I have availability for sessions as per usual and I am looking for a filming sub too!

Is there a boy out there that wants to book a filming session as per My advertised filming rates for the following content:

Stuffing your pleasure hole full of mini choccy eggs & have you rebirth them into a nappy, will require a douche first so it’s just chocolate expelling

Face slapping and spitting


Foot worship & foot tease on your cock

Mouth soaping

Edging with wands over & over, orgasm control, maybe ruined orgasm and post orgasm torment (P.O.T) plus CEI

CP at a moderate level

I will require a signed model release form and I need to take a photo of your driving licence or passport ID, you may wear a hood but I would prefer if you were happy showing your face especially for the face slapping/spitting and foot worship clips.  At My own playroom in Burgess Hill.

West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder (

Roll up boys and gurls, book your playtime with Moi and My bestie Miss Kitty Bliss

Two wicked ladies who want to tease, toy and manipulate the pleasures of your flesh!

One hour appointment £300

90 min appointment £400

Two hour appointment £520

Filming subs (only those with experience/less boundaries the better) model release/photo id required TWO hours max £420

We advise to book in ASAP and a mandatory non refundable early deposit is required


The Goddess Society, hosted by the utterly amazing Lady Ava Sheridon  @avasheridon

are BACK in Brighton with the much sought after Anti -Valentines Edit. Yes, you heard right: three whole glorious hours of you being naked, serving and entertaining Us in a variety of wickedly delightful ways.

WHEN: Thursday 15th February 2024 5-8pm

WHERE: Central Brighton location. Address will be sent in your confirmation email.

WHO: Goddesses in Attendance:

Your Host: Lady Ava Sheridon, The Goddess Society:

Domina Blaize @DominaBlaize

Domina Joi Bleu @Joi_Bleu

Myself: Mistress Helen Ryder @MsHelenRyder

PRICE: £220 per submissive which is for the entire 3 hour duration of the event! PLACES: LIMITED!!!!!! There are 8 premium places in total. One of them belongs to you. BOOK YOUR PLACE NOW:

FemDom CFNM Brighton Party ClothedFemaleNakedMale Valentines

Another year flying by it seems…..

I’ve had lots of fun n frolics this past year, if I had to leave anything behind at all it would just be any negativity from the ones who didn’t cut the mustard, got banned and blacklisted to boot on various forums.  For failing to pay deposits, to cancelling with no offer of compensation on the day.

I’m entering 2024 with FIRM goals to give My wonderful business model some extra attention with updates and photo sets on My LoyalFans platform, more POV saucy clips on My Adult Work profile and being available on My phone platforms when not in real time or gym/downtime, yes guilty as charged for not always taking some time off!

Now a reminder that BDSM, playtimes are a luxury!  Hence I will not lower My rates or give discounts when you ask.  You are paying for a wealth of experience with a quality array of the finest tools of My trade.  ALL appointments require a deposit, ANY short notice cancellations will be covered in full or get blacklisted.  Although I will still offer some appointments of one hour, priority will be given to bookings from 90 mins.

I am interested in collabs with other ladies for filming, My own filming rates will apply.  Otherwise just GG shared content is also welcome for BDSM or of a more adult content for Adult Work.

Wishing you all a healthy fun filled 2024

Thank you to the dear subs who have supported Me over this past year and I look forward to more fun n games with you all very soon.

All My best swishes

Mistress Helen XXX

P.S Anyone sending messages re your mental health, especially for extreme penile operations etc then contact the numbers below

I am a Dominatrix not a surgeon or mental health expert.

Happy 20th Birthday to Club Pedestal in London, congratulations to Derek and his team, one of the longer standing Fetish Clubs.

TWENTY yrs how time flies!  I’ve been attending Club Pedestal for the last 15yrs! I don’t attend every time it’s on as I often have clients booked in for the day after.  Crawling into My pit at 5/6am after travelling home doesn’t leave much in the way of sleep but boy it’s worth it!

It’s so lovely to catch up with some of My Mistress pals and a great night out.  I’ve been invited to attend the slave selection evening and be a “House Dominatrix” but living outside of London I simply don’t have the time to spare.

Ladies: If you haven’t yet been to Club Pedestal then I recommend that you do, on arrival into the venue you will be greeted by kneeling slaves and be presented with a rose.  There is a Fetlife corner tour of the venue available, you will meet lots of new people and make great connections and new friends quite quickly.  I’ve driven there in the past on My own and not felt at all out of place.

There are various areas in the club, space to play, fair amount of equipment, I love the trample cage! A row of subs are like juicy sausages on the floor just waiting to be squished! They have a cabaret show, which is fun to watch.   In the past I have added some fun/slighty strange requests into the Maitre D’s black book, some of those being a sub to be a human frog to hop 3 circuits of the club making frog noises (Myself and the sub creased up with laughter & his knees killing him)  a lap dance from a fit hunk (Mmmmm thanks Maximus I won’t forget that one)  one Christmas I made a sub dress up and sing from the main bar Christmas songs standing on a table.  As well as the usual foot worship, receive a public thrashing, wait on Me, fetch drinks and be a foot stall etc.  Little Muffin also really needs a mention here, a sub who had a full western saddle and used to carry Ladies on his back.

It’s a great playground for Dominant Ladies!

