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Thank you to the wonderful subs/kinksters who have shown their support over the last year, which has been tough for many and still is!

Although I do phone chats on various platforms (and excel at this) I have just started out really in My clip store from March 2020.  I have over 500 feedbacks in phone chat, My phone topics are very diverse, I will happily roleplay  and have had many a gent get all hot n flustered and have a VERY happy time. We can also just chat normally about your kinks if you prefer.

I am more of a real time session Dominatrix and Disciplinarian.  I get quite tetchy if I do not have a bottom to spank or peg (depending on what floats your boat)

At least the paid phone chats have given Me some sort of outlet with sharing your fantasies, discussing future real time sessions and giving commands over the phone, which have entertained Me.  Plus keep a roof over My head.

I would love to accept limited real time solo sessions with Covid precautions in place.

Please read Mistress Helen Ryder of West Sussex (mistress-helen-ryder.co.uk)

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I am on two platforms for chats, Adult Work and Dommeline if you prefer to call Me through a third party app.  My phone icon is green when logged in on those.  Direct chats with Me is send payment first as per blog and then email when money has been sent across.  ANY questions you have can then be addressed.

Can’t wait to be spanking bottoms again and many of the other shenanigans that happen here 😉 sadly some of you can’t find an excuse to come out to play.  Try harder!

I am looking forward to teaming up again with My wonderful domme sisters in kink when able to, Mistress Leather Amber, Miss Kitty Bliss Kent and Burgess Hill

Mistress Helena  Mistress V Huddersfield

Goddess Salvia Burgess Hill and Brighton

TGirl Joanna Armstrong Burgess Hill

Looking forward to chatting with some of you very soon, lets make the very best of 2021!!

My availability

I’m available for online domination, chats. emails etc read the tab!

At present ALL emails to include a 10 min phone chat to discuss a session are paid for before you make contact, if you book and attend a real time session in the future post lockdown restrictions etc it will come off your final tribute in person.  Any questions you have will then be addressed in our chat.

When you book a real time session the deposit still remains at 50% and is mandatory.  Payment is either Amazon GC or Bank transfers.  I do not offer Paypal or any other payment system.

My bank details for transfers: Sort 20-92-54 Account: 70468665  Name: Ms Rogers Ref: Consult and your initials.

Amazon GC to My email of helen-ryder@hotmail.com if purchasing one from Tesco etc, rub off the panel to reveal code or use link below to purchase online.

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Provided you are over 21 send the payment for a call and then contact Me, sending an email asking if you can pay for a chat defeats the purpose.

The only reply to new email enqs is a link to this blog.  If you then reply with that you’ve read this blog but still not paid the low sum of £20 or reply with a question, you will be ignored.  It tells Me all I need to know about you and where to file away your email.

I very much welcome paid interaction only.  It weeds out those that have no intention of booking/committing.

I look forward to teasing and tormenting you soon.

Mistress Helen

Memorial Post for LSM

One of the best subs and brilliant friends a Mistress could ever wish for has sadly and very unexpectedly passed away recently.

He came to me in April 2016 as he had seen other Dommes previously and I won’t go into massive detail as it’s private as to why but we started doing sessions.  I wasn’t sure if he was enjoying himself as so new to me & we had a good chat after.  I said I liked to hear/see my subs moan/groan and to ensure he expressed himself as I could feed off that.

This seemed to flick a switch inside LSM and over time we had so much fun in the dungeon and became really good friends outside too.  He would come up with suggestions, buy pieces of equipment to use in sessions and birthday/Christmas he was always so very kind and generous.  We started doing little spoof Christmas clips, last year he was My Christmas Tree and the year before a Reindeer.  This year we were discussing what to do and had come up with an idea sadly to never happen.  He will be so greatly missed and was an absolute treasure.

His work was in an area that was very useful so I paid him for some of the bigger jobs/materials that needed to be done.  I would rather give My money to one of My own good qualified bois than a stranger!  He would also willingly lend a hand with odd jobs if required.

