04Aug 2018

First of all if you haven’t heard already I am so very sorry to be the bearer of very sad news!

I received some shocking news yesterday from my dear friend Miss Kitty Bliss who had seen a tweet go out from a mutual friend and very dear friend of Mistress Dometria’s the lovely Domina V.  I couldn’t believe it as only the day before she was out enjoying life and shopping having fun and with so much to look forward to.  So many plans in motion and it’s just horrible news!

I have had my friend Joanna Armstrong staying over the last week, popping off to do photo shoots and some double domme work.  Both moi and Miss Kitty Bliss had new photos taken.  It was nice to have the company last night and we raised a glass to Mistress Dometria, seeing all the messages on Twitter and mutual friends getting in touch, there wasn’t a dry eye in the house.

Mistress Dometria is a true legend and not just as a Dominatrix, as others have mentioned she was very much part of the tattoo industry as well as body building.  She touched many hearts and there will be a massive gap in the various industries she was very much part of and so many peoples lives without her.  A much loved larger than life character who will be very greatly missed.

I feel for her family, close friends, devotees and all that knew her, sending much love and strength to you all.

RIP dearest lady and please smile down on all our silly antics, you won’t ever be forgotten.

14Jul 2018

First of all it’s NOT forced bi at all is it, because you want to do it! 🙂 In your head you do, you crave the thought of being made to suck cock by a Mistress, because it then becomes guilt free and that’s perfectly ok.

In MY ten years experience of “Professional Domination”  I’ve not had one genuine booking follow through from a new client asking for forced bi, despite having someone I could work with both in male mode or trans.  I’ve gone to the effort of booking in, contacting My friend and then for the person to never commit or pay the deposit for My friends long distance travel.

However My regular clients that do come along and quite often they have been new to the world of BDSM, they have started off with some light bondage, tie and tease or alternate massage and then many visits down the line they have booked, turned up and tried out a double domination booking with My fantastic friend Tiffany Aching a lovely TGirl or another male friend.

I’ve decided that FB is only ever going to be available for those who have come for sessions here with ME.  The loyal cock hungry whores will be the ones that can come for “forced bi” (coughs)

Anyone ringing up and asking for FB will be told to book Me solo first.  Come and prove yourself!

My gorgeous friend Tiffany is available for the genuine slaves/kinksters whom I’ve had the pleasure of a session with.

20Jun 2018


I have a couple of rescue cats that I love dearly and one has just had vaccinations today and a health check and I’ve been informed that dental treatment is required under a general for a full scale/polish and maybe an extraction or two (poor puss)

Monetary donations for treatment would be greatly appreciated, either to Me or direct to My vets (email for info)

The other who just had a 12th birthday also had a 6 month health check up and has gone from 7kg in Dec, 6.3kg March and now 5.3kg so puss needs full blood screening to check for thyroid, heart disease etc in case puss has to go on meds.  It’s great that she has lost weight as she was overweight when I homed her but it’s a lot for a cat to lose in small time frame!  The insurance plan does not cover routine type treatments such as this.

UPDATE: I’ve just popped in to the vets to settle my small bill for today and both sets of treatment above will come to just under £700.  I’m booking the boy in for dental work for next month in order to get him on a course of Zylkene capsules first.  Please give generously.

Further Update: One is booked in for full blood tests 28th June, and other puss has operation booked for 23rd July (no sessions available that day)  Plenty of time to raise funds for July bill of approx £486.23 it could be more when the vet is able to fully examine his mouth but this is the goal I aim to raise.

Bank donations as per account details on My website, please ensure you put cat donation as a reference.  A phone call a day after you have done so or an email so that I can personally say thank you.

Thank you so much from Mistress Helen and the kitties XxX

18Jun 2018

Hello all slaves/subs/Kinsters/Sissy’s and all

My lovely mystery holiday treat was superb and it was lovely being spoilt and treated like a Queen whilst away.  Beautiful scenery, some super adventures, lovely company and delicious food/drink.

I’m back at My base fighting fit and starting to get busy in sessions later this week and next.  I do have space so if you have been thinking of booking, get in touch!  Many of you may be aware that I have a fantastic new bondage chair to tie you to, so much teasing and torment and this was a wonderful gift from Madame C that one of her dear slaves dropped off a few days before I went away.

See you soon My dear play things……

Mistress Helen Xx

01Jun 2018

I am away between 6th to 16th June inclusive

Book now for sessions available before I go and right up to/on 5th June

and then from Monday 18th June for BDSM sessions, book your play time ASAP I will periodically check My emails whilst away BUT I am leaving the work phone back in the UK.

