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One of My long serving subs has bought a fantastic new toy!

It’s called the Slubb, it has very powerful vibrations, how long can you handle it?!  Book a session and find out!

Who doesn’t love a power tool!

Please note I am seeing both established regulars and new clients for play times with a risk assessment in a phone call and PPE in place. keeping Us safe whilst still having a lot of fun here.

I am a highly skilled multifaceted Domme with a wealth of experience, your boundaries are taken into consideration.  My Fetish interests are vast and listed on this site.  I excel in domestic discipline, EStim play, Pegging and much more.  I also love a good roleplay when it’s called for and certainly do not require or want a script.

I wish I could include photos of the beautiful needle art I did yesterday on the boi who bought this new toy.  I can show you when you attend.

Stay safe n kinky peeps, see some of you soon 😉

Mistress Helen XX

 

 

This blog was simply going to be about My love of perfume and receiving a beautiful gift today, it then diverted to “stuff” I need to express and get off My Mistress chest!  So here goes……………..

Perfume evokes memories, creates new ones and when you pick the right one it makes Me feel special as well as smelling gorgeous.

I’m not one of these faithful to one signature scent ladies, I adore so many different perfumes and love the collection I have to pick/choose how I wish to smell and feel that day.  Did anyone see the episode of Killing Eve when Villanelle goes into an exclusive perfumers and states she wants to smell powerful?  That’s Me when I spray one of My Tom Ford scents.

One of My bois loves scents and we were recently chatting about Jo Loves, Jo Malone MBE created this range after selling Jo Malone to Estee Lauder.  With finding it difficult to get into London at present as it’s a whole day out of work and not wanting to be in crowds at weekends I mentioned the discovery set by Jo Loves and I was thrilled today to receive this wonderful gift arrive by DPD!

He said how much he loves catching My scent as he is strapped down over a bench or across My lap for a good spanking or other fun pass times here.

I have 10 different samples to try out and then a code to order a 50ml bottle of the one I really love.  I can’t wait to get testing.

One of the many pleasurable aspects of being a Professional Mistress is receiving thoughtful gifts, not just on My Birthday or Christmas but in between throughout the year.  Some bois will bring a lovely gift to the session or send something afterwards, some pop a money gift into My account, others send gift codes for Amazon.

I will slightly divert here, not a rant but it needs to be addressed!  As a Professional Mistress I give out a lot of energy and invest a lot of thought and My time into your play times, often new clients will run over time a little.  Quite often the good ones realise this and compensate, sadly some don’t despite saying what a wonderful time they’ve had and will be back, nope nothing, not even an email after, which happened recently.   This has made Me decide that I won’t do one-hour sessions for new chaps and they must book 90 mins, this is because they love to chat with Me whilst here and yes, I love a good chat too.  However, time is money and this is My livelihood and extra time given here and there not being compensated ALL adds up.  Stop with the self entitlement of expecting any of My time for free!  I do look after those who look after Me, prove yourself and enhance My life not hinder it.

The great bois I see that become My favourites are those who show their appreciation and show their reverence to Me, not treat Me as some commodity, picking Me up for a short notice booking because they feel horny and the wife’s not in the mood to play and the bit on the side is in lockdown so let’s see if Mistress Helen is about.  Then not commit to anything and it’s the third time they’ve called since actually visiting and refuse to book one or two days ahead and want to put Me on the spot and trust they will turn up despite letting Me down previously and won’t pay a deposit into My account, despite it not identifying Me as male or female or what it is for! Offering to pay cash to My address and not posting it or popping through the letterbox (having been here several times previously) NO no it doesn’t work like that!  This is how they get on the blocked list!  Sometimes clients that start out good, get comfy and then turn bad, becoming very unreliable!

The kind of people I usually attract and want to stay seeing as those who appreciate and respect Me and the fantastic safe space I have here, it’s fully equipped, I have invested thousands into the business for your pleasure.

 

One of My super special bois has been greatly supportive through the last 8 months especially and has bought lots of fantastic new bum toys for the playroom and we’ve been doing lots of film clips together.

