Appointments

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Dear Mistress Helen

Hi. This is Pansy Penny. I have just enjoyed reading your blog about our session last week. Thank you very much for posting it. You made it sound very exciting and lots of fun, which of course is exactly what it was.
It was lovely to meet you; and I really appreciated you dressing up. You looked gorgeous. I was nervous about the start (I did it mainly so you would be more severe with me), but loved the play-acting and the spanking more than I expected. I also loved the way you humiliated and teased me and got me into more and more trouble.
MJ is awesome, and you two together were great. I hope we’ll be able to do a similar session before too long.
By the way, I didn’t spill any water because I braced the tray against the cupboard. At least I got away with something!
Thank you again.
best wishes
Pansy Penny

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I’ve had several of My recent bookings state I am too cheap! (you are always welcome to tip or bring a gift) Smiling at that comment and I have reassured them that they really mean very reasonable compared to many other professional Mistress’s.  I have set my rates for the reason that I know many of you NEED and DESIRE sessions on a more regular basis and setting my rates as they are makes it achievable for you to fulfil those urges and build a better rapport with Me your Mistress over time.

I invest in My equipment and have spent many thousands on high quality toys/furniture/website/photos/clothing/advertising as well as the usual sundries of good quality lube, gloves, enemas, medical grade cleaners etc.  I care about my clients and there well being.  If I were running my sessions from another location I would of course have to increase my fee to cover renting industrial premises or buy another property.  I work from my own establishment legally.

I have turned over two dedicated rooms for play and feel this reflects in my tribute fairly.

I do not see more than 2 to 3 clients max on any one day and being as I get booked for longer sessions of 2 to 3 hours this also would not be possible.  Some days I do not see anyone so it is not high volume traffic at my premises and is very discreet.

I offer affordable quality/experienced domination sessions with a lifestyle background going back to 1996 when I first starting attending fetish events.  I have  also worked alongside several other Mistress’s who have the same ethos of BDSM being available for the average gentleman and not just those with deep pockets.  Reasonable rates does not indicate a poor quality Mistress and it is down to the individual to charge what she likes and feels happy charging based on her establishment/session interests after setting aside her tax/outgoings that the individual is still making a wage.

I can be available to session at the Gatwick Dungeon location in Horley but again keeping my rates REAL it will be a higher tribute then what I ask for staying at my base due to hire charges and travel costs/time.  A one hour booking in the dungeon will be from £180!

So what does the average week bring me in my world I am often asked, looking back over the last week it has been #FootWorship #Pegging #StrapOn #Humiliation #UrethalSounds #RolePlay #Hogtie and #Bondage #MedicalPlay #Nettles #CBT #CP #Electrics not ALL in one session as some people may only have one particular activity that they enjoy and it’s perfectly fine to have as many activities as you like or as little with time permitting of course.

The more complex the session the more time is required, otherwise the session is too rushed and if it’s a very intense session you may need time to unwind at the end. A hot shower, cuppa and a biscuit a little unwinding is sometimes what’s needed after an intense experience.

See you soon

Mistress Helen X

Booking Procedures

Please email first with required outline/dates and then we will arrange to follow up with a brief chat, send over £20 to cover the call via bank transfer.  Please note this is not refundable if you choose not to book for any reason, this happens on very rare occasions, usually because someone hasn’t read My fetish interests in full!

I will only answer a very brief enquiry if a call is your first point of contact and ask that you email and send the small phone tribute, which is adjusted off your real time session balance.  This is so the genuine are not penalised.

Bank info:

Sort 20-92-54 Acc 70468665 Name Ms S Rogers

Ref MHR your initials & date of session if set otherwise your initials/phone.

