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Ladies and Gentleman  that enjoy CP/Impact play only! (NO other thrills/frills included)

One hour £120

90 mins £150

This rate is purely for enthusiasts of spanking. flogging, cropping, whipping, paddles, hairbrush, tawse, slipper and the cane, no other activity included, no cross dressers that wish to borrow my clothing as this bumps up cleaning/costs.

Book your CP now!

 

 

So many lovely shades of lipstick

The funny thing is I am often asked to wear a particular shade of lipstick for a session and yet I haven’t been treated to a lipstick from the client requesting, such a poor show chaps…

Naturally I have great taste and only wear the best in make-up products.

Lips are very erotic, look at them closely as I explain just how I will have you over My knee for a good spanking or strapped down securely on the bench!

Pick a shade and gift Me but do bear in mind I am a blonde so suit the reds, nudes and pinks better than the deep goth and purples!  If you find the choice overwhelming then do ask.  If unable to send one then send the funds and I will order direct.

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Top tip to avoid lipstick on your teeth ladies, trannies and TGirls

Suck your thumb or some other naughty appendage 😉

 

There are so many lovely things I would love for My birthday on Monday 24th August.

Either send some money via bank transfer

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Only send an email after it is sent so I can thank you if you would like a response.

Or Amazon gift code to My email address of helen-ryder@hotmail.com

Mistress Helen xXx

 

 

Do you strive to serve your Mistress better and learn a new skill?

I used to run work shops at Club Artemis on their Sunday gatherings with massage, pedicures and manicures and it was very popular.   The bois loved learning how to carry out a treatment for their dominant to a high standard and derived pleasure from doing so.

I will be running 121 work shops from my premises from Monday 10th August 2020 with PPE in place to keep us all safe.

If you wish to bring along your dominant then you are welcome to do so if not I will need some notice to arrange a model for you to carry out the treatment/procedures under my direct instructions after watching a demonstration and will provide guidance all the way.

Workshops are £125 with guidance notes emailed to you for future reference, each workshop will  consist of around two hours and if you require more guidance/extra tuition I will tailor the workshop price to your requirements.

I provide all the information you will need for purchases of good quality products, equipment and suppliers.

You will have the skills to carry out your chosen procedure to a professional level with confidence and not have to constantly pester your Mistress with questions (disturbing her pampering and relaxation)

By giving your best attention to detail you will be in your Mistress’s good books and might be lucky to receive some reward or at least some recognition for your efforts!

If you require a re-fresher work shop within 3 months of attending your first chosen subject a £10 reduction will be given.

Come and learn as new skill and serve your dominant well!

Mistress Helen

 

 

A wonderful little script written by B for Our delicious phone chat, booked in advance privately

Enjoy!  Perhaps you might like Me to read it to you, email to book and pay for a call.