From domestic discipline sessions for all levels of CP to medical play and everything in between that I have listed on My website!

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19May 2018

I’m making the most of a weekend visit to Leeds next bank holiday and holding double domination sessions with Mistress Firefly in her private well equipped playroom in Leeds on Sunday 27th during the day.

Contact Mistress Firefly to book, play times are limited so ensure you book now!

One hour double domme is £200 for the pleasure of TWO feisty blonde Mistress’s lucky you!



18May 2018

I am away between 6th to 16th June inclusive

Book now for sessions available before I go and right up to/on 5th June

and then from Monday 18th June

05May 2018

Good morning everyone

A reminder that I am fully booked tomorrow on Sunday 6th May as per My tweets on Twitter!

I have ONE space available TODAY Sat 5th May from 2:00pm

I am travelling to West Yorkshire on Monday 7th and travelling back on Sunday 13th May, sessions in West Sussex are from 14th May.

Thank you to some amazing chaps who visited this week and especially to Rodda Slava a cherished slave who came to Me for sessions over 3 years ago now.  Making regular visits for professional services as well as being a fab friend and errand boi.  He had two sessions this week, one being collecting Me from Sussex and driving Me to the Hoxton Dungeon Suite for a multi Mistress party.  Returning Me to Sussex, staying over in the bondage room and heading off for Mistress and personal errands the next day and then returning to Me for a double domme session with Miss Kitty Bliss and then taking us both out to dinner.  He went on his merry way with a multitude of stripes, welts and all manner of colourful badges on his bottom, thighs and some very sore nipples.  I’m not known as the smiling sadist for nothing!  Note: newbs and lightweights I do take limits into consideration so rest assured it’s SSC here.

If I don’t see you then have a great “bonk holiday weekend all”

Mistress Helen XX

16Apr 2018

How time flies, it’s already a week today since I returned from My fantastic time “Up North” where I was a guest Mistress along with the luscious Madame Caramel at The Sissy Retreat.  Lots of fun frolics and sorting out cheeky sissy gurls!  I am very pleased to announce that Mistress Firefly and Miss Joanne Armstrong have asked Me to join the team on a more permanent basis.  Keep your eyes peeled on   for all the future event dates.  It’s the perfect privately owned place to explore your sissy side, come and be made expertly up, fully dressed, socialise, play fun games, have a delicious high tea and enjoy some play time in the well equipped play room.

On Monday 30th April I will be joining My London Mistress friends  in Hoxton.  Details as per Twitter:  Get booking for a bucket load of bum fun. Strapon, fisting, forced bi. 30th April. 3-6 and 7-10pm at Hoxton Dungeon Suite. Limited places available. Me and £150 per party or £270 for both. Email  There will also be CP and foot worship sessions amongst other BDSM activities!

Then 1st  May and 2nd May I have the lovely Miss Kitty Bliss coming to West Sussex to play in My play space for all manner of kink, come and explore this dynamic domination duo, bookings through Me, so email or call to arrange your double domination fun.

9th May I’m back at The Sissy Retreat, click on the link as per first paragraph for more details and to book your place.

Amongst ALL the above dates I will be available for sessions in MY private fully equipped & owned by Me play rooms, one white medical room for gender reassignment/make over role plays and medical play.  Also I have My mini dungeon room with bondage bed, spanking bench and ALL manner of kit at My disposal for our mutual enjoyment!

Some of you have had the pleasure of meeting My assistant Miss Katie Wynters, I am keeping her details on My website but please note she is less readily available due to moving away from Burgess Hill and now working full time.  We are going to see how bookings work out with her travel and other commitments.



12Mar 2018

Hello slaves/subs/kinksters/sissies and all

Some of you may have noticed I no longer have My Twitter linked to My website, My webslave took it down the other day as new laws are coming into effect re having to age verify with a credit card on adult sites, which many people will not want to do!

By removing any videos/images linked to this site through blogs, Twitter etc this enables My site to still be viewed as it will be considered safe and lawful to do so.

This is also a reason I have always refused to engage in ANY detail via email about what may/may not happen in a session.  Anyone can hide behind a keyboard and I don’t want to be chatting with someone under age!

For those who know Me and want to have a look on Twitter, ask Me My Twitter name or do a search and then you can see My latest pics and news etc.  I am going to be posting less images that show any detail of play in the future so many will have a big smiley face or some amusing image to cover up what’s really going on!  The only way you will find out what happens in My playrooms is to come and PLAY!  Fun times…………