News

29Nov 2018

I am available from 1st December to 7th December

Away 8/9th December up North to see Mistress Tess

I am available 10th to 22nd December for sessions in My well equipped private play spaces in Burgess Hill, as well as travel to other dungeons if booked ahead.

Away 23rd to 27th December inclusive

I am available for sessions from 28th December

Photo credit DIS Magazine

29Nov 2018

Due to another spate of text messages received both from newbs and also the occasional person who has seen Me, be aware I never use texting for arranging sessions or to answer questions.

  • Anyone can hide behind texting (if you were a parent would you be happy your child was texting a Dominatrix)
  • Texting costs ME, having other contract phones for My personal and other business I use a PAYG for this
  • I loathe text ping pong with short pointless messages!

Please call for a brief chat

 

OR

 

Email

Send a clear polite, concise email to include a minimum of THREE  dates/times YOU can commit, it’s not for ME to give you the timing/dates as I can guarantee you will reply with not being able to do that due to A B C………………………

Emails without dates are NOT helpful.

 

I look forward to receiving your communications through the correct channels soon and having a superb time playing in My fantastic well equipped play spaces!

17Nov 2018

Enjoy

Before dinner Mistress ordered me to strip, i was then dressed in a very skimpy, bright pink apron, pink frilly knickers, stockings, suspenders and high heels.  A heavy metal collar was placed around my neck and locked into place, before a leash was attached.  i was now appropriately dressed as Mistress’s slave and felt very privileged.

 

Now we were ready for dinner.  Mistress, dressed in a fantastic smoky grey latex dress which emphasised Her beauty, power and superiority, led me out to the dinner table which was outside, under the stars.  We joined other Mistresses with their slaves and enjoyed fabulous food served by the house maid April, and wonderful company with new friends.

 

After dinner i was dragged through to the dungeon in the Atrium of the house and my wrists and ankles attached to the St Andrews cross.  my back and bottom were exposed and the skimpy apron and frilly knickers would afford no protection once Mistress got to work with Her implements of choice.  Before she got started a gag was placed in my mouth, after all the other guests would not want to hear the screams of a pathetic little bitch.

 

Then Mistress selected Her first weapon of choice, a rubber tawse.  Starting gently to warm me up (Mistress cares for the welfare of Her slaves) Mistress gradually increased the force and tempo of Her strikes as She warmed to her task.  She upped the ante, selecting a variety of whips and paddles before working up to the cane.  The sting of this felt amazing, excruciating and exhilarating all at the same time, the sensations made all the more extreme by Mistress gently running Her nails all over my skin causing a tickling sensation and fits of uncontrollable laughter.

 

Eventually i was released from the cross and secured on my back to a bondage bed in the middle of the room.  My wrists and ankles were secured but this time I was also blindfolded and left to contemplate my fate.  my sense of hearing was heightened by the loss of sight, and i was able to take in the sounds of the dungeon with other Mistresses playing with their slaves and having fun at their expense.  Then, unexpectedly, i became aware of my cock being sucked by another slave at the instruction of my Mistress, this amazing sensation was tempered by the voice of my Mistress in my ear warning that if i dared to have an accident i would be punished most severely.  Although i have complete trust in my Mistress, and She is a wonderful, caring, human being, i knew this was no idle threat.

 

After what seemed like an eternity i was released from the bondage bed and led, still blindfolded, to another piece of apparatus in the dungeon.  Again i was secured on my back with my wrists and ankles in restraints, but this time i was being stretched, almost as if i was on a medieval torture rack.  Clamps were attached to my nipples with a chain between, and then this chain was pulled upwards and secured to a fixing so that any movement at all pulled severely.  Then my arms were stretched again, by this time any movement was impossible and my whole body was rigid.  i was fearful and excited.

 

The dungeon seemed to have gone eerily quiet and it became clear the other Mistresses had had their fun for now and were watching my Mistress and how She wanted to use Her slave.  Mistress was boasting of what She was going to do with Her bitch which made me immensely proud to serve my beautiful Mistress.  This went on for what seemed like ages, Mistress chatting away happily and plotting Her next move, me excitedly apprehensive and wondering what was coming next.

14Nov 2018

For a trial period I am amending My rule on deposits.  They WILL still apply for longer bookings from 1.5 (90 mins) hours plus.

