Availability

Ladies and Gentleman  that enjoy CP/Impact play only! (NO other thrills/frills included)

One hour £120

90 mins £150

This rate is purely for enthusiasts of spanking. flogging, cropping, whipping, paddles, hairbrush, tawse, slipper and the cane, no other activity included, no cross dressers that wish to borrow my clothing as this bumps up cleaning/costs.

Book your CP now!

 

 

In the first instance write an email to Me, keep it to 2 paragraphs max, include the following, your age, any medical conditions, any allergies or past trauma that might affect a session.

Include the dates/times you can commit within My timings on My website.  Include your mobile number in full or last four digits and I will reply with suggested times to call for a brief chat.

Ensure you have read the blog Back to Work Plans regarding Covid19 and about paying a deposit, which is linked on the tribute page.

Pay either the bank transfer deposit (preferred) or Amazon gift code sent to My Mistress email (once I’ve agreed this and the amount)

When you have your play time booked in and deposit securing it we can then chat at greater length if desired and look forward to the time set aside in My diary of deviant delights.

Note: I usually only answer My phone when expecting a call, if I answer without your intro email in place I will not be answering questions and will ask you to email.

ALL New clients to book 24 hours ahead, NO exceptions!

 

 

I have just had the most delightful hour and a bit with a super new spankee who will be coming for play times when we can get back to the hands on really fun side of the business.

Social rates for a cuppa and a good chat in My garden are available from today as per guidelines https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/coronavirus-outbreak-faqs-what-you-can-and-cant-do/coronavirus-outbreak-faqs-what-you-can-and-cant-do

It’s a great way to stay in touch, share stories and plot and plan the near future sessions and filming slaves.  Also a super way to continue to support Me as well as spending time together.

The fee is £80 and provided you book for a real time session within 3 months £20 will come off your session tribute.

Looking forward to seeing you soon

Mistress Helen xXx

 

I am planning to see selected clients from Monday 29th June.  Please contact Me via email in the first instance to discuss a date to session.

There will be a few restricted activities (see rest of blog) however with my vast repertoire of interests there will still be plenty of fun and excitement to be enjoyed.  I have an air purifier in My play space too!

 

  •  I will only be conducting SOLO sessions in My OWN premises, NO hotel visits, NO other dungeons!  I will only offer 2 sessions per day to allow for cleaning and airing of premises.  I expect to actually only have ONE visitor a day to start with so may be a bit more flexi on timings.

 

  • The appointment time will be from 10am, this ensures I have the morning to sanitise ALL areas before you visit and am set up to receive you.

 

  • We both need to be presenting as fit and healthy on the day, your payment paid 24 hours ahead by bank transfer and cash ONLY in exceptional circumstances!  I do not give refunds.  If you need to cancel at really short notice with a genuine reason then we simply reschedule for ONE  new date/time.  Money will only be rolled to one new date.

 

  • On arrival, you will either be wearing your own mask (clean/fresh/new) I will give you a thermo scan and you will change for one of My masks immediately if required, go to the bathroom and remove all your clothing and place inside a container provided.  Pop your mask on top of the bag to one side. Shower thoroughly with hair included.  Dry off and wear the mask again throughout your session.

 

  • No hugs, pecks on cheek or kissing of My hand for safety reasons please.  It’s best to kiss My foot/Shoe 😉
  • Certain activities will be unavailable, such as: Spitting, wearing of My masks (leather/gas masks, please consider bringing your own to wear over a surgical face mask) No drinking of watersports No full face sissy make-up application other activities omitted are: face sitting, close whispering in your ear and birdy feeding.  I will risk assess every session.  Think and be sensible about what interests we include in your play times.  There isn’t a way to administer poppers with Us wearing masks!  Some have asked for poppers to be dabbed on the mask but this is not possible as will prevent mask from doing it’s job AND I will be exposed to them. 
  • Vanilla massages will NOT be currently offered inside due to the added work and costs of extra equipment I will be providing in anyone entering the house.  You can book a same day vanilla massage if weather is dry & warm and have it on the patio area, which is secluded.

At the end of your session, you can have a few moments to adjust with a glass of water or socially distant cuppa.  You may dress again in the bathroom and head off.

  • I will carry out a very deep clean after washing everything down with hot soapy water with hospital grade cleaners such as Selgiene Ultra & Varsen, Barbicide and the like.  Towels will be washed in Dettol laundry care and detergent on a high temperature.  Everything from light switches, taps, hand rails as well as kit used in the session will all be completely sanitised.  Lower footfall here and less risk than attending the pub/supermarket etc.

These rules above are not for breaking I will only be seeing those who respect this, thank you.

Stay safe n kinky
Mistress Helen xXx

I am available right up to 31st January and then I am jetting off on holiday somewhere hot and tropical 🙂

On My return I will take a couple of days to recover from travel and be offering play times from 18th Feb

During the above dates My work phone will be left in the UK and emails will be replied to if/when I am able to or on My return on 16th/17th Feb.

If you have been lurking in the shadows wanting to come and play then do so ASAP! It’s best to book a play time into My book of fun before I go away!

For those that attend regularly, you will know that I add all sorts of kinky toys back into My playrooms and this year I would love to add some more London Tanners implements to My collection.  I also want to purchase some more hardcore steel CBT equipment with internal spikes and suchlike.  All the more to make My bois squirm 😉 If you happen to see a new shiny that you think you would enjoy and would like to gift to Me then bring it along with you!