Hello darling,
Let me just find the light switch. There! That’s better.
Did you have a nice time this evening? I had a lovely time with Steve.
Look at you –  four hours later and you’re still as erect as when I left you to go on my date  – Not that you were able to do much about it, were you?  Locked and gagged in the sensory deprivation chamber you made for me.
So kind of you to spend four months clearing out the cellar and converting it from a wasted space into something useful to both our needs.
Though mainly my needs wouldn’t you agree?
 I’m sure when we first started you saw the arrangement as mutually exclussive BUT here we are ten years later with you now a cuckold and all of your accounts and property signed over to me.
My! I am a naughty minx, aren’t I?
…but its what you wanted…and now you delight in being subjugated to my power and decision-making. Lucky me….and lucky cuck!
Of course, it was inevitable that sooner or later your submissive desires would overrun you.
Not that you ever had much choice in the matter – what with me systematically denying and engaging your multiple fetishes and introducing you to a few of my own –
until the act of pleasing me became as natural to you as breathing itself.
Let me say here and now, I have no regrets in taking control of you. Our marriage was going nowhere, what with you out every night with your mates.
All those years when you returned home too late to read a bedtime story to Rebecca or help with her homework Not just that but your sheer uselessness at doing your share of the housework and unable to manage anything in bed.
Compare that with now. The house is spotless with you doing all the cleaning and meals. Rebecca is at Uni and I have the large bed all to myself while you sleep in the small bedroom…unless I have need of you.
What could be more perfect then a man offering that sort of freedom and support for a woman who is now exploring her liberation…
…and all because I happened across those images on your computer that time.
Who would have known?
I must  say, i was really surrprised when I saw all those imges of women dominating men. And on your hard drive!
It was only as I started to research it – moreso  to understand what was going on in your head – that I discovered you were a closet submissive in need of a dominant woman to take control of you.
Not that this information was of any use to me until I went on a few forums and discovered the benefits of being Dominant -and that is when our relationship turned a corner!
I remember the evening I challenged you over the photos. Your denial and lies. Then the complete change in you when I left the room and returned in black leather with a crop in my hand.
That was the moment you were truely hoisted by your own petard for my pleasure –  I knew then that things would never be the same again.
Strangely,  I was reflecting on it just this evening as you kneeled before me in My bedroom with head bowed as I was getting ready to meet Steve.
How I smiled as you eagerly ran downstairs to the sensory deprivation room to hold yourself in position against the frame as you awaited my arrival to lock you in – which was deliberately delayed as I made myself ready for Steve but also to tease you.
See how far we’ve come. My old husband would never have done that.
But then – as we both know – that man is gone. I no longer have a husband in that sense of the word any more. I have a cuckold. A submissive. A slave…and do you know what darling: I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Actually, as I was inserting the butt plug and locking you into the frame before heading out tonight, i loved the fact that as I brushed against you, you shivered with delight.
What woman wouldn’t want the man she’s locking up for the night to be so devoted to her that she can go out and enjoy herself with another man, knowing he’ll be waiting for her at home, eager for her return.
See how things have changed between us these last ten years. And for the better. Yes, that’s right! it’s our anniversary! Ten years ago today, you knelt before me and told me your desires
That is the day our marriage ended and our new life began.
And to mark it, I’ve bought you a present. Actually, its a present for both of us seeing as we’ll each get enjoyment from it – even if mine is rather shadenfruede  It’s rather large isn’t it. Don’t worry: I’ll unwrap it for you seeing as you are handcuffed to the frame.
Do you like it? It’s the next strapon size up from what you normally take.
Now, Steve has left you a something that will require your tongue to lick it out later on
…but right now, I’ll just click the strapon into place on the harness  – oh my! It is very big.
This is going to be so much fun darling. Deep breath and Happy Anniversary!
Well what happens next will be very graphic so DO book a call…………………………………..

 

I have just had the most delightful hour and a bit with a super new spankee who will be coming for play times when we can get back to the hands on really fun side of the business.

Social rates for a cuppa and a good chat in My garden are available from today as per guidelines https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/coronavirus-outbreak-faqs-what-you-can-and-cant-do/coronavirus-outbreak-faqs-what-you-can-and-cant-do

It’s a great way to stay in touch, share stories and plot and plan the near future sessions and filming slaves.  Also a super way to continue to support Me as well as spending time together.

The fee is £80 and provided you book for a real time session within 3 months £20 will come off your session tribute.

Looking forward to seeing you soon

Mistress Helen xXx

 

I am planning to see selected clients from Monday 29th June.  Please contact Me via email in the first instance to discuss a date to session.

There will be a few restricted activities (see rest of blog) however with my vast repertoire of interests there will still be plenty of fun and excitement to be enjoyed.  I have an air purifier in My play space too!

 

  •  I will only be conducting SOLO sessions in My OWN premises, NO hotel visits, NO other dungeons!  I will only offer 2 sessions per day to allow for cleaning and airing of premises.  I expect to actually only have ONE visitor a day to start with so may be a bit more flexi on timings.

 

  • The appointment time will be from 10am, this ensures I have the morning to sanitise ALL areas before you visit and am set up to receive you.

 

  • We both need to be presenting as fit and healthy on the day, your payment paid 24 hours ahead by bank transfer and cash ONLY in exceptional circumstances!  I do not give refunds.  If you need to cancel at really short notice with a genuine reason then we simply reschedule for ONE  new date/time.  Money will only be rolled to one new date.