I realise not all of My bois are in a position to give lavish gifts

Some will bring along a gift voucher, pop a tip into My account after a session with a thank you email, bring a lovely bottle of wine for Me to enjoy, I prefer gutsy reds like Malbec.  Some have bought homemade chilli jam from chilli plants they have grown in the greenhouse.  Someone saw some cat socks in White Stuff and bought those.  It’s the thoughtful gestures, the respect when booking, the deposits sent in a timely manner and ALL the positives things they do that enhance the time we spend together.

Being self-employed right now is harder than usual, Covid19 has shown Me some truly outstanding kind people as well as some really nasty time-wasting energy vampires.  I won’t tolerate them!

To stay in favour, be a good boi, book ahead a day or to, pay your deposit, respect My time both in session and around the session, it’s so simple.

To be an uber wonderful boi then tip or bring a gift and put a smile on My face.

Ladies and Gentleman  that enjoy CP/Impact play only! (NO other thrills/frills included)

One hour £120

90 mins £150

This rate is purely for enthusiasts of spanking. flogging, cropping, whipping, paddles, hairbrush, tawse, slipper and the cane, no other activity included, sorry no cross dressers that wish to borrow my clothing as this bumps up cleaning/costs, you may bring along your own if you wish.

Straight up spanking fun or incorporated into a roleplay, the wicked step mother, aunt, head teacher, nanny, school bully/prefect or strict demanding boss!

Book your CP now!

 

 

So many lovely shades of lipstick

The funny thing is I am often asked to wear a particular shade of lipstick for a session and yet I haven’t been treated to a lipstick from the client requesting, such a poor show chaps…

Naturally I have great taste and only wear the best in make-up products.

Lips are very erotic, look at them closely as I explain just how I will have you over My knee for a good spanking or strapped down securely on the bench!

Pick a shade and gift Me but do bear in mind I am a blonde so suit the reds, nudes and pinks better than the deep goth and purples!  If you find the choice overwhelming then do ask.  If unable to send one then send the funds and I will order direct.

Sort: 20-92-54 Acc: 70468665 Ms S Rogers Ref: Hermes

https://www.hermes.com/uk/en/category/make-up/lips/#||Category

 

Top tip to avoid lipstick on your teeth ladies, trannies and TGirls

Suck your thumb or some other naughty appendage 😉

 

There are so many lovely things I would love for My birthday on Monday 24th August.

Either send some money via bank transfer

Sort: 20-92-54

Account: 70468665

Ref: Birthday

Name: Rogers

Only send an email after it is sent so I can thank you if you would like a response.

Or Amazon gift code to My email address of helen-ryder@hotmail.com

Mistress Helen xXx

 

 

Do you strive to serve your Mistress better and learn a new skill?

I used to run work shops at Club Artemis on their Sunday gatherings with massage, pedicures and manicures and it was very popular.   The bois loved learning how to carry out a treatment for their dominant to a high standard and derived pleasure from doing so.

I will be running 121 work shops from my premises from Monday 10th August 2020 with PPE in place to keep us all safe.

If you wish to bring along your dominant then you are welcome to do so if not I will need some notice to arrange a model for you to carry out the treatment/procedures under my direct instructions after watching a demonstration and will provide guidance all the way.

Workshops are £125 with guidance notes emailed to you for future reference, each workshop will  consist of around two hours and if you require more guidance/extra tuition I will tailor the workshop price to your requirements.

I provide all the information you will need for purchases of good quality products, equipment and suppliers.

You will have the skills to carry out your chosen procedure to a professional level with confidence and not have to constantly pester your Mistress with questions (disturbing her pampering and relaxation)

By giving your best attention to detail you will be in your Mistress’s good books and might be lucky to receive some reward or at least some recognition for your efforts!

If you require a re-fresher work shop within 3 months of attending your first chosen subject a £10 reduction will be given.

Come and learn as new skill and serve your dominant well!

Mistress Helen

 

 

A wonderful little script written by B for Our delicious phone chat, booked in advance privately

Enjoy!  Perhaps you might like Me to read it to you, email to book and pay for a call.

