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19Apr 2019

Two very strict ladies teaming up for “STRICTLY DISCIPLINE” sessions on 17th June in Kent at Lady Amber’s chambers and then 18th June in Burgess Hill at My premises.

TWO days of very red hot bottoms!  I am looking forward to this immensely

** Note this is CP, Spanking, Caning, Tawse, Flogging, all “Impact Play”

Good boys may be given permission to worship leather respectfully if agreed!

Will there be “Happy Endings” Hmmmm yes when you depart from our wonderful company, take it away with you boys.  Lady Amber is a non sexual Mistress and any relief is on your own time NOT ours.

We find CP enthusiasts are not looking for a H/E and the endorphins released in CP sessions leaves you on a happy high.

**Note to My boys, I will be administering My usual skills with My wonderful gadgets/machinery outside of the above events as I see fit!

Double Domination with Lady Amber

 

14Apr 2019

I will be teaming up with my evil lil sis Miss Kitty Bliss for double domination in Burgess Hill West Sussex on the above dates.  We love ALL manner of BDSM play and kink, from hard strict severe CP to roleplay and medical roleplay scenarios, each session unique and bespoke to your particular interests.  See My sessions tab for FULL list of interests.

Here is a link to visit Miss Kitty Bliss own website https://www.misskittybliss.co.uk/ 

Located in Burgess Hill just 20 mins from Brighton as well as Gatwick, free parking, local train station, it’s a great venue that’s easy to plan your journey.

Concise courteous emails to Me, Mistress Helen Ryder helen-ryder@hotmail.com followed up with a polite call from your mobile phone.  Lets discuss what mischief, fun and games we can make!

Double Domination with Miss Kitty Bliss in May

14Apr 2019

On the above date I will be teaming up with the gorgeous Mistress Helena for play times between 11am to 4pm.   To book your fun & games send all polite respectful enqs  to 07557 516183 and visit the website for details of services that We enjoy!  http://www.manchestermistresshelena.co.uk/

Two Alpha females who will take full control of your mind and body, from CP, Pegging, Spanking, Humiliation, full cross dress service, Prison cells, Confinement/Lock down and much more! Sadistic and twisted as well as sensual teasing domination, your limits respected.

 

31Mar 2019

I have one play time available Monday 1st April from 4:30pm and two during the day time on Tuesday 2nd.

I will then be away on 3rd April through to 8th April inclusive in Yorkshire, whilst I am visiting Yorkshire I will be meeting up with Miss V https://twitter.com/yorksmistressv

This is with a view to offer both solo and domination domination seasons in the future when I am visiting the area.  I also plan to meet up with some other Yorkshire Mistress’s to work with.

I am available for play times in Sussex in My superb well equipped play rooms from 9th April, emails will be checked daily whilst away and deposits for new clients and long sessions as per usual methods will be possible to secure your fun on My return.

See you soon

Mistress Helen XX

 

 

03Feb 2019

My suitcase is packed, My last availability to come & play is tomorrow 4th Feb from 5pm up to 8pm finish or 5th Feb at 12 midday or from 4pm to 6pm finish. I return on 17th and My phone will be back on for calls on 18th Feb and then I’m back to sessions on 19th Feb 🏖️🍾☀️

Book in ASAP if you desire a session very soon as otherwise it’s from 19th Feb.  I will be checking emails over couple of days whilst away where it is possible to do so.

27th/28th March is the next double domme day with Miss Kitty Bliss, this is TWO very experienced Mistress’s dominating you!  We had a great couple of days teaming up on the Sussex and London boys.  We will also be attending Club Pedestal again as we had such a great time there last week.

My assistant Miss Ruby Vixen came along on one of the double domme days to participate in some smothering and trampling play, she took to it like a Duck to water and is looking forward to joining in on more play times! Miss RV is mainly a voyeur assistant with emphasis on assisting with light play as the above or spanking.  She will not be doing strap-on play for pegging or caning and more extreme BDSM activities.  Miss Kitty Bliss works with Me several times through the year and can come along by special arrangement for the harder BDSM play.

I also have My dear TS friend Miss Joanne Armstrong, a mature TS who is very playful as well as strict, she visits Sussex usually once a month and we often collaborate on make-over photo shoots as well as TS/Double domme.  I fondly refer to Jo as big sis and Miss Kitty Bliss as little sis.  I am not looking for any further assistants as the people I work with are very reliable and have the same ethos and ethics as Me! 😍

However I am happy to work with other established ladies who have their own website and ethics.

I will be tweeting on occasions whilst I am away so do keep your eyes on My Twitter stream.

Kinky wishes

Mistress Helen 👌🤗❤️

24Jan 2019

I took ownership of a lovely new CBT Pillory yesterday, lovingly made by one of My special bois.  Naturally it needed to be road tested so as soon as it was installed in the dungeon I ordered slave to strip and then I took control of his balls slipping them into place and his cock following through.  Tied down tightly by his balls to an attachment, wrists and ankles cuffed in sturdy leather cuffs attached to the pillory and that’s when the fun began!