See if you can spot Me in the gallery archives from over the years 🙂 Club Pedestal



They haven’t transferred my money into my account, which was sent from Niteflirt to the MassPay platform at the end of October and I received my payment link 6th November, which I then requested my payment (SEPA).  I have raised a ticket with Niteflirt (still waiting on a reply)  I have also emailed MassPay 11 times and logged a formal complaint as they are in breach of terms of service.

Niteflirt continue to have MassPay mentioned on the site as a means of UK creators/phone flirts to get paid, this is shocking considering the amount of people who haven’t received money! I doubt that I will ever receive the money I worked hard for!

I ask for my fans to please call me via the following methods:

Book a call direct with me and pay by Bank transfer, Wishtender or send an Amazon gift code to my email of

Call me via Dommeline, rates apply and you must be over 18yrs with bill payers permission.

Or Adultwork, ditto re rules stated above.












Have you been thinking of booking for a session and don’t quite know what style of play you might be into?

I often receive emails from new people who have no idea what they wish to experience, where as others have a deep seated fetish going back years.  It’s often the mature gents who are into domestic discipline from their school days of receiving the cane or slipper.  Thankfully the new generation are also very curious about this, so it’s not dying out!

I have a diverse range of fetish interests so whilst I do not cater to every fetish, there is a great scope of range for those who wish to explore several kinks.

One kink that I do not get to live out as often as I would like is “Tickle Torture” Just recently I received some calls from a gent in the US who is very into it, he has the most amazing profile on Fetlife dedicated to it and has shared lots of the images with me where I narrate the pics on our NF chats.  It’s absolutely hilarious and I would dearly love to have him mummified and just his soles exposed to tickle!

I had a visit from my sissy maid recently and decided that as well as the usual discipline and body that they could assist in some tickle clips to go onto my Adult Work profile.  We also did a short “maid gets her revenge on Mistress” mini clip, where maid anna started off with light feather pampering on my feet, then turned into tickling.  Oh how I shrieked!  I did cane her after as punishment 🙂 we also took some up to date pics, which I will include just a couple here, enjoy 😉

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen


Those who wish to be kept under strict lock and key should do so asap for #Locktober

Supply your own chastity, send £250 tribute for the month Bank info on My website Non refundable Then meet to lock up or post a key after payment and arranging via My email:

You will receive some WhatsApp comms to tease/torment or spur you on throughout the month!  Maybe even a couple of video calls at a mutually arranged time.

For those not wishing to participate in Locktober that prefer a playtime with release included (if desired and appropriate) then book your October session.

I am logged in every day on #Phonechats in between/around any real time sessions.  I am usually on chat in the evenings.  This is perfect for those who want a top up of interaction outside of playtimes, to stay in touch with Mistress or want to build a rapport before perhaps booking in a session.  Some just need a release on the phone and I am in the top 6% on #Dommeline

Mistress Helen Ryder | Dommeline

I also have profiles for chat on Adult Work and NiteFlirt


On Adult Work there is plenty of more racy images and short clips to view, whilst I’m fast asleep please ensure I wake up to sales and tributes.  You can also send via Wishtender  whether it’s a smaller gift of coffee/cake or a big generous tip.  It’s all appreciated and for some of you, it’s better off in my account to spend then have you waste it on beer etc…..

What a fantastic way to start the day seeing all the lovely tributes and sales, put a beaming smile upon my face!

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen XX

Please be aware that I will NOT play with anyone who asks for me to play without a safe word in place!  I work on body language in sessions so I can 99.9% tell when I am playing with someone that I’m within their safe area of play.  BDSM play is 110% about consent on both sides, but especially the submissive.


LEGAL NOTE: ALL play is with your FULL consent given, safe words/0r safe action in place & they MUST be used if you want an activity or session to completely stop.  I will then stop the session, check if you wish to continue in ANY aspect.  ANY play that took place before you used a safe word or action such as tapping/ringing a tiny bell (pre agreed upon) was legal with your full consent, not coerced in any way!


The sub can withdraw consent at any time in a session, just as in vanilla life with sexual interaction.  If someone express’s the top to stop an activity then it stops.  I’ve heard of quite a few people recently who have had an ex state that they have been coerced in order to cause trouble.

I have never partaken in blackmail style play, where you give access to various accounts etc.  I am very clear on this on my do/don’ts on this website. I try my best to keep my business within the law.

I do not take or post extreme images My X feed (previously known as Twitter) or with filming or other places on the web.

I am well aware that other dommes have far more extreme images out there and I sincerely hope that they do not fall foul of the law.

Phone related: When calling me on the phone lines, please ensure you have read the phone guidance and rules as some play topics or discussions are against the rules!  I am not allowed to encourage you to use any form of intox over the phone, if you wish to use aromas then that is purely on you.  Regarding silent calls, you have to express in the first few seconds of connection your fetish/silent call request and preferably say bye when you hang up.   This is so you can’t say you pocket dialled!

It is also illegal for me to actually blackmail you on the phone, do not ask!  I can weave a fantasy chat along the lines of  “imagine if I were to take pictures of you dressed like a sissy slut & post them”  Not the actual doing of it.

The brain is the biggest sexual organ, which effects the little organ.  Lets engage our brains in a safe sane and consenting manner, without breaking laws!

Over and out for now

Mistress Helen