Hello darling,
Let me just find the light switch. There! That’s better.
Did you have a nice time this evening? I had a lovely time with Steve.
Look at you –  four hours later and you’re still as erect as when I left you to go on my date  – Not that you were able to do much about it, were you?  Locked and gagged in the sensory deprivation chamber you made for me.
So kind of you to spend four months clearing out the cellar and converting it from a wasted space into something useful to both our needs.
Though mainly my needs wouldn’t you agree?
 I’m sure when we first started you saw the arrangement as mutually exclussive BUT here we are ten years later with you now a cuckold and all of your accounts and property signed over to me.
My! I am a naughty minx, aren’t I?
…but its what you wanted…and now you delight in being subjugated to my power and decision-making. Lucky me….and lucky cuck!
Of course, it was inevitable that sooner or later your submissive desires would overrun you.
Not that you ever had much choice in the matter – what with me systematically denying and engaging your multiple fetishes and introducing you to a few of my own –
until the act of pleasing me became as natural to you as breathing itself.
Let me say here and now, I have no regrets in taking control of you. Our marriage was going nowhere, what with you out every night with your mates.
All those years when you returned home too late to read a bedtime story to Rebecca or help with her homework Not just that but your sheer uselessness at doing your share of the housework and unable to manage anything in bed.
Compare that with now. The house is spotless with you doing all the cleaning and meals. Rebecca is at Uni and I have the large bed all to myself while you sleep in the small bedroom…unless I have need of you.
What could be more perfect then a man offering that sort of freedom and support for a woman who is now exploring her liberation…
…and all because I happened across those images on your computer that time.
Who would have known?
I must  say, i was really surrprised when I saw all those imges of women dominating men. And on your hard drive!
It was only as I started to research it – moreso  to understand what was going on in your head – that I discovered you were a closet submissive in need of a dominant woman to take control of you.
Not that this information was of any use to me until I went on a few forums and discovered the benefits of being Dominant -and that is when our relationship turned a corner!
I remember the evening I challenged you over the photos. Your denial and lies. Then the complete change in you when I left the room and returned in black leather with a crop in my hand.
That was the moment you were truely hoisted by your own petard for my pleasure –  I knew then that things would never be the same again.
Strangely,  I was reflecting on it just this evening as you kneeled before me in My bedroom with head bowed as I was getting ready to meet Steve.
How I smiled as you eagerly ran downstairs to the sensory deprivation room to hold yourself in position against the frame as you awaited my arrival to lock you in – which was deliberately delayed as I made myself ready for Steve but also to tease you.
See how far we’ve come. My old husband would never have done that.
But then – as we both know – that man is gone. I no longer have a husband in that sense of the word any more. I have a cuckold. A submissive. A slave…and do you know what darling: I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Actually, as I was inserting the butt plug and locking you into the frame before heading out tonight, i loved the fact that as I brushed against you, you shivered with delight.
What woman wouldn’t want the man she’s locking up for the night to be so devoted to her that she can go out and enjoy herself with another man, knowing he’ll be waiting for her at home, eager for her return.
See how things have changed between us these last ten years. And for the better. Yes, that’s right! it’s our anniversary! Ten years ago today, you knelt before me and told me your desires
That is the day our marriage ended and our new life began.
And to mark it, I’ve bought you a present. Actually, its a present for both of us seeing as we’ll each get enjoyment from it – even if mine is rather shadenfruede  It’s rather large isn’t it. Don’t worry: I’ll unwrap it for you seeing as you are handcuffed to the frame.
Do you like it? It’s the next strapon size up from what you normally take.
Now, Steve has left you a something that will require your tongue to lick it out later on
…but right now, I’ll just click the strapon into place on the harness  – oh my! It is very big.
This is going to be so much fun darling. Deep breath and Happy Anniversary!
Well what happens next will be very graphic so DO book a call…………………………………..

 

I have just had the most delightful hour and a bit with a super new spankee who will be coming for play times when we can get back to the hands on really fun side of the business.

