There are so many lovely things I would love for My birthday on Monday 24th August.
Either send some money via bank transfer
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Only send an email after it is sent so I can thank you if you would like a response.
Or Amazon gift code to My email address of helen-ryder@hotmail.com
Mistress Helen xXx
Do you strive to serve your Mistress better and learn a new skill?
I used to run work shops at Club Artemis on their Sunday gatherings with massage, pedicures and manicures and it was very popular. The bois loved learning how to carry out a treatment for their dominant to a high standard and derived pleasure from doing so.
I will be running 121 work shops from my premises from Monday 10th August 2020 with PPE in place to keep us all safe.
If you wish to bring along your dominant then you are welcome to do so if not I will need some notice to arrange a model for you to carry out the treatment/procedures under my direct instructions after watching a demonstration and will provide guidance all the way.
Workshops are £125 with guidance notes emailed to you for future reference, each workshop will consist of around two hours and if you require more guidance/extra tuition I will tailor the workshop price to your requirements.
I provide all the information you will need for purchases of good quality products, equipment and suppliers.
You will have the skills to carry out your chosen procedure to a professional level with confidence and not have to constantly pester your Mistress with questions (disturbing her pampering and relaxation)
By giving your best attention to detail you will be in your Mistress’s good books and might be lucky to receive some reward or at least some recognition for your efforts!
If you require a re-fresher work shop within 3 months of attending your first chosen subject a £10 reduction will be given.
Come and learn as new skill and serve your dominant well!
Mistress Helen
A wonderful little script written by B for Our delicious phone chat, booked in advance privately
Enjoy! Perhaps you might like Me to read it to you, email to book and pay for a call.
I have just had the most delightful hour and a bit with a super new spankee who will be coming for play times when we can get back to the hands on really fun side of the business.
Social rates for a cuppa and a good chat in My garden are available from today as per guidelines https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/coronavirus-outbreak-faqs-what-you-can-and-cant-do/coronavirus-outbreak-faqs-what-you-can-and-cant-do
It’s a great way to stay in touch, share stories and plot and plan the near future sessions and filming slaves. Also a super way to continue to support Me as well as spending time together.
The fee is £80 and provided you book for a real time session within 3 months £20 will come off your session tribute.
Looking forward to seeing you soon
Mistress Helen xXx
I am planning to see selected clients from Monday 29th June. Please contact Me via email in the first instance to discuss a date to session.
There will be a few restricted activities (see rest of blog) however with my vast repertoire of interests there will still be plenty of fun and excitement to be enjoyed. I have an air purifier in My play space too!
At the end of your session, you can have a few moments to adjust with a glass of water or socially distant cuppa.
These rules above are not for breaking I will only be seeing those who respect this, thank you.
Hi all
I’ve been filming clips over quite some time in order to launch onto one of the clip sites and at long last with some help from My fantastic Webslave I am now live on https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/152221/mistress-helen-ryder
I already have short mini clips on My Adult Work profile, which have proved to be quite popular.
Once lockdown is over and that I am able to do sessions again, there will be opportunities for filming days either with Me solo or in doubles with Miss Kitty Bliss. I have plenty of sissy style clips in My library so I’m looking for slaves interested in hard CP, CBT, Pallet Wrapping and anything a little more diverse than what I already have.
We always take a tribute for filming and you have to provide your id and sign a model release, you can wear a mask.
I’ve had a couple of chaps asking how they can help Me right now as I have very little income coming in to live on at present.
Book a phone chat direct with Me with a bank transfer payment to My account or Amazon GC if you can’t use your account.
Or go through the AW or Dommeline when I am logged in available.
Pay for a custom clip and if it can be filmed now then you can have it or receive it when I am able to shoot the content depending on the nature of the request.
Pay a deposit now for a future session or in full if you wish.
If you can afford to send money gifts to My account to keep Me afloat.
Stay sane, stay safe, stay the feck indoors other than essential food or medicine supplies or sensible daily exercise. I’ve only just started walking and did 4 miles today. I had been busy with DIY etc and decided to make the best of the lovely weather.
Mistress Helen xXx
This writing is from My Yoga teacher, she had a bout of mental health and was in hospital she knows first hand the best way to tackle it head on! Sharing for her.
10 TEN TIPS TO STAYING SANE WRITTEN BY A MAD WOMAN!! 
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If anyone is struggling with self isolation or being at home for long periods of time, I have a some tips that maybe helpful (these were my survival methods of staying upbeat & healthy during my long stays at Langley Green Mental Hospital).
1) Routine can help as it can help focus the mind and get help with the over thinking and ruminating.
2) Set your alarm quite early 7am or 8am even if you sit in bed with a cup of tea and read a book. Reading really helps stimulate the mind and stops the mind dipping into the dark thoughts of worry, stress and fear of the unknown. Pick books that you can really lose yourself in which helps fire up your natural creative imagination or find a subject that you’re really interested in. Read about your chosen subject this will occupy and nourish the brain and helps self educate. (I always choose funny books that made me laugh, books that empowered me and my chosen subject to learn about was the working of mind & the human psyche; which was quite apt when in a mental hospital) ))
2) Always shower in the morning put colourful smart clothes on, this again helps lift the mood. (I was a very snappy dressed mental patient when I was In Langley Hospital ). I would get my husband to bring all my nice clothes up and look smart everyday. I noticed a lot of the patience would shuffle around in either their Pjs, dressing gowns or tracksuits, which certain doesn’t help an already low mood. Looking smart just helped me feel normal and in control of the situation even though I knew I wasn’t.
3) Ladies even if you know your not going out put a little make up on as it can help you feel a little bit more positive about your own self image.
