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Booking Procedures

**If you wish to speak with Me first, I ask for an initial £20 phone fee paid up front (it comes off your final balance) Payments to My Tip Funder Mistress Helen Ryder | TipFunder  preferred or Amazon GC to my email**

*CLIENTS I HAVE SEEN BEFORE: On rare occasions a same day booking may be possible with THREE HOURS minimum notice from the point of the deposit or PIF in my account or Amazon GC if agreed.  This is only in Burgess Hill, not any other dungeon setting.  If an eve booking is required then you need to contact/pay deposit by 4:00pm (If you have a profile on Adult Work with recent excellent feedback from TEN live members then use that system to contact me) The latest arrival time is 8pm, finishing sessions by 9:30pm.


Please email as first contact to introduce yourself and the style of session which interests you (a brief outline/list of activities, not a Shakespearean play) include between 3 to 6 dates/times  that you are looking to book and can commit to.  I will then  require a 50% non refundable deposit PAID PROMPTLY (within 4 hours)

DEPOSITS in order of preference:

Bank transfer (details given once you have applied by email and agreed upon date/time)

Mistress Helen Ryder | TipFunder

online voucher from

Amazon gift code to

Once I have the payment we can arrange a phone call to me.  On the day of your session we can chat in more detail on arrival or you may wish to call me for a longer explicit chat on either Adult Work or DOMMELINE when I am logged in before the day of your session.  Both these links are within My website and linked on Twitter.  I also sell my own direct phone chat packages (see online domination tab)

*Tip Funder: Tips show as Inet Cash GMBH on bank statements


  • I insist that ALL My new clients pay a deposit 48 hours in advance minimum
  • The more complex the session the more time is required to book, think about what you wish to experience.
  • Cash drop offs are possible but will incur an extra *£50 as a meet/greet fee paid 48hrs in advance Amazon GC only
  • Deposits are a vetting & security process and demonstrate that you are making a committed booking as a submissive or kinkster and respect Me and My time!
  • My business = My rules! If you don’t like paying a deposit then don’t contact Me.
  • Provided 24 hrs hours notice given to reschedule your session, the deposit will be moved on one occasion only within a 2 month period.  If you cancel on the day/less than 24hrs notice  you forfeit your deposit and a gentleman would pay the agreed full fee.  If you wish to re-book you will pay a new deposit. I am a self employed tax payer and will not replace your appointment at short notice!  I will have also potentially turned other clients away.
  • Amazon vouchers can be purchased online and also from some retailers/super markets.  I require the code off the card a full 48 hours+ before you are due for your session.  The code is revealed when you scratch off the panel.
  • If you send multiple emails asking further questions (especially being vague & asking for My diary contents/availability) and haven’t sent a deposit, be aware this is a time waster tactic so I will ignore you until you send over a 50% deposit or min £20 call cover fee to answer any questions

The location will only be given after the booking/deposit is all confirmed. There is free parking close by, come and go discreetly and quietly.  I do not have an open door or revolving door policy here.

On the day of your session please ensure you call at the time of your appointment (do not be early)

Having spent thousands on fetish furniture/ equipment, clothing, My website and advertising etc I won’t be skipping town with your “deposit” I also hold a high regard for My reputation in this industry.

I look forward to speaking with you and meeting you soon.

Mistress Helen



** I do not use Paypal as it’s a breach of their terms**