Social rates for a cuppa and a good chat in My garden are available from today as per guidelines https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/coronavirus-outbreak-faqs-what-you-can-and-cant-do/coronavirus-outbreak-faqs-what-you-can-and-cant-do

It’s a great way to stay in touch, share stories and plot and plan the near future sessions and filming slaves.  Also a super way to continue to support Me as well as spending time together.

The fee is £80 and provided you book for a real time session within 3 months £20 will come off your session tribute.

Looking forward to seeing you soon

Mistress Helen xXx

 

I am planning to see selected clients from Monday 29th June.  Please contact Me via email in the first instance to discuss a date to session.

There will be a few restricted activities (see rest of blog) however with my vast repertoire of interests there will still be plenty of fun and excitement to be enjoyed.  I have an air purifier in My play space too!

 

  •  I will only be conducting SOLO sessions in My OWN premises.  I will only offer 2 sessions per day to allow for cleaning and airing of premises.  I expect to actually only have ONE visitor a day to start with so may be a bit more flexi on timings.

 

  • The appointment time will be from 10am, this ensures I have the morning to sanitise ALL areas before you visit and am set up to receive you.

 

  • We both need to be presenting as fit and healthy on the day, your payment paid 24 hours ahead by bank transfer and cash ONLY in exceptional circumstances!  I do not give refunds.  If you need to cancel at really short notice with a genuine reason then we simply reschedule for ONE  new date/time.  Money will only be rolled to one new date.

 

  • On arrival, you will either be wearing your own mask (clean/fresh/new) I will give you a thermo scan contactless temp check and offer you a fresh mask if required.
  • Certain activities will be unavailable, such as: Spitting, full face sissy make-up application other activities omitted are: face sitting, birdy feeding.   Think and be sensible about what interests we include in your play times.  There isn’t a way to administer poppers with Us wearing masks!  Some have asked for poppers to be dabbed on the mask but this is not possible as will prevent mask from doing it’s job AND I will be exposed to them. 
  • Vanilla massages will only be offered at one hour £120 to cover extra PPE/Cleaning

At the end of your session, you can have a few moments to adjust with a glass of water or socially distant cuppa.

  • I will carry out a very deep clean after washing everything down with hot soapy water with hospital grade cleaners such as Selgiene Ultra & Varsen, Barbicide and the like.  Towels will be washed in Dettol laundry care and detergent on a high temperature.  Everything from light switches, taps, hand rails as well as kit used in the session will all be completely sanitised.  Lower footfall here and less risk than attending the pub/supermarket etc.

These rules above are not for breaking I will only be seeing those who respect this, thank you.

Stay safe n kinky
Mistress Helen xXx

Hi all

I’ve been filming clips over quite some time in order to launch onto one of the clip sites and at long last with some help from My fantastic Webslave I am now live on https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/152221/mistress-helen-ryder

I already have short mini clips on My Adult Work profile, which have proved to be quite popular.

Once lockdown is over and that I am able to do sessions again, there will be opportunities for filming days either with Me solo or in doubles with Miss Kitty Bliss.  I have plenty of sissy style clips in My library so I’m looking for slaves interested in hard CP, CBT, Pallet Wrapping and anything a little more diverse than what I already have.

We always take a tribute for filming and you have to provide your id and sign a model release, you can wear a mask.

I’ve had a couple of chaps asking how they can help Me right now as I have very little income coming in to live on at present.

Book a phone chat direct with Me with a bank transfer payment to My account or Amazon GC if you can’t use your account.

Or go through the AW or Dommeline when I am logged in available.

Pay for a custom clip and if it can be filmed now then you can have it or receive it when I am able to shoot the content depending on the nature of the request.

Pay a deposit now for a future session or in full if you wish.

If you can afford to send money gifts to My account to keep Me afloat.

Stay sane, stay safe, stay the feck indoors other than essential food or medicine supplies or sensible daily exercise.  I’ve only just started walking and did 4 miles today.  I had been busy with DIY etc and decided to make the best of the lovely weather.

Mistress Helen xXx