I want! https://www.thelondontanners.com/shop/french-martinet/

and a few others too, CP strap Lochgelly Tawse etc, email to ask Me.

I am planning to do some photo shoots to give My website an overhaul with up to date images on the homepage and scrolling bar, watch this space over the coming months.

For those who wish to continue to support Me financially whilst I’m away and not making money here is the bank info: Sort: 20-92-54 Account number:  70468665, Name: Ms Rogers, paying in ref: Holiday fund.

Don’t forget I have a profile on Adult Work, My private gallery and mini clips have plenty to see so do go along and check them out!  https://www.adultwork.com/1248241

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen

 

 

 

It’s been a fantastic whirlwind months of sessions, socialising, double domme with My amazing bestie Miss Kitty Bliss, we had such a scream with our boi and gurl toys together and carried out quite a sissy make over on our evening booking, who travelled over from Ireland, landing at Gatwick and getting the train to Burgess Hill (easy journey he says) he is also a repeat visitor.  i have a few chaps who travel from abroad for sessions, yet over the years EVERY enq from Chichester West Sussex has rang asking questions and then states Burgess Hill is too far! Laughing My head off!

Other news: I’ve also been settling in a new kitten (whom has recently broken her leg) will come back to this!

Attending the Femdom Ball 2019 with My collared maid and slave, modelling for the fabulous House of Harlot and finally looking at the pics and saving them to post here for you all to enjoy.  This event is something I greatly look forward to each year, meeting up with Mistress friends and meeting other ladies from afar.

I am very fortunate to have My own fully equipped premises at home, this enables Me to offer sessions at rates the average person can afford.  The ambiance here is amazing and every possible luxury is included, My premises are not a vast giant dungeon space, hence My fees reflect this and it’s not to undercut anyone else  Obviously if I were hiring dungeons then My fees would also reflect hire charges and travel. I can at certain times of the year also put on little offers like any other business.  It doesn’t devalue My status as a Professional Dominatrix and I do it to suit Me.

If all is well I will be away in Yorkshire for a few days from 23rd to 26th December and then back here, this depends on My little lady and the care she will require ongoing until her leg mends.

Back to working from home/kitten, so My eyes were off her for 10 mins and I walked in to find her with her leg at a raised angle and crying, thankful to have Miss Kitty Bliss with Me that day so emergency dash to vets and she was examined, kept in for observation and pain relief.  They wanted to X-ray but had to schedule her for the next day as had other even more serious emergency surgery in.  A very sleepless night and the next morning I took her for X-rays, diagnosed with a broken Femur right near her growth plate that it would require pinning by a specialist orthopaedic surgeon in Hove the very next day.

My little kitty has had her op and will have to have another to remove the pins as otherwise it will effect her growth (poor sweetheart) now thankfully being a responsible pet mummy I have her on the Vets VIP plan as well as insured so a lot of the expense will be reimbursed in a few weeks.  The excess on the policy is about £150 and also 20% of ALL treatment.  I’ve also had to purchase dog crates and others bits and bobs to aid her recovery.  So far it’s totted up to just under £3K with the vets and bits n bobs around £120.  She also has to have physio appointments at £75 a pop in Worthing, so more expense, fuel/travel/time. The excess/fees will still be in the hundreds.

The reason I’m stating the above is that it’s still a massive dent to the pocket, rather than any perfume/Gin/gift presents I would be so appreciative of donations to her surgery and ongoing physiotherapy.   Thank you in advance to those who would love to help support a good cause.  I think it’s far more important than some others wanting silly loub shoes, furs (fur belongs on the animal) jewels, handbags etc  I am often asked how you can support Me and show appreciation for the wonderful play I provide, so this is it.

Also if you have been thinking of booking in for play, don’t wait! I am available for session in real time and phone chats and you can support Me with purchases of mini movie clips and photos from My Adult Work profile too.  If you just wish to donate then please email Me for My bank account info. https://www.adultwork.com/1248241

I wish you all a very Merry Christmas and I’m sure I will be blogging again in a week or two with updates.

Check out My Twitter for all latest updates and news on a daily/weekly basis https://twitter.com/MsHelenRyder

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen Ryder

I am currently away at BDSM Villa in Malaga from 5th June to 10th June inclusive and I am available for sessions from 11th June in West Sussex in my privately owned fully equipped play spaces. Emails will be checked periodically and my phone will be switched back on in the evening of 10th June. I look forward to seeing all my favourite kinksters and meeting new ones on my return.

Wicked thoughts
Mistress Helen

I have one play time available Monday 1st April from 4:30pm and two during the day time on Tuesday 2nd.

I will then be away on 3rd April through to 8th April inclusive in Yorkshire, whilst I am visiting Yorkshire I will be meeting up with Miss V https://twitter.com/yorksmistressv

This is with a view to offer both solo and domination domination seasons in the future when I am visiting the area.  I also plan to meet up with some other Yorkshire Mistress’s to work with.

I am available for play times in Sussex in My superb well equipped play rooms from 9th April, emails will be checked daily whilst away and deposits for new clients and long sessions as per usual methods will be possible to secure your fun on My return.

See you soon

Mistress Helen XX