Events

Well what an exciting few weeks it has been!

Miss Ruby Vixen and Miss Kitty Bliss have both graced the Burgess Hill playrooms to come and play with some of my bois, what fun we’ve had!

Miss Kitty Bliss is a fully fledged Mistress who has been in the business for over ten years, she has her own website, runs her own business and runs Club Sanctum, which is currently having a sabbatical due to availability of London venues at present.  MKB is very experienced in CP & Medical play, strap-on, bondage and much more.

Our next double domme date is 4th May, we do get busy so it’s wise to book in advance and secure the playtime that works for your kinky time.

Miss Ruby Vixen is My assistant, an extra pair of kink friendly hands in a session, more of a playful voyeur & gentle switch, MRV doesn’t take care of bashing in the back doors with a strap-on (that’s Moi & MKB) she does like to have you suck on her lolly cock though 🙂 spanking, clothed face sitting, trample and foot worship.  Hence the rates are advertised accordingly.

Easter is soon upon us, if any chaps out there want to see how many mini eggs I can insert in your slot then do book a session and bring the chocs too!  I do love a sense of slightly warped good fun in My sessions 😁

All sessions are 24 hours notice if you are not known to me

Established regs I require TWO full hours notice from having agreed time that day

ALL sessions require a non refundable deposit (moved to one new date with 24hrs notice)

 

 

 

 

Check out My Twitter feed for all advertised double domination dates and general news, this link is My ONLY Twitter, there have been several fakes recently, stealing My images and creating Twitter accounts to scam people, they have been reported numerous times but still exist!  Mistress Helen Ryder The Ultimate Sussex Mistress (@MsHelenRyder) / Twitter  The one and only!!!

I’m teaming up with my friend Mistress Amber in Gravesend Kent on Thursday 24th Feb 2022 we will be offering CP/All impact play, bondage, NT, sensory dep & many more BDSM Delights.  Pegging, medical play and HE is not available for this DD date, pop your enq into an email to apply.  StrictLeatherLadyAmber (@StrictLadyAmber) / Twitter

Thursday 24th March 2022 My friend Miss Kitty Bliss will be working with Me in Burgess Hill for a full BDSM experience to include pegging, medical play, CP, bondage, sissy make overs and much more!

The sooner you book and pay your deposit the more likely you are to get the time that works well for you, we are taking bookings now.  Sometimes there are places closer to the date so it’s always worth asking.  Miss Kitty Bliss (@Miss_KittyBliss) / Twitter

 

 

Hello readers

Some general news and info on how to book

17th August I am filming with Miss Kitty Bliss, we currently have two spaces left.

Attendance £100 Near Brighton, on location with possible outdoor scenes – weather and circumstances permitting. Applications misskittybliss.co.uk/filming-slaves/  or email Me if you’ve seen Me before.

A reminder on how to book a session with Mistress Helen Ryder

If you are a potential new client or someone I haven’t seen for a very long time then please follow the new client booking procedures with sending an email along with £20 payment by bank transfer preferred or Amazon gift code to helen-ryder@hotmail.com My bank info is on the tribute page.  We can then arrange a nice little chat.

On the very rare occasions I might answer My phone to an unknown or unscheduled call, please be aware I will only direct you to My website and blog in regards payment and email.  I will not answer ANY basic questions already covered on this website or discuss your fetish’s until you have paid for My time.

When you meet Me you will find that I am very personable, with much drive/passion and focus on creating a great session.  The less energy spent in negative pursuits with half hearted email enqs. dodgy phone calls etc leaves more positivity for real time sessions!  Don’t let a small £20 tribute put you off at first contact if you are genuine, it is normal these days to pay something to show you are truly invested in a potential session.  The fact that I then adjust the final tribute keeps it very fair.

Recently I had someone send above fee and we chatted but he wasn’t willing to wear a mask in session because he hadn’t been vaccinated.  This was covered on the blog link I had sent over before he paid the phone fee.  I can lead you to all the information but if you don’t actually read it at all then it’s not My problem!

All Professional Dommes have their own way of conducting their business.  Wise words are read the website and simply follow the lady of your choice instructions.

 

 

 

 

I’m heading up North on 22nd July until Monday 26th July, sessions back in West Sussex from 27th July.

The 25th July is set aside for Our Double Domme event “Sunday Sinners”

I am teaming up with My gorgeous friend Mistress Helena in Huddersfield,  she is just 26 mins train travel from Leeds with a 6 min cab journey or by car from Leeds just over half an hour drive with easy on street parking, sessions are in a beautiful fully equipped dungeon.  Which is scrupulously clean  using hospital grade products, all toys are covered with condoms where possible or sterilised before/after use.  There is plenty of “proper” sterile & insertable lube too!  No cooking fat or motorcycle grease haha.  Two consummate professionals who care about your wellbeing and only use the best equipment.