ALL New clients can book for ONE hour without a deposit, you WILL have to follow My instructions exactly and confirm a FULL 24 hours in advance that you are able to come and on the day ring Me two hours before you are due to attend.  This will enable you to be a jolly decent person and cancel with good manners rather than end up going into My banned list and being circulated to other Mistress via forums for being a time waster.

Those that turn up for their ONE hour of play time, if you then desire more time then simply have the correct tribute for length of time on you and if I am able to extend our session I shall consider it.

I look forward to NOT being disappointed and for those who are terrified of bank transfers being given this amazing opportunity to meet at last!

I look forward to hearing from you

Mistress Helen

14Nov 2018
“Suck my cock and toes you Sissy Slut.”
I feel the gentle nails, of my Mistress, slide over my silk bloomers, feeling for my hard clitty. I feel her sweet breath on the back of my neck as Mistress pinches my nipples through my blue, satin frock.
Mistress then straps me over her whipping stool. My bloomers slide down my thighs and my bottom is spanked….cropped and caned ( Mistress likes to see the cane stripes when she sinks her strap-on into me ).
Mistress puts a rubber into my mouth and I have to glide it up her strap-on.  I must now suck it to show what a “Sissy Whore” I really am.
I’m released and told to worship the feet of Mistress.   I suck her toes for ages and she seems very pleased. Then she offers her bottom for me to kiss all over.
I’m ordered to lay on my back, on the bed. My ankles are strapped high and wide exposing my sissy hole for a long, energetic fucking.
 
Your devoted Sissy Slut R
An extract written by Sissy Slut R on a recent visit to The Burgess Hill Academy for Sissies
Come and explore your inner “Gurl” come and be feminised, which can include removal of body hair and be expertly made up.  Imagine the soft caress and feel of nylons as they slide up your legs then attached to a pretty suspender belt, some cute little panties and then dressed as My willing maid or other (slutty or demure) attire before stepping into a pair of high heels and then………………………………….
Well to find out what could happen next you best get in touch hadn’t you!  Book a session today don’t delay your fun at The Burgess Hill Academy for Sissies ….
Some of what you may experience here subject to a discussion to where your BDSM interest’s and limits lie are:
Spanking
CP
Full make over with wig and clothing provided
Feminised
Maid training
EStim
Violet wand
Venus2000
Pegging  just a few ideas to wet your appetite and there is a fully comprehensive list on My main website
See you soon MY little sluts in waiting
Mistress Helen xXx
26Oct 2018

Hello subs/slaves/kinksters

Every month I will be holding one hour specials at £100 in Burgess Hill in My own well equipped premises owned by Me.

The type of play will be:

Spanking & all impact play

Caning

Pegging

Foot Worship

Massage with vibration wand as a finale

Maid duties to clean my home, some spankings.

What isn’t included in the above is everything else on My website, all other sessions with electrics such as EStim/Violet Wand, confinement,  leather straight jacket or sleep sack, Venus 2000, medical play etc.  Sessions which include more complex activities, sterilisation of equipment and wear and tear on very expensive items are at the usual rate of £130 an hour.

* This also does not include filming, audio recording or taking photos on your own phone for your top up wanking fodder at home (should be charging extra for this) AND you should be a generous plaything,  either bringing Me bottles of Tom Ford perfume or tipping Me a min of £30 extra) to show your appreciation of this so please be aware.

Dates for your diary:

31st October

21st November

18th December

2019 dates will be released in December.

See you soon my kinky play things

Mistress Helen xx

13Sep 2018

Hello subs/slaves/kinksters

Every month over 2 days I will be holding one hour specials at £100

The type of play will be:

Spanking & all impact play

Caning

Pegging

Foot Worship

Massage with vibration wand as a finale

Maid duties to clean my home, some spankings.

What isn’t included in the above is everything else on My website, all other sessions with electrics such as EStim/Violet Wand, confinement,  leather straight jacket or sleep sack, Venus 2000, medical play etc.  Sessions which include more complex activities, sterilisation of equipment and wear and tear on very expensive items are at the usual rate of £130 an hour.

* This also does not include filming, audio recording or taking photos on your own phone for your top up wanking fodder at home (should be charging extra for this or bringing Me bottles of Tom Ford perfume) so please be aware.

Dates for your diary:

30th/31st October

20th/21st November

18th December just one date.

2019 dates will be released in December.

