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Thank you to the wonderful subs/kinksters who have shown their support over the last year, which has been tough for many and still is!

Although I do phone chats on various platforms (and excel at this) I have just started out really in My clip store from March 2020.  I have over 500 feedbacks in phone chat, My phone topics are very diverse, I will happily roleplay  and have had many a gent get all hot n flustered and have a VERY happy time. We can also just chat normally about your kinks if you prefer.

I am more of a real time session Dominatrix and Disciplinarian.  I get quite tetchy if I do not have a bottom to spank or peg (depending on what floats your boat)

At least the paid phone chats have given Me some sort of outlet with sharing your fantasies, discussing future real time sessions and giving commands over the phone, which have entertained Me.  Plus keep a roof over My head.

I would love to accept limited real time solo sessions with Covid precautions in place.

Please read Mistress Helen Ryder of West Sussex (mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk)

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I am on two platforms for chats, Adult Work and Dommeline if you prefer to call Me through a third party app.  My phone icon is green when logged in on those.  Direct chats with Me is send payment first as per blog and then email when money has been sent across.  ANY questions you have can then be addressed.

Can’t wait to be spanking bottoms again and many of the other shenanigans that happen here 😉 sadly some of you can’t find an excuse to come out to play.  Try harder!

I am looking forward to teaming up again with My wonderful domme sisters in kink when able to, Mistress Leather Amber, Miss Kitty Bliss Kent and Burgess Hill

Mistress Helena  Mistress V Huddersfield

Goddess Salvia Burgess Hill and Brighton

TGirl Joanna Armstrong Burgess Hill

Looking forward to chatting with some of you very soon, lets make the very best of 2021!!

I hope everyone’s keeping well and if you have got into mischief then do book your self in for some corrective therapy ASAP!  My area is in tier two, this means personal care places, retail etc are allowed to be open.

Come out to play safely again with Covid precautions in place.

I am taking solo sessions in My own premises as well as the double domination sessions mentioned below!

We have a treat in store for you! Double domination sessions with the amazing Lady Amber in Gravesend Kent & Burgess Hill West Sussex (just 20 mins from Gatwick)
The type off sessions are ALL impact play, bondage, extended bondage, leather worship, breath play, boot worship & foot worship, leather cross dressing. For anything not mentioned please include a polite request, pegging & venus2000/relief won’t be included in the doubles & we will be offering the style of play listed in Leather Lady Ambers site, so plenty of BDSM & kinky fun to enjoy.
Due to travel double domme dates will be advertised and pre bookings taken with deposits as well as possible booking being available on the day.
With a long booking enquiry and deposit security we can be available together with 48 hours notice.
Read and follow each of our booking procedures to apply, mine are hyper linked in sessions and tribute pages as well as on blog page.

Well here we are again!

My existing clients that wish to enquire about booking in, may email Me to sort out your future sessions.

I wish to say with heartfelt thanks  how much I have really appreciated the very special loyal clients that have continued supporting Me throughout this very tough year, it was great to see some of you when last lockdown was lifted.  Those who haven’t been able to fly over have sent tributes and we have shared stories throughout these strange times.  I am very generous with those who are loyal and that support Me.

ALL new enquiries will only have their emails replied to with either a £20 bank transfer payment or Amazon Gift code sent in the very first instance to My email of helen-ryder@hotmail.com  NOT to My phone, thank you.  If you send any attachments over at all without payment first and permission, you will be blocked!

This is simply to deter the high volume of time wasters that came along last lockdown.  The payment will cover a 10 min chat on the phone and when you do visit in the future I will take that payment off your tribute when you attend.

If however you have really enjoyed chatting and want to chat more then you will need to pay across for more calls or emails to cover My time.

Unless payment is sent then new emails will be ignored!

 

Bank info, is

sort 20-92-54

Account: 70468665

Name: Ms Rogers

Ref: consultation followed by your initials.  Then email AFTER sending

Meanwhile you can feast away on My mini clips through Adult Work or longer ones on Clips4Sale.

