Appointments

Booking Procedures

Please email first with required outline/dates and then we will arrange to follow up with a brief chat.

I do not always My phone to new comers unless you have emailed and included your mobile number in full or the last 4 digits so I have an idea of who is calling.

My time is most productive plotting/planning sessions so that we both get the best experience, genuine sincere clients NEVER quibble about paying a non returnable deposit and understand the reasons.  It’s only ever the people who have no intention of attending that don’t want to pay a deposit!

  • I insist that ALL My new clients pay a deposit 24 hours in advance, NO exceptions!
  • The more complex the session the more time is required to book, think about what you wish to experience.  Lets be realistic as I keep receiving moon on a stick requests to take place in ONE hour!
  • A 50% non returnable deposit is required for ALL first time appointments and sessions from 90 mins hours for repeat visitors.   I will create a unique ref number for when you pay into my account once we have agreed to session. You can make on-line transfer or attend your own bank with My details and ask them to send the deposit over, cash payments into other peoples accounts changed on 24th Jan 2018 to prevent money laundering.  In some cases I am happy to take an Amazon gift voucher.
  • Deposits are a vetting & security process as you are a stranger coming to my well equipped play space in my home.
  • Deposits enable Me to set up the play space to the style of the booking and have essential kit required ready for your unique play time.  The multi functional bondage bed has various attachments that are bolted on, some need removing for massage bookings etc………
  • Provided 24 hours notice given to reschedule your session, the deposit will be moved on one occasion only, after that you deposit again.
  • If you cancel on the day the balance of your tribute is expected as the time has been allocated for you and I won’t be taking another booking at short notice.  If you refuse to compensate My time you will be banned.
  • With the deposit in place we can have a good chat in much more detail and start building on a great rapport.
  • Other deposit method is an Amazon voucher code sent to my Mistress Helen email.  Amazon vouchers can be purchased online and also from some retailers/super markets.  I require the code off the card a full 24 hours+ before you are due for your session.  The code is revealed when you scratch off the panel.
  • If you have My bank info & haven’t sent a deposit and keep sending emails be aware this is a time waster tactic so I will ignore you until you send over a 50% deposit of the full tribute.

The location will only be given after the booking/deposit is all confirmed. There is free parking close by, come and go discreetly and quietly.  I do not have an open door or revolving door policy here.

On the day of your session please ensure you call at the time of your appointment and not 30 mins etc earlier. Deposits were put in place so that I am attracting lovely genuine playthings to torment and control, domination starts at the very point of contact with Me!

The other good thing about you paying a deposit is that your none of the following ever seems to happen on the day of your session and spoil the fun for us both!  Car’s wheel came off on the A23, car crash, fell off a horse/donkey/elephant mother/granny/other family member died, including dog/cat/budgie etc, got run over on a pavement, slipped on a banana skin & twisted ankle etc.  The deposit does indeed appear to be full of positives and a life saver at times!

Having spent thousands on fetish furniture/ equipment, clothing, My website and advertising etc I won’t be skipping town with your “deposit” I also hold a high regard for My reputation in this industry.  Many of My repeat visitors even happily pay in full on their future appointments to save bringing cash along, this is down to their personal choice and mutual trust built between us.

I look forward to speaking with you and meeting you soon.

Mistress Helen

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Attention time wasters only***If after engaging in a phone call, an email, agreement to session after being sent this booking blog link and taking my bank details I do not receive a deposit.  I will circulate your details on the Time Waster forums to warn others of you! If you get cold feet & state this but wish to be considered for a future appointment once you are over your nerves then PAY a minimum £60 Goodwill gesture “gift” IMMEDIATELY this will enable you to have one opportunity to contact Me and commit in the future and have your email, phone number and name kept off the naughty list!

** I never use Paypal as it’s a breach of their terms and far too easy for the TW’s to raise a dispute or get a refund!  So don’t ask.

Hello all

27th and 28th August I will be heading off to Berkshire to spend some time with my fab friend Mistress Jane, we met quite a few years ago on the Fetish scene and stayed in touch over the years so we often reminisce on the good ole days as well as going out for nice country walks and our love of veggy food, red wine and vintage fashion.

There will be limited space so it’s best to book soon, priority given to those we have double dommed with previously, as well as existing clients previously seen with either of us on a 121 booking, new bookings are welcome and a deposit may be asked for in advance due to the limited availability depending on time and duration of an appointment. You are most welcome to get in touch with either me or Mistress Jane.

Due to the warm spell we have been enjoying I have been buying some new latex, consisting of short tight form fitting bodies, knickers and bras and corselettes as well as some What Katie did and Kiss Me Deadly vintage style lingerie to show off my ample curves to tease you in sessions so I will be packing a selection for my Berkshire visit.

