Book your shared playtime Thursday 6th June 2024! ASAP! Lets have a kinky lil 3sum party!

TWO bois per playtime, bi interaction encouraged, sexuality & limits respected, straight play & taking turns for those who don’t wish to explore their bi side.  I will ensure that you are suitably matched for straight/bi sessions.


2:30pm – 4pm

£150 each for 90 mins playtimes in Burgess Hill

Deposit mandatory

Happy 20th Birthday to Club Pedestal in London, congratulations to Derek and his team, one of the longer standing Fetish Clubs.

TWENTY yrs how time flies!  I’ve been attending Club Pedestal for the last 15yrs! I don’t attend every time it’s on as I often have clients booked in for the day after.  Crawling into My pit at 5/6am after travelling home doesn’t leave much in the way of sleep but boy it’s worth it!

It’s so lovely to catch up with some of My Mistress pals and a great night out.  I’ve been invited to attend the slave selection evening and be a “House Dominatrix” but living outside of London I simply don’t have the time to spare.

Ladies: If you haven’t yet been to Club Pedestal then I recommend that you do, on arrival into the venue you will be greeted by kneeling slaves and be presented with a rose.  There is a Fetlife corner tour of the venue available, you will meet lots of new people and make great connections and new friends quite quickly.  I’ve driven there in the past on My own and not felt at all out of place.

There are various areas in the club, space to play, fair amount of equipment, I love the trample cage! A row of subs are like juicy sausages on the floor just waiting to be squished! They have a cabaret show, which is fun to watch.   In the past I have added some fun/slighty strange requests into the Maitre D’s black book, some of those being a sub to be a human frog to hop 3 circuits of the club making frog noises (Myself and the sub creased up with laughter & his knees killing him)  a lap dance from a fit hunk (Mmmmm thanks Maximus I won’t forget that one)  one Christmas I made a sub dress up and sing from the main bar Christmas songs standing on a table.  As well as the usual foot worship, receive a public thrashing, wait on Me, fetch drinks and be a foot stall etc.  Little Muffin also really needs a mention here, a sub who had a full western saddle and used to carry Ladies on his back.

It’s a great playground for Dominant Ladies!

See if you can spot Me in the gallery archives from over the years 🙂 Club Pedestal


Hello subs, slaves, kinksters, sissies and all that read My blogs

On Monday 2nd September it is back to the farm part two!  We are filming that day from 11am to late afternoon/early eve and the tribute is £100 My own known players can book through Me and all new enquiries then please contact Miss Kitty Bliss

25th September we are holding a caning party from 1:30pm to 4:30pm for £150 tribute, we plan to have around 3 to 5 max attendees.  It will be lots of fun, some great banter and you will all be leaving with warm rosey or striped bottoms, depending on the level you like to play.

Also on 25th September after the party is double domination sessions and double domme on 26th September before heading out to Club Pedestal.  Double Domme tribute starts at £220 for one hour.

We will require a driver to pick up from Burgess Hill to Vauxhall, you may attend with us, return us safely back to Burgess Hill, apply via My contact details.  If you are not already known to us then we will of course vet you, take a deposit so that you do not let us down on the night.  On completion of your mission your deposit will be returned but if you cancel then we keep it to pay for our transport.

So many wonderful opportunities to come and play and serve, looking forward to seeing you soon.

Imagine waiting in line hearing the boy before you receive his spankings and canings, hear the cane and watch as it swishes through the air and lands right across his rump.  Watch his bottom (or her) get redder and redder, in the knowledge that you will be next!

I am looking at running a small event with just me or depending on attendees with my good friend Miss Kitty Bliss or Miss Ophelia, express your interest to my email account and I will start a list for a small intimate gathering of like minded souls.  OTK spankings, slipperings, the tawse, the cane etc

Tribute will be around £150 for a 3 hour party and some social time after for a cuppa and a biscuit.

Wednesday 25th September 1:30pm to 4:30pm as well as double domme events that day for those who desire.

Happy CP thoughts

Mistress Helen


Good day slaves/subs/kinksters

What a whirlwind last week! It was bloody good though 🙂 Having caught the beginnings of a cold at the start of the week I dosed myself up on EmergencyC (good stuff) and Day Nurse etc

It was a fun Friday night at Circle of O where I got to play alongside the amazing Rebekka Rayner her style of caning is fantastic to watch.