I will ONLY answer My work phone if you have pre paid for a chat or I am logged in to one of the phone chat platforms and you are calling Me through them.

So far since March 2020 SEVEN very flaky unreliable people have got themselves on the TW list and I will NOT be seeing them again.

I wish for My business and success to grow in a positive manner and one of My lovely chaps I refer to as Uncle Stewie said recently, not all business is good business, very wise words indeed!

Stay safe n kinky

 

Get in touch to book/pay any of the aforementioned.

 

Mistress Helen xXx

 

With the weather being so sublime right now I have decided to offer the Vanilla massage full body treatment of one hour at £65!

This will be in the garden on the patio area, which is a nice shaded secluded spot.  You will be wearing underpants.

Please come freshly showered as there will be no showering/no access into the premises at this offer price (only a downstairs toilet visit) if required.

I will use an unscented liquiwax massage balm which glides beautifully and will not leave your skin at all oily.  You will be able to dress after without any residue going onto your clothes.

Note this is VANILLA massage only! You will leave feeling relaxed, happy and refreshed with any special “happy ending” happening in your own home.

No fetish chit chat as it’s not appropriate outside.

It’s great to be slowly getting back into play times with PPE in place for us both, so far the couple of gents I have seen haven’t found it to have impacted their time in any negative way.  A quick temperature check, up for a nice refreshing relaxing shower (it’s an Aqualisa so a lovely shower time) a fresh medical mask and then into the play rooms for some kinky fun.

Whilst there are a few things off the menu as per My back to work plans blog, there is still plenty of fun to be had!

No two sessions are the same here, from pallet wrapping and roping one of my play things onto the cross and teasing and tormenting with electrics and plenty of nipple torture to my next play time that was all about the sensual side of BDSM with soft leather floggers, silk, warm massage oil and more…

I really don’t think the precautions of turning up presenting well on the day, a nice hot shower and wearing mask in your time here has much impact on the pleasure gained from a visit.  Rest assured you do not have to see the preparation and background work that goes on before/after your playtime to keep the environment and all the toys etc clean and sterile.  I have not increased My tribute at all despite the extra costs involved for Moi.

The feedback I have received is that they felt safer coming here than going to the local super market so I think that says a lot.

Send over an email to book as I am only answering my phone if I am expecting a call from you!

Stay safe n kinky

Mistress Helen xXx

P.S Enjoy some pics from recent times

My fab friend in Huddersfield Mistress Helena

My lovely friends Miss Kitty Bliss and Ms Joanna Armstrong at Pedestal

My collared maid Laura & fave boi Slavva Rodda

Moi & Miss Kitty planning some mischief

Just a temperature check, no need to bend over! Well not yet 😉

A wonderful little script written by B for Our delicious phone chat, booked in advance privately

Enjoy!  Perhaps you might like Me to read it to you, email to book and pay for a call.