 

  • On arrival, you will either be wearing your own mask (clean/fresh/new) I will give you a thermo scan and you will change for one of My masks immediately if required, go to the bathroom and remove all your clothing and place inside a container provided.  Pop your mask on top of the bag to one side. Shower thoroughly with hair included.  Dry off and wear the mask again throughout your session.

 

  • No hugs, pecks on cheek or kissing of My hand for safety reasons please.  It’s best to kiss My foot/Shoe 😉
  • Certain activities will be unavailable, such as: Spitting, wearing of My masks (leather/gas masks, please consider bringing your own to wear over a surgical face mask) No drinking of watersports No full face sissy make-up application other activities omitted are: face sitting, close whispering in your ear and birdy feeding.  I will risk assess every session.  Think and be sensible about what interests we include in your play times.  There isn’t a way to administer poppers with Us wearing masks!  Some have asked for poppers to be dabbed on the mask but this is not possible as will prevent mask from doing it’s job AND I will be exposed to them. 
  • Vanilla massages will NOT be currently offered inside due to the added work and costs of extra equipment I will be providing in anyone entering the house.  You can book a same day vanilla massage if weather is dry & warm and have it on the patio area, which is secluded.

At the end of your session, you can have a few moments to adjust with a glass of water or socially distant cuppa.  You may dress again in the bathroom and head off.

  • I will carry out a very deep clean after washing everything down with hot soapy water with hospital grade cleaners such as Selgiene Ultra & Varsen, Barbicide and the like.  Towels will be washed in Dettol laundry care and detergent on a high temperature.  Everything from light switches, taps, hand rails as well as kit used in the session will all be completely sanitised.  Lower footfall here and less risk than attending the pub/supermarket etc.

These rules above are not for breaking I will only be seeing those who respect this, thank you.

Stay safe n kinky
Mistress Helen xXx

Hi all

I’ve been filming clips over quite some time in order to launch onto one of the clip sites and at long last with some help from My fantastic Webslave I am now live on https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/152221/mistress-helen-ryder

I already have short mini clips on My Adult Work profile, which have proved to be quite popular.

Once lockdown is over and that I am able to do sessions again, there will be opportunities for filming days either with Me solo or in doubles with Miss Kitty Bliss.  I have plenty of sissy style clips in My library so I’m looking for slaves interested in hard CP, CBT, Pallet Wrapping and anything a little more diverse than what I already have.

We always take a tribute for filming and you have to provide your id and sign a model release, you can wear a mask.

I’ve had a couple of chaps asking how they can help Me right now as I have very little income coming in to live on at present.

Book a phone chat direct with Me with a bank transfer payment to My account or Amazon GC if you can’t use your account.

Or go through the AW or Dommeline when I am logged in available.

Pay for a custom clip and if it can be filmed now then you can have it or receive it when I am able to shoot the content depending on the nature of the request.

Pay a deposit now for a future session or in full if you wish.

If you can afford to send money gifts to My account to keep Me afloat.

Stay sane, stay safe, stay the feck indoors other than essential food or medicine supplies or sensible daily exercise.  I’ve only just started walking and did 4 miles today.  I had been busy with DIY etc and decided to make the best of the lovely weather.

Mistress Helen xXx

 

 

This writing is from My Yoga teacher, she had a bout of mental health and was in hospital she knows first hand the best way to tackle it head on!  Sharing for her.