Always fab to catch up with Miss Kitty Bliss (don’t forget our double event 20/21st Nov)  

I also met  a lovely lady whom I connected again with at The Femdom Ball

So FOUR Mistress’s and 6 willing victims to play with, also a sissy maid in attendance to fetch/carry/serve our every need.  I had a really great night and I’m looking forward to the Jan event when I am next in attendance.  If you like to play hard and are comfy being in a group I highly recommend attending a CofO party!

CofO Boot Worship










Saturday on to The Femdom Ball it was a manic run up to it with little time to get ready, somehow I managed to shower/wash & style hair/make-up/dress in under an hour!  I dread to think what the pictures look like!  Anyway we got there, met up with slavva Rodda and I had my personal slave A with me, two boys on leashes for the evening (greedy Me)   The venue was fantastic and it was super to network with other Mistress’s I follow on Twitter, some super entertainment, sweet sissy maids in attendance wearing the most delightful red lace dress’s.  I missed out on modelling a hat as we were almost late arriving due to London roadworks/traffic but I did try on a T Mistress’s hat that I rather liked. I’m not going to give too much away but what a night!

All hosted by the dynamic

A grand celebration of female supremacy and I won a prize in the raffle (3 months membership for House of Sinn) I will be rather busy perusing the site 😉  The raffle raised just over £600 for 

I’m already looking forward to next years Ball.

I spent Sunday/Monday/Tuesday recovering and shaking off my cold, all better now and back in sessions.  My voice has also fully returned.

Taxi journey to The Ball



The Ladies

I am delighted to announce that I will be joining the Circle of O party on the above date.  If you have been thinking of coming for a session to Sussex for some time and not had time to travel then this may be the perfect solution to not just meet Me but also several other fantastic Mistress’s on the night.

Looking forward to this event very much, maybe see you there 😉

I thought I would share with you all My recent clubbing night to the launch party of Club FemDom in London (a Fetish club night) I would be staying in London overnight at my fave London slave’s pad so I caught a train and slave collected me from Clapham Junction and whisked me back to his, he cooked dinner for me and served fine wine and then ensured I was comfy up in “The Tower” room in order to get ready for our night out.

I dressed in a short leather skirt, black body and little beaded cape, black stockings with red seams, full lingerie by What Katie Did and Victorian style ankle boots.


Slave wore his tux n tales jacket with a pair of tights and high heels, well if I’m going to suffer in heels then why shouldn’t he too! 😊 I also had him on his jewelled collar and leash for the evening.

We arrived at the venue and was greeted by the beautiful Mistress Absolute and welcomed into the party, the venue was gorgeous and the ceiling like a harem tent with large gilded mirrors on the walls, comfy seating for the Mistress’s with slaves kneeling, a DJ booth set up on a stage and a dance area with a raised bar area.  There was another room suited to foot worship and general socialising between the Mistress’s and a well set out dungeon with enough room to swing a cat of nine tails.  Slave’s task was to drive me back to West Sussex the next day and to have a two hour session back in my dungeon, but it would be rude not to make use of the equipment at least for a little while.

I instructed slave to strip (a second time in public for him) he got up onto the spanking bench and I spent the next half an hour using my Dragon tail whip and a rather favourite evil paddle on his back and buttocks, decorating his tender flesh with pretty patterns and enjoying his gasps, sighs and little squeals.  It was just a prelude of what would come tomorrow…..

Time to socialise,  I spotted the very lovely Madame Cruella, finally got to meet Kitty Bliss face to face (I love her laugh) and the gorgeous Lady Andromeda whom I first met on a night out in Brighton.  I really do not manage to get out to Femdom events as often as I would like with not being local to London events, so it’s always great to catch up with other Mistress’s.

I love the ethos of CLub Femdom with an all female line up from entertainment/DJ’s and the high protocol expected from male slaves, exactly as it should be!

Well once I was all partied out it was time to grab a cab back to slaves, a good nights sleep and replenish my caning/swinging arm for the next day.

I was going to end the blog here but just a quick mention to say slave did excel himself the next day with sawing manually through a railway sleeper in my garden.  Only took him three hours!!!!  I give credit to him and will say many others would have given up, but then he was going to be caned after so it was in his interest to do a good job.

Well done slave Rodda’s don’t let it go to your head!

Best regards to you all

Mistress Helen


Fetish Club night out with slave R.

We were checked in to a hotel not very far from our evenings fetish venue, slave had gone off to fetch the rest of the luggage and I was busy in the hotel room bathroom with my evenings outfit a hot little latex number from Honour and a bottle of vivishine my favourite latex shiner!  I wanted my outfit to be super slick and shiny this evening.