  • I insist that ALL My new clients pay a deposit 24 hours in advance, NO exceptions!
  • The more complex the session the more time is required to book, think about what you wish to experience.
  • After our chat on the phone and session date agreed a 50% non returnable deposit is required for ALL first time appointments and sessions from 90 mins hours for repeat visitors.  You can make on-line transfer or attend your own bank with My details and ask them to send the deposit over, cash payments into other peoples accounts changed on 24th Jan 2018 to prevent money laundering.  In some cases I am happy to take in part an Amazon gift voucher BUT only if pre agreed.  Cash drop offs may be possible but will incur an extra £50 as a meet/greet.
  • Deposits are a vetting & security process as you are a stranger coming to my well equipped play space in my home.
  • Deposits enable Me to set up the play space to the style of the booking and have essential kit required ready for your unique play time.  The multi functional bondage bed has various attachments that are bolted on, some need removing for massage bookings etc
  • Provided 48 hours notice given to reschedule your session, the deposit will be moved on one occasion only within a 6 week period.  If you cancel on the day you forfeit your deposit and the agreed full fee is payable, if you wish to re-book you will pay a new deposit.
  • If you cancel on the day the balance of your tribute is expected as the time has been allocated for you and I won’t be taking another booking at short notice.  If you don’t compensate my time then any future enquiry is payment in full with no refunds or move of dates/times.
  • With the deposit in place we can have a good chat in much more detail and start building on a great rapport.
  • Other deposit method is an Amazon voucher code sent to my Mistress Helen email.  Amazon vouchers can be purchased online and also from some retailers/super markets.  I require the code off the card a full 24 hours+ before you are due for your session.  The code is revealed when you scratch off the panel.
  • If you send multiple emails and haven’t sent a deposit, be aware this is a time waster tactic so I will ignore you until you send over a 50% deposit of the full tribute.

The location will only be given after the booking/deposit is all confirmed. There is free parking close by, come and go discreetly and quietly.  I do not have an open door or revolving door policy here.

On the day of your session please ensure you call at the time of your appointment and not 30 mins etc earlier. Deposits were put in place so that I am attracting lovely genuine playthings to torment and control, domination starts at the very point of contact with Me!

Having spent thousands on fetish furniture/ equipment, clothing, My website and advertising etc I won’t be skipping town with your “deposit” I also hold a high regard for My reputation in this industry.  Many of My repeat visitors even happily pay in full on their future appointments to save bringing cash along, this is down to their personal choice and mutual trust built between us.

I look forward to speaking with you and meeting you soon.

Mistress Helen

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Attention time wasters only***If after engaging in a phone call, an email, agreement to session after being sent this booking blog link and taking my bank details I do not receive a deposit.  I will circulate your details on the Time Waster forums to warn others of you! If you get cold feet & state this but wish to be considered for a future appointment once you are over your nerves then PAY a minimum £60 Goodwill gesture “gift” IMMEDIATELY this will enable you to have one opportunity to contact Me and commit in the future and have your email, phone number and name kept off the naughty list!

** I never use Paypal as it’s a breach of their terms and far too easy for the TW’s to raise a dispute or get a refund!  So don’t ask.

Hello all

27th and 28th August I will be heading off to Berkshire to spend some time with my fab friend Mistress Jane, we met quite a few years ago on the Fetish scene and stayed in touch over the years so we often reminisce on the good ole days as well as going out for nice country walks and our love of veggy food, red wine and vintage fashion.

There will be limited space so it’s best to book soon, priority given to those we have double dommed with previously, as well as existing clients previously seen with either of us on a 121 booking, new bookings are welcome and a deposit may be asked for in advance due to the limited availability depending on time and duration of an appointment. You are most welcome to get in touch with either me or Mistress Jane.

Due to the warm spell we have been enjoying I have been buying some new latex, consisting of short tight form fitting bodies, knickers and bras and corselettes as well as some What Katie did and Kiss Me Deadly vintage style lingerie to show off my ample curves to tease you in sessions so I will be packing a selection for my Berkshire visit.

Fancy being spit roasted, electrics, strap-on, humiliation, role plays, sissy wear, TV/Cross Dressing, make-overs, Corporal Punishment, Edge play, Medical play, foot worship, Fetish Nurse, 4 hands massage with 2 dominant therapists! Alternative massage and much more…….

See you soon!

Mistress Helen X

 

 

Caning By Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder
Always so gratifying to receive a thank you message after a session and know that the sub/slave enjoyed his caning as much as I did, thank you dd……….any time 😉
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Wonderful Mistress Helen,
A big thank you for our time together this afternoon. You really are a very clever lady. I am looking forward to continuing my training in the near future.
As you instructed I bought Lady Julia some flowers on the way home. She say they are very nice but I shouldn’t have needed to be told to get them. She says that next time I see you I must beg for twelve nice stingers with the cane for not doing it off my own bat.
I can see I am going to need lots of training and more caning before I reach an acceptable standard.
Your eager and adoring novice
dd
Well I certainly enjoy giving a good caning to all your naughty boys, are you ready to bend over my bench to receive the cane?

Humiliated and forced into panties by Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder

A very recent role play session which was lots of fun, bear in mind I am very versatile and don’t only do role plays!