I will hold on to so many wonderful fun memories of him, he took part in a couple of the multi slave days on the farm and I know his fet mates will miss him too.

He was in a very happy and loving relationship with this BDSM element/interest missing, that he didn’t wish to impose on his partner for fear of upsetting her and breaking down the relationship.  He had the most utmost respect for his partner and son that to see a professional Mistress that would understand his privacy and respect his home life was the answer to a happy fulfilled life for him.  BDSM is often a big part of a person and it doesn’t go away, the itch needs to be scratched.  Seeing a professional lady is the best option as whilst it will always be a massive shock to the partner to ever possibly find out.  It isn’t an affair, there isn’t the intimacy of sex/kissing etc which would be far worse a shock and sense of any betrayal.

Sadly I won’t be able to attend his funeral and pay my respects to him.  I will remember him on his birthday and raise a toast to him.  I respect his partner and sons grief to not contact her unless she ever wants to get in touch with me in the future.  I thank her from my heart for getting in touch and telling me.  I know he loved them both dearly and was so very proud of his son.  My deepest condolences to his family and other friends.

RIP My dear boi, there isn’t enough superlatives in the world to describe what an amazing person you were.  I hope you’ve found beautiful Melody & Molly and they are curled on your lap purring.

I will carry your memory always, your spirit may visit when ever you wish and please send some good bois my way to get some of the treatments you enjoyed so much.  I won’t lie it’s going to be tough without you!  I can hear you saying don’t cry over me Mistress (but I have) pull your latex socks up and bash some bois.

I will my dear.

Your Dominant and good friend always XXX

 

I hope everyone’s keeping well and if you have got into mischief then do book your self in for some corrective therapy ASAP!  My area is in tier two, this means personal care places, retail etc are allowed to be open.

Come out to play safely again with Covid precautions in place.

I am taking solo sessions in My own premises as well as the double domination sessions mentioned below!

We have a treat in store for you! Double domination sessions with the amazing Lady Amber in Gravesend Kent & Burgess Hill West Sussex (just 20 mins from Gatwick)
The type off sessions are ALL impact play, bondage, extended bondage, leather worship, breath play, boot worship & foot worship, leather cross dressing. For anything not mentioned please include a polite request, pegging & venus2000/relief won’t be included in the doubles & we will be offering the style of play listed in Leather Lady Ambers site, so plenty of BDSM & kinky fun to enjoy.
Due to travel double domme dates will be advertised and pre bookings taken with deposits as well as possible booking being available on the day.
With a long booking enquiry and deposit security we can be available together with 48 hours notice.
Read and follow each of our booking procedures to apply, mine are hyper linked in sessions and tribute pages as well as on blog page.

Well here we are again!

My existing clients that wish to enquire about booking in, may email Me to sort out your future sessions.

I wish to say with heartfelt thanks  how much I have really appreciated the very special loyal clients that have continued supporting Me throughout this very tough year, it was great to see some of you when last lockdown was lifted.  Those who haven’t been able to fly over have sent tributes and we have shared stories throughout these strange times.  I am very generous with those who are loyal and that support Me.

ALL new enquiries will only have their emails replied to with either a £20 bank transfer payment or Amazon Gift code sent in the very first instance to My email of helen-ryder@hotmail.com  NOT to My phone, thank you.  If you send any attachments over at all without payment first and permission, you will be blocked!

This is simply to deter the high volume of time wasters that came along last lockdown.  The payment will cover a 10 min chat on the phone and when you do visit in the future I will take that payment off your tribute when you attend.

If however you have really enjoyed chatting and want to chat more then you will need to pay across for more calls or emails to cover My time.

Unless payment is sent then new emails will be ignored!

 

Bank info, is

sort 20-92-54

Account: 70468665

Name: Ms Rogers

Ref: consultation followed by your initials.  Then email AFTER sending

Meanwhile you can feast away on My mini clips through Adult Work or longer ones on Clips4Sale.