Fancy being spit roasted, electrics, strap-on, humiliation, role plays, sissy wear, TV/Cross Dressing, make-overs, Corporal Punishment, Edge play, Medical play, foot worship, Fetish Nurse, 4 hands massage with 2 dominant therapists! Alternative massage and much more…….

See you soon!

Mistress Helen X

 

 

Caning By Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder
Always so gratifying to receive a thank you message after a session and know that the sub/slave enjoyed his caning as much as I did, thank you dd……….any time 😉
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Wonderful Mistress Helen,
A big thank you for our time together this afternoon. You really are a very clever lady. I am looking forward to continuing my training in the near future.
As you instructed I bought Lady Julia some flowers on the way home. She say they are very nice but I shouldn’t have needed to be told to get them. She says that next time I see you I must beg for twelve nice stingers with the cane for not doing it off my own bat.
I can see I am going to need lots of training and more caning before I reach an acceptable standard.
Your eager and adoring novice
dd
Well I certainly enjoy giving a good caning to all your naughty boys, are you ready to bend over my bench to receive the cane?

Humiliated and forced into panties by Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

A very recent role play session which was lots of fun, bear in mind I am very versatile and don’t only do role plays!

The background story line: C was one of those rather boisterous types a proper “jack the lad” at work always fooling around and thinking he had women wrapped around his finger.  Since the introduction of new gym at work and onsite showers he had been taking advantage of leering at the ladies working out in the gym.  Watching them perspire as they ran on the treadmill, watching that sheen of sweat trickle down into their breasts.  It made him rock hard and angry at some of them being a bit stuck up and not falling for his charms.

He was on his fifth visit over the last two weeks into the ladies changing room and spotted a pair of black knickers that looked expensive to add to his little growing collection of worn used knickers he had been selling online, “haha” that will teach those bitches he sniggered to himself as he lifted the black panties and stuffed them into his pocket.  Not before holding them up to his nose and having a good lingering sniff of them.  Some of the ladies working at the firm had got very well paid jobs and they wore very expansive lingerie and Agent Provocateur was a very popular label.

Meanwhile……Ms Ryder was sitting in the security CCTV lounge in a big leather chair casually observing the new security system which had been installed recently.  Lots of the female employees had reported items going astray namely very personal items.

Ms Ryder observed C entering the ladies changing rooms and then sneak out looking rather shifty with something protruding from his pocket.  She panned the camera and watched him enter the foyer to the car park and remove an item from his trousers and panning in for a close view she spotted it was black knickers!

Hmmmmm C had his uses to a degree in the company and had clinched some great deals recently as one of the head sales team.  Ms Ryder had a choice or reporting him to the police and C ending up with a criminal record and a police caution or using the situation to her advantage.  Being high up in the company and overseeing the new security procedures she decided it would be more beneficial to keep matters in house ……… and also a whole lot of fun for her!

Looking up C’s mobile phone she rang him just before he got into his car giving very specific instructions to pay a security deposit into the following account and to report the next day to a specific location and time, to phone and receive further instructions or the police would be involved.  Just  before hanging up she said and wear those black panties you have just stolen or their will be very serious consequences.

On the day C text 18 mins early, Ms Ryder read the text and smiled as she applied glossy red lipstick and took one last glance over the room with everything in plce that she would need and left the room slipping her shiny patent heels on.  Time passed and the phone rang “Hello Ms Ryder it’s me I’m where you told me to be”

Ms Ryder replied “You’re early, ring me back at exactly 12:30”

12:30 ring ring ring ring Ms Ryder answered “come to the following address”

A car pulled up outside and Ms Ryder answered the door “come in C”

C entered the room and looked rather apprehensive.  Ms Ryder walked over just inches from C and pulled his trousers forward looking him directly in the face and stating “excellent the underwear thief did as he was told” C nodded and looked down at his feet rather ashamed.

“Hand over the £70 balance C that you have received from selling expensive lingerie on-line you filthy pervert” C handed a small wad of cash over.  Ms Ryder took it and said “well that will do for starters, you will be reporting here regularly with more cash or I’m reporting you and you don’t want a criminal record”

“No miss” stammered C, “its Mistress to you, my new little sissy slut in training” and being as you have such a low opinion of woman and treat most of the ladies you see like sluts then I’m going to make you into My personal slut!

“Strip down to just those black knickers”, C did as he was told!

“I have decided you look rather fetching in ladies knickers and I see you have the white tennis skirt that Mrs Andrews reported as missing too”!  “Get down on the floor and start showing whose boss around here and who owns your balls C, worship these shiny patent heels”

C dropped to the floor and looking up Mistress Ryders long shapely legs he shuddered inwardly as he used his tongue on the shiny patent leather and heels.  Feeling his cock stiffen in the black knickers he felt elated that he was being punished on such a personal level.