Hello darling,
Let me just find the light switch. There! That’s better.
Did you have a nice time this evening? I had a lovely time with Steve.
Look at you –  four hours later and you’re still as erect as when I left you to go on my date  – Not that you were able to do much about it, were you?  Locked and gagged in the sensory deprivation chamber you made for me.
So kind of you to spend four months clearing out the cellar and converting it from a wasted space into something useful to both our needs.
Though mainly my needs wouldn’t you agree?
 I’m sure when we first started you saw the arrangement as mutually exclussive BUT here we are ten years later with you now a cuckold and all of your accounts and property signed over to me.
My! I am a naughty minx, aren’t I?
…but its what you wanted…and now you delight in being subjugated to my power and decision-making. Lucky me….and lucky cuck!
Of course, it was inevitable that sooner or later your submissive desires would overrun you.
Not that you ever had much choice in the matter – what with me systematically denying and engaging your multiple fetishes and introducing you to a few of my own –
until the act of pleasing me became as natural to you as breathing itself.
Let me say here and now, I have no regrets in taking control of you. Our marriage was going nowhere, what with you out every night with your mates.
All those years when you returned home too late to read a bedtime story to Rebecca or help with her homework Not just that but your sheer uselessness at doing your share of the housework and unable to manage anything in bed.
Compare that with now. The house is spotless with you doing all the cleaning and meals. Rebecca is at Uni and I have the large bed all to myself while you sleep in the small bedroom…unless I have need of you.
What could be more perfect then a man offering that sort of freedom and support for a woman who is now exploring her liberation…
…and all because I happened across those images on your computer that time.
Who would have known?
I must  say, i was really surrprised when I saw all those imges of women dominating men. And on your hard drive!
It was only as I started to research it – moreso  to understand what was going on in your head – that I discovered you were a closet submissive in need of a dominant woman to take control of you.
Not that this information was of any use to me until I went on a few forums and discovered the benefits of being Dominant -and that is when our relationship turned a corner!
I remember the evening I challenged you over the photos. Your denial and lies. Then the complete change in you when I left the room and returned in black leather with a crop in my hand.
That was the moment you were truely hoisted by your own petard for my pleasure –  I knew then that things would never be the same again.
Strangely,  I was reflecting on it just this evening as you kneeled before me in My bedroom with head bowed as I was getting ready to meet Steve.
How I smiled as you eagerly ran downstairs to the sensory deprivation room to hold yourself in position against the frame as you awaited my arrival to lock you in – which was deliberately delayed as I made myself ready for Steve but also to tease you.
See how far we’ve come. My old husband would never have done that.
But then – as we both know – that man is gone. I no longer have a husband in that sense of the word any more. I have a cuckold. A submissive. A slave…and do you know what darling: I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Actually, as I was inserting the butt plug and locking you into the frame before heading out tonight, i loved the fact that as I brushed against you, you shivered with delight.
What woman wouldn’t want the man she’s locking up for the night to be so devoted to her that she can go out and enjoy herself with another man, knowing he’ll be waiting for her at home, eager for her return.
See how things have changed between us these last ten years. And for the better. Yes, that’s right! it’s our anniversary! Ten years ago today, you knelt before me and told me your desires
That is the day our marriage ended and our new life began.
And to mark it, I’ve bought you a present. Actually, its a present for both of us seeing as we’ll each get enjoyment from it – even if mine is rather shadenfruede  It’s rather large isn’t it. Don’t worry: I’ll unwrap it for you seeing as you are handcuffed to the frame.
Do you like it? It’s the next strapon size up from what you normally take.
Now, Steve has left you a something that will require your tongue to lick it out later on
…but right now, I’ll just click the strapon into place on the harness  – oh my! It is very big.
This is going to be so much fun darling. Deep breath and Happy Anniversary!
Well what happens next will be very graphic so DO book a call…………………………………..

 

I hope all My troupes are keeping well, some of you have been fantastic at supporting My online works, clips, booking phone chats direct with Me or going through the platforms I use.  It’s been super to stay in touch this way.

Some very silly messages, some just asking for sessions during lockdown, most of which come via Adult Work mainly after 11pm at night, it must the magic hour that men turn into complete illiterate imbeciles.  I thought I would share some of them here to give you a laugh (I usually just roll My eyes)

If you simply send more than one hello message during quarantine and haven’t done any of the above to support Me then I am not prioritising any other general hello messages after replying once already.

So here you go, just a few examples and there were MANY more:

The Hall of Shame

Sent during lockdown: 04/05/2020 R u meeting ? X

another 5/5/2020 I was wondering if you are working today

8/5/2020 Good morning. I was wondering if you are available Sunday morning please for a session x

The likes of graphic email but never calls! Hi goddess, cuck loser worthless loser boy here to worship your feet for you over the phone while you pretend to have sex with a superior alpha male (pretend we are bf and gf and you are cheating on me over the phone). Make me do humiliating tasks while you fuck alpha like smelling my own feet over the phone so you can here it, and sucking my own toe like its alphas huge cock. Laugh at me throughout the call and then make me put my legs over my own head and cum in my own mouth, when you are ready my goddess x i will be in silence throughout call x

Another asking for a session but he has alias names on AW and several thousand log ins/no bookings/feedback so probably never going to book anyone for anything.  Weird request!