4) Exercise everyday 30-60 minutes, even if you don’t want to do make yourself do it. Exercise is essential for mental health it’s a natural release of feel good happy endorphins.
5) Everyday spend some time outside and look at the beauty all around you, even if just happens to be the sky.
6) Say a mantra over & over everyday, mantra literally means free the mind. This is my mantra that I said every day while in the mental hospital and for years after. I would say it over & over & over again until I grew a new brain neutron of self belief – I am full of Gods LOVE, HAPPINESS, STRENGTH, COURAGE, WISDOM & GRACE. This mantra has truly made me stronger and when ever I feel overwhelmed I just keep reciting it.
7) Learn to meditate – how ever busy the mind is, over time and with patience of sitting still and quiet you can learn to calm the mind so you become the master of your busy brains and it is possible to learn to sail your mind and direct it to other ways of thinking. Some days in my tiny little hospital bedroom with barred windows I would sit upright, close my eyes and just be still. Eventually over time I was able to stop the obsessive chitta chatter of my destructive mind and in the end my mind gave in and I found a beautiful, colourful and peaceful place that I didn’t even know existed with in my conscience and it’s accessible to everyone it just takes patience.
8) Let your creative juices flo, painting, writing, cooking, learn a language etc. Switch the dark thoughts off with a creative hobby and don’t worry if you not very good at it, far more healthy than saying I can’t be bothered or giving up.
9) Try to keep your minds calm and healthy with lots of positive stuff use these strange times to widen your mind and self educate, try not to rely on the TV to it for you, grow your mind it’s totally amazing when you do.
10) Put your favourite music on and Dance whether it’s in the kitchen, in the lounge or in the garden – just dance and sing out loud.
Namaste xx
Be VERY aware that I am self employed and a genuine tax payer! I am currently being hit hard by the Coid-19 virus on My income at present! However when the worlds back to normal I will be VERY busy again!
With lock down now in-force I am NOT conducting in the flesh sessions.
How can you serve and Me and have your Mistress Helen fix? Phone sessions £2.00 a min to discuss kinks/BDSM We can chat in greater detail about future sessions, role-play over the phone (those who’ve visited know I’m rather good at this)
Email exchange to discuss a fantasy in greater detail, 3 email exchange £30
To the wonderful boys that have supported Me this year and especially in the last couple of weeks, heartfelt thanks and you are real diamonds! Thank you!! I welcome staying in touch with the decent kind genuine bois who have been helping Me.
I welcome enqs that ONLY lead to My time being compensated.
For those who seek My time in sessions then ONLY contact Me if you will be paying a deposit for a future session. Or send money gifts and Amazon gift vouchers. It is pointless asking if I am able to see you in one or two days/weeks as we all have to take each day as it comes.
Look after Me now and support Me and you will be rewarded later! There will be a boom in sessions when the world is back on its rails, priority will be given to those who have stuck by Me or introduced themselves in a useful way!
Those with much time to spare and less stress are most likely still receiving a good wage and working from home and sliding off for a quiet hand shandy in works time. Do this at your own expense from your salary and support the ladies who offer these services.
Times like this bring out both the very best in people and sadly the worse! When I’m not busy doing DIY, paid chats I will be undertaking volunteer work for the NHS. My time is best spent in a positive productive manner without the negatives.
No intention to book anything, spend any money/simply a time waster: I certainly do not suffer fools gladly! Don’t be that cockroach! My blogs/website/email and phone all have a software Karma spell on them, you’ve been warned! )O( BB
Stay healthy and well
Mistress Helen XxX
For those who wish to session from afar you can either sign up to Adult Work or use Dommeline, where I have profiles.
However if it is more discreet for you to send Me a bank transfer or Amazon gift code to:
£20 min booking for 10 mins helen-ryder@hotmil.com then I will happily accept that.
My rates are £2 a min, with min of £20 chat if booking direct. We can arrange a mutually convenient time to speak.
Payment must be sent from My one email reply, further emails asking questions such as “how does phone chat work” will be ignored and simply seen as a time waster tactic! We arrange a mutually convenient time for you to call My mobile after you have paid.
Kinky chats, BDSM sessions or simply discussing a future session in more detail are welcome.
I am not currently offering cam sessions.
I also offer email correspondence, 3 email exchange at £35.00 extra emails are £10 each.
Payment to:
Ms S Rogers
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EMAIL Me to arrange
For those who are in vulnerable groups or simply wanting to give your immune system a boost to fight off infections the following can all assist.
Get enough sleep
Drink more water
Eat well
Take a multi vitamin and mineral supplement, note that smoking and alcohol rob you of Vitamin C, which we do not store
Use Immune boost essential oils, couple of drops on a tissue when out and about or use an aroma diffuser when at home or maybe at the office. Lots of different styles to suit your decor. Put both into an Amazon/general internet search or email Me and I will give you the links
Good ESSENTIAL Oil brands available from Amazon : Absolute Aromas and Tisserand, some essential oils are toxic to pets (either use in a room away from them or stick to Lavender which is a safe one)
Take time to relax, unwind and de-stress. Stress greatly effects Our immune systems. A massage, walk in the country, some Yoga or visit your favourite Dominatrix :great de-stresser)
I am doing all the above (giving Domination though, not receiving haha) in My personal efforts to try stay healthy! I am conducting real time and online sessions such as phone chats and web cam.
Stay safe and wash those hands more!
Mistress Helen X
P.S Click on the phone pic below to go straight to My Dommeline profile, if the pic/text is green I am logged in for calls and if red I’m logged out of calls.