The background story line: C was one of those rather boisterous types a proper “jack the lad” at work always fooling around and thinking he had women wrapped around his finger.  Since the introduction of new gym at work and onsite showers he had been taking advantage of leering at the ladies working out in the gym.  Watching them perspire as they ran on the treadmill, watching that sheen of sweat trickle down into their breasts.  It made him rock hard and angry at some of them being a bit stuck up and not falling for his charms.

He was on his fifth visit over the last two weeks into the ladies changing room and spotted a pair of black knickers that looked expensive to add to his little growing collection of worn used knickers he had been selling online, “haha” that will teach those bitches he sniggered to himself as he lifted the black panties and stuffed them into his pocket.  Not before holding them up to his nose and having a good lingering sniff of them.  Some of the ladies working at the firm had got very well paid jobs and they wore very expansive lingerie and Agent Provocateur was a very popular label.

Meanwhile……Ms Ryder was sitting in the security CCTV lounge in a big leather chair casually observing the new security system which had been installed recently.  Lots of the female employees had reported items going astray namely very personal items.

Ms Ryder observed C entering the ladies changing rooms and then sneak out looking rather shifty with something protruding from his pocket.  She panned the camera and watched him enter the foyer to the car park and remove an item from his trousers and panning in for a close view she spotted it was black knickers!

Hmmmmm C had his uses to a degree in the company and had clinched some great deals recently as one of the head sales team.  Ms Ryder had a choice or reporting him to the police and C ending up with a criminal record and a police caution or using the situation to her advantage.  Being high up in the company and overseeing the new security procedures she decided it would be more beneficial to keep matters in house ……… and also a whole lot of fun for her!

Looking up C’s mobile phone she rang him just before he got into his car giving very specific instructions to pay a security deposit into the following account and to report the next day to a specific location and time, to phone and receive further instructions or the police would be involved.  Just  before hanging up she said and wear those black panties you have just stolen or their will be very serious consequences.

On the day C text 18 mins early, Ms Ryder read the text and smiled as she applied glossy red lipstick and took one last glance over the room with everything in plce that she would need and left the room slipping her shiny patent heels on.  Time passed and the phone rang “Hello Ms Ryder it’s me I’m where you told me to be”

Ms Ryder replied “You’re early, ring me back at exactly 12:30”

12:30 ring ring ring ring Ms Ryder answered “come to the following address”

A car pulled up outside and Ms Ryder answered the door “come in C”

C entered the room and looked rather apprehensive.  Ms Ryder walked over just inches from C and pulled his trousers forward looking him directly in the face and stating “excellent the underwear thief did as he was told” C nodded and looked down at his feet rather ashamed.

“Hand over the £70 balance C that you have received from selling expensive lingerie on-line you filthy pervert” C handed a small wad of cash over.  Ms Ryder took it and said “well that will do for starters, you will be reporting here regularly with more cash or I’m reporting you and you don’t want a criminal record”

“No miss” stammered C, “its Mistress to you, my new little sissy slut in training” and being as you have such a low opinion of woman and treat most of the ladies you see like sluts then I’m going to make you into My personal slut!

“Strip down to just those black knickers”, C did as he was told!

“I have decided you look rather fetching in ladies knickers and I see you have the white tennis skirt that Mrs Andrews reported as missing too”!  “Get down on the floor and start showing whose boss around here and who owns your balls C, worship these shiny patent heels”

C dropped to the floor and looking up Mistress Ryders long shapely legs he shuddered inwardly as he used his tongue on the shiny patent leather and heels.  Feeling his cock stiffen in the black knickers he felt elated that he was being punished on such a personal level.

Mistress Ryder stated “that’s enough of that, get up and walk ahead of me up those stairs” In her hands was a leather riding crop which she bought down on each of his cheeks encouraging him up the stairs.

Once they were in the room Mistress Ryder sat on the edge of her bed, “worship these some more little slut” pointing down at her shiny heels with the riding crop, but it didn’t please her “Get up across my knee you little whore thief” C was given a very sound spanking which left his bottom with a fetching red rosy glow.

Mistress Ryder stood up and reached for a harness and jutting out was a large pink cock, she stepped into it and taking a condom expertly rolled it on to her Mistress cock, “Get on your knees slut and worship my cock, she walked backwards slowly with C licking and sucking on the cock until they were in front of the fall length mirrors.  “Just look at yourself C, what a cock sucking whore you have become, your new name is Clarrisa the cock sucking whore cum bucket”

C thanked Mistress and carried on sucking the cock jutting out from the harness strapped securely between Mistress’s string thighs and shapely bottom.

