this new toy.  I can show you when you attend.

Stay safe n kinky peeps, see some of you soon 😉

Mistress Helen XX

 

 

I have availability for the coming week Snap up a wonderful play time Medical roleplays CP from tappity tap to full on whack

EStim/Electrics Bondage/Restraints Sissy service & Maid Training and much more……

Send an email/arrange a chat helen-ryder@hotmail.com

Deposit mandatory

Zany face

 

For the whole month of August the alternate massage will be £100 for an hour.

Book an alternate massage session as a change of play and a form of escapism. It can also be a gentle introduction to BDSM if you are new and a tad nervous!

A gorgeous feast for the senses!  Either tied with soft rope or silky scarves (or left unbound) whilst I tease, stroke and manipulate your body including some very light flogging and massage techniques etc.  We will sit and chat about what can be incorporated into your bespoke massage session and leave out anything that you do not wish to experience.

This will be very popular so book now

 

Double Domination fun, do you dare to indulge with two strict demanding Mistresses?!   Please contact Mistress Jane as she is taking appointments for doubles on the above dates advertised, book Now!

We can play Doctors/Nurses and you the willing victim, Oops I meant patient in the medical white room with prostate examination, medical style procedures, EStim, sounds and more…..

Taken into the dungeon for a jolly good spit roast, pegging being used by us both

Mistress Jane has a great selection of rubber, satin dress’s and lingerie etc if you enjoy dressing up as well as make-up supplied and applied.

Into CP, then lets play a game………a roll of the dice or a spelling test, strict Aunties, teachers, headmistress or even the school bully carrying out their special brand of punishment.

Appetite starting to wet by now 😉  Maybe you need to be restrained, that cock under our complete control and in tight leather straps whilst I face sit you in a silky pair of panties.  Very naughty slaves may even get water boarding style panty pissing if you request ever so respectfully.

Or are you a domestic style sissy or butler, we might have you in the main house dressed up and waiting upon us. Every click of our fingers to do our bidding, you lucky little slut.

New to all of this and rather daunted by what to ask for then perhaps try the alternate massage, four hands stroking soothing/coaxing/teasing with some light flogging and other sensation delights mixed in as well as warmed oils massaged in, your limits respected at all times.

Want to know more?  Have a good read around both of our websites, read our blogs, our testimonials on Mistress Review site http://mistressreview.com/Mistress-Reviews/Mistress-Helen-Ryder~54804.html and the activties we both offer.  http://mistressreview.com/Mistress-Reviews/Mistress-Jane~31222.html

Regards

Mistress Helen

** Note we are like minded friends helping each other out and do not profit from each other, both self employed and responsible for our own tax.

 

Kidnap roleplay domination

I have received a couple of requests for these recently, simply a photo attached to an email asking for a one hour session and to include kidnap roleplay and other activities once back at base.  This style of request is unfeasible and unrealistic.

I have done kidnap RP’s before and this would only be with another Mistress  (one to drive/look out and one to bundle you in the car)  It is only offered to existing known clients and only on double domme days as advertised on my site or Mistress Janes  http://mistressjane.co.uk/  Due to the time spent driving to a location and dropping you back afterwards there would be a min session time of 1.5hrs x2 as you need to pay each Mistress and an agreed surcharge/fuel charge.

The location is selected by us and you have to follow instructions exactly! You are also required to pay not just a small deposit but half the session rate upfront to ensure you do not wimp out on the day.  With the remainder in an envelope in a small bag/rucksack.

TTFN

Mistress Helen Ryder

 

 

 

Dear all

News regarding BDSM & Massage appointments:

I will be away from Thursday 18th August lunch time through to Monday 22nd August inclusive and available for sessions from 23rd August.  I have limited availability Tuesday 16th August from 2pm to gents who have seen me before and space on Weds 17th August to anyone new who can pay a deposit in tomorrow.  Best time to reach me tomorrow is 9am to 10am for phone calls as I will be busy in session from 10:30am, or send over an email.

From 23rd August it’s business as usual until my next double domme day with Mistress Jane sometime in late September or early October (date to be announced) This takes place in Berkshire.

I look forward to seeing my regular playmates/slaves again very soon and fresh meat is always welcome.  When you email please ensure you provide some information to include why you wish to session with me, some dates/times/duration and a general list of likes/dislikes/ or willing to try BDSM activities.  I see gents over the age of 25yrs, fit and healthy and under 18 stone in weight (due to excess wear on dungeon equipment)

Best regards

Mistress Helen X

 

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