Two strict blonde alpha females to take control over you, Our fetish interests are immense and we are passionate about what we do, please take a look around Our fetish interests on Our websites to see what makes you salivate and yearn to book a visit for an amazing double domination experience.

Huddersfield Mistresses – Huddersfield Mistresses

Just a few ideas to wet your appetites

Pegging/Spit roasting

CP Judicial, straight up or Roleplay from moderate to very hard!

Sissy transformations

Medical play

Sensory deprivation with EStim/Wand teasing sensual or take the pain if you are a masochist, your limits/boundaries are always respected

Bondage, leather, straps, encasement, mummification and/or time in the cell

Foot worship, maid or slave duties

Contact Mistress Helena to book in and a 50% deposit is mandatory and non refundable (bank transfer info on My online domination/tribute page) Please provide an outline of your interests and any medical conditions we need to be aware of.  ALL sessions are totally bespoke to your interests,  we do listen to your kinks and create the best unique experience.  We are lifestyle Mistress’s with years of experience and deviant tricks up Our sleeves 😉 so lets get together and enjoy some fetish play, it really doesn’t get better than this!

We look forward to “having you” visit us soon.

Contact Mistress Helena on 07557 516183 call or polite text to book in

 

Double Domination Sessions in Kent with Lady Amber

Our next dates advertised for double domination sessions in Kent is 20th/21st April, we can also work together in Kent on other dates subject to 48hrs notice with a deposit to secure.

(4) LadyAmber (@LadyAmber2017) / Twitter

We will be working together for impact play, heavy CP sessions

Bondage sessions and extended bondage special sessions

Breath Play with or without intox

Tickle sessions (on you of course) we DO NOT receive!

Leather sessions, leather cross dressing available

Sensory Deprivation

Boot/Shoe and Foot Worship

Some wrestle holds NOT wrestling

Please note there will be NO sexual play in sessions, these sessions are for serious fetish players, your excitement can be contained and taken away with you for later reflection and relief.

Please book via ladyamber2017@hotmail.com Mobile Calls NOT texting to 07775 276054

Lola is looking for a new partner in her life, she was gifted to me and starred in 3 naughty little film clips, all with protection being used.

She is a TPE WM doll with fully articulated metal skeleton and fully posable for different positions, Manufacturer believed to be from a different company to this link (purely for guidance, as they do not ship dolls below 140cm to the UK)  WM Doll Sex Doll Head #264 | 108 cm L cup – Ava Love Doll (ava-love-doll.com) 110cms when her head is attached, weight 21 to 26 kg (stated on full box packaging) I do not have scales to confirm exact weight Lola comes with a variety of wigs, a few outfits, a USB warming rod.  a cleaning bulb and other little bits.  Her eyes do not open, her face is a state of bliss.  She has Chinese writing on the box and the enclosed leaflet and was shipped from Germany, she is a silent doll and doesn’t make any noises.

another supplier selling this model is Poupée naine Martha 108cm bonnet L WMdolls – Dolls France

The reason I was gifted such a petite doll was purely for storage space so that she could live out of harms way in the box she came in.  I am told the more petite dolls are rare and she cost just over £800 new so I am looking for £495 UPDATED 15/07/2021 NOW £300  with a £50 non returnable deposit via bank transfer and cash  on collection .  I am only interested in a serious collector/buyer.  She is an absolute bargain.

I am not prepared to ship her so it will be pick up from Burgess Hill or personal delivery within 30 miles of Burgess Hill.  Further afield there will be a fuel charge, pre agreed. I am on occasions in Maidstone Kent and over in West Yorkshire.  This would need to be within my timescale if Kent/Yorkshire.

The only minor damage is that she is missing her little toenail on her left foot, which is included for you to glue back on.  I haven’t done this myself as I was being overly cautious with what type of glue to use on TPE.  I have just joined a forum called UKLDF and my user name is Helen-Ryder I will be adding Lola in the sale section when my profile is approved by the admin team.

Hi folks

Like many of you I’ve had enough of all the lockdown and I’m chomping at the bit to get back into sessions!  With moral obligations and a 10K fine I am not conducting sessions in the flesh right now, people are still asking every week!

Whilst it’s been fun staying in touch with some of you online as well as meeting some potential new players in video chats, it just isn’t quite the same as meeting someone face to face, manipulating your mind and flesh.  Hearing you whimper, plead, your breath quicken, your pulse race…. Oh how I miss sessions!

Many of you are aware of My charge for ALL phone calls, this simply came about to the high volume of people asking to discuss a session in the first lockdown and then when I was able to open My playrooms again not one of them ever booked.