I will ONLY answer My work phone if you have pre paid for a chat or I am logged in to one of the phone chat platforms and you are calling Me through them.

So far since March 2020 SEVEN very flaky unreliable people have got themselves on the TW list and I will NOT be seeing them again.

I wish for My business and success to grow in a positive manner and one of My lovely chaps I refer to as Uncle Stewie said recently, not all business is good business, very wise words indeed!

Stay safe n kinky

 

Get in touch to book/pay any of the aforementioned.

 

Mistress Helen xXx

 

One of My long serving subs has bought a fantastic new toy!

It’s called the Slubb, it has very powerful vibrations, how long can you handle it?!  Book a session and find out!

Who doesn’t love a power tool!

Please note I am seeing both established regulars and new clients for play times with a risk assessment in a phone call and PPE in place. keeping Us safe whilst still having a lot of fun here.

I am a highly skilled multifaceted Domme with a wealth of experience, your boundaries are taken into consideration.  My Fetish interests are vast and listed on this site.  I excel in domestic discipline, EStim play, Pegging and much more.  I also love a good roleplay when it’s called for and certainly do not require or want a script.

I wish I could include photos of the beautiful needle art I did yesterday on the boi who bought this new toy.  I can show you when you attend.

Stay safe n kinky peeps, see some of you soon 😉

Mistress Helen XX

 

 

Ladies and Gentleman  that enjoy CP/Impact play only! (NO other thrills/frills included)

One hour £120

90 mins £150

This rate is purely for enthusiasts of spanking. flogging, cropping, whipping, paddles, hairbrush, tawse, slipper and the cane, no other activity included, sorry no cross dressers that wish to borrow my clothing as this bumps up cleaning/costs, you may bring along your own if you wish.

Straight up spanking fun or incorporated into a roleplay, the wicked step mother, aunt, head teacher, nanny, school bully/prefect or strict demanding boss!

Book your CP now!

 

 

So many lovely shades of lipstick

The funny thing is I am often asked to wear a particular shade of lipstick for a session and yet I haven’t been treated to a lipstick from the client requesting, such a poor show chaps…

Naturally I have great taste and only wear the best in make-up products.

Lips are very erotic, look at them closely as I explain just how I will have you over My knee for a good spanking or strapped down securely on the bench!

Pick a shade and gift Me but do bear in mind I am a blonde so suit the reds, nudes and pinks better than the deep goth and purples!  If you find the choice overwhelming then do ask.  If unable to send one then send the funds and I will order direct.

Sort: 20-92-54 Acc: 70468665 Ms S Rogers Ref: Hermes

https://www.hermes.com/uk/en/category/make-up/lips/#||Category

 

Top tip to avoid lipstick on your teeth ladies, trannies and TGirls

Suck your thumb or some other naughty appendage 😉

 

There are so many lovely things I would love for My birthday on Monday 24th August.

Either send some money via bank transfer

Sort: 20-92-54

Account: 70468665

Ref: Birthday

Name: Rogers

Only send an email after it is sent so I can thank you if you would like a response.

Or Amazon gift code to My email address of helen-ryder@hotmail.com

Mistress Helen xXx

 

 

With the weather being so sublime right now I have decided to offer the Vanilla massage full body treatment of one hour at £65!

This will be in the garden on the patio area, which is a nice shaded secluded spot.  You will be wearing underpants.

Please come freshly showered as there will be no showering/no access into the premises at this offer price (only a downstairs toilet visit) if required.

I will use an unscented liquiwax massage balm which glides beautifully and will not leave your skin at all oily.  You will be able to dress after without any residue going onto your clothes.

Note this is VANILLA massage only! You will leave feeling relaxed, happy and refreshed with any special “happy ending” happening in your own home.

No fetish chit chat as it’s not appropriate outside.