Attaching EStim pads to his erect cock and one on his sac area, cranking up the electrics that he was doubling over and shrieking to My amusement.  Then out came the magic wand for some teasing, alternating between pain and pleasure.  EStim is very versatile as it can be used on a low setting for a super sexy stimulation time or I can be a real bitch and crank it up and enjoy being sadistic.  Not to worry Mistress is always aware of each individuals personal boundaries and can read each slave like a book.

Well the Pillory was truly baptized and is a great new addition to My dungeon! Book a session if you fancy some CBT or come along for all My other delightful strict, sometimes very sensual domination.

I am always adding to My kit, investing back into My kinky business with the best toys and essentials. I never run out of lube in My dungeon (thank Goddess hahaha)I’m  highly organised and very passionate in this wonderful chosen industry.

Yesterday after the CBT Pillory was used and My boi had left. I did a deep clean of My dungeon, a stock take and restock in the clinic of needles, sterile lube for sounds, checking I have enough Perasafe and Selgiene Ultra for hospital grade cleaning as well as Clinell wipes etc a jolly good tidy up and some new organisation.

I have a super busy weekend of long extended sessions so it’s either tomorrow (Friday 25th day time) or from Tuesday 29th Jan that I can see anyone else.

Due to a cancellation there is space for a playtime with Miss Kitty Bliss and Myself on 31st and 1st Feb.  Don’t put off that double domme fantasy any longer, come and live it!

I am no longer associated with The Sissy Retreat and will continue doing My own thing in regards sissies and maids in Burgess Hill, just as I have previously over the last ten years  It’s not feasible to turn work away & plan My life around an event that doesn’t happen.

See you soon slaves, subs, sissies and kinksters

Mistress Helen xXx

 

08Jan 2019

My gorgeous friend Miss Ruby Vixen has had an interest in BDSM for a while, she sells some of her hot used heels on a website already and loves to tease and torment men that she is now taking it to the next level.  Miss RV will be coming along on request to sessions as a voyeur as well as assisting with spankings, wearing a strap-on for spit roasting and general assisting.  Very useful to have an extra pair of tormenting hands to turn the electrics up in the dungeon!  She is really looking forward to coming along and watching you writhe, wriggle and moan whilst we do delightfully wicked evil things to you!

It’s just an extra £50 for the first hour she joins a session and then £40 every hour thereafter.  Deposits will apply due to her travel to Burgess Hill.  There will not be solo sessions with Miss RV and certainly no sexual services so do not make a complete pillock of yourself by asking!

Miss Ruby Vixen is available with advance notice and usually Thursday’s

Miss Ruby Vixen

Miss Ruby Vixen

07Jan 2019

Good news that I have had My operation and both lens replaced in eyes and I am healing well.  I am actually back in sessions today onwards with My regulars and seeing new play mates from Friday 11th Jan when back in full glamour mode of wearing make-up.  If you are new and want to come play before Friday just be aware I will be the kinky strict girl next door look!

Up and coming events are 12th Femdom Tea Party

25th Queen Bee’s with the gorgeous Miss Kim in London

31st Jan Miss Kitty Bliss here for sessions and Pedestal that night so we are pondering on if to go along for a few hours.

1st Feb Miss Kitty Bliss here for doubles from 12 midday as we will need some sleep if we attend Pedestal.

I’m teaming up with Joanna Armstrong for The Burgess Hill Sissy Academy Days, make-overs/photos and play at various dates throughout the year and also by special request.

One of My friends is very interested in coming to assist and be a voyeur on sessions, some extra pocket money for her and lots of fun.  She is 28, slim, totally gorgeous and a lovely lady, watch this space for an announcement!

I have one place available for Malaga, send an email if you would love to come and have lots of fun in the sun.  It’s more reasonable for the 3 nights fully inclusive bed/board/food that you would have thought with a tribute to Moi and your flight on top for you to book/pay. Transfers from the airport to the villa can be arranged.  We haven’t set the dates yet but it will be late May/June/July/August for a THREE night stay.  I will need to have met you and played a couple of times between now and going away.

Happy healthy 2019 everyone

Mistress Helen xXx

29Nov 2018

I am available from 1st December to 7th December

Away 8/9th December up North to see Mistress Tess

I am available 10th to 22nd December for sessions in My well equipped private play spaces in Burgess Hill, as well as travel to other dungeons if booked ahead.

Away 23rd to 27th December inclusive

I am available for sessions from 28th December

Photo credit DIS Magazine

29Nov 2018

Due to another spate of text messages received both from newbs and also the occasional person who has seen Me, be aware I never use texting for arranging sessions or to answer questions.

  • Anyone can hide behind texting (if you were a parent would you be happy your child was texting a Dominatrix)
  • Texting costs ME, having other contract phones for My personal and other business I use a PAYG for this
  • I loathe text ping pong with short pointless messages!

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Send a clear polite, concise email to include a minimum of THREE  dates/times YOU can commit, it’s not for ME to give you the timing/dates as I can guarantee you will reply with not being able to do that due to A B C………………………

Emails without dates are NOT helpful.

 

I look forward to receiving your communications through the correct channels soon and having a superb time playing in My fantastic well equipped play spaces!