Being a wise bird and learning from that experience, I started charging for every single call and if it’s a one off call then it comes off the final tribute of a real time session.  If the phone call is simply to have a bit of a jolly with Mistress then these calls are ALL covered by you.  Right now online work is My only income and doesn’t make up much shortfall of the grants I receive for being a self employed tax payer.  The boring bit is that yes I do have bills to pay.

I very much welcome the paid online sessions, phone chats, video chats when possible, selling items to you, some custom clips if they fit My remit.  So please do keep these coming, it’s My only source of fetish entertainment (other when I see My bubble) and we need to keep the kink alive!

I am also very much missing working alongside some of My fab Mistress friends and look forward to double domme again one day.

Our next date for DD webcam is 3rd March with Miss Kitty Bliss, she will join up online via an app and it will be a cam conference session.  The last one was lots of fun.

Fingers and toes crossed and those into CBT, tie a knot in it for good news next week from BJ to state if any business’s can open.

It’s unfortunate that they can’t state Mistress’s can open their doors, most people in high pressure jobs look for some control/release, so you would think it would be in the list 😉 I am basing Myself on beauty/hair salons opening up.

KEEP THE KINK ALIVE!

We have such a treat instore, get your Mistress Helen & Miss Kitty fix with Us both online together/remotely as per guidance, see Us both on cam, discuss your kinks, future sessions, online domination/instructions, bring any toys to cam.  Lets be clear that I am in Sussex and Miss Kitty in Kent, meeting up remotely online via an encrypted app.

Taking your advance bookings now to secure your time with Us on webcam

When you have booked/paid we will send you the link to click on and join Us.

11th Feb 2021 7pm to 11pm

 

What treats we have in store for you!

A double domination of delights from soft spanking (haha, snigger) ok limits respected to hard CP (we excel at this) and all manner of kinky BDSM play

Medical roleplay and various procedures

Kidnap scenario (see tribute Page for this)

Sissy sluts/maid

Bondage

Pegging and Spit Roasting

Venus 2000

EStim and Violet Wand

Sensory dep/Hypnosis (made clear when booking in advance)

Just a few ideas to wet your appetite and not a comprehensive list by any means!

Get in touch via email first and follow up with a nice little chat to book your play time!

 

I was going to post a blog back in October when I had been to The Femdom Ball and then got very busy indeed so time for a catch up!

My loyal collared sissy maid came over from Norway and stayed the weekend of the ball and we travelled to London to attend My other very loyal slaves house for drinks/nibbles pre ball and to get ready to go out in style. I wore a gorgeous floor length black fitted dress with ruffles around the top and rhinestones on the waistband, My maid wore a 1950’s black and white maids dress with white gloves and slave wore a black tux and they both had collars/leashes on.

The Femdom Ball is at a secret location so no details other than to say it is a beautiful space and we were all so lucky to attend such an event. I had another outfit to change into at the ball, which was custom made for Me and designed by the amazing Iris of House of Harlot. I had attended the showroom/design studio a couple of weeks back and have a chat about ideas. I was blown away by what she made and it was such a pleasure and honour to model it in the fashion show. I am looking forward to seeing the photos from that night online when they are released. I highly recommend House of Harlot!

Between 9th to 16th I was away being spoilt in Tenerife by My BBF, we had a fantastic time and lots of fun. I even got a bit of a tan, which I’m trying to hold onto with the occasional sunbed and it’s lovely laying there for 6 mins imagining I’m relaxing by the pool or on a beautiful beach.

Apart from some great sessions in October the other fun stuff was filming with Miss Kitty Bliss at a dungeon in Brighton. This was the day after I flew back. The actual filming was fun, location wasn’t very suited to filming due to noise levels etc so we won’t be returning to it. We got some great actions shots, all will be uploaded onto clips4sale in due course (I still need to set this up) both our playmates were great fun, we even went back to mine for a two hour needle session with one of them and then all of us went out to dinner. It was a brilliant day and super evening.

I also had the pleasure of filming at The Hoxton Dungeon with Mistress Clarrisa and Sarah The Invader, with our most delightful hostess Madame Caramel conducting interviews and giving some great direction for our action. Some super slaves and sissies to play with and I’ve just received a load of promo pics today from our cameraman.

Up and coming events are:
Club Sanctum 16th November I would like to attend but unsure at present, as I have a kitten and I can not leave her overnight without a cat carer in place. It has to be one of My dear friends or family who I can 100% trust!

Double Domination days with Miss Kitty Bliss 27th and 28th November in Burgess Hill, there is a blog on this so look for it and have a read.

Possibly attend Club Pedestal on 29th with Miss Kitty Bliss and big Sis Joanna Armstrong.

I have availability throughout November and December up to 23rd, I will be in Yorkshire eve of 23rd through to 26th and travel back to Sussex on 27th December.

A few pics from events mentioned above 😘