Mistress Ryder stated “that’s enough of that, get up and walk ahead of me up those stairs” In her hands was a leather riding crop which she bought down on each of his cheeks encouraging him up the stairs.

Once they were in the room Mistress Ryder sat on the edge of her bed, “worship these some more little slut” pointing down at her shiny heels with the riding crop, but it didn’t please her “Get up across my knee you little whore thief” C was given a very sound spanking which left his bottom with a fetching red rosy glow.

Mistress Ryder stood up and reached for a harness and jutting out was a large pink cock, she stepped into it and taking a condom expertly rolled it on to her Mistress cock, “Get on your knees slut and worship my cock, she walked backwards slowly with C licking and sucking on the cock until they were in front of the fall length mirrors.  “Just look at yourself C, what a cock sucking whore you have become, your new name is Clarrisa the cock sucking whore cum bucket”

C thanked Mistress and carried on sucking the cock jutting out from the harness strapped securely between Mistress’s string thighs and shapely bottom.

“Get across that bed slut and raise that arse in the air, show me that sissy hole I’m going to violate and abuse it”  Mistress Ryder snapped on a glove and lubed her fingers up.  Clarrisa moaned in a mixture of desire, appreciation and humiliation as the sissy slut hole was stretched around Mistress’s fingers, easing one then two fingers in before Mistress said I’m going to just slip the head of my cock into you today Clarissa and when you leave later you are going to wish I had just pinned you down and buggered you hard”

Clarissa was face down and arse up as she felt the head of the cock just slipping in and feeling so full she moaned as Mistress turned the vibration unit on.  Writhing and wriggling and bucking like a whore so desperate to get more Mistress cock stuffed into her tight little hole (C was not feeling at all alpha male or manly any more, all power had been relinquished and he knew Mistress was in charge, she owned his balls and every part of him)  “Tell me your name” Mistress laughed out as she was thrusting gently into the sissy hole “Clarissa the cum slut knicker thief whore” C cried out with pleasure.

After a while Mistress eased her cock out, “Oh poor little sissy whore, is your bottom sore?” It wasn’t actually a question of course as Clarissa dare not reply, “Get on your back, I’m going to pop some special soothing cream and baby powder on you and a soft soothing nappy for a while”

Clarissa was totally humiliated and begged and pleaded for Mistress not to, Mistress just laughed and eased a nappy under Clarissa bottom and popped on a glove easing some cold cream into the abused hole, sprinkling some baby powder into the very full sissy balls and gently soothing and rubbing it in, Clarissa was almost ready to explode and Mistress Helen could sense this.

“Being as you love ladies knickers so much you can kiss my shapely bottom” Ms H lowered her bottom over Clarissa’s face and lent forward remarking at what a very stiff clitty cock Clarissa had and how it was rubbing across the nappy “fuck that nappy slut, thrust that cock upwards”  Clarissa bucked and fucked the nappy enjoying the very stimulating rubbing sensation of the diaper against her clitty cock.  Mistress Helen moved her rubber gloved hand faster up and down the clitty cocks shaft massaging lots of juicy gooey lube into it, Clarissas breath becoming more and more ragged before she cried out and spurted hot sticky cum all over herself.

Mistress Helen smiled “Oh Clarissa, what a fine sticky mess you got yourself into”

To be continued…………………………………

Written for C (thank you) also for my own memoirs, and to share with you the reader, thank you for reading my blogs and I trust they stir something deep inside you!

**copyright Mistress Helen Ryder**

 

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How to book a session with West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder.

So you’ve decided to take the plunge and make a booking with a “Dominatrix” which may even me Me! Thank you.

To ring or email?  Well you are always welcome to call but being “New” I am not going to go into graphic detail in a phone call over what may or may not happen in a booking.  A phone call is essential to act as an “ice breaker” at an early stage and the best form of contact is a polite friendly email such as:

Hello my name is ………….. I’ve not done this before/don’t have much experience/or I’ve seen other Mistress’s etc and I am looking to make an appointment for date/time for X duration.  I’m interested/curious in the following….. Pegging, Strap-on, Butt Plugs, Cross Dressing, Spanking, Sensual Domination, Tie and Tease etc.  I do NOT reqire a step by step guide of how the session will go, I decide that!

  • Let me know how long a session you would like to book for
  • Provide an idea of dates and times that you can commit to a session
  • Do not attach photos or any other files unless after speaking I ask you for anything myself

I will reply with hello…..yes those dates/times are possible and let’s have a chat on the phone and the best time to call is…..but if you can’t reach me straight away then please try again.  Please be aware NEW clients are required to pay a deposit & I will explain when we chat.

Good things come to those who wait (and plan ahead) and you will get the very best from your Mistress by showing your respect for her time and her booking procedures.

My booking system works for me and I see some really jolly nice people whom I connect with and that always makes for a great session.