10 TEN TIPS TO STAYING SANE WRITTEN BY A MAD WOMAN!! )
If anyone is struggling with self isolation or being at home for long periods of time, I have a some tips that maybe helpful (these were my survival methods of staying upbeat & healthy during my long stays at Langley Green Mental Hospital).
1) Routine can help as it can help focus the mind and get help with the over thinking and ruminating.
2) Set your alarm quite early 7am or 8am even if you sit in bed with a cup of tea and read a book. Reading really helps stimulate the mind and stops the mind dipping into the dark thoughts of worry, stress and fear of the unknown. Pick books that you can really lose yourself in which helps fire up your natural creative imagination or find a subject that you’re really interested in. Read about your chosen subject this will occupy and nourish the brain and helps self educate. (I always choose funny books that made me laugh, books that empowered me and my chosen subject to learn about was the working of mind & the human psyche; which was quite apt when in a mental hospital) ))
2) Always shower in the morning put colourful smart clothes on, this again helps lift the mood. (I was a very snappy dressed mental patient when I was In Langley Hospital ). I would get my husband to bring all my nice clothes up and look smart everyday. I noticed a lot of the patience would shuffle around in either their Pjs, dressing gowns or tracksuits, which certain doesn’t help an already low mood. Looking smart just helped me feel normal and in control of the situation even though I knew I wasn’t.
3) Ladies even if you know your not going out put a little make up on as it can help you feel a little bit more positive about your own self image.
4) Exercise everyday 30-60 minutes, even if you don’t want to do make yourself do it. Exercise is essential for mental health it’s a natural release of feel good happy endorphins.
5) Everyday spend some time outside and look at the beauty all around you, even if just happens to be the sky.
6) Say a mantra over & over everyday, mantra literally means free the mind. This is my mantra that I said every day while in the mental hospital and for years after. I would say it over & over & over again until I grew a new brain neutron of self belief – I am full of Gods LOVE, HAPPINESS, STRENGTH, COURAGE, WISDOM & GRACE. This mantra has truly made me stronger and when ever I feel overwhelmed I just keep reciting it.
7) Learn to meditate – how ever busy the mind is, over time and with patience of sitting still and quiet you can learn to calm the mind so you become the master of your busy brains and it is possible to learn to sail your mind and direct it to other ways of thinking. Some days in my tiny little hospital bedroom with barred windows I would sit upright, close my eyes and just be still. Eventually over time I was able to stop the obsessive chitta chatter of my destructive mind and in the end my mind gave in and I found a beautiful, colourful and peaceful place that I didn’t even know existed with in my conscience and it’s accessible to everyone it just takes patience.
8) Let your creative juices flo, painting, writing, cooking, learn a language etc. Switch the dark thoughts off with a creative hobby and don’t worry if you not very good at it, far more healthy than saying I can’t be bothered or giving up.
9) Try to keep your minds calm and healthy with lots of positive stuff use these strange times to widen your mind and self educate, try not to rely on the TV to it for you, grow your mind it’s totally amazing when you do.
10) Put your favourite music on and Dance whether it’s in the kitchen, in the lounge or in the garden – just dance and sing out loud.
Namaste xx

Be VERY aware that I am self employed and a genuine tax payer!  I am currently being hit hard by the Coid-19 virus on My income at present!  However when the worlds back to normal I will be VERY busy again!

With lock down now in-force I am NOT conducting in the flesh sessions.

How can you serve and Me and have your Mistress Helen fix?  Phone sessions £2.00 a min to discuss kinks/BDSM We can chat in greater detail about future sessions, role-play over the phone (those who’ve visited know I’m rather good at this)

Email exchange to discuss a fantasy in greater detail, 3 email exchange £30

To the wonderful boys that have supported Me this year and especially in the last couple of weeks, heartfelt thanks and you are real diamonds!  Thank you!!  I welcome staying in touch with the decent kind genuine bois who have been helping Me.

I welcome enqs that ONLY lead to My time being compensated.

For those who seek My time in sessions then ONLY contact Me if you will be paying a deposit  for a future session.  Or send money gifts and Amazon gift vouchers.  It is pointless asking if I am able to see you in one or two days/weeks as we all have to take each day as it comes.

Look after Me now and support Me and you will be rewarded later!  There will be a boom in sessions when the world is back on its rails, priority will be given to those who have stuck by Me or introduced themselves in a useful way!

Those with much time to spare and less stress are most likely still receiving a good wage and working from home and sliding off for a quiet hand shandy in works time.  Do this at your own expense from your salary and support the ladies who offer these services.

Times like this bring out both the very best in people and sadly the worse!  When I’m not busy doing DIY, paid chats I will be undertaking volunteer work for the NHS.  My time is best spent in a positive productive manner without the negatives.

No intention to book anything, spend any money/simply a time waster: I certainly do not suffer fools gladly! Don’t be that cockroach!   My blogs/website/email and phone all have a software Karma spell on them, you’ve been warned!  )O( BB

Stay healthy and well

Mistress Helen XxX