See you soon my kinky play things

Mistress Helen xx

 

31Aug 2018

My super friend Miss Joanna Armstrong aka “Big Sis” will be back in Sussex from 17th to 22nd September, she already has some photo shoots lined up with some professional Mistress’s and we have decided to collaborate again and team up for double domination Femdom fun!

Sessions start from one hour at £200 and longer play times may be possible, send over your enquiry to My email helen-ryder@hotmail.com with an outline of the type of session that interests you with dates/times you can commit.  We can then arrange a brief chat on the phone to follow up and arrange the finer details.

Just some of what’s available:

Sissy maid training

Domestic Discipline: Spanking, Caning, Tawse, Slipper etc

Feminisation and make overs

Role Plays and more …………………………………….

I am also available for solo sessions during the above dates for those who are not quite ready for seeing two strict ladies!

 

27Aug 2018

Thank you to some of My special bitches, subs/sluts and playthings for remembering Moi Mistress Helen Ryder on My Birthday 24th August.  Presents are still very welcome for those who wish to bring something to session or post via My gift list.

On the 22nd August I had my super slavva rodda CP fave slave take Me out into Arundel for a day out, we had a superb lunch at The Parsons Table. Then a walk around to visit all the antique shops, then back to base for birthday beatings (Me giving of course)

My personal bitch was here for the weekend waiting upon Me (after being picked up from the train station Friday) We had some yummy food in to go with the Rose Champagne and  a fantastic day out in London on Saturday. We visited The Tate Modern and although interesting we did laugh at some of the “ART” A pile of bricks that reminded Me of the stepping stones I am giving to a friend in My back garden! After that we travelled up to see what deviant things we could buy in Regulation.  I have some new evil nipple clamps and a Stinger!

***********Book a session soon to experience both********************

We went on to The National Gallery for some more culture and the nipple clamps and stinger set off the archway metal detector alarm, which I merrily waved at the security staff who laughed and said “Go on through you are so honest!   Wanting to quench My thirst a nice G&T in a nice pub in Covent Garden and then on to a superb French Restaurant for a nice glass of Champagne, followed by French Tapas all very delicious and a superb wine to go with them.

Back to Burgess Hill for a nice relaxing evening, the next day a visit to the gym to burn off the naughty treats and then home to play 😉 I treated My personal bitch to a hot bamboo massage before zipping My bitch into the leather sleep sack with electric butt plug inserted and making good use of all the naughty exposed bits!  You have My permission to fill in the blanks with your minds!!

I have sessions available from now right up to 4th September and then I am at the BDSM Villa in Malaga for a 2 day private party, I have TWO exclusive play times available on 6th and 7th September at the well equipped Villa.  Book your fun in the sun ASAP!  You will need to arrange this by email and the follow up with a phone call before I fly out.  You have until 3rd September the latest to book for this.

Sessions are then available back in Burgess Hill from Sunday 9th September.

I have some dates available in Leeds in October as well as double domme with the gorgeous Miss Kitty Bliss in Burgess Hill in October, keep your eyes peeled for further future blogs.

See you soon

Mistress Helen Ryder

Play Time

French Tapas

The Tate Modern

My art in back garden!

The National Gallery

Painting In NG

04Aug 2018

First of all if you haven’t heard already I am so very sorry to be the bearer of very sad news!

I received some shocking news yesterday from my dear friend Miss Kitty Bliss who had seen a tweet go out from a mutual friend and very dear friend of Mistress Dometria’s the lovely Domina V.  https://twitter.com/Dominatrix_V  I couldn’t believe it as only the day before she was out enjoying life and shopping having fun and with so much to look forward to.  So many plans in motion and it’s just horrible news!  https://twitter.com/BrightonDungeon

I have had my friend Joanna Armstrong staying over the last week, popping off to do photo shoots and some double domme work.  Both moi and Miss Kitty Bliss had new photos taken.  It was nice to have the company last night and we raised a glass to Mistress Dometria, seeing all the messages on Twitter and mutual friends getting in touch, there wasn’t a dry eye in the house.

Mistress Dometria is a true legend and not just as a Dominatrix, as others have mentioned she was very much part of the tattoo industry as well as body building.  She touched many hearts and there will be a massive gap in the various industries she was very much part of and so many peoples lives without her.  A much loved larger than life character who will be very greatly missed.

I feel for her family, close friends, devotees and all that knew her, sending much love and strength to you all.

RIP dearest lady and please smile down on all our silly antics, you won’t ever be forgotten.