I am unsure if you can currently offer sessions due to current events (I expect not which is more than appropriate) so with your permission may I be considered to try one of yours please for an hour incall when this crisis has safely passed by for us all? I am a shy person but polite and well mannered. I was wondering if I might be able to work in some fun fantasy roleplay ideas? My concept is based around a childhood scene from the Disney movie The Jungle Book. When Mowgli meets the giant python villain Kaa. The snake is a hypnotist who, through spiralling coloured eyes, makes eye to eye contact with Mowgli hypnotizing him. With Mowgli’s body becoming limply relaxed and immobilized under a trance. He then follows Kaa’s commands which are sung to him through a snake charmer type tune called Trust In Me. It all has a tropical and easy going relaxing tone. The python uses the muscles of his strong body coils to coil around and also playfully move Mowgli about his tree. I would like to play out the scene and use the music and whatever aspects you might suggest to pull off the sensual movements of the two characters. Having a slightly hot, sweaty atmosphere in order to get the feel of the jungle environment as well. There is a link to the scene below I’ve sent so you may see the sequence. If you might be interested at all I would be delighted. Thank you very much. I would be happy to speak with you beforehand by phone also if you wish. Very best.

There was a link too re above but I haven’t included that for your safety!

and this one again from same chap of 04/05 Do u have a strap on? And do u kiss ur gf? X

What ????

This is an average week of AW messages and there were many more asking for detailed chats that never called.

 

 

 

 

My dear bois, slaves, subs, kinksters & sissies

Thank you all very much for supporting Me over the last few weeks, the ones that have sent tributes, bought My clips, sent Amazon GC’s & paid for chats.  This has been wonderful and I really appreciate it.  Long may it continue with this side of My business.

Sadly I still get the emails/bloody texts from the others!  Hmmmmmmmm Covid19 has certainly shown Me the absolute best in some people and the utter worse.

I hope you are all doing ok and keeping well.

I was chatting earlier today with Mistress Ophelia De Havilland (a lovely friend of mine) about how we start doing sessions again hopefully in the not too distant future.

As many of you who know Me I already only offer limited sessions in a day for many reasons.

Once sessions resume I will continue only seeing 1 or 2 people on any one day.

There will be a session in the morning for however long that person wishes to book for, there will then be a gap for a VERY deep clean BEFORE I see My next plaything.

A deep clean will consist of every surface that anyone can come into contact with, door handles, light switch, light pull, stair rails etc as well as EVERY item used in a session with My hospital grade cleaners.

On entering My premises I will ask you to have a good wash of hands and face and strip and wear a mask, I will also wear a mask (mmmm kinky hey) but I won’t be stripping  (I know what you are thinking) 🙂

Overkill maybe or maybe not, but it’s our lives and staying fit and healthy.  Anyone booked in will have to present as completely well on the day, any possible risks must be eliminated.  Deposits will be held against a new play time if either you or Myself need to reschedule.

Mistress Helen Ryder xXx

 

 

Hello everybody

I hope you are all doing well

It’s lovely to receive fantastic help and support from some of My bois, thank you very much for being wonderful and you will all know who you are.

To those who email, state they will do ABC and don’t follow though.  I feel nothing other than pity for you, that your world is so small and you are so inadequate and can’t grasp how to use this time we have for anything positive or productive.  Shame on you.

To those who are genuine and wish to Amazon Gift Code Me with either an online purchase or from a shop then only send to My email of helen-ryder@hotmail.com  Send it first and send an email 20 mins after you have done so.  I won’t be sending any replies to anyone asking if My email is correct.

To those who purchase My clips, thank you and I do know what part of the world is purchasing right down to the town!

See you genuine players on the flip side!

Mistress Helen xXx