Slave returned with the essential luggage, some cold mixed G&T’s and a bottle of Champagne for later (it was a BYOB) but I wouldn’t be drinking much as I would be dominating slave later.

We had a delicious light poached salmon meal in the hotel restaurant, overlooking the runway (some of you may guess now where we were off to) all will be revealed.   Nothing too heavy for play later on and I would be able to slither/slide into my tight latex.

Back in the hotel room I nipped off for a shower and dressed in my outfit, with ruby red lips and smouldering smokey eye make-up I walked into the room.  Slave was blown away with my appearance and couldn’t wait to be walking by my side in the club with all eyes on us.

A short taxi ride later we were checking in and stashing our bits in a locker.  I had been before but not for a couple of years so we took up the offer of a tour.  A bubbly blonde lady walked us around showing us into each of the areas.  It was quite busy by now and lots of couples were looking over at us probably thinking “mmmmm fresh meat” haha little did they know!

Slave was quite nervous about playing in public (understandable) so he asked permission to watch others play and to wander around the venue.  I was most happy to do this as people watching, especially fetish play as well as some of the swingers there is always fun to observe.

We were a couple of hours in to our visit and slave felt more comfortable about starting a scene but not too public.  There was a room with a two way mirror and a lockable door so I took him in there.  I made him lay down on the platform bed and started to tease his skin with my soft suede floggers, then the cat claws came out tickling, striking and teasing him.  Nipple clamps which are too hard core for this particular slave but great to tease with so I straddled him and pinned his legs together with mine either side of him.  Wrapping the chain around his very stiff cock I eased the chain up and down teasing him that I needed to be careful he wasn’t going to pop his lid at this stage!  Well you can’t have too much of a good thing when there is more fun to explore, so off out the room with more scenes to watch and I had popped on my strap-on harness with a nice sturdy thick cock from Babes n horny.  Well that cock got rather a lot of verbal attention and admiring glances in the dungeon.

After some time we decided to grab a taxi back to the hotel and wind down with a G&T in the room and time for the finale on slave so out came my magic wands with much more teasing before he was drained and sleepy.  I had the big double bed all to myself and slave was on a portable extra bed in the room not too far away if I wanted to flick my flogger if he snored!  Haha thankfully he didn’t.

Well what a great night out for us both, slave had come to me for an alternate massage sometime last year and has been slowly stretching his boundaries and exploring other forms of play over time.  A night out to a fetish event was a big step for him and the particular club I selected I knew would be a more gentle introduction with plenty of stimulating visuals that he would enjoy.

So where did we go I hear you ask J it was The Heathrow Dungeon Zone, a superb venue with lots of different areas, pool, hot tub, dungeon, cinema room, private rooms, social areas etc.

Fetish nights out are only offered to established existing clients that I have built a great rapport and trust over time with.

Sorry no pics of the night out with slave appearing as discretion is always taken into account.



I will be one of the House Mistress’s and Dungeon Monitor’s at this event.  Come and say hello.

Saturday, 21 November 2015 at 21:00 Sunday, 22 November 2015 at 02:00 (GMT)



£15 in advance, or £17 on the door.Dress code:Fetish wear – no full nudity.Description:

R.A.C.K – presented by ‘BB Chamber’

Welcome all to our new event!

We are very excited to be able to offer a new fetish club night.
Those of you who came to our Barn Party will know what to expect, for those who couldn’t make it… you can expect lots of play, plenty of equipment to use, in a friendly and safe environment.. maybe even some alternative party games!

Please note, this is a different venue as originally planned

We will have a fully stocked bar, a cloakroom, and plenty of space to swing a flogger.

With the majority of the play equipment being supplied by Brighton Twisted Market, and a few extra pieces being supplied by some very lovely friends, we will have no shortage of beautiful dungeon equipment to use. This includes;
Multiple St Andrews Crosses
Multiple spanking benches
Whipping post
Suspension Frame
And much more…

Dungeon monitors will be in place to ensure safe play. Please do not interrupt scenes for any reason, approach the DM’s if you have any questions instead.

Because the venue will be using their own bar staff we ask you to respect the following rules;

No full nudity (ie undercarriage must remain covered)
No sexual intercourse
No pictures – photographers will be at the event but will only photograph you with permission.

R.A.C.K = Risk Aware Consensual Kink.

We are a drug free event, anyone found to be taking drugs will be removed.

New to the area? Ask us about a meet and greet service.

9pm – 2am.
Fetish Wear.
Private parking.

(Password: Contact me for details)

See you there!