“Get across that bed slut and raise that arse in the air, show me that sissy hole I’m going to violate and abuse it”  Mistress Ryder snapped on a glove and lubed her fingers up.  Clarrisa moaned in a mixture of desire, appreciation and humiliation as the sissy slut hole was stretched around Mistress’s fingers, easing one then two fingers in before Mistress said I’m going to just slip the head of my cock into you today Clarissa and when you leave later you are going to wish I had just pinned you down and buggered you hard”

Clarissa was face down and arse up as she felt the head of the cock just slipping in and feeling so full she moaned as Mistress turned the vibration unit on.  Writhing and wriggling and bucking like a whore so desperate to get more Mistress cock stuffed into her tight little hole (C was not feeling at all alpha male or manly any more, all power had been relinquished and he knew Mistress was in charge, she owned his balls and every part of him)  “Tell me your name” Mistress laughed out as she was thrusting gently into the sissy hole “Clarissa the cum slut knicker thief whore” C cried out with pleasure.

After a while Mistress eased her cock out, “Oh poor little sissy whore, is your bottom sore?” It wasn’t actually a question of course as Clarissa dare not reply, “Get on your back, I’m going to pop some special soothing cream and baby powder on you and a soft soothing nappy for a while”

Clarissa was totally humiliated and begged and pleaded for Mistress not to, Mistress just laughed and eased a nappy under Clarissa bottom and popped on a glove easing some cold cream into the abused hole, sprinkling some baby powder into the very full sissy balls and gently soothing and rubbing it in, Clarissa was almost ready to explode and Mistress Helen could sense this.

“Being as you love ladies knickers so much you can kiss my shapely bottom” Ms H lowered her bottom over Clarissa’s face and lent forward remarking at what a very stiff clitty cock Clarissa had and how it was rubbing across the nappy “fuck that nappy slut, thrust that cock upwards”  Clarissa bucked and fucked the nappy enjoying the very stimulating rubbing sensation of the diaper against her clitty cock.  Mistress Helen moved her rubber gloved hand faster up and down the clitty cocks shaft massaging lots of juicy gooey lube into it, Clarissas breath becoming more and more ragged before she cried out and spurted hot sticky cum all over herself.

Mistress Helen smiled “Oh Clarissa, what a fine sticky mess you got yourself into”

To be continued…………………………………

Written for C (thank you) also for my own memoirs, and to share with you the reader, thank you for reading my blogs and I trust they stir something deep inside you!

**copyright Mistress Helen Ryder**

 

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How to book a session with West Sussex Mistress Helen Ryder.

So you’ve decided to take the plunge and make a booking with a “Dominatrix”

To ring or email?  Well you are always welcome to call but being “New” I am not going to go into graphic detail in a phone call over what may or may not happen in a booking.  A phone call is essential to act as an “ice breaker” at an early stage and I ask for a token payment of £20, which comes off the final tribute when you attend in person for your session. The best form of contact is a polite friendly email such as:

Hello my name is ………….. I’ve not done this before/don’t have much experience/or I’ve seen other Mistress’s etc and I am looking to make an appointment for date/time for X duration.  I’m interested/curious in the following….. Pegging, Strap-on, Butt Plugs, Cross Dressing, Spanking, Sensual Domination, Tie and Tease etc.  I do NOT require a step by step guide of how the session will go, I decide that!

  • Let me know how long a session you would like to book for
  • Provide an idea of dates and times that you can commit to a session
  • Do not attach photos or any other files unless after speaking I ask you for anything myself

I will ask you to send over a token £20 to cover a phone call & email, which will be adjusted on the final tribute.  If you desire longer time chatting and wish to get to know Me better on the phone then please note I charge £2.00 a minute, payable first.  Please be aware that 50% deposits are also mandatory to secure the session time.

Deposits are non-refundable, if you cancel with more than 48 hours notice it can be transferred to one new date within six weeks.  Cancellations with less than 48hrs notice forfeit the deposit and a new deposit will be required to rebook.  Bookings cancelled on the day you are due will incur 100% of the agreed fee.

If you are unable to send a bank transfer cash drop offs can be arranged, it will incur an additional fee of £50 to cover the meet/greet.

Good things come to those who wait (and plan ahead) and you will get the very best from your Mistress by showing your respect for her time and her booking procedures.

The account information for deposits is:

Sort 20-92-54

Acc 70468665

Name S Rogers

Ref MHR your initial’s and date if session if arranged.  Or MHR PC (phone call)